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Topic: Strict Husbands caning wives
Please tell about strict husbands caning wives

by guest Fri Jul 09 03:43:16 UTC 2010

I know about an uncle of mine who is 45 years old and my aunty is 36. He married her when she was just 16. May be because of her chilidish nature at that time , he started caning her for any mistakes or disobediance. Even now he canes her regularly with a rattan cane. This is known only to very few people. But because of this she is very obedient and respectful towards him at all times. He is a very serious type - they don't have any kids.

When I used o stayat his house I have heard the sound of caning from their bedroom on several ocassins. I think he canes her only at night, for all the mistakes uring th day

by Mohan Fri Jul 09 08:40:30 UTC 2010

if the husband cane his wife he is a sick person wife should be respected and treated very gentle not beating up her their is no reason for any husband to cane or beat his wife even if he is her teacher at school or college and any wife allowed her husband to beat her she is sick too

by good father Sun Jul 11 04:59:45 UTC 2010

hi, ki tumi bangali ? naam ki n what is ur asl ?

by unknown_indian Mon Jul 12 18:02:17 UTC 2010

Yes. ami bangali. naam Neena. Mail koro. discuss korbo.

by Neena Wed Jul 14 14:11:06 UTC 2010

I am getting canings from my husband and also from my mother in law who is staying with us. Both of them have different canes for this.

by Rajani Thu Jul 15 10:58:02 UTC 2010

My wife is 10 yrs younger to me. When we married she was just 10 passed girl. Then she stopped her education for a long period. Our marriage is a social marriage and before marriage I told her that after marriage she must complete minimum graduation and I will teach her. This is only one condition was there for our marriage. So after marriage I admitted her in an open school for taking +2 certificate. At that time everyday in evening I taught her. She is not a good student. So she received caning from me in maximum days. Occasionally I made her kneel down with holding ears for whole evening and at that situation I did every house hold work including cooking. By my strictness she passed +2 with good results. Now she also took admission in a graduation course in an open university. Till now I teach her every evening and she also gets caning, kneel down punishment if her performance is poor. She accepts this and before starting my teaching class she keeps a rattan cane besides me. Sometime when her performance is very poor I give her very hard caning and her palms are to become swollen at that time she request me to cane on bottom instead of palm. At that situation I give 3 to 4 stocks on her bottom and make her kneel down for 1 to 2 hours. She never hesitate to get caning and kneeling punishment. She always looks at the positive site of this punishment.

by a good husband Sun Jul 18 17:38:01 UTC 2010

Hi, good husband, you are not at all good for your wife. Wife Caning husbands are mentally sick persons. At any cost you are not supposed to cane your wife. One of my friend is a head master in a reputed high school and very strict person and caning students mercilessly. He even not allowed his two daughters to study in that school and admitted in some other school, because he himself admitted that he cannot punish their own daughters. He is taking tuition to so many students and in tuition class also beats with cane. But never given canings to his childrens. Any husband caning their wife is purely a mental patient and needs treatment. I know some persons offering caning punishments to their wifes. Even wife is your student a teacher is not supposed to cane her.

by a husband Thu Jul 22 05:12:42 UTC 2010

I don't agree with the view of your friend head master. As the head master of a school, he is supposed to view his students equally, without any partiality. If he is in favour of using caning as a form of punishment, he should do it without showing any favour towards some children or bias against some others. He shouldn't refrain from punishing his children merely because they're his children. If he does that, I would say he is guilty of favouritism and unjustified bias - he is unfit for his position. (I am NOT talking about the 'wife-beating' aspect here - that's an entirely different aspect.)

by VP Fri Jul 23 05:08:12 UTC 2010

A good teacher is not so bad as mentioned by a husband. A good husband indicates that for their marriage only one condition was there that his would be must be a graduate after marriage (he also indicates he does not take any dowry from her parents) and he would teach her .His would be accepted it. Every evening he taught after returning home. Definitely it is a good idea. If his wife is a good student and if she does her education seriously, no need of caning and kneeling punishment would be applied on her. But she is not serious in education (because after passing class 10 she stopped her education). Her husband would like to improve her standard and during her punishment period he does all household work. It is also very much impressive. He is not as same as a common wife beater. He is a good husband for his wife and his wife accepts this.

by a parent Sat Jul 24 14:53:29 UTC 2010

I was also married in the age of 15.Then my husband was just 21.After marriage we lived with husbands parents.Both of us got good canings from them for our mistakes.Once we went to a movie without their permission.We came back in the evening.My Mother in law first caned my husband and then me.My husband got more doses on his thighs than me.

by veni Thu Jul 29 07:23:40 UTC 2010

Dear Veni, in which world you are living now? Which place you belong.

by CK Prakash Thu Jul 29 08:01:54 UTC 2010

Dear Prakash,You may be not aware of the dicipline rules of all families.It is possible that you cant believe my situations.But it is a fact the my husband and I got caning from parents till 4-5 years of our marriage.Both of us have cane marks on our thighs still now.We live in a village area of keral.Do you cane your wife?Didnt you get any canings from parents?Please reply

by veni Thu Jul 29 13:26:26 UTC 2010

Wives getting caned by husbands is no big deal. It was very common in my child hood in our village. In almost all houses there used to be a cane and the wives used to get nice chooral kashayam from the husbands as well as the mother in law. I once saw a mother in law caning a daughter in law after tying her up to a post in the back yard. She must have given her atleast 12 to 16 strokes on her bottom and thighs with a thin flexible rattan cane.

by Sreelatha Fri Jul 30 09:05:39 UTC 2010

Sreelatha, are you married? Have you got any chooralkashayam from your husband or mother-in-law?

by Prakash Mon Aug 02 06:40:20 UTC 2010

I used to get chooralkashayam from my husband. I am 45 now. I used to get it till the age of 40. I never got it from my mother in law since she was s not staying with us. But she used to enquire with my husband whenever she visits weather I am being kept in strict dicipline or not and as to how often he canes me etc. She used to tell my husband that women needs to be caned at least up to the age of 40 and my husband had followed her advise.

The incident I described was when I was in my teens.

by Sreelatha Mon Aug 02 08:35:39 UTC 2010

Oh sreelatha how ur tolerating this. to get caned at this age like girl..

by vinu Fri Aug 06 14:53:56 UTC 2010

Hi Vinu, It is not uncommon in our place for women to get caned like this. Even now this practice is continuing. But it is done in private only. I know about this from many of my friends also who are suffering silently for fear of embarassment in public. The common belief is that women need to be controlled and strictly disciplined by husbands to keep them in line. In fact most of the older women also belives in this and this is taught to the younger women at home also.

by Sreelatha Sat Aug 07 06:01:39 UTC 2010

Hi. I came across this forum accidentaly. Now I am glad that I am not alone. I thought mine will be the only case where wife gets caned by husband. I am 35 and my husband is 43. I got married at the age of 19 . Immediately after that we came to Mumbai. Almost within 1 month of our marriage my husband started caning me. For any disobediance or lazyness he would cane me on my thighs or bottom.Some times on my palms also.

Even now it is continuing. We have only one son and he is 13. He also gets caning from his father. He is very strict with both of us. But he never canes me in front of our son. He ussually does it at night inside our bedroom.

by Lincy Sat Aug 14 10:37:14 UTC 2010

Hi Lincy, where do you live in Mumbai? Does your husband cane you often? or rarely? You said he canes you at night in your room. Then it is possible that your son may hear the noise and know what is going on. Has he ever indicated that he knew it?

by Sanil S Sun Aug 15 04:06:46 UTC 2010

Hi Lincy
If you dont mind,I tell you that your husband is having some mental disorder.It can be assured if you reveal that in the night when you are caned,Your husband needs Physical intercource with you or not.

by sanil Mon Aug 16 12:08:41 UTC 2010

Hey! May I know who is this Sanil? Just to avoid confusion, that is.

by Sanil S Mon Aug 16 12:41:41 UTC 2010

Hi Sanil,
Dont worry.Do you agree with the matter expressed by the second sanil?If yes,No problem

by sanil 2 Mon Aug 16 13:21:38 UTC 2010

I get caning atleast twice a week. Since our son's bedroom is at the other end of our flat I dont think he can hear sound of caning that I get. I ussualy get about 6 to 8 strokes with a thin cane.

by Lincy Wed Aug 18 01:40:54 UTC 2010

Lincy, if you are getting caning twice a week, either you're being too lazy and disobedient - naturally or purposefully - or something is really wrong with your husband. It's high time you got some expert help.

Well, I have lived in Mumbai for many years and I know a thing or two about the flats. 'The other end of the flat' can't be too far away. It is very much likely that any abnormal sound in a room could be heard from other rooms, esp, at night. Further, people from the neighbouring flats may also notice the same. If neither your son nor the neighbours respond... No. There's something 'fishy'.

by Sanil S Wed Aug 18 02:19:50 UTC 2010

When I said at the other end of the flat - it only means that our kitchen is in between the 2 bed rooms and all the rooms open in to the hall. It may be possible that our son has heard something. But since I am caned using a very thin cane and with the door closed I dont think that it can be heard outside. My husband always keeps this cane below the matress in our bedroom. He has got another cane for using on our son - this is kept in our sons room.

My husband is very loving and caring at all times but is also very strict with both of us. I dont find any problem in this, except that I get my very painful punishment whenever I do something wrong. Nowadays I am quite used to it.

by Lincy Thu Aug 19 10:51:45 UTC 2010

Lincy, if you hus is very much loving you, he is not able to cane you. He is a saddist person. He is enjoying by giving punishmnets to others. If he is a teacher, he can enjoy very much by giving good canings to students. In case he is well educated, ask him to start some tuition classes for students and punish them, instead of giving canings on you. In my opinion, he is not at all a loving husband.

by a husband Fri Aug 20 04:43:04 UTC 2010

Dear huasband,
What about you,
Did you cane your wife? Children?

by sanil Fri Aug 20 13:44:49 UTC 2010

I dont understand why there is so much fuss about husbands caning wives. Almost everybody agrees that when children make some mistakes they are to be caned. The same applies for wives also. In this case if the husband doesn't take this responsibility, who else will do it ?

I also cane my wife as and when required. Since we don't have kids there is no issue of privacy. I am 42 and she is 36 now. We have been married for 15 years now. Earlier I had to use the cane very frequently , almost twice a week . But now a days it is down to only once or twice a month. The mere question 'Do you need chooralkashayam' is enough to bring her to behave properly.

But when I cane her, I make sure that she dosen't forget it too soon. Minimum is 6 of the best on her thighs or bottom,with a slender rattan cane.

by Strict Husband Sat Aug 21 03:39:07 UTC 2010

Dear Husband
How many times You have caned your wife During the last 15 years.It may be more than the frequency of your physical intercouce with the wife.Other wise you may have some kids.So please stop caning her and start to love her to become a father.

by sanil Sun Aug 22 09:13:17 UTC 2010

Dear Sanil,

The caning is always followed by 'loving'

by Strict Husband Sat Sep 04 09:41:40 UTC 2010

Dear strict husband,
ok you cane and love her more.Which manner of loving she likes more?With caning or withot caning.Didnt you get caning by any body.dad,mom or even by your submissive wife?

by sanil Tue Sep 07 06:42:11 UTC 2010

Hi Sanil,

Pls share your experiances

by guest Fri Sep 17 11:09:38 UTC 2010

hi guest
i am not interested in caning my wife after my marriage.Also i am not interested in getting caned by her.In my opinion caning punishment is only allowed only in case of parents and teachers.I got it very severely from teachers upto 15 years and from parents I am getting now also.I am now 21.

by sanil Tue Sep 21 10:49:41 UTC 2010

Sanil,

Pls describe in detail your caning experiances

by guest Tue Sep 21 13:05:03 UTC 2010

I am a recently married girl. My husband is very interested in making painful to girls. So first days itself he pinched my abdomen and thigh and enjoys a lot. Last he brought a thin cane and started beating my back over cloathes for minor mistakes. AFter beating is over he want to see the portion where he beated and rub the portion. When I forget something he asks me to show my palm and give severe beating still it becomes red. He is interested in caning.

by a house wife Sat Sep 25 07:38:06 UTC 2010

Hi House wife,
Why is your husband caning you over clothes? He should cane you on your bare bottom or thighs with that thin cane. He has every right to do it as your husband

by guest Sat Sep 25 11:09:46 UTC 2010

My husband used to cane me regularly earlier. Nowadays it is reduced to 3 or 4 times a month. I am 35 now and my husband is 40. He uses a thin cane about 4 feet long and he ussually cnes on my thighs or bottom holding my left hand. The latest caning I got was last month when I came home from shopping, completely wet due to heavy rains. He had told me to take the umbrella, but I didn't and had to come home completely drenched. As soon as I got home I got 6 strokes with the cane on my bare thighs. Since I was completely wet it pained like hell. I can still feel it. I will never go out without umbrella anymore.

by Lissy Tue Oct 19 10:00:05 UTC 2010

Husband canes wife is not a big deal in India especially in kerala. More than 60% women in kerala believe that a husband has right to cane his disobedient wife. Because in India women have no social or economic security except her husband and it is better to cane a wife than divorce her. I cane my wife whenever it is required. Usually I cane her on her legs because for palm caning if her palms are swollen she is unable to do any household work. If she use any rude word to my mother I canes her mercilessly on her legs and some time a cane is broken on her legs and she feel the effect for next few days. But I cane her if it is required. First I call her in our bed room and advice her to correct herself. If she does ague then I cane her. But my caning is done always in privately. My wife has come from a very poor family and if I divorce she will fell in an uncertain future. So in that case caning is better solution to control her. According to every religion it is true that a husband will be a guardian, master and his role is more than the role of her father. He has an authority to cane her or give her other punishment. He is as same as god to his wife. He is most responsible about the activity of his wife. A wife should obey her husband and respects him as her god. She should follow his advice, order and instruction. If he canes her or punishes her she should accept that without any hesitation because she must know that it is for her benefit.

by a husband Thu Oct 21 05:41:20 UTC 2010

I am having beautiful wife 22 years old. she used to dress in a revealing manner wearing sleeveless tops and tight jeans and short skirts before marriage.I told her to stop this after marriage and whenever she is caught wearing them in her mother's place,i cane her severely after her return home.

by conservative husband Fri Oct 22 18:26:24 UTC 2010

I am a house wife and I get caning from my husband but I have no hesitation to receive caning from him. From my childhood my mother always tells me that your husband is like your god and if he punishes you, you should accept it freely. I am very happy for that my husband does not cane me public ally. If I do any mistake he calls me in bed room and then he canes me on either my palms or legs. He also slaps me but in privately.

by a house wife Wed Oct 27 07:47:09 UTC 2010

I am from Kerala. My husband also canes me frequently. I think he likes to cane me since I get the medicine atleast once a week. He has a thin swishy cane for this which is kept under the matress in our bed room. His mother is also staying with us. I get caned mostly for arguing with her. If I have any arguuments with her I am sure to get a caning. Some times I get caned in front of her. This will be over my nighty. He will pull the nighty to one side to tighten it and will apply the cane on my bottom and thighs. Ussually I get 6. It is very painful and humiliating to get caned like this in front of my mother in law.

by k wife Tue Nov 02 13:26:29 UTC 2010

Hi k wife, has your mother in law ever caned you?

by P Sun Nov 14 21:24:51 UTC 2010

Hi conservative husband,
How many strokes do you give her? Do you cane her bare?

by guest Sun Nov 14 21:27:22 UTC 2010

My mother in law never canes me directly. But she will make sure that I get caned by my husband at least once a week..

I get caned otherwise also by my husband, inside our bed room. But I am sure she will be able to hear the sounds outside.

by k wife Wed Nov 17 11:37:00 UTC 2010

Hi K Wife,
When your husband canes you in the bedroom does he bare your bottom? How many strokes does he give you?

by P Thu Nov 18 12:59:01 UTC 2010

When he canes me in the bed room he makes me completely nude. Then he applies the cane on my bottom and thighs and some times on the palms also. Some times I have to bend over keeping my hands on the bed. Some times he makes me stand holding the window bars. I am not allowed to leave the window bars till the caning is over.

He also canes me in several other ways also

by K wife Sat Nov 20 08:58:16 UTC 2010

All the above wives(if not fake)are Masochists and are expressing their hidden desires.They are mostly fantasy writings.

by guest Tue Nov 30 05:09:08 UTC 2010

i cane my wife

by guest Sun Dec 05 20:08:18 UTC 2010

write something on the thread

"different punishments to wife from your ideas."

by guest Wed Dec 15 10:01:49 UTC 2010

write something on the thread

"different punishments to wife from your ideas."

by guest Wed Dec 15 10:02:00 UTC 2010

sounds like a good place to go

by guest Sat Dec 18 19:02:07 UTC 2010

my husband caned me yesterday for wearinf jeans

by indu Fri Dec 24 13:55:20 UTC 2010

indu
How many strokes did he give you? Were you bare?

by Pete Thu Dec 30 09:10:29 UTC 2010

hi indu happy new year share your more punishment what punishment in which position as murga kneel down faced towards the wall hands up holding ears or sit ups you got in your life

by anuradha Thu Dec 30 13:44:26 UTC 2010

k wife , you should respect elderly but your husband also cannot cane you

by raj Tue Jan 04 02:50:50 UTC 2011

k wife , you should respect elderly but your husband also cannot cane you

by raj Tue Jan 04 02:50:54 UTC 2011

Hello ladies
does any body willing to give strong thigh pinch to me as punishment. This am eagerly accepted and ready to receive like from my sister or aunty for the punishment you received from your hubbys. I am from chennai.

by guest Fri Jan 07 18:36:57 UTC 2011

Hello K wife. What are the other wys your husband canes you.

by james Wed Jan 19 18:03:10 UTC 2011

It is quite impossible for a wife to disclose her caning punishment publically. I think here all wife may be fake. But a husband can disclose it. I cane my wife when she is out of control or disobedient But it is not brutal punishment. I use a wooden scale for her caning. Usually 2-3 stocks on each palm is sufficient for her correction.As her guardian I think it is my duty to correct her.

by santosh Thu Jan 20 02:37:04 UTC 2011

any husband lay a finger on his wife is an animal and human wife shoul be treated well and loved at all the time and not beaten up and house hold will come into misunderstanding between husband and wife but none should have the power to beat and even to touch every problem will be solved peacfully and will make worse if physical contact happened so men think about you have half of the world on your side so don't mistreat it bad

by Kamealeon Thu Jan 27 09:36:34 UTC 2011

kamealeon what you think about wifes punishing their husbands

by guest Sat Jan 29 06:02:26 UTC 2011

both of them mentaly ill

by guest Sun Jan 30 20:43:44 UTC 2011

the date today is 6.2.11 and at 10:30hrs this morning my wife will recieve a caning of 20 strokes.and she will cry but this will not stop her caning

by guest Mon Feb 07 00:13:38 UTC 2011

my husband canes me almost regularly when I do any mistake. He canes me like a little girl.i feel it too much embarrassing.He canes me privately but our neighbour know it and they appreciate it that being the head of the family he has right to discipline me.

by a wife Mon Feb 28 14:48:46 UTC 2011

hi

by guest Wed Mar 02 17:49:08 UTC 2011

how long you been married and why you let him cane you you should reject him and answer back him back don't let male use you like slave he has no right to touch you

by MS NEELA Fri Mar 04 08:18:45 UTC 2011

When I was just 21 years of age I got married to a 25 year old man who was working in a private company. He was actually good looking and told that he is from a very good family. We are living in a village far from his home and my father is a farmer and lot of financial crisis in our home. So without thinking so much I got married to him. After the marriage he asked me to continue my studies in a college near to his house. We were very much loving and friendly.
One day after the class with my friends I went for shopping. Surprisingly I saw my husband standing with a girl in the complex. I cant believe my eyes. I once again looked at him. It was my husband. I didnt told my friends regarding this and they were about to go after the purchase. I told them I have some more things to buy and asked to go. My husband and that girl was about to leave the shop and I followed them at distance. She was wearing a very very tight jeans and top, and I understood she was not a good girl from her dressing style. Soon an auto came and they got inside and left the place. In the evening as usual my husband came with a lovely face. In the night time I asked him whether you went to office or not. He tried to avoid my questioning. At last I asked him straightly and he told me violently that it is none of my business and it is part of his job.
I was unable to tolerate myself and for the first time he slapped on my face. There was nobody else in our house to find a solution and warned me that if I tell this to anybody he shall kill me.
To my surprise the next day somebody was knocking at the door unusually. I opened it and it was that same girl whom I met yesterday with my husband. She was wearing the same tight jeans and just the top was changed. Anyway I smiled and asked to come inside and sit. Soon somebody was calling on her mobile phone. She stood up and took the phone from her jeans pocket, but didnt answered it and put them back inside the pockets. I understood it may be some other friends. I saw my husband coming out and greeting her with no mind that I was standing there. He asked me to prepare coffee. I told I am not a servant. Inorder to create the situation bad she stood from the chair and told that she is leaving. Hearing this my husband again raised his hand to beat me. I moved away and escaped. They left home. I started to my house and complained it to my parents. They took it silly and told me that try to adjust with him and some more advices. When I reached home he was waiting for me. I asked him where was your friend. He looked at my face and went inside the bedroom. Something unfair happened, I understood. I utilized this moment and sat beside her. I asked what happened. He asked me to forgive and begged before me for sorry. I still didnt understood. I slowly asked what happened to your friend? He told she was cheating and the company dismissed him and gave promotion for her. Though he lost his job I felt relaxed because I could avoid her. Now he is working in another company. Till now not so much problem.

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by guest Sun May 08 03:35:27 UTC 2011

A husband is head of the family and he is like a god to a wife. If wife is out of control, he should correct her. If caning is necessary for her correction, he must cane her. Wife should obey him. I am a college educated wife and I believe it.

by patralekha Mon Aug 15 09:16:05 UTC 2011

I am a house wife and maximum time my husband is out of station for office work. When he returns home my mother in law complains against me to him and he canes me. My mother in law gives a cane to him for caning me. In our in law side, one tradition is there a husband can punish his wife if he likes that. The age of my mother in law is 52 and she is a high school teacher but still she gets punishment from my father in law. She has no problem to get palm caning in presence of me. So many times I have seen her swollen palms. There is a thin cane in our house and my father in law and husband use this on us. When my father in law is very angry to her, he gives her kneel down punishment in the room. At the age of 52 she is getting kneel down punishment with touching ears from her husband. I am too much embarrassed to see her punishment but she takes it easily. Some time giving her kneel down punishment my father in law go out side the house for a long time and at time if I tell her come out from punishment, she tells me, he is like her master and she must obey him. She feels I also obey my husband like her. But I am not ready for that. I told my husband about this situation but he has no reaction. Only when he returns I get punishment from him for my mother in law.

by anjali Mon Aug 15 14:44:41 UTC 2011

My husband canes me more than our daughter. We have a daughter of 18 years old and if she misbehaves anything husband canes me. If she gets poor marks in exam, he canes me. He canes her maximum once in a month but I get caning from him for our daughter 3-4 times in a week. He does not canes me infront of her. But when he canes me it is too hard and my both palms (because always he canes me on my palms) are swollen and caning marks appear on palms. Sometime my daughter indicates my swollen marked palms and asks the reason. I give her false reason. Once I thought I would tell everything to our daughter and for that if she would improve herself. But later I thought my respect will be down if I tell her everything.

by nita Thu Aug 18 06:38:07 UTC 2011

Punishment on Indian wives is a tradition. I am now 32 yrs old but still get hard palm caning and kneel down punishment from my school teacher husband.Off and on he makes me kneel down and orders me to stand on knees with holding ears. He does not allow me to sit on heals during punishment.

by natasha Sat Aug 27 18:52:51 UTC 2011

My husband is 3 yrs younger to me. But after marriage he has started to cane and punish me. I never thought that would be happen before marriage. My MIL is staying with us and always she complains him against me and after getting complain he canes and punishes me. Infront of my MIL he canes me harder and forces me to do sits ups or makes me kneel down. Some time he forces me to stay in chair position with holding ears. Every day I have to touch my husband’s and MIL’s feet morning and night. One day, in presence of my MIL he removed my cloths and gave me murga punishment for one hour. It is too much humiliating to me. As I am older to him but he does not bother that.

by a house wife Wed Aug 31 17:23:21 UTC 2011

Hi Nita,
Why do you not ask your husband to cane you on your bare bottom, then your daughter will not see the marks.

by pete Tue Sep 06 12:30:54 UTC 2011

My husband caned me on my bottom 4-5 times. But I faced two problems. First by his caning my butck had become sore and I was unable to take seat for few days and second I peed due to heavy caning. It is very much shameful to pee by husband beating. He prefers palm caning. If he wants to cane me he calls me in our bead room and close the door and asks me to show my palms and the hits there as per his mood. Sometime cane has been broken and then he purchase new one. I did not know cane is available it market but he said it is available and many husbands purchase that. My mother supports him and she tells a husband can disciplines his wife if he thinks. One day after caning he made me kneel down in presence of my mother. I was afraid that our daughter might return from school. But my mother told Your husband is a common guardian of both of you and your daughter. So he can punish you in presence of your daughter and it is not humiliating to a wife to get punish from husband. It is true after marriage whenever I fill any form, I had to mention my husband's name on the column of guardian.

by nita Tue Sep 06 17:57:06 UTC 2011

My husband also canes me privately. But one day when he was caning me at night in our bed room, our daughter (she is 17 yrs old) suddenly came there and she was witness of my caning. That day was too much terrible day to me.

by a wife Thu Sep 08 18:27:25 UTC 2011

ente vivaham 19 vayasil kazhinjathanu. Ente hus njan enthenkilum thetu cheythal enne chooral kondu adikumayirunnu. Veetil pala type chooral vangi vechitund. Janalil pidipichu kunichu nirthiyanu ente chandiyil adichirunnathu. Chandi oru padu potiyitund. Oru dhivasam ente nigty um skirtum oori mati adichu, annu sharikum chandi poti chora vannu

by sumi Thu Oct 06 11:17:06 UTC 2011

Sumi, kaiyil adikkarundo?

by guest Thu Oct 06 14:15:34 UTC 2011

Hi Angjali
Does your mother in law get cane on her bottom?

by Pete Tue Oct 18 13:34:49 UTC 2011

Hi Patrelekha
Do you get caned on your bottom?

by Pete Tue Oct 18 13:37:02 UTC 2011

Ente marriage kazhinjittu 2 yrs aayi. Husband valare loving & caring aanu, athe samayam valare strict-um aanu. Njan enthenkilum thettu cheythal ettante vaka punishment urappaanu. 'Punishment' ennu vechal mattonnum alla, nalla chutta adi thanne. Oru prathyekatha undu, chila husbands cheyyunnathu pole kavilathum shoulder-lum purathum onnum adikkilla, chanthikku mathram. Cheriya enthenkilum thettu aanenkil aduthu cherthu pidichu nirthi verum kai kondu chanthiyude iru vashathum maari maari adikkum. Thettu kurachu serious aanenkil chooral edukkum. (Bed room-il vechu mathram aanu chooral prayogam. Verum kai kondulla adi evide vechum kittam - veedinte akathu mathram alla, muttatho parambilo vechu polum.) Uduthirikkunna churidar-nte top (sari aanenkil athu) valichu tight aakki pidichittu adikkum. Kurachu koodi serious issue aanenkil churidar-nte top pidichu pokki, pyjama valichu tight aakki chanthikku adi tharum. (mikkavarum ella pyjamayum tight aayathu kondu adhikam valichu tight aakkendi varilla.) (Sari aanenkil athu azhippichittu adippavada valichu tight aakkiyittanu adi.) Valare serious case enthenkilum aanenkil dress azhippichu panties mathram ittu nirthi aanu chooral prayogam. Chanthiyile tholi potti chora varum chilappol. Athu kandaalum adi nirthilla. Adiyude ennathinum kanakkonnum illa. 'Mathi' ennu ettanu thanne thonnunnathu vare adiyanu. Pakshe adi thannu kazhinjal pettennu thanne deshyam okke maarum. Pinne ettanu valiya vishamavum sankadavum okke varum. Kettippidichu othiri kisses tharum, adi konda paadukalil soft aayi thadavitharum, pottiyittundekil marunnu okke vechu tharikayum cheyyum.

by Seena Thu Oct 20 10:58:11 UTC 2011

pl write in english.

by guest Thu Oct 20 17:08:44 UTC 2011

Pl write in english

by guest Thu Oct 20 17:09:14 UTC 2011

Pl write in english

by guest Thu Oct 20 17:12:01 UTC 2011

Hi Seena,
When were you last caned? How long do the marks last?

by guest Fri Oct 21 10:33:23 UTC 2011

Hi Seena,
What had you done to deserve the 12 stokes on your bottom? What is the most strokes you have had?
My email is grumpy_695@fsmail.net. Mail me.
Pete

by guest Fri Oct 21 13:25:24 UTC 2011

hey, why this forum is silent?

by guest Sat Oct 29 02:07:32 UTC 2011

I guess no wives are getting caned.

by guest Wed Nov 02 03:08:44 UTC 2011

Many Indian women believe that husband has right to cane his wife to control her.

by Guest Tue Jan 24 18:25:59 UTC 2012

It is true that many Indian women believe that husband has the right to cane her. But she should not allow her to be abused by her husband. From some of the stories written in this forum it is noticed that the husband is caning the wife very severely which is not proper.

by Amit Fri Feb 03 05:53:48 UTC 2012

my husband is 5yrs older then me .we got married 10yrs back.i m getting several punishment from him since our marrige.

by guest Fri Feb 10 06:10:01 UTC 2012

mode of punishment depends on the gravity of my mistake.for small mistake he slaps me on face for 5 &it may took place inside as well as outside the house.
sometime he ordered me to slap meself & should coun loudly, lowest 5 times & highest 107 times till date i got face slaps at a time till date.
some time he punish me by kneel down,sits ups,standing by 1 leg,stand as chair position ,holding ears, scold by ear, holding his shoe on my head & mouth,canning etc.
i donot like my inlaws & this made him angry with me. one day i made an argument with my mil & my sil & that time all my 7 inlaws with their children was in our house for some occation. when i make argue he asked me to say sorry, i denied as it was not my fault.he again told me to say sorry because they are our gust now ,i denied.in the evening we all were sitting in our hall & enjoying, but i was not there. he called me .i came &going to sit on a chair , but he told me not to sit & be stand, i argued with him & insult him in front of everyone including in front of nice &nephew .he got very angry & i also got afraid as now it is my mistake.i know he gives me now several punishment.
he told me for 35 self face slaping.in front of all i was so ashamed & do only 5 which made more angry he scold by my ear & made me sits up 52 times holdind his shoe on my head.i denied it to do infront of all but later i did & after that throw his shoe to him .he slaped me to hard & ordered me to stand by one leg for an hour, i did but after that i told him that it is wrong to punish me in front of all &again arguing, he then made me kneel down & told i should stand on my knees i made hanky pankey because i know my jethani will laughed at me & she will tell all her frinds that i got punishment from my husband &they knew me .1 nephew is marrid &his wife also was there which made me so embarrased, i told it to my husband but he ignored me .i kneel down on middle of the hall holding my ear &everyone looked at me .it was8:10pm, then i was show at him with ahgry look, which made him more angry.he told everyone to slap me include my nephew's wife too , that night i got 43 slaps on my face from different persons ,no dinner,no talk,i was kneel donw still 5:30pm next day when all leave.since that night (held 2months ago) my husband made me kneel down for 1 hour in everyday as i thrown shoes at him ,he never forgive me for that & now i realise i do a very major mistake because he is my master i should do this .now each &every morning i toch his feet by hands, nose & head if he forgives me & also hold my ear whenever i say him sorry for my that mistake.
i diserve more punishment for that mistake.

by guest Fri Feb 10 07:02:32 UTC 2012

my husband was my teacher and from that time he punishes me. usually he canes me on my palms or butks and makes me kneel down with holding ears for at least one hour.other punishment is to do sits ups with holding ears.He does it privately but infront of my MIL.

by nita Sat Feb 25 16:45:32 UTC 2012

nita, how much painful your husband beating? did he made more painful beatings in collage after your marage fixed? how much old you are now? your MIL also beats you painful? please reply

by sapna Mon Feb 27 06:16:02 UTC 2012

guest, your husband is not just master but god. you are total very big wrong. i wishes you to get forgive from husband soon. sory to know your husband slaps outside house. you can requests him please punish more but inside house. why you use guest. their are so many using guest. i using not my name but secret name. if my MIL know i using net, she show me hell or more painful than hell. how you feel when you get slaps outside house? any known people see your slaps? which state you are staying? please reply.

by sapna Mon Feb 27 06:25:44 UTC 2012

thanks sapna .i feel sao humilation when he slaps me in front of anyboby. there are so many known people show it. i leave u p.i know i did wrong, please suggest me how i can get forgiveness of my husband.

by jhilmil Mon Feb 27 16:00:17 UTC 2012

jhilmil, how i understands your husband mood? you are best judge. i suggests keep trying to get his forgiveness. touch his feet with head everyday morning, night. just requests him for forgiveness. if you gets slaps in public from husband people dont think it is insult to you. they show sympathy to you. you also can tells people he is my master god and has authority to do anything. i am not telling it does not painful mentally. more than physical it is mental pain and humiliation and you loose all prestige in front of everybody. if it is so much humiliation for you, how much it is for your husband by your that act? he is after all man and your husband. his insult you have made is 1000 times bigger. if your husband beats in public something well known is just done in public. even if it is not done in public everybody know all wives get beatings and slaps from husband. it is something happening to all wives so not so much insult. in starting it may be very much insult. for husband even disobey from wife is insult. my FIL beat my MIL in front of me. many time he order me to bring cane. after giving cane if i try to go he tell me to stop and see my MILs punishments. i feel sorry for my MIL. when i tell sorry after that to my MIL in private, she tell me it is okay. all the best for you.

by sapna Mon Feb 27 20:13:08 UTC 2012

now a days my husband does not talk to me, does not allow me to sleep with him, if i sleep on his bad he goes to other room, sapna i know i did an unpardonable mistake, but i love him very much and i cannot live away to him, please suggest me how i can punish myself for getting his pardon because now a days he does not call me for punishment, i myself do 1 houre kneel down with ear holding everyday. touch his feet by my head, mouth,face & hand. please suggest me sister how i can punish me.

by jhilmil Tue Feb 28 15:54:15 UTC 2012

jhilmil, i have real sympathy for you. is he eating food made by you? who others live in your house? is anyboby can help? is your mil anf fil living with you? i suggests you can try doing a padapuja to your husband and ask to forgive in front of some people that was present when you did that mistake. you put your head on his feet and begs him to lift and give suitable punishment. donot gets up. hold his feet tight and beg him to forgive. tell me what happened. all the best for you. what is your age? i am 24 years.

by sapna Wed Feb 29 13:10:08 UTC 2012

nita, are you stopped attending this forum? how much painful your husband beating? did he made more painful beatings in collage after your marage fixed? how much old you are now? your MIL also beats you painful? please reply

by sapna Wed Feb 29 13:13:33 UTC 2012

No he did not cane me in class after marriage fixed. But after marriage he caned be in room during his teaching. My MIL does not beat me because she gets caning from my FIL almost everyday and it is done in front of me.One day after caning my FIL made her kneel down with holding ears for one hour. It is too much humiliating to her but I enjoyed that.

by nita Wed Feb 29 18:21:36 UTC 2012

sister sapna i did all these things as you said but when i kept his feet he kicked me and go away and told me get ready for divorce because that day i used slangs as son of herlot, ...... ur mother & sister etc., so he told me that he never forgive me ,my fil argued for me but my husband told him for not to support me otherwise he will leave the house. he told me he has not any love , affection,attraction,& hate too for me.my sister my parents also not supporting me they also told me to forget them, what can i do i donot know , no one with me. please sister advice me a hard punishment by which i can get my husband's marcy. please please, please

by jhilmil Thu Mar 01 14:05:48 UTC 2012

Hi Nita,
How old is your MIL? How many cane strokes does she get? Is she caned on her bare bottom?

by guest Thu Mar 01 15:42:49 UTC 2012

nita, you were his student after marriage happened? Then he hit you with more force or normal old force? your MIL not beating you but she tell wrong thing to your husband and made him beat you? you write you enjoy your MIL punishment. that means you get bad suffering from her direct or indirect. please write detail. One more thing. is your MIL not beating because her hands cannot hold stick proper due to her getting caning from FIL? please reply

by sapna Thu Mar 01 19:18:11 UTC 2012

jhilmil, i have total sympathy for you. but any big hard punishment you take should made your husband change soft on you. simply take hard punishment is no use. you can try begging forgiveness to your FIL. now this is important. do not tells your husband but talks to your FIL. request your FIL to tells your husband that "being husband and mard he should punish wife severely for her wrong doings. divorce is running away and not using his power. a real mard and husband should punish wife and TAME her. divorce means failure of husband to control his wife" may be then your husband punish you till his satisfaction and forgive you. divorce is needs only when wife deceive or cheat husband and made wrong relation with other man. you have done disobey. then he has full power in our society to properly punish you and correct you. all the best.

by sapna Thu Mar 01 19:33:38 UTC 2012

u r absolutely right, my fil already done more than his level best but my husband told him that he cannot forgive anyone who insult his (husband) parents & request him not to support me on this matter,today he also assured my fil that i will not give me divorce but at the sametime he will not forgive me too

by guest Fri Mar 02 14:13:58 UTC 2012

tell me about padapuja my fil told me that i should punish meself infront of my husband,which may make him soft i asked him about type of punishment, but he told me to dicide. so sister please u suggest me about some punishment please save me

by jhilmil Fri Mar 02 14:17:51 UTC 2012

jhilmil, what you wants to know about padapuja? you says you from UP. i from karnataka. here most marriages, wife makes padapuja to husband many times. also wife makes padapuja in festival called bhimana amavase. on that festival day wife keeps fast for husband long life. i seen some neighbors himachal pradesh ladies making husband padapuja in karwa chauth festival. in beginning you tells your husband makes one hour kneel down everyday. why he stops it now? reply me what more you wants to know. all the best.

by sapna Fri Mar 02 19:16:11 UTC 2012

know a days he has not any interest for me to him i has no value, i want to know about different types of physical punishment which i can give meself for getting my husband's marcy please tell me about all the punishment that you know

by jhilmil Sat Mar 03 11:33:57 UTC 2012

jhilmil sister, this forum is full of so many punishments. more than this what methods i can tells? read many different forums here and you can gets so many ideas. in one forum degree and pg level caning is correct ? some team 1234abcd lists big number of punishments with details. you can asks them for more types. but that 1234abcd is active now. anyway you can tries. they also explains their how those punishments given. most punishments are not self given. i wants to tells you it may not work. if your husband satisfaction needed he must give you punishment. if you take stand sit or murga or kneeldown yourself and he does not see your pain what is use? somebody must guides your husband proper to understand that he is a mard and your master. he has duty and power both to punish you proper. only other job i can do is explains your problem to my MIL and take her help. if i do it i will get very big painful punishments because my MIL strictly not allow me to use net. if she knows i disobey her she is sure to punish me and she may order my husband to give some very painful punishments also. but do not worry about my pains. i will take pains if it solves your problem. i understands i should not disobey my MIL and some one day i will be caught. before that i only will tells her my mistake and requests her for proper punishment to me. i anyway deserve punishments from her. she is punishes me with very much painful methods but i knows she having kind heart. please read the forum i suggests that is degree and pg level caning is correct ? and also so many other forums here. in the end tells me. do not think sorry od bad about my painful punishments from my MIL. i will anyway agrees my mistake with my MIL before she come to know and requests for punishment to me. my MIL may tells some ideas. i do not have mother. i cannot takes any helps from step mother or any person from that side relatives. please reply all the best.

by sapna Sun Mar 04 08:18:30 UTC 2012

nita, waiting for your reply

by sapna Sun Mar 04 08:20:48 UTC 2012

jhilmil sister, sorry for one mistake in last post to you. i types 1234abcd is active now. actual 1234abcd is many not active now. they posts last on 9th feb 2012. but they may comes back also. they types they are busy and come back soon. please reply

by sapna Mon Mar 05 08:35:39 UTC 2012

please tell me about the various painful punishment which ur mil gives u

by jhilmil Mon Mar 05 16:11:49 UTC 2012

My sister is married and she never respects her husband. She always argues and disobeys him. She is 21 and he is 30. She was married 6 years ago. She had fight with him and came home twice. Last time she came, my mother told her not to come any more. But 3rd time she went to her school friend. My mother and her mother in law talked and decided to put a full stop to this. Accordingly, he married me without a proper wedding so that I can look after their two children, as mother. He told me he will not make the mistake he made with my sister. And he started caning me in my nude body in the bedroom from day 1. He gives very hard slapping on my face in front of in laws and his friends. Then, he called my sister's hand phone and told her that she can come back at any time, but only as one of his 2 wives. She then came. Now we are both in the same house with him.

by Mandy Mon Mar 05 23:01:06 UTC 2012

@Mandy, for what mistakes are you slapped hard? What are your mistakes for getting caned in nude in the bedroom? How many strokes and where does he apply? Why don't you request him to punish you only when you make some mistake?

by guest Tue Mar 06 07:34:39 UTC 2012

Hi Guest, He feels guilty towards my sister (his 1st wife) that he didn't give her severe discipline from day 1 so that she would have had a chance to be an obedient wife. He gave too much freedom. Now it ended up him having 2 wives. So he disciplines me very severely and regularly to keep reminding me of the importance of obedience. Also he thinks my sister will see me being his slave, servant worshiping him at his feet as my God. This will change her as another slave so he will have 2 good and obedient wives as his slaves. I think it is working slowly.

by Mandy Tue Mar 06 20:14:02 UTC 2012

Mandy, Are you from India? If you are residing in a different country, are you a person of Indian origin? which is your present country of residence? Please reply.

by Bhavya Thu Mar 08 19:45:29 UTC 2012

We are Indian origin community in Nigeria. I am 3rd generation here. My Grandparents came here from India. We are a very small Indian community here. Our community is very strict about our indian traditions and culture. Here in indian community, girls are encouraged by parents to accept discipline by husband. But our community here is strictly one man one wife system though the local people here have more wives for one man in one house. Law also allows a man to marry more wives without permission from his existing wives. But these laws generally don't affect us, as we generally practice one man one wife system. My mother and mother in law always say that 1 man 2 wives in one house is common in India. And husband disciplining and punishing wives severely is common in India. When I came to this forum only, I could believe that completely.

by guest Thu Mar 08 22:06:14 UTC 2012

Sorry, It is me but I forgot to put my name above.

by Mandy Thu Mar 08 22:10:31 UTC 2012

hi mandy i m jhilmil ,told my story earlier, u please suggest about various painfull punishment that i can apply on myself to get my husband,s marcy please tell me as earliest and help me please

by jhilmil Fri Mar 09 06:27:37 UTC 2012

hi mandy i m jhilmil ,told my story earlier, u please suggest about various painfull punishment that i can apply on myself to get my husband,s marcy please tell me as earliest and help me please

by jhilmil Fri Mar 09 06:27:38 UTC 2012

Jhilmil, Sorry, We should never punish ourselves, as giving punishment is strictly a duty of husband. You can explain your feelings to your husband and say you will get relieved of your guilty feeling, if he gives a very severe punishment, he may consider. We should never take husband's duties or responsibilities in our hand. This is what my mother always say. Your sister

by Mandy Fri Mar 09 19:36:13 UTC 2012

Bhavya, Thanks for the information. I like to learn a lot about Indian culture and how God - devotee relationship is maintained between them. I am 15 years old and 6 years younger than my sister. I have completed school and had good grades. But all of a sudden I had to marry my brother in law to save my sister's life and children. Therefore I can't go for higher studies. The only language I know is English. We are migrated from South of India. I know a lots Tamil words, though I can't speak or write. I can mix a lots Tamil words when I speak English. My sister and our husband never practiced discipline or worshiping. But when I was married a few months ago, I asked him for very strict and hard discipline system so that the two wives will be put in their place. Then it slowly started increasing day by day. My sister and I are very affectionate even after marriage. But as 2 wives of the same husband, there will be always an element of competition and race to please him. I also started praying to his feet with my face touching his feet (not kissing). I started with 2 to 3 minutes and slowly increased to now 15 minutes each time. Now my sister also join me in worshiping. She is also asking for discipline. So my marriage is serving the purpose. Please reply. I will email you as well.

by Mandy Fri Mar 09 21:57:16 UTC 2012

Sister Jhilmil, I am a young girl though married. I don't know how eligible I am to advice others. Also I am new to discipline and punishment by husband. However I would say one thing. Think what is the hardest punishment he used to give you. Or what is the shameful punishment he gave you that you didn't like. Beg him to give those punishment. For example, if he used to give caning on your nude body, now you can take big canes and keep them near him and take off all your cloths and stand in the position he used to make you take for punishment. If he ignore you and leave, don't move from the position until he comes. Even if you have to stay there through out the night until morning, just wait. Then he will know your dedication. He will definitely forgive you. Your problem will be my next prayer.

by Mandy Fri Mar 09 22:07:00 UTC 2012

jhilmil sister, i am sorry not reply for long. i needs my MIL sleeping or go out of house to use net. one very painful punishment MIL give me is chair. thighs will pains very severe. she make me chair and cane on thighs and palm very painful and hard. if i changing chair for caning means extra punishment. but i suggests dont do all this. you FIL should tells him as i types earlier. do your husband padapuja, touches his feet every morning massage his feet and begs for mercy and punishment. if you wants, i tells my MIL my mistake of disobey her order and use net, she can tells good advice to you.

by sapna Sat Mar 10 18:52:46 UTC 2012

Dear Jhilmil,

I think your husband was terribly wrong to punish you in front of all his relatives. Just as the wife must honour her husband, it is the husband's duty to protect his wife, and that includes protecting her dignity. The husband is the head and the wife is the body -- her husbands body. Any loss of dignity of the wife is also a loss of dignity of her master.

I fully understand your reaction to your husband's mistreatment of you, it is very natural to rebel when one's dignity is violated. But you certainly must obey your husband also when you feel that he is wrong, and you humiliated him both by disobeying and throwing his shoe at him! He had every reason to be dissatisfied with you, and to punish you accordingly.

For the more important: it is not necessarily a good idea to try to punish yourself to win your husband's forgiveness. You have done what you could to show your remorse and begged him to forgive you, but he cannot. He is still angry with you. I think that as long as he is angry, he will not want you to come asking for things (such as forgiveness, or punishment), he doesn't want to grant you any favour. And even though this behaviour of his may be wrong, you should respect it; he may be even more annoyed at you if you don't. My advice to you would be to stop begging for forgiveness. Try instead to find ways please him, make him feel that you love and respect him, even if he does not love you (probably, he does still love you, but he is too angry now to understand it himself). Show him that you are the good wife he would want to have, not the bad wife he thinks you are. Deeds speak louder than words.

Obviously, I don't know you and your situation well, and I don't know what kind of person your husband are. It is possible that what I'm suggesting won't work. For sure it may take very long time: months, or even years, it all depends on your husbands temper, and your own behaviour and attitudes. But even if he cannot forgive you now, he will not be angry forever, this is for certain. When his anger is gone, he will probably see how good a wife you are.

It is very difficult to show to love someone who doesn't show love to you, and to honour and obey him as he rejects you. It will be painful. Therefore, try to find things in life that you enjoy. With you husbands permission, meet friends or relatives, talk with them about other things, things that you like. If there are things in your life that make you happy, it will give you strength to endure the difficulties that you face.

What I have written here is based on my personal feelings and experiences as a man and a husband. For sure, your husband may be completely different. But this is the way that would work with me, the way I would like my wife behave if anything similar happened between us (fortunately, to date, it hasn't).

by E. Tue Mar 20 19:48:36 UTC 2012

do yourkid knowthat u have been punished lissy

by guest Wed Apr 25 17:36:45 UTC 2012

I am a reasonably smart and good looking girl of 26 years old. I used to dress in a modern manner wearing sleeveless tops and tight jeans and short skirts before marriage.My husband told me to stop this after marriage and whenever I am caught wearing these in my mother's place or outside,i am caned severely after I return home.I am asked to stand completely nude in my bedroom at night and am given 8 to 10 stokes of canes on my bare back. Another problem I face is that he makes me oil my hair very heavily every day and prohibits any use of shampoo.On not doing so I am dragged by my hair throughout my flat and around 1 cup of coconut oil is poured on my hair. Then I am made naked and caned heavily.Usually after the beating he makes love with me. He is very fond of me, loves me like anything and gives me any thing I ask for. But I have to tolerate this beating atleast twiceto thrice a week. On complaining to my parents they tell me to be obedient and wear conservative clothes and stay with oiled hair. I do not know what to do but there is no doubt that my hubby is one of the best persons I have ever come across.

by Shalini Thu May 03 09:55:47 UTC 2012

I make it a point to cane my wife thrice a week.I make her stand nude in the bedroom. I then pull her hair tightly and cane her at night for all the mistakes she has comitted during the day.I make it a point that after getting beaten for ten to twelve minutes she massages my body for half an hour, then after touching my feet she is allowed to sleep.I feel caning my wife is my birth right and she also does not mind

by Raj Thu May 03 11:14:25 UTC 2012

Hi sisters. I am Shalini from Calcutta and I am tired of the beating I get. He calls it disciplining. Every day I am pulled by my hair from the drawing room to my bed room, made naked and caned 8-10 times.I have stopped wearing all modern clothes and am always conservatively dressed.I also do padapuja thrice daily and am also prepared to stay with heavily oiled hair. What more can I do to please him bcoz he is like God to me.Yesterday when I was alone I shampooed my hair and was drying it wearing a sleeveless top. All of a sudden my husband returned from his office as he was not well and then on seeing me he gave me atleast 20 canes on my back. On begging for mercy at his feet he kicked me. I know I have done a mistake. Please suggest me sisters what I can do to please him, make him happy and also avoid being beaten up

by Shalini Thu May 03 11:41:59 UTC 2012

Shalini and Natasha,
Please remember you are female. Women are created for their husband. Be thankful to your husbands that he takes so much care and affection in you and gives you discipline and punishment. If he doesn't love you, he will not need to punish you. Just think from his shoes for a moment. What will you do, if you are male and want to be a good husband? If you do padapooja 3 times a day, it is not enough, please start thanking your husbands for their discipline and punishment. Be ashamed of any feminist thoughts like this coming into your minds. I am sorry to be a bit tough in my response but I say this for your own benefits in the long run.

by Mandy Thu May 03 22:16:45 UTC 2012

MANDY I FULLY AGREE WITH YOU. But the beating is very painful. I could not post yesterday bcoz again i was caned and that too i got 15 shots for the fault of day b4yesterday. I am loosing all self respect. Yesterday he made me remain nude from the time he entered home and did not even let me sleep beside me. He is so angry now that he can not think of any thing but caning. How to calm him

by SHALINI Fri May 04 02:00:58 UTC 2012

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by guest Fri May 04 03:36:34 UTC 2012

Hi Raj and Santosh.. I am Vikash. I too like caning and make it a point to cane my wife atleast four times a week.I drag her by her hair, hold it tightly, and then cane her on her bare body. I ensure she remembers it well for next two days. I do not tolerate any minor mistake. Caning is always done privately but on other occasions slaps are also very effective and can also be done publicly

by Ravi Fri May 04 05:35:18 UTC 2012

ravi, santosh and raj guys please dont trat your wives so badly after all they have as much right to live with dignity as much as you have.
How would you feel if somebody does that to you .

if an offence and you can be punished for that if your wife complains. because she loves you do not abuse her love

by guest Thu May 10 13:14:20 UTC 2012

Mild punishment to wife is acceptable. A husband has right to correct his wife because he is legally her guardian.

by a wife Wed May 16 10:00:57 UTC 2012

It's been three months since I got married. Husband never punished, but MIL very very strict.
She does not cane but gives other punishments like sit-ups, murgha etc..
She carefully supervises all my household work.
Not allowed to watch TV or talk on phone with friends when she's around. Also not allowed to sit down, must always stand up, with head down and wait for her order. Since she is around me most of the time, my legs pain by the end of the day....

by guest Sat May 19 12:58:04 UTC 2012

I CANE MY WIFE EVERYDAY AND NJOY DOING IT. I keep her nude and on making mistakes can her till her ass bleeds. On many occasions she pees.

by guest Sat May 19 19:01:59 UTC 2012

I recently married a 20 yr old girl. As i have a fantasy about girl caning, i cane my wife fr smll mistakes. I make her completely naked forcefully and cane her mercilessly. I cane her until whole body becomes red and swollen. I like the scream of naked girls in pain. I know i am doing wrong. Bt i do it out of my fantasy.

by indra Thu May 24 03:59:31 UTC 2012

I recently married a 20 yr old girl. As i have a fantasy about girl caning, i cane my wife fr smll mistakes. I make her completely naked forcefully and cane her mercilessly. I cane her until whole body becomes red and swollen. I like the scream of naked girls in pain. I know i am doing wrong. Bt i do it out of my fantasy.

by indra Thu May 24 03:59:32 UTC 2012

I recently married a 20 yr old girl. As i have a fantasy about girl caning, i cane my wife fr smll mistakes. I make her completely naked forcefully and cane her mercilessly. I cane her until whole body becomes red and swollen. I like the scream of naked girls in pain. I know i am doing wrong. Bt i do it out of my fantasy.

by indra Thu May 24 03:59:44 UTC 2012

I recently married a 20 yr old girl. As i have a fantasy about girl caning, i cane my wife fr smll mistakes. I make her completely naked forcefully and cane her mercilessly. I cane her until whole body becomes red and swollen. I like the scream of naked girls in pain. I know i am doing wrong. Bt i do it out of my fantasy.

by indra Thu May 24 03:59:46 UTC 2012

I recently married a 20 yr old girl. As i have a fantasy about girl caning, i cane my wife fr smll mistakes. I make her completely naked forcefully and cane her mercilessly. I cane her until whole body becomes red and swollen. I like the scream of naked girls in pain. I know i am doing wrong. Bt i do it out of my fantasy.

by indra Thu May 24 03:59:46 UTC 2012

I recently married a 20 yr old girl. As i have a fantasy about girl caning, i cane my wife fr smll mistakes. I make her completely naked forcefully and cane her mercilessly. I cane her until whole body becomes red and swollen. I like the scream of naked girls in pain. I know i am doing wrong. Bt i do it out of my fantasy.

by indra Thu May 24 03:59:49 UTC 2012

I recently married a 20 yr old girl. As i have a fantasy about girl caning, i cane my wife fr smll mistakes. I make her completely naked forcefully and cane her mercilessly. I cane her until whole body becomes red and swollen. I like the scream of naked girls in pain. I know i am doing wrong. Bt i do it out of my fantasy.

by indra Thu May 24 03:59:49 UTC 2012

I recently married a 20 yr old girl. As i have a fantasy about girl caning, i cane my wife fr smll mistakes. I make her completely naked forcefully and cane her mercilessly. I cane her until whole body becomes red and swollen. I like the scream of naked girls in pain. I know i am doing wrong. Bt i do it out of my fantasy.

by indra Thu May 24 03:59:50 UTC 2012

Occasionally I make my wife lie face down, unzip her to bare her back, and then whip her. Love to see the red stripes on her soft back.

by guest Tue Jun 05 17:14:30 UTC 2012

Wife caning is not always bad if there is a positive thing. When my grand father married my grand mother, she was just 13 yrs old. She just knew some letter and she never went to school. My grand father was a head master in a girls’ school in our village (the land and building of that school was donated by my great grand father and for his willingness my grand father joined in that school as head master). After marriage my grand father admitted her in that school in 5th class and restarted her education. It was a big problem at that time for a married woman to go to school. After 10 pm when all house hold work was over he (my grand father) called her wife in bed room and closed the door and started to give her teaching. He kept a cane in his bed room. When my grand mother was failure to perform well he caned her very hardly and made her kneel down with holding ears for long time. My grand mother afraid him. In school also when he took class of his wife he punished (kneel down, standing on the bench, sits ups caning etc) her like other girls and other teachers also punished her. He told other teachers not to give any special advantage to her. My grand mother told me that thing. Up to matriculation when my grand mother was 18 yrs old she got hard caning and was made kneel down at night by my grand father. After matriculation my grand mother took admission in a college in town and stayed in hostel. But when she came to her in laws house during vacation my grand father started teaching her and she gave again hard caning and other punishment. Until graduation (when she was 23 yrs) she received caning and other punishment from her husband. After graduation (my grand mother got 1s class from matriculation to graduation and it was a very rare at that time to a female student) she joined in his school as a teacher and she was 1st lady teacher in that school. When my grand mother was 24 yrs my father came. He was not her student but he also received very hard caning from her. My mother was her student in that school and she also received hard punishment from her. My father never beats my mother (because both were getting caning from my grand mother. One in house and another in school). My grand mother told me that if your grand father did not cane and punish me , I had never been a teacher.

by anamitra Wed Jun 06 08:36:58 UTC 2012

did anybody cane his wife in front of kids

by guest Thu Jun 07 03:39:20 UTC 2012

did anybody cane his wife in front of kids

by guest Thu Jun 07 03:39:20 UTC 2012

did anybody cane his wife in front of kids

by guest Thu Jun 07 03:39:22 UTC 2012

did anybody cane his wife in front of kids

by guest Thu Jun 07 03:39:22 UTC 2012

did anybody cane his wife in front of kids

by guest Thu Jun 07 03:39:24 UTC 2012

did anybody cane his wife in front of kids

by guest Thu Jun 07 03:39:24 UTC 2012

did anybody cane his wife in front of kids

by guest Thu Jun 07 03:39:26 UTC 2012

HI I AM ALPANA FROM CALCUTTA. I have been married for the last six months. It was a love marriage but after marriage my huband has completely changed. He has become very conservative and very strict. Every alternate night i get a thorough beating and that too in front of my mil and sister in law for the smallest of mistakes. One day I had returned home at 7:30 from a movie. Though i had given prior information to my mil i got a severe beating.

by ALPANA Thu Jun 07 18:47:10 UTC 2012

Our family is an upper middle class. Recently I have married. My wife is a college teacher. It is impossible to exist wife beating culture in our family. My wife always wares western fashion dress except in her college. One day my uncle came to our residence. My wife welcomed him but wearing western type dress. My uncle was too much upset for that. Before leaving he told me about that. I was so embarrassed. After his leaving I called my wife and verbally warned her and told her if you wear my daughter I must would make reddish her butks . But I was shocked when she was agreed. She took a wood made brush from the drawer and handed over to me, dropped her jeans and removed her panty. Then she lied down over the bed and asked be to beat her. I was too much angry on that day. So I started beating her immediately on her butks. I did not know how many stokes I delivered. She tried to manage herself to place a pillow below her face. When I finished I saw her butks had become complete red. She suffered one week for that.

by gautama Mon Jun 11 05:25:25 UTC 2012

I AM FROM CALCUTTA? I AM MARRIED SINCE 10 YEARS. It is important to have strict control over your wife for which canning is important. If she is disobedient she deserves beating . My wife needs a beating about twice a month and that keeps her very good.

by guest Thu Jun 21 01:42:43 UTC 2012

My name is Santhosh. I am aMaths Teacher. I cane Ladies Boys of any age and Girls. If any body wants Caning call me . wilsonred@rediffmaildotcom Chooral Caning is a Very good thing for maintaining dicipline and to get high results. I congragulating all those who are using CANE very well

by Santhosh Kumar Sat Jun 23 11:25:57 UTC 2012

Hi I am Vikram and am from Kolkata. I am married since the last four years. I strictly believe in wife caning.I follow the age old tradition myself. I am very strict with my wife and punish her for any mistakes. In spite of coming from an upper middle class family myself, I do not allow any western culture in my house as far as my wife is concerned. I cane her heavily at least twice a month to ensure she maintains her discipline.I do not allow western clothes nor too much of fashion and on indulging in it she is beaten brutally. These days I have given her some liberty but I know how to take it back.Oiling her hair is a must follow instruction and is a common reason for her getting caned. When ever I see her with dry hair, I make her completely naked forcefully and cane her mercilessly. I cane her until whole body becomes red and swollen.

by Vikram Tue Jun 26 11:31:22 UTC 2012

Flog 'em all and let God sort em out!

by guest Tue Jul 17 15:39:14 UTC 2012

Why this forum is dead for so many days? No wives getting caning??

by abc Sun Jul 22 07:58:13 UTC 2012

husband caning wife is very common in our community. My husband also canes me when he thins that. My parents approve it. So I also accept it because I have no alternative option.

by parvin Sun Jul 29 15:35:14 UTC 2012

I am now 37 yrs old and my daughter is 19 yrs old and both get caning from my husband sometime at the same time. My husband is old fashioned man and believes some traditional ethics that women should obey men. When my daughter and me both do some wrong he first cane me with a rattan cane and at that time he orders my daughter to stand behind be with holding ears. Then he canes my daughter and at that time I have to stand behind her with holding ears. Usually he canes on our butks and sometime butks are swollen for caning. After that both of us have to stand side by side with holding ears for some time. It is too much humiliating to me but he believes that for this punishment our daughter also will obey her husband. When I do some mistake he orders our daughter to bring the cane and he canes be in front of her and when our daughter does some mistakes I have to bring cane for her punishment. When I did marriage I was just 17 yrs old and passed class 10. After that he stopped me to go to school but allowed me to continue my education in private. So he appointed a retd school teacher to teach me. He was also same minded. Always he used cane when he taught me. I got caning from him until I passed graduation and it was some time in front of my daughter (at that time she was 4-5 yrs). A part of caning he also made me kneel down or I had to sits ups and my daughter watched that. It was definitely a shameful matter I had to admit it.

by a house wife Thu Aug 09 05:55:33 UTC 2012

hi house wife please share more experience what you face kya aap murga banna pasand karti ho aap kab se murga banti ho school days se ya after married kya aap apni beti ko bhi murga banati ho

by anuradha jain Thu Aug 09 06:27:32 UTC 2012

I have also same problem. My husband does not cane me but allows to cane my private tutor (he is also a retd school teacher) to cane me. I have started my education after a long break and our daughter (now she is class 8 student) takes tuition from him. He teaches us separately but uses cane on both of us. My daughter also hears the sound of caning from other room when he canes me. After tuition she inspects my palms to see caning marks. When some of our closed friends or neighbours or relatives come to our study room during tuition they see that teacher teaches me with a rattan cane. It is too much embarrassing and humiliating. All of our neighbours and friends know that I get caning from my private tuitor. I tell them that it is for our daughter but they do not believe that. Even one day one of my friend saw that he was caning me on my palms. I am now studying in +1 in the same school of my daughter. Some teachers of our school also know that. Some time I get punishment with other girls in our class but it is done privately not in front of junior student. Punishment includes caning, kneel down, standing on bench, sits ups etc.

by sayantani Thu Aug 09 13:36:54 UTC 2012

I would die of embarrassing if my husband canes me in front our daughter. Definitely he canes me but not in front of our daughter because if he does that our daughter will not respect me. But she knows that I am staying in home with strict discipline of my husband.

by Hena Sun Aug 12 16:39:55 UTC 2012

I am from Calcutta and strictly believe in wife caning. On any mistake I give her a light slap or so but on any disobedience she is given strokes till her ass bleeds. Once she had objected when my mother wanted her to apply oil on her without any particular reason. From that day onwards I do not allow her to stay with dry hair even for a minute. Whenever I am at home I run my hands through her hair and if my fingers are not stained with oil I pour Coconut oul on her hair. I also do not like her talking to other males of her same age and any dress apart from a saree or salwar kameez is a strict no. If wives are dealt with leniently they start taking you for a ride. I make it a point to love her but also keep her under strict discipline. I have also slapped her in front of her friends to make her realise that she is wrong. Wives should never be allowed to be ultramodern. That does not give a good impression about the family. An obedient wife is absolutely essential. I always try to make my wife understand this. Wives look exremely beautiful when their hair is neatly tied and heavily oiled. There is absolutely no harm in applying oil. Whenever my wife refuses she gets a good beating and she remains good for around ten to twelve days.

by Dipanjan Sat Aug 18 13:14:03 UTC 2012

HI Sheela , I AM Amrita and am from Calcutta. My story is very similar . Every day before going to office and in the evening after returning from office he pours around one cup of parachute coconut oil on my hair. By chance if i object he makes me naked in our bedroom and canes me severely. I AM not allowed to stay with dry hair even for a minute. On various occasions i have got eight to ten slaps from him in front of our servants if he feels oil is not dripping from my hair. I do not know what to do. Yesterday i attended a party with dry hair and once he found out he canned my back so hard that i AM still unable to sit. I do not know this ffascination that males have for oiled hair.

by AMRITA Sun Aug 19 10:46:35 UTC 2012

Amrita, would your husband canes ur palms?

by guest Mon Aug 20 06:10:54 UTC 2012

Your husbands love it rough. Amazing! Do you ladies take the same responsibility of caning your husband when he does any illicit behavior?

by scream Mon Aug 27 00:23:17 UTC 2012

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by Thomas Chandi Msc Tue Aug 28 07:44:52 UTC 2012

My husband has never caned me but he has used 'the slipper' to punish me on occasions.

The first time was after I argued with him in public. He told me quietly afterwards that I must not contradict him in front of other people and that when I got home I was going to be having 'the slipper' with him. When we got home, he found a leather chappal then led me by the wrist to the bedroom and put me across his knee and gave me a hard slippering until I cried.

Another time, I threw away some important papers belonging to him when I was tidying up. When he found out, he told me that he was going to slipper me and asked me to fetch him his chappal. When I refused, he told me that it would be worse if I didn't bring 'the slipper' so I brought it and went with him in the bedroom where he bent me over his knee and slippered me.

The last time was when my husband came back from a business trip and I said that he might have been unfaithful to me. He told me that this was disrespectful and that if I suspected him, he would slipper me. Because I was feeling angry, I told him that I did suspect him and so he said, 'Wait there!' while he went to get 'the slipper' and then he took me to the bedroom where he slippered me.

by guest Tue Aug 28 10:53:50 UTC 2012

sayantani do u get ear twisting from u'r tutor

by guest Wed Aug 29 14:12:41 UTC 2012

sayantani do u get ear twisting from u'r tutor

by guest Wed Aug 29 14:12:42 UTC 2012

my in laws believes in disciplining with strict punishment and they made it clear at the time of the marriage to my guardian, my uncle and aunty as i was raised by them they have given me strict warning against any complaints from my in laws i am very scared of my uncle's leather belt, i was often corrected with the belt by my cousin brother and uncle.

in this April we got married and i am getting various punishments since then for even a slightest of the mistake. three days after the marriage by mistakenly i spilled the dried beans from the container, my mother in law made me kneel on the dried beans (dried beans really hurt the knees badly) for few minutes while she was twisting my ear and giving me lecture about how careless i was.

while on honeymoon, i had taken some short skirts and sleeveless tops as i wasn't aware that my husband does not approve of it and he trashed me badly with his belt and made me wear sleeveless afterwords in public and welts did not skip the eyes of the public and he proved his point that how people stare and how i enjoy attention. he took some of my photos with the marks i was humiliated when he actually developed it and a frame serves a reminder in our bedroom till today.

when ever my mother in law complains he(my husband) beats me up in the bedroom with cane and after the correction session he canes my feet so badly that usually i wake up to sore feet after the punishment .

humiliating part is he pulls my hair or twists ear to drags me to the bedroom when he punishes me.

by Anuradha Wed Aug 29 17:23:38 UTC 2012

Anuradha, did your husband cane your palms?

by guest Thu Aug 30 05:51:46 UTC 2012

no he canes calf and thighs

by Anuradha Thu Aug 30 16:37:51 UTC 2012

@Anuradha, Does your husband slap you hard on face?

by Vanaja Thu Aug 30 17:45:43 UTC 2012

Getting slippered by my husband.

I wrote previously about getting 'the slipper' from my husband but did not mention my feelings about this.

The first time that he told me that he was going to give me 'the slipper' after I argued with him in public, I felt myself blush with embarrassment but I tried to look unconcerned. My husband is a strong, powerful man and I thought that it would hurt. When we got home and he went and got his leather chappal to slipper me with, I had butterflies in my stomach and kept thinking how big the chappal looked and how hard it was going to be. Even so, I did not argue when he led me by the wrist to the bedroom to give me the slippering and I did not resist as he put me over his knee. I had a feeling of shame that he had to slipper me and looked at the floor as he gave me my punishment. 'The Slipper' seemed to make a loud crack as it hit my bottom and he held me pinned to his knee so that I couldn't move while he thrashed me vigorously. Gradually the pain built up until it felt red hot and became unbearable and then I cried.

The second time, I felt very nervous when he made me fetch the chappal for him but I felt like I didn't have a choice and reluctantly went in the bedroom with him so that he could slipper me.

The final time, I thought that I deserved it because I had been defiant and I waited for my husband while he went to fetch 'the slipper' even though I knew that he was going to put me over his knee and slipper me very hard. I remember having butterflies in my stomach as he led me through to the bedroom to give me 'the slipper' but I was determined not to cry during the slippering. At first, I held my breath while he slippered me, then I pleaded with him to stop and finally the tears came...

by guest Thu Aug 30 19:01:41 UTC 2012

@Vanaja..
My husband never slap me on face as of now
he does not have a quick reaction to any complains from my in laws. He listens to it patiently and then decides the punishment not that i disrespect my in laws but i am always misunderstood by them and had to pay the price.

He has old iron's wire he sometimes uses that and it hurts more then the cane.

none of my sincere apologies stop him once he starts whipping or canning he only stops when he is done.

@Vanaja ..do u face anything at this sort at home?

by Anuradha Fri Aug 31 13:53:59 UTC 2012

Is there any wives who are getting palm caning from husband?

by alvin Fri Aug 31 17:20:57 UTC 2012

@Anuradha, My husband's most common punishment is slapping on face. Lots of my friends' husbands also do the same. The slapping is so hard that the finger marks are clearly visible on cheeks. It is so shameful to show face to anybody at that time.

by Vanaja Sat Sep 01 15:48:15 UTC 2012

Anuradha,
It seems your husband canes you regularly. he also slaps you on your face. This is not correct. you should protest against such actions by your husband.

by amit Mon Sep 03 09:04:34 UTC 2012

@Vanaja... i can understand the humiliation..which is at times mores than the pain.i hope you get a strength to stop this.
do you stay with your in laws?

by Anuradha Mon Sep 03 14:31:49 UTC 2012

@Amit
my husband does not cane me regularly (five times so far in my 6 months marriage)neither does he ever slaps me on my face.
yes, but he is very strict he has his ways of punishments which are humiliating if not very cruel.

I am trying to make my husband understand that it is not correct rather it is not correct on my part to tolerate such abuse emotional and physical.

but whenever he punishes me he makes me feel so guilty and blames me for making him do that to me.

Also, we stay in a joint family please hopefully one day he will understand the difference between wrong and right.

by Anuradha Mon Sep 03 14:52:05 UTC 2012

@Anuradha, I stay with our in-laws. I don't think I can stop this. If it happens in the night, most of the finger marks would be gone by morning. But if it is in the morning, the entire day would be shameful as we will have 4 to 5 guests visiting everyday from relatives or friends or neighbors. Some of them make it most humiliating. In the guise of expressing the sympathy, they probe the matter and drag it like rubber. They also inform others who enjoy such humiliation to helpless people like me. Many times, other people have visited us in some pretext but I know their intention is just to see my insult, shame, embarrassment etc. Being the young DIL of the family, I can't avoid anyone. I will have to serve them coffee or tea etc. Lot of my friends undergo similar tarture. Fortunately I am not working at the moment. Some of my friends have to attend their office with finger marks on their cheeks and it is the ultimate humiliation. I am lucky that I taste it once in a week on average. Some of my friends get it 2 to 3 times a week.

by Vanaja Mon Sep 03 19:26:26 UTC 2012

My Husband is very Strict & am always punished

I would like to share with you my personal experience what is going on in my life since the last 5 years. I could not share this with my family and friends, thought of posting in this blog and getting to know others.

I am Amiste. I got married around 5 years ago and from then onwards, I live like a slave in the house. From childhood, I was never been beatened or been shouted by parents. I was always treated as princess. But, now everything has changed.

I live with my husband who is very strict. I have been given strict instructions on a daily basis what I am suppose to do. Work would either be cleaning, washing a particular area or gardening or writing or...etc....

I have to wake up at 5 am in the morning. Take 100 rounds of the garden by counting each round aloud in the camera, so that my husband can check later, if I missed any number. I have to complete the running in the max. 30 mins. Come home, take a cold water shower and dress with min. clothing. I have to always wear a sleveless t-shirt with no pants. No matter if it is winter or summer, I have to always dress in the T-shirt. I have been given two t-shirts, which I have to wash and wear. Once, I have finished I have to start with the daily chores of washing up the clothes and rooms. Exactly at 7am, I have to go to the kitchen for making the breakfast and cutting fruits. Sharp 8am I have to keep the breakfast on the table for my husband to eat. I have to stand in the corner facing the wall while he is eating. Once he is done, if there is anything left, I have been given to eat or else I have to skip the breakfast. As per my experience, in a week, I hardly get to eat breakfast as never the sandwiches are left for me. I can never make any extra sandwich by mistake.

My husband runs a private firm which he works from home. Office is set up in other room. I am not allowed to go out of the house without permission from him. I can only go the grocery store for shopping or for his official work either to post office or bank. I am always given an estimated time. I cannot dare to be late.

I am always punished in the house and gets harsh painful punishments.

I was once given a particular time to come back home. But while shopping at the grocery store, there was a problem in the till and I got delayed by 5mins to come back home. I was been strapped with the belt on my leg. I was given 300 strokes with the belt. Asone min. late, I deserve 60 strokes. I was asked to stand straight while he is giving me strokes. I could barely do that. After 300 strokes, I was unable to walk and could not get up. He pulled me and locked me in the garage for 8 hours. After that, I was been asked to take 10 rounds of the garden by holding a heavy suitcase on my head. At each round, I was given one cane stroke. Those lashes took nearly a mth to disappear.

Everyday, I am allowed to eat lunch at 3.00 pm whether or not I had my breakfast and after that at 11.00 pm for dinner. After dinner, I am forced to drink 1 pint of hot boiling milk at one shot. I can sleep if he asks me to go to bed or if he is working in his office, I cannot dare to sleep. Till then, he gives me a task to do. I am always given a room to clean and he checks later if it is spot on. If he finds a finger print on the glass, I get beatened hard on my face as I did not see it. We have 4 bedrooms, 2 living area, 1 kitchen, 1 dining area, & 2 rooms joined together for his office downstairs. IF I finish my daily chores, I am been ordered to stand or kneel in the corne which is for at least an hour. If I dare to move a bit, he immediately gets up and canes me so hard that i start bleeding.

Sometimes, he gives me a book and orders me to copy and write in a clear handwriting in a book. Once he did not allow me to stop writing for nearly 6 hours. I could barely move my fingers. If I stopped, I use to get my fingers burn by a candle.

While sleeping in the night, I have been given a room with

by Amiste Tue Sep 04 10:16:23 UTC 2012

Hi i am Anjali and am from calcutta. My husband is extremely strict and punishes me in every possible way like slapping, caning, slippering and other innovative ways. It started from my honeymoon where I got my first punishment. We had gone to Mauritius and I wore some short clothes. On seeing me he told me that I would understand in the room. He got hold of a shoe horn from the hotel and struck me with it on my buttocks and thighs for around 30 times. I got wild but was unable to react because of the pain. After returning when I com
hplained to my mom she told me to get used to it. The second time was when I informed my mother in law that I wanted to go for a hair cut. From that evening on wards every night he puts his fingers on my hair and if his fingers are not stained with coconut oil he beats me like any thing. Any complaint from my Mil gives me atleast ten strokes of the cane. I have really got fed up of this beating.

by Anjali Thu Sep 06 11:26:08 UTC 2012

@Amiste, In which place are you staying? Your post seems to be incomplete. Are you Indian? If you are Indian, which state?

by Vanaja Fri Sep 07 08:17:48 UTC 2012

Hi Anjali,
I am Indian and live in Maharashtra. I am glad at least you have somebody else also living with you and you don't get punished everyday like me.
I just live with my husband. My parents live in US and I had a love marriage. My husband has no parents or relatives. I had tried asking about it once, I was strapped with the wire.
My husband has recently given me permission to use the laptop everyday for 30mins. I have no friends or relatives to chat as I had to break the relations after marriage, I came across this site.
Yest. night, I was not allowed to sleep as I did not cook good food and the salt in the rice was bit more. I was been tied hard with the rope on the window. I also got endless beatings yest. I hate wire punishment as it is worse than a cane.
In the next post, let me complete the post I had made before.
Anjali, where do you live and tell me about yourself. Does your husband punish and beats you everyday? Are you allowed to go out?

by guest Fri Sep 07 14:02:26 UTC 2012

While sleeping in the night, I have been given a room with no beds and carpet. On the wooden floor, he has made a bed of neem leaves, cactus plant and sliced ginger. He has given this order to one delivery guy who gets this bed made everyday. I have no option, but to lie on that bed. I have a camera fitted in the room. He checks in the morning, if I dared while sleeping moved from that bed. I had once on purpose, could not sleep on that bed and moved a bit outside on the floor. Next day, I was been hit by the cactus plant. He made me naked and pushed me on the cactus plant in the garden.

My body is like full of lashes and bruises everywhere. I always find difficult to sit or stand or do anything. But, I have no excuses and I have to obey as he orders. I am always in pain. I could use this laptop after years as he has now given me permission to use it for 30 mins everyday

by guest Fri Sep 07 14:06:38 UTC 2012

Dear Guest,
I've married less than 3 years and from the first day I encountered my husband's strange, negative, skeptic, and above all strict ideas about me and life. From the day of marriage he asked me not to shape my eyebrows or to shampoo my hair!!! I guess even tribal girls in far-fetched villages in the world do shape their eyebrows. when i told him that, he started a series of horrible arguments, and after my eyebrows grew normally, he didnt let me do that again.He always ensure that my oil keeps dripping from my hair and on not doing so he makes me naked and starts caning me. My relatives, family members and friends started making fun of me and the man i chose as husband, and i dont dare facing anyone due to the fact that i'm not living as a married woman would live!! i feel shy being in public and i escape being with my family, relatives and friends. my self-confidence was destroyed badly during married life. I also dont have the right to work, nor the right to continue my studies since my husband thinks it will prevent me doing my wife duties in house. I cannot also go out of house when he is not at home.Slapping my face or pulling my hair is more or less a daily routine. On finding any fault with the household work he pulls me by my hair to our bedroom and gives me a stroke of a wooden scale. For some strange reasons i still love him, but his skepticism, negativism, and his strictness is torturing me .

by Anjali Fri Sep 07 14:36:13 UTC 2012

Hi Anjali,
Sorry, forgot to mention my name earlier, the previous two posts were from me Amiste

I don't know whether I love or hate my husband. I am really scared of him. He is huge, strong and very short tempered. Unfortunately, I live in a bungalow and do not have neighbours. I am sick of all the punishments and caning everyday.
I don't have to oil my hair but my hair most of the times is tied with the rope. The other end of the rope is in his hands.

by Amiste Fri Sep 07 16:18:21 UTC 2012

I really want to protest. Anyone who could guide me on this... As last night, my husband hit me with the belt for sleeping while he was working and he tied me in the garden. I had to be out the whole night. Since, I stay very close to the highway... everyone passing by could see me from their car.. No one dared to stop and help me. I really need help as now I cannot bare this pain anymore.

by Amiste Sun Sep 09 11:49:42 UTC 2012

Love wives canes in front of daughters

by guest Sun Sep 09 16:54:06 UTC 2012

Love women naked for punishment spooky sexy

by guest Sun Sep 09 16:56:31 UTC 2012

:( :( hate weekends... as i feel, I am being punished and beaten alot during weekends...

by Amiste Sat Sep 15 17:27:45 UTC 2012

@amista u should not protest ur husband because he is ur GOD, LORD and everything u should obey him and also asked him for more punishment, he loves u thats why he allows u to have a laptop for 30mins. everyday.u correct urself rather protest him

by rini Tue Sep 18 05:26:45 UTC 2012

mention all the punishment ur hesbend giving u amiste

by zoya Tue Sep 18 05:28:37 UTC 2012

@Amista, You must obey your husband because he is your guardian.If you do any mistake who will correct you except your husband! My husband canes me when I need correction. I never think that it is wrong.Always respect your husband as your guardian and obviously your only GOD.

by Sucharita Thu Sep 20 04:23:07 UTC 2012

how many times u were caned sucharita? do u'r kid know it?

by guest Mon Sep 24 17:09:20 UTC 2012

@ Rini and Sucharita

Do your husband punish and canes you'll everyday? I am grounded in the house for nearly 5 yrs & can only go out for his work. I cannot dare to be late for a min as per his calculated time.

by Amiste Mon Sep 24 17:52:30 UTC 2012

our kid did not see it but she assumes that.

by Sucharita Mon Oct 01 15:21:10 UTC 2012

why and how did u'r husband canes u?

by guest Wed Oct 03 13:27:35 UTC 2012

Last week my hus try 2 give me a suppository i rɛfuse he take me to our bedroon n take ɔff all my clother.he insert a ginger suppɔsitory .it burn like hell then he take the cane and beat mi for 20 time .i started to cry then he told me that he will give me 10 stock ɔf cane in each of my palm .he take my palm and started to beat me at the 5th caning i could not show my palm because it was sufering 2 much .he give the rest of the punishment at the back of my hand .n he also give me two more time for not showing my hand properlly for punishment.he make me bend on his table and give me an enema for half and hour after the enema he give me 15 stock of cane on my bare bottom .my ass started to bleed .finally he give me one more ginger suppository .after the punishment he told me that he has gave me such a punishment just because i have rɛfuse a suppository .now i will never rɛfuse him a suppository.

by guest Sat Oct 06 20:29:00 UTC 2012

rectal suppository of ginger is very dangerous material. I know it. My husband sometime inserts it to me.

by guest Mon Oct 15 13:41:27 UTC 2012

Oh but don't u cry when he insert it?.it does not burn ?. .yesterday my husben have give me one ginger suppository n cane me on my bottom like a small baby. i have cry 4 about two hours.i am still sufer!

by Anjali Thu Oct 18 19:52:15 UTC 2012

Really it was a vary nice experience to receive hard caning on palm and buttocks from strict mistress .

by Yogesh Fri Oct 19 09:47:16 UTC 2012

How much ginger suppository your husbend give you at a time .in what position he give you it?share it please?

by Mary Sat Oct 20 09:05:37 UTC 2012

@AMISTE
did you ever ask your husband why he imposes such cruel punishments on you.?did he ever show you love.? why don't you tell your parents? there is difference between punishment and physical abuse. i strongly believe that , your husband is not suppose to treat you like this. why don't you ask him the reason? i feel very bad for you. seriously.:-(:(:'(

by guest Wed Oct 31 06:58:24 UTC 2012

please this is too bad. do somethin . i'm just waitin to hear from here. please tel your parents. this has to be fixed. this cant continue. if your family doesn't want to help you tel your friends. if i were in your shoes i would file a case against him. honestly.

by guest Wed Oct 31 10:25:44 UTC 2012

@AMITSE
the above comment is in response to youR post amitsE

by guest Wed Oct 31 10:29:26 UTC 2012

I think in all these punishements, I believe Amiste's punishments are real.

I am feeling sorry for you Amiste. I have not seen your posts recently. Hope you are well. Amiste, your husband is very strict. I would pray that everything should be fine.

by guest Tue Nov 06 18:35:54 UTC 2012

Hi everyone. I am 24 years aged & from a Bangali muslim family. According to our religion, husbands position is very high & wives must obey & respect their husbands; that is similar to ur religion(But it is forbidden to obey any type of order which is against to religion & social rule).After entering this site, It is known to me that u consider ur husband as God. With full respect to ur religious view , my asking is; why all of you allow ur husband to physically punish you? My question has a specific reason. That is-as u consider husbands as God, then u must know , all of us many times commit lot of mistakes consciously or unconsciously. Not only this, many of us cant follow the rule of our own religion 100% correctly. Though committing such mistakes God doesnt punish us directly or strictly because the most important thing in God (God of all religion) is forgiveness & patience. Everyone think more logically please. If the God punishes ourselves for all mistakes ,we cant never bear it & our lives would be so difficult . But, when any person does wrong continuously then he or she must give penalty for it but why ur husband punishes u so brutally for such kind of silly mistakes ?Yes when u do wrong continuously & consciously then he can do it(according to ur opinion) but I never support physical punishment for such kind of silly mistakes for which u are punished frequently. In that case, apology is the best form and he must show forgiveness .Dear all , remember; most of the time we find the God in forgiving nature which has a common term-“patita paban” (one who saves the sinner).
This is only my personal opinion. If it hurts anyone I really apologize to him or her.

by Dipabali Fri Nov 16 10:51:47 UTC 2012

I am 32 yrs old and a school teacher. We have a 13 yrs old daughter. We belong in Muslim community. Almost daily I receive caning and other punishment from my husband. Sometime it is done in presence of our daughter. If I come late (it is 6 pm for both me and our daughter), I have to kneel down and stretch my palms for receiving caning. Some time both of us (I and our daughter) receive such punishment. I am so tired and helpless.

by guest Sat Nov 17 16:57:08 UTC 2012

It is really so sympathetic.May be this has no solution.The best option is very common-you can leave him but if u could do this,it is not required to share your case with all of us.So there is another option.That is-You can request or beg your husband to punish yourself atleast privately,not in presence of your daughter because nothing can be humiliating more than receiving punishment in presence of own child.So request him to be merciful to you and say him- Allah is merciful & most of the time we find Him in forgiving nature(As I commented previously)You can also try to be a devoted wife,as this nature can impress him & if you do any wrong,admit it own to ur husband & beg for his forgiveness.

As u are a Muslim,I can give you another suggestion.(but I dont know,wheather u will like this)That is everyday,try to read-"sura Nissa"(Though the length of this sura is a bit long) from the holy Quran because this sura has the power to strengthen the bond between husband & wife(Allah knows the best).With real believe u can also beg Allah to solve your problem & I wish, soon your huband will be merciful to you (If Allah wills)

*you can take a fake name so that we can address u

by Dipabali Sun Nov 18 16:25:40 UTC 2012

your husband is good

by guest Tue Nov 20 20:28:53 UTC 2012

Dear guest,please clarify your comment & please a name.

by Dipabali Wed Nov 21 05:25:35 UTC 2012

Sorry for the mistake.Please take a name.

by Dipabali Wed Nov 21 05:27:48 UTC 2012

@ Dipabali, very sorry I am unable to take a name. I am a Mohammedan.

by guest Fri Nov 30 16:17:52 UTC 2012

Ok friend.It is not necessary.Where do you from?Are you a bangali?

by Dipabali. Sat Dec 01 12:01:23 UTC 2012

Recently i got married and i am finding it difficult to cope with the marital responsibilities
my mother in law regularly complain against me to him he is so annoyed with the complaints yesterday he clamped my nipple with binder clip and hit me with his leather belt it was almost for 20 mins thereafter he made me apologise to my mother in law even if it was not my mistake but my mother in law is still not happy he promised my mother in law that he will discipline me i am really scared he does not listen even a single word against his mother and whenever i try to explain him i was right he pinches me hard and does not listens to me
what should i do he is very strict and seeing his leather belt hung in our bedroom all day makes me more and more nervous and i am not allowed to touch it and even when my husband is not around i always feel under control

by Preeti Tue Dec 04 17:54:52 UTC 2012

Hi pretii.how your hus punish you?explain it? in wht position?did he bare u when he punish you?is it painful? because iam also sufer like u there is one year today till iam mary.

by Nasima Thu Dec 20 19:41:52 UTC 2012

Hi Preeti.It is very pathetic and a hard task also to cope with such kind of mother in law, explained in your message. May be it is wise to convince or impress ur mil before your husband.so, always do those things which can impress her though it is known that she will hardly appreciate you. Always request her to treat you as her daughter not as daughter in law .You can also apologies her without doing any mistake in the absence of your husband for preventing her complaints against you. Try to use those words which will make her happy & try to be more more polite especially when you communicate with her. You can also make her happy by doing household chores because most of the time,this type of works satisfy that type of mil you mentioned in your letter. So,best of luck for you. We hope you can manage her with your excellence very soon. Keep in touch.

by Shabnam Fri Dec 21 06:00:24 UTC 2012

hi I am arpita from calcutta. I am married for last six months and can not cope up with it any more. My husband is out and moment he comes back my mil starts complaining. He gets wild and starts hitting me with his belt. He always drags me around the house by pulling my hair and then takes me to our bedroom. I am asked to strip off and then am beaten brutally. Before leaving for office he will pour half a bottle of Parachute oil on my hair everyday just because my mil does not like dry hair. He also slaps me very frequently and on a regular basis I am left with scars on my face.

by arpita Mon Dec 24 09:45:27 UTC 2012

hey... u dont have to take it try putting the belt on his neck like a dog and make him crawl and bark slap his behind soundly if he does not obey u can also ride him as ur pony and make him do rounds before mil if mil does not see reason do the same thing with her use her as a pet ghodi and make her trot

by amruta chauhan Mon Dec 24 16:34:12 UTC 2012

mother in law as a ghodi wow! would love to ride my nasty mil as ghodi on all fours

by sheetal Tue Dec 25 09:05:30 UTC 2012

Hey Arpita!!!
I have a solution for you...
daily in the morning go upto your mother in law and ask her to oil your hair and you shall see her anger shall reduce and according to me its better to be in oiled hair then getting beaten up daily.

by aninymous Tue Dec 25 13:44:34 UTC 2012

i dont agree. infact i agree with amruta chauhan. the solution is to make ur momi n law ghodi ride her on hands knees slap her fat ass till she trots and obeys ur every order pull her hair as reins or make her wear reins as horsey

by gayatree Tue Dec 25 19:55:49 UTC 2012

i dont agree. infact i agree with amruta chauhan. the solution is to make ur momi n law ghodi ride her on hands knees slap her fat ass till she trots and obeys ur every order pull her hair as reins or make her wear reins as horsey

by gayatree Tue Dec 25 19:55:49 UTC 2012

well said amruta gayatree....... a dominating hubby or MIL deserve this treatment add a OTK spa n k also tale MIL by ear put her on ur knees and just let go....gals

by sushmita Wed Dec 26 03:41:45 UTC 2012

my husband punishes me in different ways and he rarely punishes me bare as most of the punishments are administered before family members only some punishments he give are on bare thighs or butts
yesterday he hit me with old iron wire because his shirt was not press sometimes he hits with wooden hanger usually he hit me wherever he wants and he does not stop even i beg or request him to stop he only stops when he feels that i am properly smacked ...usually it is not brutal or severe... but it is really painful the marks and welts some times stay for weeks ....
Nisima why and how ur husband punishes you ?

by Preeti Wed Dec 26 23:08:17 UTC 2012

@Shabnam..
My MIL is very difficult. Firstly, out of fear i never dare to back answer her. today because food was lil spicy she told my husband i did that intentionally so nobody will like my cooking and i dont have to cook..and my husband made me eat green chilly. she makes me mop and sweep the entire house even we have maid to do that but she says being daughter in law it is my responsibility
she makes me massage her legs. obey her every word. two days back she made me stand the whole day except when i was doing household chores without taking any support, she twists my ear pinches me,
though i am trying my best to please her and obey her she finds my mistake in everything that i do
lets see but yes i will use your suggestion

by Preeti Wed Dec 26 23:23:42 UTC 2012

preeti treat ur hubby and MIL like horses learn from comments above

by sushmita Thu Dec 27 13:18:26 UTC 2012

yeah preeti and shabnam..... u have to tame them sp ank ride like pony make kutta with patta crawl whatever it takes

by sangita Thu Dec 27 17:17:22 UTC 2012

thanks Sushmita and Sangita for suggestions...
but for now i am like a tamed dog who obeys every order from the master

by Preeti Fri Dec 28 16:51:53 UTC 2012

Arpita...are you there?

by aninymous Fri Dec 28 17:19:16 UTC 2012

why should u b like a tame dog? come on.. preeti one slap on ass nd ur hus and mil will obey u like pet animals then just enjoy! be a jockey ride them all over the house ....!

by sangita Fri Dec 28 17:41:28 UTC 2012

I am from England and I have found it very interesting to read this blog. Our cultures are different, but some of us run disciplined households which sound similar to some of your experiences.

My wife is only punished in private. I don't punish the palms of her hands and she does not have to hold her ears.

When she is to be caned my wife goes to our bedroom. She takes off all her clothes and kneels on the bed with her forehead on the bed and her bottom high. I will have already told her how many strokes of the cane she is going to get. She must call out the number of each stroke as it hits her buttocks. The number of strokes will vary from six to as many as about twenty five.

If she needs a really severe punishment she may be caned on the breasts as well as her bottom. In this case she must get off the bed and kneel upright on the floor with her hands clasped behind her head. Again she must call out the number of strokes as they are given.

When the punishment is finished my wife must give me oral sex to thank me for her correction. She does this to completion and swallows the product.

After punishment and her thanks we will usually kiss and cuddle. I let her know how much I love her and we may make love.

This works very well in our marriage.

by AlphaBeatHer Tue Jan 01 16:42:39 UTC 2013

oh so you are one of those MCP wimps who like to assault women when they should be worshiped ... as anruta chauhan says you should be spa nked by your wife and ridden on all fours like a pony then you will forget your aggression and be a loving husband in true sense

by manju Wed Jan 02 04:04:08 UTC 2013

My mother in law thinks that ear twisting is a nice way to improve my memory. One day when my mother was visiting us, I had prepared tea but forgot to add sugar. She pulled my ears in front of my mother, and told her "your daughter is very careless, I have to pull her ears to make her remember things". My mother also agreed with her. It was very shameful. I am caned both by my husband and mother in law, but there is a single cane at house. I often need to ask for the cane. Yesterday, I had to go to my husband and tell him "please give me the cane, mother wants to cane me". Also the reverse happens when I have to get the cane from my mother in law when my husband asks for it. Both of them punish me in the hall. One day my husband made me naked murgi in front of my mother in law. It was very shameful when she asked why don't I shave my pubic hair.

by debjani Thu Jan 03 04:09:30 UTC 2013

Debjani,your story is so humiliating.by the by,is or was your motherinlaw received punishment from your fatherinlaw?

You can request or beg your husband punish you but not in public or not infront of your motherinlaw.That is too much insulting also.

by Shabnam Thu Jan 03 09:49:57 UTC 2013

Hi pretti are you there?whats about you?wish you all the best for the new year.

by Shabnam Thu Jan 03 09:56:25 UTC 2013

Shabnam, my father in law does not punish mother in law generally. In last one year, I saw her getting just one slap. But my father in law also slapped her in front of me and my husband, at the dinner table. I have requested my husband to punish me in bedroom, but he says there is no shame if I am punished in front of family members.

by debjani Thu Jan 03 10:46:34 UTC 2013

shabnam and debjani pl shed slavish mentality pick up a chabuk and as amruta and others have adviced climb on your husband and mil ride them on all fours turn them into ur docile pets

by anjali Fri Jan 04 05:06:13 UTC 2013

shabnam and debjani pl shed slavish mentality pick up a chabuk and as amruta and others have adviced climb on your husband and mil ride them on all fours turn them into ur docile pets

by anjali Fri Jan 04 05:06:13 UTC 2013

Anjali, when it comes to arranged marriage, every girl looks for a boy who's more educated, taller, and earns more than her. In short, she looks for a superior guy. And the superior person has every right to control the inferior person after marriage.

by debjani Fri Jan 04 06:27:44 UTC 2013

god! eeekkk! debjani a guy who touches a woman with anger is not superior. he is an animal and deserves to be treated as one. now pl pick up a chabuk say giddyup ur hubby may enjoy being ur horsy!

by anjali Fri Jan 04 08:46:09 UTC 2013

Anjali,I am fully agreed with you & Amrutas view point but you have to consider the reality also which you have commented “slavish mentality”. That’s obviously not true. You & Amruta is hundred percent correct but you have to keep in mind the other factors also. Such as- economic , social and psychological factors. Consider the first one. If she could pick up “chabuks” then why it is necessary to share her sufferings with others via this site? The actual suggestion is raising voice against all her family members (her husband, mother inlaw & also who are involved) , kick & break the chain of abused life by leaving those members but remember, In many cases, if they protest against their abusive members of the inlaws, most of the time her sufferings increases & mostly the girls are not financially independent so that they can leave her husband.
So, if anyone is educated enough to find a job for securing her life, she is supposed not to bear the sufferings anymore & she must leave those with no confusion but as a girl or women you must know that most of the time our girls are not financially stable and then if they leave or divorce their husbands, they face an uncertain future. In this case do you suggest to protest against her husbands or is it a wise suggestion to divorce him or being divorced by husband ; who are not financially stable? In this case, being abused more for raising voice against husband the whole life though she cant leave her husband for financial instability or handling the matter with some initiatives which can minimize her sufferings to lead a normal life, which suggestion seems better? Think logically please.

Then consider the social facts. Your name indicates that you are from India most probably. Then you must know the conservative social system of india Though it is now 2013 and a huge number of women are engaging in new work force, still the “single mother system” or a divorced women is treated in many cases as “ problematic” even the women divorced the husband for abusing her. Anjali, don’t mind, I am a south Asian girl from Bangladesh & the view is similar also in my country as you know culturally both of our countries have many positive similarities as well as there are some negative similarities also. In my country, many wives from the upper class are being abused & even some times the wife is financially stable also but why they didn’t raise their voice against the situation? (I m sure you also know such type of similar cases) . In most of these cases social facts are the main obstacles , I personally viewed many cases where a woman even sometimes doesn't get support from her own family in case of being abused just for the conservative social system. In that case she is suggested- “ adjust with your husband as you are the wife it is your own responsibility …..bla bla bla’’ though I think the condition is much better than previous time because recently the most pathetic case took place in New Delhi & in which way all of your nations are supporting the victims family and have raised your voice for the proper justice that is really praise worthy. Thanks to all of your nation for giving side the women in such a proper way.

Then consider the last fact- psychological fact. As I am a Muslim, after entering this site it is known to me that husband is considered as God to many of you. (with full respect to your religion) . Please don’t take it personally & read some previous cases then it will be clear to you. In fact I have known also from this site that many women believe that husband has the authority to punish his wife physically which surprised me a lot. In this site, one person has stated that probably 60 percent of women in his region is caned and abused by his husband which is very normal to them. Not only this, consider the case of “DEBJANI” who believes that a superior person has

by Shabnam Mon Jan 07 15:34:18 UTC 2013

sorry for diccontinuation.Debjani belives that a superior person has the right to punish he physically -which I never support & not only this,in this site in one case "pada puja" of husband is also suggested for preventing being abused by husband.Can you believe?dear anjali, in this case; the more you, me & we raise our voice against domestic violation, we cant affect their core beliefs.So,I suggested this only considering the facts I have mentoned earlier.So dont underestimate my thinkings as-Slavish.

I personally encourage your(you,Gyatri,Smruta) rebelling voice against domestic violation(which is considered violation to us but remember there are others who consider it the "right of master or husband").Remember your suggestion will be effective that day,when the women can overcome all the obstacles mentioned in above.

by Shabnam Mon Jan 07 15:56:53 UTC 2013

Very well said Shabnam. Some more points can be added to your explanation to strengthen the analysis about reality.

by Vinutha Mon Jan 07 19:01:01 UTC 2013

Very well said Shabnam. Some more points can be added to your explanation to strengthen the analysis about reality.

by Vinutha Mon Jan 07 19:01:15 UTC 2013

your comments miss the real issue shabnam. i will respond in detail later on. but pl note that nothing is more imp than preserving dignity. and why are u assuming that punishing your husband will make you a destitute? as i said he will respect you more and be your willing pet slave at least in the privacy of bed room just try and give me the feed back make him giddyup!

by anjali Tue Jan 08 02:58:24 UTC 2013

your comments miss the real issue shabnam. i will respond in detail later on. but pl note that nothing is more imp than preserving dignity. and why are u assuming that punishing your husband will make you a destitute? as i said he will respect you more and be your willing pet slave at least in the privacy of bed room just try and give me the feed back make him giddyup!

by anjali Tue Jan 08 02:58:25 UTC 2013

Husband and wife should not be slaves of one another. The relationship should be based on trust and respect. I am not a slave to my husband, neither do I expect him to my slave either.

by debjani Tue Jan 08 04:29:39 UTC 2013

You are absolutely correct Debjani.The relationship between husband and wife must be based on trust,love and respect each other.

by Shabnam Tue Jan 08 06:23:20 UTC 2013

well well .....by your comments are you promoting mutual respect or a slavish and subservient relationship...shabnam and debjani stop being a hypocrite.Anjali and others are right.since shabnam you have adviced debjani to beg her husband to punish her in private i have no doubt that ur either a mental case or a male wimp writing with a female name. pl keep ur trap shut and let women emancipation be the mantra. i have had enough of ur sickning sermons. giddyup as anjali wouls say or i will trace you and make you my ghodi and ride you all over the town. giddyup!

by tabassum Tue Jan 08 16:13:44 UTC 2013

If my husband making me a horse and doing giddyup is wrong, then me doing the same to him is wrong as well. I should not repeat the mistakes of the past in the name of emancipation and empowerment. I definitely do not consider myself to be a slave within my house. Different people in the house have different responsibilities, same holds true for every office as well.

by debjani Tue Jan 08 16:41:22 UTC 2013

god! you are caned... punished your mom in law is punished by her husband your husband says nothing wrong in being punished in front of family members! and u say u r not a slave! ARE U sick DEBJANI? I MEAN NOTHING WRONG IN ACCEPTING that ur a mentally challenged person and to seek treatment

by tabassum Tue Jan 08 16:52:11 UTC 2013

I feel we are losing our focus. The target was not to do a check of my mental health. If it pleases all of you, I can accept that I am a mentally challenged person. Best of luck!

by debjani Tue Jan 08 16:55:06 UTC 2013

@Debjani, don't bother about the comments of people who just do it for fun. They are just playing around. Ignoring them is the best option. more than 90% married women accept punishment from their husbands in India (Indian sub continent). Additional 9% get the punishments irrespective of their acceptance. So, 99% women get punishments from their husbands in India (Indian Sub Continent). This is confirmed in appropriate surveys.

by guest Tue Jan 08 20:40:50 UTC 2013

I thought I'll not comment more on this topic, but I feel that many people do not know the simple difference between inequality and slavery. I think there are many married women commenting here, so I will give some examples related to married life.

In many families in North India, the husband calls the wife "tu" and the wife calls the husband "aap". The reverse never happens.

On many occasions like Karva Chauth, the wife touches the feet of the husband and takes his blessings. The husband never touches wife's feet.

In many families, there is a difference in providing oral sex. The wife is required to provide oral sex to husband regularly. The husband provides oral sex to wife very rarely.

We still live in a society where father is the head of the family. The truth is that father and mother, or husband and wife do not enjoy the same status in the family. But this is not same as slavery.

by debjani Wed Jan 09 06:28:12 UTC 2013

debjani ji ,
how your husband punish you and explain you pain and feelings ,
are you have fear from you husband ?
have you any time mood to punish your husband with cane

by suman Wed Jan 09 08:58:42 UTC 2013

Suman, Of course I do not like to be punished, but I do not have any anger against my husband when he punishes me. I think that as a guardian, he has the right and responsibility to point my mistakes and correct them. I do not fear my husband, I love him very much, and I can never dream of raising a hand to my husband. My punishments are less painful and more humiliating. Mainly light caning or punishments like murgi and kneel down. Even when he slaps my face or pulls my hair, he does not cause any injury.

by debjani Wed Jan 09 09:29:23 UTC 2013

suman i think debjani is either a male using a fake name or a lunatic or sick or mal adjusted woman . let her be. i think punishment should be bilateral and mutual. and yes i love tu make my hubby a murga or a ghoda when he over drinks. love to tame him.

by arundatii Wed Jan 09 17:03:57 UTC 2013

@Debjani, Once again I request you to ignore all bad comments against your posts. It is not worth wasting time to reply them. I am the same person posted as 'guest' on 8th January. Henceforth I will use a name for proper identification. I will add some more clarifications for your recent post.

1. You mentioned about the difference between a husband addressing his wife and vice-versa. It is not only in North India. Even in South India the same practice is prevailing. Husband calls the wife in singular and wife calls husband in plural as a mark of respect. Added to this, husband calls his wife by name but wife is not allowed to call husband by name. In fact no elder person is called by name. All Elders are addressed by relation as a mark of respect.

2. You mentioned about wife touching the feet of husband in festivals like Karva Chauth. In South India too, there are festivals similar to Karva Chauth (different festivals in different regions or states). During those festivals, wife worships the husband by washing his feet etc. in maximum number of families. It is not just touching the feet. In large number of families, wife worships husband in marriage day also. Touching husband's feet or falling to husband's feet is done by most wives everyday in maximum families. More information on this is available in other websites. If anyone is interested to know more about this, I can provide the URLs.

In many countries other than India also, this practice of worshiping husband is practiced.

Keep posting here. If you are interested, we can exchange more information by mail also.

by YN Wed Jan 09 18:56:45 UTC 2013

suman please ignore the relentless and pathetic whinnying of these so called females. any sane person understands the difference between showing respect and getting physically abused as whipped dogs. i agree with others that these are not females commenting but some wimp males using fake female names. or of course some deranged insecure and ignorant females who are so mentally challenged that they do not realize the harm which they are causing by such retrograde and moron like comments.

by yashodhara nimje nagpur Thu Jan 10 00:24:36 UTC 2013

Hi,

by Radha Thu Jan 10 04:43:47 UTC 2013

i am living in acanada,after 5 years i came to india,my brother and his wife lives in mumbai,they also come to meet me.one day i was sleeping in room and i have heard a counting 1..2..3.....in painful voice from his room,i waked and see from hole in his room ,it was shocking for me,my brother was canning his wife,and she was counting her hand was on window bar.next morning i have decided to ask her as i was totally sleepless as i have never seen this type of physical abuse.how my brother can do?when i ask her about that night she just tell me that it is common in our kerala,and you brother is my god,it is his right and my duty to keep his punishment.that day we all were busy so i was not have time to talk her.but after 3 days all the gents along with my husband were going to thailand.i have picked taht tie to talk with my bhabhi and she has explained all the punishment given to her by my brother and also his girlfriend.i cannot belive such things in 21 st century,but till she is telling that it is my duty.

by radha Thu Jan 10 09:26:48 UTC 2013

Hi Tabassum,Dont underestimate me because I advised it considering reality nothing else. As, Debjani mentioned her punishment in this site & you have to remember that instead of leaving him why she is sharing her sufferings with us? May be you didnt see my small analysis,written in January 7,2013.If you read it clearly,you can understand why I advised her to do such kind of thing. You can also watch my appreciation to those rebellelic voices-Anjali,Gyatri.Dear Tabassum,i am also engaged in minor women welfare activities.For that reason,some time I had to do several analysis related to the topic-Women or domestic violaence.You cant believe what I have found in most cases.I did the survey through upperclass to lowerclass.At first,I also advised them to protest all the violation, done by her partner or husband.Most of the time they denied because of-social factors(As I wrote about it previously) I shall not give the explanation.And among them some raised their voice against their husbands & instead of establishing self respect & dignity they are receiving more sufferings by their husbands for taking such kind of step.Many of them cant leave their husbands for not being financialy indepedent.Dear Tabssum,in this cases, they cant or some times they dont want(related to psyhological facts, I have explained this topic in Jan 7,2013 in this site)

And Ihave also commented that the relation between husband & wife must be based on "mutual respect" it doesnt mean slavery & remember I think also that if the husband is dependent on his wife financialy & if he is punished by his wife & doesnt able to leave her then I will suggest the same thing to him though I know many members of this site will not accept this.So dont address me as hypocrite or sick and also try to understand the reality also.

by Shabnam Thu Jan 10 12:50:44 UTC 2013

correction of the message:

Hi Tabassum,Dont underestimate me because I advised it considering reality nothing else. As, Debjani mentioned her punishment in this site & you have to remember that instead of leaving him why she is sharing her sufferings with us? May be you didnt see my small analysis,written in January 7,2013.If you read it clearly,you can understand why I advised her to do such kind of thing. You can also watch my appreciation to those rebellelic voices-Anjali,Gyatri.Dear Tabassum,i am also engaged in minor women welfare activities.For that reason,some time I had to do several analysis related to the topic-Women or domestic violaence.You cant believe what I have found in most cases.I did the survey through upperclass to lowerclass.At first,I also advised them to protest all the violation, done by her partner or husband.Most of the time they denied because of-social factors(As I wrote about it previously so I shall not give the explanation).And among them some raised their voice against their husbands & instead of establishing self respect & dignity they are receiving more sufferings by their husbands for taking such kind of step.Many of them cant leave their husbands for not being financialy indepedent.Dear Tabssum,in this cases, they cant or some times they dont want(related to psyhological facts, I have explained this topic in Jan 7,2013 in this site)to leave her husdbands though she is being punished by their husbands.

And Ihave also commented that the relation between husband & wife must be based on "mutual respect" it doesnt mean slavery & remember I think also that if the husband is dependent on his wife financialy & if he is punished by his wife & doesnt able to leave her then I will suggest the same thing to him though I know many members of this site will not accept this.So dont address me as hypocrite or sick and also try to understand the reality also.

by Shabnam Thu Jan 10 12:57:31 UTC 2013

@ Debjani, my experience is similar to you. I am a house wife and I did marriage 6 month ago. I am not allowed to go outside our house for job. I am staying with my husband and MIL. I am severally punished for even minor mistakes. Caning, sits ups with holding ears, kneel down, standing on one leg with holding ears, face slapping etc are frequently used on me by my husband and MIL. I am not allowed to serve internet also. Only today my husband and MIL have left for our relative’s house so I am free for today. One day my husband made me completely naked in front of my MIL and he caned me then made me kneel down. I thought I would be die when my MIL told me why I did not clean my pubic hair. She ordered me to remove all body hair (including pubic and under arm) within one day. Next day she made me again naked and saw whether I removed my pubic hair. After that day at least once in a month she makes me naked and inspects my pubic and under arm hair whether these are completely removed.

by a house wife Sat Jan 12 04:50:54 UTC 2013

i married 3 years ago. my hubby asked me to be murgi and slapped my behind hard cause i over spent. then he gambled on diwali day and lost a lot. so i told him it is his turn to be punished. i took his ear made him murga and made him say cuckdoo coo..... i then took him on knees and slapped his behind hard. mark my words house wife you have to make a beginning. all hubbies fall in line. most also love the punishment

by also a housewife Sat Jan 12 09:20:25 UTC 2013

Dear housewife, Mother in law makes you naked and inspects your pubic hair? She might be having lesbian tendencies. Does she touch your body also, or asks you detailed questions about your sex life? I have heard of women like these.

by debjani Sun Jan 13 08:27:38 UTC 2013

u see debjani what do u do to such mil? span k ride what would u suggest?

by guest Thu Jan 17 07:35:47 UTC 2013

why are all pain loving sub missives silent? do they agree such mil should b whipped and ridden like a mare on all fours?

by guest Sat Jan 19 10:10:27 UTC 2013

@ debjani, this types of MIL are not lesbian. Actually they want use their SIL like a toy or a small kid.

by rita Sat Jan 19 15:25:42 UTC 2013

I think they have sick mentality because a person with sound mind cant never do such kind of humiliating work with anybody.Debjani, dont tolerate this type of sick activity of your mil & raise your voice against this.

by Shabnam Sun Jan 20 16:52:17 UTC 2013

shabnam latton ke bhut baaton se nahi mante... what is needed is action not words.... now do u agree that such MIL should b taken by ear span ked and made to trot ?

by amruta chauhan Sun Jan 20 23:57:28 UTC 2013

You are correct Amruta but can u believe a normal person like Debjani submits herself to her motherinlaw inspection? How it is possible, I cant understand.I think Debjani must kick ahd throw such type of horrible family members.

by Shabnam Tue Jan 22 05:20:22 UTC 2013

Who says I submit to my mother in law for inspection? It was the "a house wife" who said so. People should not get new ideas every day

by debjani Thu Jan 24 17:36:51 UTC 2013

I am newly married girl.First night my husband told me about domestic discipline but I Did not understand what he is saying.after three nights of my marriage we both went to our mother in law's house on forth day .My mother in law asked me to come to puja madir & my mother in set some rules which should be followed in my dailylife for example
1.DAILY DAY EARLY MORNING & NIGHT BEFORE SLEEP I HAVE TO TOUCH MY HUSBAND'S FEET & TAKE BLESSINGS
2.EVERY DAY EARLY MORNING & NIGHT BEFORE SLEEP I HAVE TO TOUCH MY MANGALSUTRA TO MY EYES.
3.I HAVE TO DO REGULAR PUJA.
4.MAKING FOOD FOR ENTIRE FAMILY
My mother in law also told me that I should be always live under my husband's rules & regulations otherwise i will get severe punishments from my husband.that morning my husband called me to our bedroom & asked me to remove all my cloths and ordered me stand naked in our Room.I feel shy & i didn't accepted.my husband shouted then i am feared & removed my all cloths.My husband said from today onwards that he will make to live under the domestic discipline.He explained me & he brought a large two and half feet cane & started beating me .i cried very loud but no one came to save me.after fifteen minutes he stop beating & asked me to kneel down for one hour & he told me this is called as introduction round of domestic discipline and from today onwards this you will get regular punishments & I will set some rules for you .If cross the rules you will be additionally punished for the mistakes.From that onwards still now 3 years i am getting regular caning punishments .but now I came to know that he is punishing me only to keep me under control & discipline .After marriage all my relatives told me that I am doing all my household works very well & with obedience.Now I feel so happy for the training given to me from my husband & my mother in law.I advise all our indian ladies to just ask your husband to keep you under domestic discipline .all details will be available on website.surely you enjoy your married life.

by radha Fri Jan 25 13:02:48 UTC 2013

I am newly married girl.First night my husband told me about domestic discipline but I Did not understand what he is saying.after three nights of my marriage we both went to our mother in law's house on forth day .My mother in law asked me to come to puja madir & my mother in set some rules which should be followed in my dailylife for example
1.DAILY DAY EARLY MORNING & NIGHT BEFORE SLEEP I HAVE TO TOUCH MY HUSBAND'S FEET & TAKE BLESSINGS
2.EVERY DAY EARLY MORNING & NIGHT BEFORE SLEEP I HAVE TO TOUCH MY MANGALSUTRA TO MY EYES.
3.I HAVE TO DO REGULAR PUJA.
4.MAKING FOOD FOR ENTIRE FAMILY
My mother in law also told me that I should be always live under my husband's rules & regulations otherwise i will get severe punishments from my husband.that morning my husband called me to our bedroom & asked me to remove all my cloths and ordered me stand naked in our Room.I feel shy & i didn't accepted.my husband shouted then i am feared & removed my all cloths.My husband said from today onwards that he will make to live under the domestic discipline.He explained me & he brought a large two and half feet cane & started beating me .i cried very loud but no one came to save me.after fifteen minutes he stop beating & asked me to kneel down for one hour & he told me this is called as introduction round of domestic discipline and from today onwards this you will get regular punishments & I will set some rules for you .If cross the rules you will be additionally punished for the mistakes.From that onwards still now 3 years i am getting regular caning punishments .but now I came to know that he is punishing me only to keep me under control & discipline .After marriage all my relatives told me that I am doing all my household works very well & with obedience.Now I feel so happy for the training given to me from my husband & my mother in law.I advise all our indian ladies to just ask your husband to keep you under domestic discipline .all details will be available on website.surely you enjoy your married life.

by radha Fri Jan 25 13:02:48 UTC 2013

I am newly married girl.First night my husband told me about domestic discipline but I Did not understand what he is saying.after three nights of my marriage we both went to our mother in law's house on forth day .My mother in law asked me to come to puja madir & my mother in set some rules which should be followed in my dailylife for example
1.DAILY DAY EARLY MORNING & NIGHT BEFORE SLEEP I HAVE TO TOUCH MY HUSBAND'S FEET & TAKE BLESSINGS
2.EVERY DAY EARLY MORNING & NIGHT BEFORE SLEEP I HAVE TO TOUCH MY MANGALSUTRA TO MY EYES.
3.I HAVE TO DO REGULAR PUJA.
4.MAKING FOOD FOR ENTIRE FAMILY
My mother in law also told me that I should be always live under my husband's rules & regulations otherwise i will get severe punishments from my husband.that morning my husband called me to our bedroom & asked me to remove all my cloths and ordered me stand naked in our Room.I feel shy & i didn't accepted.my husband shouted then i am feared & removed my all cloths.My husband said from today onwards that he will make to live under the domestic discipline.He explained me & he brought a large two and half feet cane & started beating me .i cried very loud but no one came to save me.after fifteen minutes he stop beating & asked me to kneel down for one hour & he told me this is called as introduction round of domestic discipline and from today onwards this you will get regular punishments & I will set some rules for you .If cross the rules you will be additionally punished for the mistakes.From that onwards still now 3 years i am getting regular caning punishments .but now I came to know that he is punishing me only to keep me under control & discipline .After marriage all my relatives told me that I am doing all my household works very well & with obedience.Now I feel so happy for the training given to me from my husband & my mother in law.I advise all our indian ladies to just ask your husband to keep you under domestic discipline .all details will be available on website.surely you enjoy your married life.

by radha Fri Jan 25 13:02:48 UTC 2013

I am newly married girl.First night my husband told me about domestic discipline but I Did not understand what he is saying.after three nights of my marriage we both went to our mother in law's house on forth day .My mother in law asked me to come to puja madir & my mother in set some rules which should be followed in my dailylife for example
1.DAILY DAY EARLY MORNING & NIGHT BEFORE SLEEP I HAVE TO TOUCH MY HUSBAND'S FEET & TAKE BLESSINGS
2.EVERY DAY EARLY MORNING & NIGHT BEFORE SLEEP I HAVE TO TOUCH MY MANGALSUTRA TO MY EYES.
3.I HAVE TO DO REGULAR PUJA.
4.MAKING FOOD FOR ENTIRE FAMILY
My mother in law also told me that I should be always live under my husband's rules & regulations otherwise i will get severe punishments from my husband.that morning my husband called me to our bedroom & asked me to remove all my cloths and ordered me stand naked in our Room.I feel shy & i didn't accepted.my husband shouted then i am feared & removed my all cloths.My husband said from today onwards that he will make to live under the domestic discipline.He explained me & he brought a large two and half feet cane & started beating me .i cried very loud but no one came to save me.after fifteen minutes he stop beating & asked me to kneel down for one hour & he told me this is called as introduction round of domestic discipline and from today onwards this you will get regular punishments & I will set some rules for you .If cross the rules you will be additionally punished for the mistakes.From that onwards still now 3 years i am getting regular caning punishments .but now I came to know that he is punishing me only to keep me under control & discipline .After marriage all my relatives told me that I am doing all my household works very well & with obedience.Now I feel so happy for the training given to me from my husband & my mother in law.I advise all our indian ladies to just ask your husband to keep you under domestic discipline .all details will be available on website.surely you enjoy your married life.

by radha Fri Jan 25 13:02:48 UTC 2013

I am newly married girl.First night my husband told me about domestic discipline but I Did not understand what he is saying.after three nights of my marriage we both went to our mother in law's house on forth day .My mother in law asked me to come to puja madir & my mother in set some rules which should be followed in my dailylife for example
1.DAILY DAY EARLY MORNING & NIGHT BEFORE SLEEP I HAVE TO TOUCH MY HUSBAND'S FEET & TAKE BLESSINGS
2.EVERY DAY EARLY MORNING & NIGHT BEFORE SLEEP I HAVE TO TOUCH MY MANGALSUTRA TO MY EYES.
3.I HAVE TO DO REGULAR PUJA.
4.MAKING FOOD FOR ENTIRE FAMILY
My mother in law also told me that I should be always live under my husband's rules & regulations otherwise i will get severe punishments from my husband.that morning my husband called me to our bedroom & asked me to remove all my cloths and ordered me stand naked in our Room.I feel shy & i didn't accepted.my husband shouted then i am feared & removed my all cloths.My husband said from today onwards that he will make to live under the domestic discipline.He explained me & he brought a large two and half feet cane & started beating me .i cried very loud but no one came to save me.after fifteen minutes he stop beating & asked me to kneel down for one hour & he told me this is called as introduction round of domestic discipline and from today onwards this you will get regular punishments & I will set some rules for you .If cross the rules you will be additionally punished for the mistakes.From that onwards still now 3 years i am getting regular caning punishments .but now I came to know that he is punishing me only to keep me under control & discipline .After marriage all my relatives told me that I am doing all my household works very well & with obedience.Now I feel so happy for the training given to me from my husband & my mother in law.I advise all our indian ladies to just ask your husband to keep you under domestic discipline .all details will be available on website.surely you enjoy your married life.

by radha Fri Jan 25 13:02:48 UTC 2013

I am newly married girl.First night my husband told me about domestic discipline but I Did not understand what he is saying.after three nights of my marriage we both went to our mother in law's house on forth day .My mother in law asked me to come to puja madir & my mother in set some rules which should be followed in my dailylife for example
1.DAILY DAY EARLY MORNING & NIGHT BEFORE SLEEP I HAVE TO TOUCH MY HUSBAND'S FEET & TAKE BLESSINGS
2.EVERY DAY EARLY MORNING & NIGHT BEFORE SLEEP I HAVE TO TOUCH MY MANGALSUTRA TO MY EYES.
3.I HAVE TO DO REGULAR PUJA.
4.MAKING FOOD FOR ENTIRE FAMILY
My mother in law also told me that I should be always live under my husband's rules & regulations otherwise i will get severe punishments from my husband.that morning my husband called me to our bedroom & asked me to remove all my cloths and ordered me stand naked in our Room.I feel shy & i didn't accepted.my husband shouted then i am feared & removed my all cloths.My husband said from today onwards that he will make to live under the domestic discipline.He explained me & he brought a large two and half feet cane & started beating me .i cried very loud but no one came to save me.after fifteen minutes he stop beating & asked me to kneel down for one hour & he told me this is called as introduction round of domestic discipline and from today onwards this you will get regular punishments & I will set some rules for you .If cross the rules you will be additionally punished for the mistakes.From that onwards still now 3 years i am getting regular caning punishments .but now I came to know that he is punishing me only to keep me under control & discipline .After marriage all my relatives told me that I am doing all my household works very well & with obedience.Now I feel so happy for the training given to me from my husband & my mother in law.I advise all our indian ladies to just ask your husband to keep you under domestic discipline .all details will be available on website.surely you enjoy your married life.

by radha Fri Jan 25 13:02:51 UTC 2013

I am newly married girl.First night my husband told me about domestic discipline but I Did not understand what he is saying.after three nights of my marriage we both went to our mother in law's house on forth day .My mother in law asked me to come to puja madir & my mother in set some rules which should be followed in my dailylife for example
1.DAILY DAY EARLY MORNING & NIGHT BEFORE SLEEP I HAVE TO TOUCH MY HUSBAND'S FEET & TAKE BLESSINGS
2.EVERY DAY EARLY MORNING & NIGHT BEFORE SLEEP I HAVE TO TOUCH MY MANGALSUTRA TO MY EYES.
3.I HAVE TO DO REGULAR PUJA.
4.MAKING FOOD FOR ENTIRE FAMILY
My mother in law also told me that I should be always live under my husband's rules & regulations otherwise i will get severe punishments from my husband.that morning my husband called me to our bedroom & asked me to remove all my cloths and ordered me stand naked in our Room.I feel shy & i didn't accepted.my husband shouted then i am feared & removed my all cloths.My husband said from today onwards that he will make to live under the domestic discipline.He explained me & he brought a large two and half feet cane & started beating me .i cried very loud but no one came to save me.after fifteen minutes he stop beating & asked me to kneel down for one hour & he told me this is called as introduction round of domestic discipline and from today onwards this you will get regular punishments & I will set some rules for you .If cross the rules you will be additionally punished for the mistakes.From that onwards still now 3 years i am getting regular caning punishments .but now I came to know that he is punishing me only to keep me under control & discipline .After marriage all my relatives told me that I am doing all my household works very well & with obedience.Now I feel so happy for the training given to me from my husband & my mother in law.I advise all our indian ladies to just ask your husband to keep you under domestic discipline .all details will be available on website.surely you enjoy your married life.

by radha Fri Jan 25 13:02:51 UTC 2013

I am newly married girl.First night my husband told me about domestic discipline but I Did not understand what he is saying.after three nights of my marriage we both went to our mother in law's house on forth day .My mother in law asked me to come to puja madir & my mother in set some rules which should be followed in my dailylife for example
1.DAILY DAY EARLY MORNING & NIGHT BEFORE SLEEP I HAVE TO TOUCH MY HUSBAND'S FEET & TAKE BLESSINGS
2.EVERY DAY EARLY MORNING & NIGHT BEFORE SLEEP I HAVE TO TOUCH MY MANGALSUTRA TO MY EYES.
3.I HAVE TO DO REGULAR PUJA.
4.MAKING FOOD FOR ENTIRE FAMILY
My mother in law also told me that I should be always live under my husband's rules & regulations otherwise i will get severe punishments from my husband.that morning my husband called me to our bedroom & asked me to remove all my cloths and ordered me stand naked in our Room.I feel shy & i didn't accepted.my husband shouted then i am feared & removed my all cloths.My husband said from today onwards that he will make to live under the domestic discipline.He explained me & he brought a large two and half feet cane & started beating me .i cried very loud but no one came to save me.after fifteen minutes he stop beating & asked me to kneel down for one hour & he told me this is called as introduction round of domestic discipline and from today onwards this you will get regular punishments & I will set some rules for you .If cross the rules you will be additionally punished for the mistakes.From that onwards still now 3 years i am getting regular caning punishments .but now I came to know that he is punishing me only to keep me under control & discipline .After marriage all my relatives told me that I am doing all my household works very well & with obedience.Now I feel so happy for the training given to me from my husband & my mother in law.I advise all our indian ladies to just ask your husband to keep you under domestic discipline .all details will be available on website.surely you enjoy your married life.

by radha Fri Jan 25 13:02:56 UTC 2013

I am newly married girl.First night my husband told me about domestic discipline but I Did not understand what he is saying.after three nights of my marriage we both went to our mother in law's house on forth day .My mother in law asked me to come to puja madir & my mother in set some rules which should be followed in my dailylife for example
1.DAILY DAY EARLY MORNING & NIGHT BEFORE SLEEP I HAVE TO TOUCH MY HUSBAND'S FEET & TAKE BLESSINGS
2.EVERY DAY EARLY MORNING & NIGHT BEFORE SLEEP I HAVE TO TOUCH MY MANGALSUTRA TO MY EYES.
3.I HAVE TO DO REGULAR PUJA.
4.MAKING FOOD FOR ENTIRE FAMILY
My mother in law also told me that I should be always live under my husband's rules & regulations otherwise i will get severe punishments from my husband.that morning my husband called me to our bedroom & asked me to remove all my cloths and ordered me stand naked in our Room.I feel shy & i didn't accepted.my husband shouted then i am feared & removed my all cloths.My husband said from today onwards that he will make to live under the domestic discipline.He explained me & he brought a large two and half feet cane & started beating me .i cried very loud but no one came to save me.after fifteen minutes he stop beating & asked me to kneel down for one hour & he told me this is called as introduction round of domestic discipline and from today onwards this you will get regular punishments & I will set some rules for you .If cross the rules you will be additionally punished for the mistakes.From that onwards still now 3 years i am getting regular caning punishments .but now I came to know that he is punishing me only to keep me under control & discipline .After marriage all my relatives told me that I am doing all my household works very well & with obedience.Now I feel so happy for the training given to me from my husband & my mother in law.I advise all our indian ladies to just ask your husband to keep you under domestic discipline .all details will be available on website.surely you enjoy your married life.

by radha Fri Jan 25 13:02:56 UTC 2013

I am newly married girl.First night my husband told me about domestic discipline but I Did not understand what he is saying.after three nights of my marriage we both went to our mother in law's house on forth day .My mother in law asked me to come to puja madir & my mother in set some rules which should be followed in my dailylife for example
1.DAILY DAY EARLY MORNING & NIGHT BEFORE SLEEP I HAVE TO TOUCH MY HUSBAND'S FEET & TAKE BLESSINGS
2.EVERY DAY EARLY MORNING & NIGHT BEFORE SLEEP I HAVE TO TOUCH MY MANGALSUTRA TO MY EYES.
3.I HAVE TO DO REGULAR PUJA.
4.MAKING FOOD FOR ENTIRE FAMILY
My mother in law also told me that I should be always live under my husband's rules & regulations otherwise i will get severe punishments from my husband.that morning my husband called me to our bedroom & asked me to remove all my cloths and ordered me stand naked in our Room.I feel shy & i didn't accepted.my husband shouted then i am feared & removed my all cloths.My husband said from today onwards that he will make to live under the domestic discipline.He explained me & he brought a large two and half feet cane & started beating me .i cried very loud but no one came to save me.after fifteen minutes he stop beating & asked me to kneel down for one hour & he told me this is called as introduction round of domestic discipline and from today onwards this you will get regular punishments & I will set some rules for you .If cross the rules you will be additionally punished for the mistakes.From that onwards still now 3 years i am getting regular caning punishments .but now I came to know that he is punishing me only to keep me under control & discipline .After marriage all my relatives told me that I am doing all my household works very well & with obedience.Now I feel so happy for the training given to me from my husband & my mother in law.I advise all our indian ladies to just ask your husband to keep you under domestic discipline .all details will be available on website.surely you enjoy your married life.

by radha Fri Jan 25 13:02:56 UTC 2013

I am newly married girl.First night my husband told me about domestic discipline but I Did not understand what he is saying.after three nights of my marriage we both went to our mother in law's house on forth day .My mother in law asked me to come to puja madir & my mother in set some rules which should be followed in my dailylife for example
1.DAILY DAY EARLY MORNING & NIGHT BEFORE SLEEP I HAVE TO TOUCH MY HUSBAND'S FEET & TAKE BLESSINGS
2.EVERY DAY EARLY MORNING & NIGHT BEFORE SLEEP I HAVE TO TOUCH MY MANGALSUTRA TO MY EYES.
3.I HAVE TO DO REGULAR PUJA.
4.MAKING FOOD FOR ENTIRE FAMILY
My mother in law also told me that I should be always live under my husband's rules & regulations otherwise i will get severe punishments from my husband.that morning my husband called me to our bedroom & asked me to remove all my cloths and ordered me stand naked in our Room.I feel shy & i didn't accepted.my husband shouted then i am feared & removed my all cloths.My husband said from today onwards that he will make to live under the domestic discipline.He explained me & he brought a large two and half feet cane & started beating me .i cried very loud but no one came to save me.after fifteen minutes he stop beating & asked me to kneel down for one hour & he told me this is called as introduction round of domestic discipline and from today onwards this you will get regular punishments & I will set some rules for you .If cross the rules you will be additionally punished for the mistakes.From that onwards still now 3 years i am getting regular caning punishments .but now I came to know that he is punishing me only to keep me under control & discipline .After marriage all my relatives told me that I am doing all my household works very well & with obedience.Now I feel so happy for the training given to me from my husband & my mother in law.I advise all our indian ladies to just ask your husband to keep you under domestic discipline .all details will be available on website.surely you enjoy your married life.

by radha Fri Jan 25 13:02:58 UTC 2013

I am newly married girl.First night my husband told me about domestic discipline but I Did not understand what he is saying.after three nights of my marriage we both went to our mother in law's house on forth day .My mother in law asked me to come to puja madir & my mother in set some rules which should be followed in my dailylife for example
1.DAILY DAY EARLY MORNING & NIGHT BEFORE SLEEP I HAVE TO TOUCH MY HUSBAND'S FEET & TAKE BLESSINGS
2.EVERY DAY EARLY MORNING & NIGHT BEFORE SLEEP I HAVE TO TOUCH MY MANGALSUTRA TO MY EYES.
3.I HAVE TO DO REGULAR PUJA.
4.MAKING FOOD FOR ENTIRE FAMILY
My mother in law also told me that I should be always live under my husband's rules & regulations otherwise i will get severe punishments from my husband.that morning my husband called me to our bedroom & asked me to remove all my cloths and ordered me stand naked in our Room.I feel shy & i didn't accepted.my husband shouted then i am feared & removed my all cloths.My husband said from today onwards that he will make to live under the domestic discipline.He explained me & he brought a large two and half feet cane & started beating me .i cried very loud but no one came to save me.after fifteen minutes he stop beating & asked me to kneel down for one hour & he told me this is called as introduction round of domestic discipline and from today onwards this you will get regular punishments & I will set some rules for you .If cross the rules you will be additionally punished for the mistakes.From that onwards still now 3 years i am getting regular caning punishments .but now I came to know that he is punishing me only to keep me under control & discipline .After marriage all my relatives told me that I am doing all my household works very well & with obedience.Now I feel so happy for the training given to me from my husband & my mother in law.I advise all our indian ladies to just ask your husband to keep you under domestic discipline .all details will be available on website.surely you enjoy your married life.

by radha Fri Jan 25 13:02:59 UTC 2013

I am newly married girl.First night my husband told me about domestic discipline but I Did not understand what he is saying.after three nights of my marriage we both went to our mother in law's house on forth day .My mother in law asked me to come to puja madir & my mother in set some rules which should be followed in my dailylife for example
1.DAILY DAY EARLY MORNING & NIGHT BEFORE SLEEP I HAVE TO TOUCH MY HUSBAND'S FEET & TAKE BLESSINGS
2.EVERY DAY EARLY MORNING & NIGHT BEFORE SLEEP I HAVE TO TOUCH MY MANGALSUTRA TO MY EYES.
3.I HAVE TO DO REGULAR PUJA.
4.MAKING FOOD FOR ENTIRE FAMILY
My mother in law also told me that I should be always live under my husband's rules & regulations otherwise i will get severe punishments from my husband.that morning my husband called me to our bedroom & asked me to remove all my cloths and ordered me stand naked in our Room.I feel shy & i didn't accepted.my husband shouted then i am feared & removed my all cloths.My husband said from today onwards that he will make to live under the domestic discipline.He explained me & he brought a large two and half feet cane & started beating me .i cried very loud but no one came to save me.after fifteen minutes he stop beating & asked me to kneel down for one hour & he told me this is called as introduction round of domestic discipline and from today onwards this you will get regular punishments & I will set some rules for you .If cross the rules you will be additionally punished for the mistakes.From that onwards still now 3 years i am getting regular caning punishments .but now I came to know that he is punishing me only to keep me under control & discipline .After marriage all my relatives told me that I am doing all my household works very well & with obedience.Now I feel so happy for the training given to me from my husband & my mother in law.I advise all our indian ladies to just ask your husband to keep you under domestic discipline .all details will be available on website.surely you enjoy your married life.

by radha Fri Jan 25 13:02:59 UTC 2013

yaak! one more mental case!!! not only freak .... perver t too!

by guest Fri Jan 25 16:21:37 UTC 2013

Sorry Debjani,it was a mistake.Instead of "house wife" I mentioned your name and the message is for the "house wife".

by Shabnam Sat Jan 26 03:58:14 UTC 2013

Debjani, hw u allow your husband to make you nude in front of your MIL and your MIL passes comments about your pubic hairs.

by rajan Sun Jan 27 16:16:19 UTC 2013

Rajan, I don't like to disobey my husband. We have discussed this a lot in this thread earlier also. Regarding MIL commenting on my pubic hairs, I can't control that, but it happened only once.

by debjani Sun Jan 27 18:31:48 UTC 2013

It is a tradition in India that wives should touch their husbands’ fee t everyday from the date of wedding. Some time they perform pada puja of their husbands and after washing feet of their husbands they drink that water. But it should not allow to beat wives by husbands.

by jharna Mon Jan 28 16:45:30 UTC 2013

Jharna, I agree. Beating in anger which may injure the wife is very bad. But here we are talking about punishment that does not cause pain, and is pre-planned and carried out in a cool and controlled manner. All this because the husband cares to make his wife a better person, and does not want her to make the same mistakes. This is the similar to how parents punish their children.

by debjani Mon Jan 28 18:38:46 UTC 2013

@ devjani I disagree with u. Parents and husband are not same.

by jharna Tue Jan 29 14:04:18 UTC 2013

Im such a bigest stupid that Im reading that stupid stuff, and I really need 2-3 tight slap

by Muskan Tue Jan 29 14:53:19 UTC 2013

Im a housewife and my husband is a businessman.It is a rule that in our house I should oil my hair daily heavily and should be neatly combed. I have straight long hair.Every morning i oil my hair heavily with Parachute coconut oil and comb before going out of the room . If my husband catches me in dry hair he punishes . He uses cane on my hands publicly - 6 cuts normally. If not oiled heavily he also beats me with a belt in the night ( not in front of any one) normally i get 5 or 6 lashes on back. then i have to bring the oil bottle and pour oil on to my hair till dripping and then comb.
On the second day of our marriage he told me that I am allowed to have dry hairs on Sunday only. First I thought he was joking and one day he saw me in dry hair on a Tuesday and dragged me in the bedroom and used his hand and hairbrush on my bare bottom. Then he emptied the whole bottle on my hairs, it was dripping.
My hairs is always to be oiled and neatly combed and either in a bun or a braid. He does not like loose hair or ponytail.
Every once in a while he will run his fingers over my hairs and if he thinks it is not oiled enough he will apply oil and punish me.I have to attend functions also with oiled hair but he understands and I am not expected to oil my hair heavily or dripping with oil. As long as i am at home it is ok but outside it is embarrassing.Whenever I argue with him him regarding this rule, I am punished heavily

by Paromita Sun Feb 03 07:28:24 UTC 2013

punishment for not oiling your hair your husband is crazy.

by guest Sun Feb 03 13:33:49 UTC 2013

The punishment was for disobeying the husband. Oiling your hair was just an example.

by debjani Mon Feb 04 03:31:39 UTC 2013

I did marriage with a person who is 20 yrs older than me and it is an inter religion marriage. It was a big mistake to me. My parents has closed their doors for me for ever. I have a step daughter of 18 yrs old (my age is 21 yrs). First 6 months there was no problem but after that my husband has started caning and other punishment (kneel down for long time) in presence of my step daughter. I accepted this. But later he has handed over my charge to my step daughter and gave her full authority of me. My step daughter has started caning and making me kneel down like my husband. These were done in presence and absence of my husband and my husband enjoyed that. Then she started to remove my all clothes and punished me then in absence of my husband. I told him but he told my step daughter that she could do anything what she would think. Next day she first removed all my clothes and then caned me very hard and then ordered me to stand in chair position with holding ears. Then she pushed the cane inside my female organs. And caned my butks so hard that I did not take seat for 2 days. My husband did not do nay thing. After that she has started to claim that I have an affair with other man and when I went outside the house after returning she first removed my clothes and then pushed her fingers in side my female organ. She has told that she wants to examine whether I do any wrong. When I see my husband did not do any thing I have left his house and at present I am staying one of my relative’s house. Still my parents are not ready to accept me. I know I have to return my husband’s house very shortly. I do not know what will be happened there. Pl anybody suggest me.

by guest Mon Feb 04 05:17:29 UTC 2013

If you think this is abuse, you should seek divorce

by debjani Mon Feb 04 07:38:35 UTC 2013

wow..are these stories are true ...if yes guest please go to nearest police station they will take you to women shelter and if they refuse to do that fine NGO...since you have posted this you have internet access search for help in the proper forum this is not the right place

by Advocate Mon Feb 04 17:12:04 UTC 2013

hi all
I am new in this forum.I am a strict husband from kannur.
i punished my wife at least once a week with a thick cane.i am dominant and man of the house so she accept the punishments.
when I cane her for her mistakes like arguments or not cleaning house,she need to be count the number of caning she receives.
last night I made 3 red thick welts on her ass.she can't sit properly today.in bed room, she address me "Master".

i am 35 years old and my wife sheela is 30 .

by John Thu Feb 14 05:59:08 UTC 2013

John,
I think you have received the cane on your ass during your younger days. Perhaps your parents and teachers have punished you earlier. Otherwise you would not have punished your wife so severely for minor mistakes.

by Anil Thu Feb 14 08:12:40 UTC 2013

yes, i got a lot of caning from my teachers.my school was strict and I was bit naughty boy.

i started cane sheela when she tried to argue with me or did mistakes.i cane her only at night and in bedroom.always sex after caning.she is enjoying the punishments and a obedient wife now.i have done face slapping too(light) and hard slaps for her ass.she got a milky white ass ,so always love to see red welts in her ass and thighs.

by John Thu Feb 14 16:31:45 UTC 2013

I am a strict husband of Kolkata and strongly believe in caning my wife. We are married for ten years now and she is very obedient and docile. She is punished about once or twice a month. Previously it was around twice a week because she had a bad habit of arguing. I cane her only for major faults which is rare these days. Now she gets slapped because mistakes are minor. My wife is very fair and extremely beautiful. I also have this habit of not tolerating dry hair. She always has her hair heavily oiled and neatly tied. Just yesterday she got five to six slaps because she was watching tv till late night and that too with lightly oiled hair.

by Anirban Sat Feb 16 12:49:51 UTC 2013

I am recently married about five months back and stay with my husband and mother in law. my husband is extremely possessive and control freak like his mother. i received my first punishemnt when we were on our honeymoon for exchanging contact details without his permission with the couple, who were with us he actually hit me with his belt
and he always says "only when i use my belt you get the message?". my mother-in-law never stops him the other day when he was hitting me in our bedroom with doors open she came in and closed the door but did not stop him she only close the door because she was watching her favorite daily soap on TV.
i get punished for every small mistake like leaving washed cloths in washing machine,laundry, messy house, back answer or for anything that they want.

by Preeti Sun Feb 17 16:04:39 UTC 2013

hi preeti,
i am also same as your husband.i am very strict with my wife sheela too.do you husband cane you in the back? once i used leather belt to my wife,she was screaming with pain in the bed room.

do you enjoy punishments?

by John Mon Feb 18 07:44:24 UTC 2013

john did u'r kid know about her mom's caning? particularly red marks on thigh?

by guest Mon Feb 18 11:06:32 UTC 2013

hi i am strict we were married 8 years ago i will punish my wife for her mistake in bed room yester she argue with my mother than i call in bed room catch her ear twist hard slaped her face then told 25 sit ups with holding ear and dnt cry she comlete her sit up then told 20 half sit up then remove her saree catch her long hairs pull hard ,then give murga punishment when she down her butt gave hard cane with stick on her ass she beeged me after 30 min relese her then told never argue ,next 1hr give her kneel down with holding ears sh

by 123 Mon Feb 18 11:56:37 UTC 2013

hi guest,this is john.
i think my daughter knows about it because when she ask me about think cane,i told her its for your mom and thin one for you.i never punish my daughter for not studying or marks in exam but punished for bad behavior.its very thin cane for her and light punishment.
for sheela, i always use the thick cane.her mother known it and never said anything to me.sometimes I put a dog-collar around her neck and she kneel down on the floor like a dog and serve me sexually.

by John Mon Feb 18 15:47:07 UTC 2013

did u twist u'r wife's ear? how does u'r wife faces her daughter after caning or ear twisting?

by guest Tue Feb 19 14:26:16 UTC 2013

did u'r wife wear skirt when she is caned or made kneel down john?

by guest Tue Feb 19 14:30:01 UTC 2013

Hi guest,
yes i do twist her ear for minor mistakes but i prefer pulls her hair and slap her ass with my hands .sometimes daughter hears the caning sound so she knows her mom got nice caning,and wife's face be reddish.they don't talk each other..once daugher saw a red mark in sheels' leg and asked about it, wife replied she fell down.

i asked Sheela to wear a short skirt without panties.after caning she need to kneel down and serve me.

by John Thu Feb 21 01:28:19 UTC 2013

Hi John,
Preeti does not enjoys the punishments.

by shekhar Thu Feb 21 11:00:38 UTC 2013

Hi Shekhar, do you use cane for her back?how is the punishments? any resistance from your wife preeti.

sheela will punish tonight as she broken a glass this morning.

by John Fri Feb 22 06:05:55 UTC 2013

what punishment will u give her? did u'r daughter ever saw her mo in kneeled or getting caned?

by guest Fri Feb 22 07:57:32 UTC 2013

I am a white woman who lived with my Asian boyfriend for nearly five years while we were at the same college in Manchester, he would discipline me regularly when we started to live together. I had not experienced this before and some times this was done in front of two of his cousins and other times in front of an old Asian man who I was never introduced to. It was a shock to start but being watched was a real shock. I can tell you what happened if you want.

by Marrianne Sat Feb 23 21:32:13 UTC 2013

hi john. I am similar to you and even I punish my wife Amrita severely and am extremely strict with her. I generally do not twist her ears. For minor mistakes I slap her on her face or hit her ass with a wooden scale till it is red. Pulling her hair is normal and I do it all the while. Even when she does not answer me at the first time I pull her hair. I personally enjoy it because she has got very long hair and I always ensure it is dripping with coconut oil. For bigger mistakes I cane her bare buttocks with a thick cane or her bare back with a leather belt. I stop only when I want to and in case she resists she gets further beating. However now we are married for 4 years and the punishment has reduced because she is extremely careful and obedient at home. i have a son and he knows a bit about his mothers punishment but has never spoken about it. Last week Amrita got a severe session of caning as she had gone out for a movie in my absence without my permission. After her beating I made her serve me sexually and made her lie down on the floor entirely nude like a dog for the entire night. Paromita I completely agree with your husband and even I will not tolerate Amrita without oiled hair. i pull her hair so hard till few strands are torn but these days she does not give me a chance to complain because her hair is always oiled heavily. I have a particular liking for slapping her cheeks hard as I like to see her with blood red cheeks. i have not hit her in the presence of my son but she has got beatings in front of her friends as well as her brother. These days females have a weird tendency to dress up in short clothes and to colour hair and move around with short and dry hair. Amrita can not think of these.... In fact she has never been allowed to get a haircut apart from trimming the ends only. She is allowed to wear clothes which are conservative and not revealing at all. She uses one bottle Of hair oil every week failing which her ass will bleed at night. On one instance she had even wet her panties bcoz of severe beating.

by Dev Sun Feb 24 09:57:41 UTC 2013

hi john. I am similar to you and even I punish my wife Amrita severely and am extremely strict with her. I generally do not twist her ears. For minor mistakes I slap her on her face or hit her ass with a wooden scale till it is red. Pulling her hair is normal and I do it all the while. Even when she does not answer me at the first time I pull her hair. I personally enjoy it because she has got very long hair and I always ensure it is dripping with coconut oil. For bigger mistakes I cane her bare buttocks with a thick cane or her bare back with a leather belt. I stop only when I want to and in case she resists she gets further beating. However now we are married for 4 years and the punishment has reduced because she is extremely careful and obedient at home. i have a son and he knows a bit about his mothers punishment but has never spoken about it. Last week Amrita got a severe session of caning as she had gone out for a movie in my absence without my permission. After her beating I made her serve me sexually and made her lie down on the floor entirely nude like a dog for the entire night. Paromita I completely agree with your husband and even I will not tolerate Amrita without oiled hair. i pull her hair so hard till few strands are torn but these days she does not give me a chance to complain because her hair is always oiled heavily. I have a particular liking for slapping her cheeks hard as I like to see her with blood red cheeks. i have not hit her in the presence of my son but she has got beatings in front of her friends as well as her brother. These days females have a weird tendency to dress up in short clothes and to colour hair and move around with short and dry hair. Amrita can not think of these.... In fact she has never been allowed to get a haircut apart from trimming the ends only. She is allowed to wear clothes which are conservative and not revealing at all. She uses one bottle Of hair oil every week failing which her ass will bleed at night. On one instance she had even wet her panties bcoz of severe beating.

by Dev Sun Feb 24 09:57:41 UTC 2013

Great to read your post Dev. I am Anirban and have been in this forum earlier. Would be great to hear about the description and duration of your beating sessions. I was particularly happy to see your liking for oiled hair. On noting any mistake first I catch her by her hair and pull her to my bed room. She is expected to become completely nude herself immediately and then I give her shots on her back till it becomes red. She then begs me for mercy and she is at my feet for around five minutes. This is always followed by sex. She also gets severe beatings for not oiling hair bcoz she liked the modern look but now I always see her around in heavily oiled and open hair. She looks exclusive and I love catching and pulling her hair hard bfore having sex. Please keep on posting

by Anirban Sun Feb 24 10:22:32 UTC 2013

All of furious & dominating type of husbands like you should go to doctors for proper treatment beacause you are nothing but a psycho.how can you punish your wives for such kind of small mistakes?If they do against anything to your will, you will punish them? How can you be such cruel to anyone?Try to be merciful & remember forgiveness is virtuous.

by Shubarna Sun Feb 24 12:41:13 UTC 2013

All of furious & dominating type of husbands like you should go to doctors for proper treatment beacause you are nothing but a psycho.how can you punish your wives for such kind of small mistakes?If they do against anything to your will, you will punish them? How can you be such cruel to anyone?Try to be merciful & remember forgiveness is virtuous.

by Shubarna Sun Feb 24 12:41:19 UTC 2013

Iam an English girl and you can read about my experience living with an Asian man that discipline me. I left my account of one such time on the Caning Forum, please let me know what you think and if you have seen this happen to other girls...

by Marianne Sun Feb 24 14:06:27 UTC 2013

marianne, tel us about your experience.

by guest Wed Feb 27 18:16:59 UTC 2013

hi Shubarna,
its called a life style.i am not furious towards my wife or punishing her brutally.the basic idea is i am dominant and she is very sub.we always sex after I punish her.she enjoys my caning bcs she love the pain.she love to be dominated and treated like a randi in bed.this way I and my wife enjoy the domination game.i never punish my wife if I or we are not ready for bed :)
yes,i punish her with cane,belts,whips...i like her bottom red

by Guest Thu Feb 28 03:59:02 UTC 2013

H Marianne, Thanks for telling us your experiences.
i love to hear that your man discipline you and teach you lessons.do you have thick welts on your back?.my wife received caning last night for came home late. 3 tight face slaps and 3 hard caning on her thighs.she jumped with pain while I caned her and promised me never late.I put cane under our pillow.

by Sharma Thu Feb 28 06:36:43 UTC 2013

Dear Marianne,please share your experience with us.

by Shubarna Mon Mar 04 05:25:53 UTC 2013

My wife has received strict discipline since we were first married, 18 years ago. In the early days this was mostly the cane across her buttocks and thighs, 10 - 20 strokes, or more whenever she deserved it.

As she has grown older she has become overweight and her breasts are large and heavy. I decided that her large breasts should also receive the cane.

If she is to be punished now, she must remove all clothing and sit in a heavy wooden armchair, which has straps to hold her in position. She always begs and cries, even though she knows that this will do her no good, and to stop this I gag her. I make a ball with her large, cotton panties and push this into her mouth, sealing it in place with tape. She continues to look at me with frightened eyes but I tape pads over her eyes to prevent her from any attempt to avoid the cane strokes, though the straps hold her well in position in any case.

I then deliver the strokes with firm resolution, suitably hard but taking care that the cane does not draw blood. Soon her breasts will be heavily striped and I ensure she is well punished, but the marks will fade over the next two weeks. Her minimum punishment is 10 strokes (5 to each breast, at least the last delivered hard across the nipple), but I am not afraid to go well beyond that if necessary.

This does not mean that I neglect other areas. She still receives buttock and thigh canings, and if she is neglectful in her sexual duties she risks a caning between her legs, though I apply such punishments infrequently.

She is a dutiful wife and may manage periods of several weeks without a caning, but when punishment is needed, I apply it in ways I consider appropriate for a husband to punish his wife.

by guest Thu Mar 07 22:23:58 UTC 2013

Guest (immediately above), is your wife Indian? Many of our women develop large, heavy breasts and you are so right that they are appropriate for a husband to punish his wife. I wish I was able to watch as you punish her.

Do you give her nipple torment afterwards? Her nipples will be very tender after she has had the cane across then, so you should spend several minutes pulling and twisting them. Then find some metal clamps of the sort that are used to hold sheets of paper together. Make sure they are the large ones and the strongest ones that you can find. Then put them on her nipples. These will be very painful for her, but as she is strapped in position and gagged, she will have to scream as best she can and suffer. Keep them on her for at leat half an hour. Please do this to her.

by Rajesh Sat Mar 09 10:03:33 UTC 2013

hi iam aksh, new to this forum

by guest Tue Mar 12 12:00:06 UTC 2013

MY FIRST, SECOND & THIRD CANING..........!!!!
Me and my husband has been married just for 12 days , we knew each other for over a year, were never friends neither enemies but used to fight laugh hang around with each other and a group of friends , he is very smart, intelligent and sexy ,that girls fall in nine pins , but that doesn't mean i am not good enough i 2 am quite good but i get a ting of jealously when he is so praised everywhere .then we came to know his father and mine were best friends in their childhood and college days and never wanted to part up .but life had different carriers in store for them and now have meet eachother after 35 yrs. and when they came 2 knw we knew eachother they were so eager to have us married as we hve jobs and are of appropiate age , he has girls all around him and even is a good flirter i must say coz he even tried that on me , but my competive attiude and arrogance of wanting to outsmart never me fall ,but he just walking near me makes my heart
makes my heart skip a beat.but in the end i was madly in love with him and agreed to marry him , but for him he says he loves me but wants to prove me wrong that he cannot have me [ coz that wht i always say 2 him becoz attimes i find his hig headed manner so frustrating that, i say thgs like this due 2 our busy sedule in the hosptil. [ coz we r doctors ]infact we make up a preety made for eachother attractive couple [ atleast tht's wht people around us say ] we could'nt afford to have our honeymoon not for more than a week [ anyway my honeymoon was so romantic , that i really never wanted it to end ] but we had to come back ....after coming from my honeymoon i was over the moon , tht i had eyes only for him and nothing around and my rival [ my collegue] started making sneer comments about and told i am a person who is supposed 2 sit home and raise children or atleast provide him with 4 to 5 children and look after them rather than coming here to work ..i got angry and due to my friend anjali's urging i kept quite and after coming hme i told my hus about it and he laughed his head off and said maybe she was right and then seeing my disappiontment he said he wouldn't keep such a talented doc all to himself , hearing this my spirit rose , but knwing abt my temper he warned me not to get into a fight coz he being the chief attende of our department doesn't want his residents [ one being his wife ] fighting over personal issues and making the director to ask him to control his wife's outregeous behaviour in front of all the staff and patients while he already has a lot in his mind involing his patients and sugeries .but the very next day when my rivals nagging got of the limits i 4got all the warnings and answered back with my voice slightly raised which made all the surrounding activities stop around and everyone concentrating on me. this got into the notice of my hus who was talking with the director nearby. without anyone's urging he being tall, very handsome catching everyone's attention walked towards me and holding by my waist he himself made an apology on my behalf to everyaround looking shocked abt what just happened dragged me to the night call room with each step his hold on my waist tightened and making me wince in pain [ coz i was in saree tht day and my docs coat was in my room ] and was almost roughly dragged coz i cannot keep in pace with his long strides and once inside with the door locked and bolted he pulled me hard towards his board ,hard, muscled chest [with not even a layer of fat coz every day morning at 4 he goes for jogging and to the gym and doesn't eat crappy food ]and kissed me roughly on my lips i being a person melting under his touch quickly forgot abt the situation tht i was in and responed to him with all my might my toes raised on its heels and my breast crushed due to being pressed hard across his chest with his hand being on my hip....sensing me losing my resolve , he took hold of my upper arms and pushed me

by akshara Tue Mar 12 12:01:19 UTC 2013

MY FIRST, SECOND & THIRD CANING..........!!!!
Me and my husband has been married just for 12 days , we knew each other for over a year, were never friends neither enemies but used to fight laugh hang around with each other and a group of friends , he is very smart, intelligent and sexy ,that girls fall in nine pins , but that doesn't mean i am not good enough i 2 am quite good but i get a ting of jealously when he is so praised everywhere .then we came to know his father and mine were best friends in their childhood and college days and never wanted to part up .but life had different carriers in store for them and now have meet eachother after 35 yrs. and when they came 2 knw we knew eachother they were so eager to have us married as we hve jobs and are of appropiate age , he has girls all around him and even is a good flirter i must say coz he even tried that on me , but my competive attiude and arrogance of wanting to outsmart never me fall ,but he just walking near me makes my heart
makes my heart skip a beat.but in the end i was madly in love with him and agreed to marry him , but for him he says he loves me but wants to prove me wrong that he cannot have me [ coz that wht i always say 2 him becoz attimes i find his hig headed manner so frustrating that, i say thgs like this due 2 our busy sedule in the hosptil. [ coz we r doctors ]infact we make up a preety made for eachother attractive couple [ atleast tht's wht people around us say ] we could'nt afford to have our honeymoon not for more than a week [ anyway my honeymoon was so romantic , that i really never wanted it to end ] but we had to come back ....after coming from my honeymoon i was over the moon , tht i had eyes only for him and nothing around and my rival [ my collegue] started making sneer comments about and told i am a person who is supposed 2 sit home and raise children or atleast provide him with 4 to 5 children and look after them rather than coming here to work ..i got angry and due to my friend anjali's urging i kept quite and after coming hme i told my hus about it and he laughed his head off and said maybe she was right and then seeing my disappiontment he said he wouldn't keep such a talented doc all to himself , hearing this my spirit rose , but knwing abt my temper he warned me not to get into a fight coz he being the chief attende of our department doesn't want his residents [ one being his wife ] fighting over personal issues and making the director to ask him to control his wife's outregeous behaviour in front of all the staff and patients while he already has a lot in his mind involing his patients and sugeries .but the very next day when my rivals nagging got of the limits i 4got all the warnings and answered back with my voice slightly raised which made all the surrounding activities stop around and everyone concentrating on me. this got into the notice of my hus who was talking with the director nearby. without anyone's urging he being tall, very handsome catching everyone's attention walked towards me and holding by my waist he himself made an apology on my behalf to everyaround looking shocked abt what just happened dragged me to the night call room with each step his hold on my waist tightened and making me wince in pain [ coz i was in saree tht day and my docs coat was in my room ] and was almost roughly dragged coz i cannot keep in pace with his long strides and once inside with the door locked and bolted he pulled me hard towards his board ,hard, muscled chest [with not even a layer of fat coz every day morning at 4 he goes for jogging and to the gym and doesn't eat crappy food ]and kissed me roughly on my lips i being a person melting under his touch quickly forgot abt the situation tht i was in and responed to him with all my might my toes raised on its heels and my breast crushed due to being pressed hard across his chest with his hand being on my hip....sensing me losing my resolve , he took hold of my upper arms and pushed me

by akshara Tue Mar 12 12:01:27 UTC 2013

away from his chest i all of a sudden as though been harshly woken from my sleep couldn't get a grip on my legs which were no longer supporting me knwing if not caught and and held i would land up like a heap on the floor hard around his feet, he harshly shook me and hold me to get a hold on myself and caught me by the waist close to him and whispered into my ear tht i just have to wait until i reach home to knw wht is in store for me for not obeying him and ignoring his warnings ! not telling me anything more he just left leaving me to ponder on wht he said , but being angry on my rival and my hus i left the room not thinking much. later on reaching home he asked me to change my clothes , a put on somethg cool and classy [ we both r quite modern but tht doesn't mean i were micro mini skirts and expose my self ]coz we r to dine with our friends coz tom. is weekend so i changed into a kneel lenght wrap dress which turls while you turn . so accompanying him into a luxurious hotel , and having dined and enjoyed with our friends and after biding everyone farewell we made home i totally forgot abt tht incident tht happened earlier and was in a very jolly mood , but poor me i didn't now it wasn't so with my hubby and didn't knw wht was to come. after reaching home in our house , [a villa were only we both r there. ] we both we laughing and joking on a incident tht took place at the hotel and i laughing my head out playfully dropped onto the bed in front of him without changing even changing my sandals while he checked his pager and cell phone . seeing me so happy and playful he walked over to me [ which indeed made my heart skip a beat or two becoz he was drop dead handsome or maybe becoz i taught he was going to come down besides me and kiss me ] which indeed didn't rather he pulled me up crushing my breast on his chest , he reminded me of the suprise he did keep in store for me for my misbehaving [ which made my preety lips take its path from its present smile to way down in a droop ] not knwing wht it was and eyes full of curiosity i just stared at my hus , thinking it might be a shouting, lecture or even like saying tht i am grounded 4 a week and tht i am supposed to do all the house chores [ which we usually divide ]4 a week . but my assumptions were wrong becoz he hold me he was abt to reward me for my misbehavior by a caning 2 tell the truth i thought he was kidding me coz i thought toddlers were caned for their wrongdoings and tht 2 by their parents or guardian and not a lady who is a wife just becoz her temper got her better tht she forgot wht her husband had told her and for tht was to be caned and tht to by him [ and the very taught a male caning me was so repulsive coz i haven't been caned whole of my life not even by my mother.]and by his look i knew he was damne

by guest Tue Mar 12 13:15:01 UTC 2013

away from his chest i all of a sudden as though been harshly woken from my sleep couldn't get a grip on my legs which were no longer supporting me knwing if not caught and and held i would land up like a heap on the floor hard around his feet, he harshly shook me and hold me to get a hold on myself and caught me by the waist close to him and whispered into my ear tht i just have to wait until i reach home to knw wht is in store for me for not obeying him and ignoring his warnings ! not telling me anything more he just left leaving me to ponder on wht he said , but being angry on my rival and my hus i left the room not thinking much. later on reaching home he asked me to change my clothes , a put on somethg cool and classy [ we both r quite modern but tht doesn't mean i were micro mini skirts and expose my self ]coz we r to dine with our friends coz tom. is weekend so i changed into a kneel lenght wrap dress which turls while you turn . so accompanying him into a luxurious hotel , and having dined and enjoyed with our friends and after biding everyone farewell we made home i totally forgot abt tht incident tht happened earlier and was in a very jolly mood , but poor me i didn't now it wasn't so with my hubby and didn't knw wht was to come. after reaching home in our house , [a villa were only we both r there. ] we both we laughing and joking on a incident tht took place at the hotel and i laughing my head out playfully dropped onto the bed in front of him without changing even changing my sandals while he checked his pager and cell phone . seeing me so happy and playful he walked over to me [ which indeed made my heart skip a beat or two becoz he was drop dead handsome or maybe becoz i taught he was going to come down besides me and kiss me ] which indeed didn't rather he pulled me up crushing my breast on his chest , he reminded me of the suprise he did keep in store for me for my misbehaving [ which made my preety lips take its path from its present smile to way down in a droop ] not knwing wht it was and eyes full of curiosity i just stared at my hus , thinking it might be a shouting, lecture or even like saying tht i am grounded 4 a week and tht i am supposed to do all the house chores [ which we usually divide ]4 a week . but my assumptions were wrong becoz he hold me he was abt to reward me for my misbehavior by a caning 2 tell the truth i thought he was kidding me coz i thought toddlers were caned for their wrongdoings and tht 2 by their parents or guardian and not a lady who is a wife just becoz her temper got her better tht she forgot wht her husband had told her and for tht was to be caned and tht to by him [ and the very taught a male caning me was so repulsive coz i haven't been caned whole of my life not even by my mother.]and by his look i knew he was damne

by guest Tue Mar 12 13:15:15 UTC 2013

away from his chest i all of a sudden as though been harshly woken from my sleep couldn't get a grip on my legs which were no longer supporting me knwing if not caught and and held i would land up like a heap on the floor hard around his feet, he harshly shook me and hold me to get a hold on myself and caught me by the waist close to him and whispered into my ear tht i just have to wait until i reach home to knw wht is in store for me for not obeying him and ignoring his warnings ! not telling me anything more he just left leaving me to ponder on wht he said , but being angry on my rival and my hus i left the room not thinking much. later on reaching home he asked me to change my clothes , a put on somethg cool and classy [ we both r quite modern but tht doesn't mean i were micro mini skirts and expose my self ]coz we r to dine with our friends coz tom. is weekend so i changed into a kneel lenght wrap dress which turls while you turn . so accompanying him into a luxurious hotel , and having dined and enjoyed with our friends and after biding everyone farewell we made home i totally forgot abt tht incident tht happened earlier and was in a very jolly mood , but poor me i didn't now it wasn't so with my hubby and didn't knw wht was to come. after reaching home in our house , [a villa were only we both r there. ] we both we laughing and joking on a incident tht took place at the hotel and i laughing my head out playfully dropped onto the bed in front of him without changing even changing my sandals while he checked his pager and cell phone . seeing me so happy and playful he walked over to me [ which indeed made my heart skip a beat or two becoz he was drop dead handsome or maybe becoz i taught he was going to come down besides me and kiss me ] which indeed didn't rather he pulled me up crushing my breast on his chest , he reminded me of the suprise he did keep in store for me for my misbehaving [ which made my preety lips take its path from its present smile to way down in a droop ] not knwing wht it was and eyes full of curiosity i just stared at my hus , thinking it might be a shouting, lecture or even like saying tht i am grounded 4 a week and tht i am supposed to do all the house chores [ which we usually divide ]4 a week . but my assumptions were wrong becoz he hold me he was abt to reward me for my misbehavior by a caning 2 tell the truth i thought he was kidding me coz i thought toddlers were caned for their wrongdoings and tht 2 by their parents or guardian and not a lady who is a wife just becoz her temper got her better tht she forgot wht her husband had told her and for tht was to be caned and tht to by him [ and the very taught a male caning me was so repulsive coz i haven't been caned whole of my life not even by my mother.]and by his look i knew he was damned serious coz he is th kind of guys if set his mind on somethg would do it ,no matter wht may come and while a was grudging in my mind were did he get such a foolish idea of using corporal punishment as my disciplinary mechanism he sat in the near by fancy sofa of our room and pulled me over his kneel and removed my sandals of my leg to have me barefoot, i recall telling him tht he can't be serious and he answered he very much was and tht i can scream as much i want too cause there is no one around to hear it while administering the very first caning of my first caning lucky on my clothed bottom cause he didn't want me to be embrassed the very first time, but even though clothed i found it really hard and painful and was even stinging me [ i being a person having a very soft and very fair skin thought i could be bruised and reddening badly like this without even being caned bare bottom , tears were welling up my eyes that after 5 to 6 strokes i started crying and begging to realize me coz i tried my level best kicking, screaming , shaking and all the tricks tht i could but tht only made his grip tighten on me and his caning even harder and firmer ,then after a

by akshara Tue Mar 12 13:15:56 UTC 2013

away from his chest i all of a sudden as though been harshly woken from my sleep couldn't get a grip on my legs which were no longer supporting me knwing if not caught and and held i would land up like a heap on the floor hard around his feet, he harshly shook me and hold me to get a hold on myself and caught me by the waist close to him and whispered into my ear tht i just have to wait until i reach home to knw wht is in store for me for not obeying him and ignoring his warnings ! not telling me anything more he just left leaving me to ponder on wht he said , but being angry on my rival and my hus i left the room not thinking much. later on reaching home he asked me to change my clothes , a put on somethg cool and classy [ we both r quite modern but tht doesn't mean i were micro mini skirts and expose my self ]coz we r to dine with our friends coz tom. is weekend so i changed into a kneel lenght wrap dress which turls while you turn . so accompanying him into a luxurious hotel , and having dined and enjoyed with our friends and after biding everyone farewell we made home i totally forgot abt tht incident tht happened earlier and was in a very jolly mood , but poor me i didn't now it wasn't so with my hubby and didn't knw wht was to come. after reaching home in our house , [a villa were only we both r there. ] we both we laughing and joking on a incident tht took place at the hotel and i laughing my head out playfully dropped onto the bed in front of him without changing even changing my sandals while he checked his pager and cell phone . seeing me so happy and playful he walked over to me [ which indeed made my heart skip a beat or two becoz he was drop dead handsome or maybe becoz i taught he was going to come down besides me and kiss me ] which indeed didn't rather he pulled me up crushing my breast on his chest , he reminded me of the suprise he did keep in store for me for my misbehaving [ which made my preety lips take its path from its present smile to way down in a droop ] not knwing wht it was and eyes full of curiosity i just stared at my hus , thinking it might be a shouting, lecture or even like saying tht i am grounded 4 a week and tht i am supposed to do all the house chores [ which we usually divide ]4 a week . but my assumptions were wrong becoz he hold me he was abt to reward me for my misbehavior by a caning 2 tell the truth i thought he was kidding me coz i thought toddlers were caned for their wrongdoings and tht 2 by their parents or guardian and not a lady who is a wife just becoz her temper got her better tht she forgot wht her husband had told her and for tht was to be caned and tht to by him [ and the very taught a male caning me was so repulsive coz i haven't been caned whole of my life not even by my mother.]and by his look i knew he was damned serious coz he is th kind of guys if set his mind on somethg would do it ,no matter wht may come and while a was grudging in my mind were did he get such a foolish idea of using corporal punishment as my disciplinary mechanism he sat in the near by fancy sofa of our room and pulled me over his kneel and removed my sandals of my leg to have me barefoot, i recall telling him tht he can't be serious and he answered he very much was and tht i can scream as much i want too cause there is no one around to hear it while administering the very first caning of my first caning lucky on my clothed bottom cause he didn't want me to be embrassed the very first time, but even though clothed i found it really hard and painful and was even stinging me [ i being a person having a very soft and very fair skin thought i could be bruised and reddening badly like this without even being caned bare bottom , tears were welling up my eyes that after 5 to 6 strokes i started crying and begging to realize me coz i tried my level best kicking, screaming , shaking and all the tricks tht i could but tht only made his grip tighten on me and his caning even harder and firmer ,then after a

by akshara Tue Mar 12 13:16:02 UTC 2013

a few more when he loosened his grip i almost slipped to the floor bursting out crying and seeing me like a baby crying in a heap on the floor near his legs , then he carried me to the bed [ i protested and struggled not too let him but him he gave me a stern look which reminded wht he is capable of doing and i obliged] and he sat over it and laid me on his lap my head lying on the chest and deeply and badly sobbing , then looking at me he touched my bottom and rubbed and joking laughed and whispered into my ears saying " tht wasn't tht bad at all was it ? " and then saying if i have got tht whn i was small, maybe i wud hve been saved of it and then joking 26 yrs isn't either a bad age to be caned and telling me tht i wouldn't hve dreamed a such a behaviour from him even in my wildest dreams , which he was right abt and warned me if i get into troubled again it wouldn't be like this . and then seeing me still sobbing he said he never thought his wife could be so sexy even in her caning ang sobbing and tht he can't wait to have me now and then..... then laying be across the bed he stripped himself semi nude and was doing tht for me , at tht point my angry rose and i thought tht it was so unfair of him to hurt me first [ which even hurt my pride ] and and then have my body at and for his pleasure when i am still in pain and the only thg i want to do now is be alone and cry ,rather than pleasuring the person who had inflicted this pain on me.but not even noticing it he continued undressing me...and feeling more infaurated by it i decided not to respond to him which was rather difficult coz he was so excellent at love making, but after a few moments he sensed my unresponsiveness and tht made him really angry coz he knew i was doing it on purpose and was a pretense on my part, so he told me tht he doesn't like this rudeness of mine and tht he didn't care anymore whether i wud get embrassed or not and tht he is going to administer what he thought i rightly deserve, saying so he pulled the blanket which i wrapped around myself to hide my nuditity from my husband's gaze, [ even though i knw i am quite attractive and feminie and sexy but having o expose myself so blantly to him kinda frightens me and i am very shy of this too ,could be tht i haven't been used tht my husband seeing me nude............then placing me across his lap as naked as the time as i was born , he gave me a bare bottom caning, to tell the truth it hurt me more than the one which i recieved a few mins ago cloth. i couldn't suffer it , tht i went all screaming and crying and my hus wouldn't care less abt it, tht he made it more firmer and harder and after a full 5 mins caning he stopped and rubbed my buttocks when i was still sobbing coz it was really stinging, and then he touched my main part and said tht i am so hot and ready for him tht he didn't knw tht a rightly deserved caning could also do tht [ actually it was so kinda my brain is in the sexual mode when my butt is getting hurt , then he turned me across his lap and teased me saying my nose and cheeks are also as red as a cherry as my butt and asked whether it was of being caned naked by him or was is tht my temper was raising at thinking of the fact at being submisive to him , i being too scared even to speak, i starting weeping more , seeing this he gave me his devilish ,sexy ,satisfied smile while rubbing my butt and whispering into my ears tht this is or may even worst is wht will happen to me if i neglect or ignore the duties [ sexual or not ]
tht i am supposed to do. then too worn out to protest or ans back , i nodded , then his kissed me, my lips, throat , shoulders , chest , breast and sucked on my rosy pink nipple , till i screamed in pleasure forgetting all the hurt i just recieved a few mins ago even though it stings , then all through the night he make love to me , timely rubbing and checking my butt and teasing me . then at dawn he carried me to the next door jacuzzi and we even laughed and

by akshara Tue Mar 12 14:37:49 UTC 2013

we even laughed and played in the tub , later he took the intiative of drying me and carried me back to the bed ,and tht too to my suprise to continue his sexual play , when i was so emotionally and physically tired , when the only thing what i wanted to do at the moment was to sleep, but fearing of an other round of caning , i submitted to his whims and wishes though i was throughly exhausted. but after tht he didn't cane, me might be tht i was actually a little good wife, but was soon proved wrong when the very next day we decided to go and see ours parents and take their blessings who are residing in an other state coz we were supposed to do tht on are arrival from the honeymoon , but becoz my hus was away on his honeymoon , he postponed 2 sugeries tht were not so serious , but the director asked him to come and attend to it as soon as possible , therefore we couldn't go to see them. after boarding the flight and reaching to our native place , a mini limo was send by his parents so tht we reach home early and safe. but once in the limo i was arguing with him on somethg and he with his cool and sophiscation told me to get a hold on myself or else i have to accept what was to come on my way , knwing wht he meant i challenged him saying he wouldn't do tht coz we are outside and tht too in a car , to prove me wrong he just said " i will show you wht i can do with you , when or where i want with you ". saying so he pulled me onto his lap and unzip my pencil skirt and pulled down my panties and caned me so hard , tht i cried in shock at his guts and manliness and at my vulnerablity with him. while caning he let me knw tht the windows were shaded with a shade tht only we can see outside from inside and no one can see us inside from out and tht the screen seprating us from the driver is sound proof and tht if i screamed my hell out also he is not going to hear or see coz if the driver is to or see my hus needs to lower screen with a remote tht he only has [ he knws so much coz he and his family owns it. ] after administering around 20 to 30 strokes on my bare bottom he himself pulled my panties up and zipped me while he turned me on his lap and said " i hope darling wife , tht u have learnt your lesson and how to behave with your husband who u promised to love and respect on your marriage day , uh ? " and made me sit back on my place of the back leather seat, for the rest of the journey i didn't talk to him and was just staring out of the window ,thinking how in the world can he treated me so , which made my temper scorge high. on reaching his home , almost everyone come out to receive us and after seeing me not at all happy standing outside besides my hus , my sister in law [ who is also my best friend ] came to us and asked teasing my hus wht is it tht i am all tight faced and flushed up, tht did we have fight, my hus just laughed and hugged his sis. and later after we got inside and wished everyone and when dadi said to us tht we must go and rest ,coz it must be tiring after such a long flight and tht we would be be informed when the lunch is ready , me still thinking of the shameful caning i just received walked through the long hall and was about to board the stairs when my hus came besides me and caught me by my waist and pulled me besides him whispering into my ears when we took the flight of stairs tht if i hadn't behaved at tht time like a spoiled brat , i could have saved my little preety white bottom from his hand , and by saying so he rubbed my back , i was embrassed of him doing so on our way to the bed room, coz wht if some see's us , even though i couldn't see anyone around at tht moment, then for the whole of the rest of the day he was teasing me about my crying when on his lap , of how i drenched his shirt with tears on my first time caning , of how amusing he finds me flushed all red with tears, angry and embrassment , and how he likes to see such cheery red bottom on a very white and pristine looking butt c

by guest Tue Mar 12 14:40:15 UTC 2013

see such cheery red bottom on a very white and pristine looking butt cheeks .................. but he is not some sought of lunatic who canes his wife for the pleasure of seeing her in pain, where i notice some husbands even do so,and he is strict when he needs to be and isn,t so all the time, he laughs , jokes and also plays around with me but tht doesn't mean i can do any sought of rubbish as i please...

by akshara Tue Mar 12 14:42:06 UTC 2013

For those who couldn't find Marianne's description of her experiences (see above, Feb 24th), she wrote it in the separate Caning Forum - "English girl caned in front of people by my Asian boyfriend". I put my own experience there too.

by Kate Wed Mar 13 23:44:29 UTC 2013

can anyone tell me what a ginger suppository and glycerine suppository is ? and why is it used and tht too for what ? and why is it used for punishing wives as said above in some comments................plz reply soon !!!!

by guest Thu Mar 14 16:55:12 UTC 2013

What is this?

by wqefrehgtyju Fri Mar 15 15:36:43 UTC 2013

It's an antelope.

by guest Fri Mar 15 20:19:59 UTC 2013

what is a ginger suppository can any one plz tell me ?

by guest Sat Mar 16 11:18:18 UTC 2013

Ginger "suppository" - You probably mean ginger root inserted in the back passage, a procedure known as "figging".

Ginger root gives a burning sensation so it is a minor t*rture, though it depends on the sensitivity of the person concerned and its effects tend to be exagerrated by those writing in fantasy as opposed to experience.

The traditional use of "figging" is to prevent the recipient from clenching the buttocks during a caning - the burning feeling encourages the canee to loosen their buttocks, increasing the effect of each cane stroke.

For female punishment, if she is especially sensitive, then slices of ginger root may also be placed within the outer lips of her private parts and taped in place.

Peeled chillies are far worse I believe.

by Expert Sun Mar 17 21:12:00 UTC 2013

Hi frnds me apko aaj ek true story bne ja raha hu. Isme jara sa bhi fake nahi he. Q ki yeh story ka proof me hu. Me apko bolne ja raha hu kis tarah mere mami mere naani ko punishment deti he.

mere maa ki ghar ek bahoot hi bhitor ke gao me he jo ki assam me he. Mere nana 2002 ko guzar gaye the. Abhi nana ke family me ek mama , mami aur naani he. Mama ki shadi 2006 me hua tha. Mere mami dekhne me bahoot khubsurat he.. Woh bahoot gori he uski haath pair bahoot khubsurat he...haat aur pairo me chote chote baal he....woh kabhi bhi waxin nagi karati thi....unki height 5 feet 10 inch ki hogi. Unki baal bahoot lambe the aur woh medium wieght ki thi. Woh dekhne me ekdum heroin ki tarah lagti thi aur bahoot maaldar gharane se thi. Aur hamare mama unki pura ulta tha hesiyat me. Mama middle class ko belong karta tha. Fir bhi dono ka love merrage hua tha. Hamari nani bahoot simple aur shant he. Hamari naani hamari mami ki total opposite he. Woh dekhne me kaali he, height 5 feet he, weight bhi kam he. Matlab aap meri nani ko mami ki naukrani samaj sakte ho dekhne me.
muje mami pahli nazar me acchi lagti thi. Me hamesha se mami ki sewa karne ke liye uske age piche gumta rahra tha. Lekin muhe woh kam nahi karati thi. Bas din me do hi baar mami ki pair su sakta tha ek baar subah aur ek baar raat ko pair sukar ashirwad leta tha. Aur woh bhi chuttiyo ke time me jab me gaao jata tha. Fir kuch saalo baad muje mom se pata chala ki mami nani se sab kaam karwati he aur marti bhi he. Muje yeh sunkar bahoot dukh hua lekib excite bhi hua kese mami naani se kaam karwati he dekhne ke liye. Fir ek baar me kuch dino ka chutti lekar gaao chala gaya. Jese hi me mama ke ghar pahucha mama bahar ja rahe the aur wo muje andar mami ke paas jane ko bola. Me mami ki room ke bahar khada hokar bola....
Me: mami me andar ajao.
Mami: kaun
Me: apka bhanja.
Mami: ajao.
Me: andar ate hue. Andar ate hue mene dekha mami bed par leti hui thi novel padh rahi thi. Unki saree gutno tak uthaya hua tha. Aur mere nani mami ki dono pair daba rahi thi. Me ye dekhkar nani se jalne laga tha aur socha tha how lucky she is. Mene mami ki pair sukar ashirwad liya saath me nani ki bhi. Jese hi me nani ki paas gaya mene unki ankgo me asu dekha tha aur unke dono gaal tamatar ki tarah laal ho rakha tha. Sayad mami ne naani ki gaalo me thappad lagaye honge.
Mami: accha abhi tum jakar fresh hokar aram kar lu.
Me: kya me nani ko le ja sakta hu.
Mami: nahi tumhare naani shrif raat ke 11 baze se lekar subah 5 baze tK hi free rahti he. Tumhe baat karna he to us time ke andar baat kar leba. Ab jao.
Me: ok. Me fresh hone ke liye nahi gaya tha balki bahar chup chap sun raha tha andar kya ho raha he. Muje darwaje me ek surang dikhai diya jisme me andar aram se dekh sakta tha....me ne dekha..
Naani : pls muje thodi der rest de do . Me subah 10 baze se abhi 2 baze tak continue tumhari pair daba rahi hu.
Mami: mere naani ki gaalo me do zor se tamasa lagate huye boli...itni jaldi thak jayega to kese hoga abhi to raat 11 baze tak meri sewa karni he. Chal ab mere dono thigh daba. Naani: ro ro kar boli ab mujshe nahi hoga. Me puri tarah thak suki hu.
Me: naani ki halat mujse dekhi nahi ja raha tha aur bina permission ke andar jakar mami ko bola.
Me: mami pls naani ki ab umar ho gayi he. Unke badle me jab tak yeha pe rahunga aapki sewa me karunga. Pls maan jayiye. Bahoot request karne par mami maan gayi aur naani ko aram karne di.
Mami: thk he ajke baad jab tak tu yeha rahega mera saara kaam karega. Tuje subah 5 baze se raat 11 baze tak meri sewa karni he. Chal ab mere dono thigh daba......

by bhanja Tue Mar 19 16:33:15 UTC 2013

my name is bhavani
my husband is a rich man and i'm middle class so i got married to him 4 years ago under rule that i will obey whatever he says. i thought he was a nice man and wouldnt punish me
but after marriage on first he set me rules and caned me on my first night
1. wake up every morning at 6.30 sharp.
2. i have to water all the plants in our bungalow and do 200 push ups in 10 min without stopping and runing for the next 20 min. i have to wake him at 7 oclcok by. then take either hot or cold water bath he will decide and dress if he asks me to or remain naked. mostly i remain naked. i have to wash and clean the rooms perfectly. even if he finds one bit of dust he will beat me. then prepare breakfast by 8oclock sharp. the food should be perfect and not be burnt or he will beat for that. if there are any leftoveers i have to eat it or go without breakfast. if i make extra for me or less for him i will get beaten. he works from home and his company is nearby so he returns quickly even if he goes. i can use my laptop for 1 hour and after that i get 50 strokes from the can everyday. even if i want to drink water i have to ask him. whenever he is using the computer he ties me to the pole or holds me in one tying the rope to my hair or around my breast sometimes. i have to go the grocery to buy items i can wear minimum dress with no bra and have to be back on time.
once i went with cycle and came back 3 min late because i had to fill my tyresand for that he beat me for 1 hour continously and i cannot move when he beats me. he eats luch at 2 oclock. when he eats i have to lie down and he place his legs on my breast. then i have to eat at 3 oclock whether or not i had breakfast . i have to eat how much ever he tells me to, whether it is more or less. if food is not proper he makes me eat full stomach and run around the garden for 1 hour with some heavy on my shoulder. i cant stop running and he beats me during the running. then i have to iron his clothes and wash the vessels and clothes perfectly. once he found a stain on his shirt and for that he beat with acrop heated in the stove 100 times. those marks took almost 3 months to disappear. i have to eat dinner at 8 oclock and drink one pot fully boiled milk. he pours into my mouth after taking from the stove. i cant go to bed until he asks me to and he usually gives me a task to do. if i finish all the household chores he asks me to lie down heplaces his legs on my breast and he works on the computer. after he finishes work he usually beats me for no reason and asks me to go to sleep. i can sleep in only one postion lying on my backit pains to rest on my buttock but i have no option and i have to sleep within 10 min.

during the day if i want to go to the i have to take his permiission. once i did without his permission and he made me do in the floor for next 2 weeks and made me sleep on that in the night and he peed on me and ordered me not to clean and go to the shop with it.

today i have been given permission to use computer from 1-2 as he was beating me in the morning. he has no relatives and my parents are in Uk . i live in a big house and alone with my husband. once i asked about his parents and he beat like anything for that

I am too scared to tell what he does to anyone.
i live in kerala

by Bhavani Wed Mar 20 08:04:14 UTC 2013

if the food is too bad he hits me on my hand about some 300 times and keeps them on the hot stove

by Bhavani Wed Mar 20 08:06:18 UTC 2013

ooh , bhavani is this one of your wild imagination or a secret fantasy . how is it that 2 people in today's world have the exactly same husbands ........our amiste [ from sept 4, 2012 ] above also had the exactly same story as yours .........now it looks like you are amiste itself and that this is just some fake story ......if your husband pours hot boiled milk into your mouth everyday , i wonder how can you be alive now and type your story because you must be badly burnt ......... [ common sense ] what are you ? a human or a robot, you suffer so much and is still intact with no harm. any sensible person would run away and sue that fellow ....... you kinda have a good english with an excellent skill of typing so fast , that your husband provide you with a time from 1 to 2 and that u typed so much just within 8 minutes, 4 seconds and 14 milli seconds you could easily find a job , rather than being such a ruthless man's slave..........

by your audient Wed Mar 20 10:51:43 UTC 2013

Bhavani surely you have written for fun.

my husband canes me if i dont do household chores properly, twists my ears when teaching me and twists my niples if i am late for how many ever minutes i am late

by guest Thu Mar 21 08:33:59 UTC 2013

guest what do kid do when he twists u'r ear?

by guest Thu Mar 21 14:28:03 UTC 2013

no kids

by guest Thu Mar 21 17:44:08 UTC 2013

Bhavani,surely this is a 100% fake story.

by Rimi Sat Mar 23 10:12:59 UTC 2013

Bhavani,surely this is a 100% fake story.

by Rimi Sat Mar 23 10:13:05 UTC 2013

Rimi ji kya aap muje apki gulam banaogi.

by deep Sun Mar 24 10:13:30 UTC 2013

Deep, What do you mean by your comment, I cant understand. Why do you want to be ones slave?Clarify ur damn comment.

by Rimi Mon Mar 25 12:44:12 UTC 2013

Rimi mam from my childhood my aim is to be a slave of girls. U cant believe that my sister in law also treat me like a slave. So if u can allow me i want to be ur slave pls mam.

by deep Mon Mar 25 16:04:02 UTC 2013

You have an evil slavish mentality. Be a person with self respect & remember who is the slave of his sis. in law or any other human being is nothing but a self respectless sub human.Another point, mainly this is a girls forum; so among all the girls, why do you want to be slave of a particular person?

by Rimi Wed Mar 27 04:56:47 UTC 2013

home so when it happened in this relationship it was a bit of a surprise. It all started over something that didn't seem very important, me leaving the house untidy type of thing, and he was very annoyed and said I would be punished at the weekend. I didn't really think much of it but when Saturday arrived I got a good few straps to the palm of the hand and it hurt. This would happen more and more frequently, adding up any mistakes I made during the week and administering punishment on the next Saturday. We had a good and fun relationship and I quite got to like someone being in charge but things progressed from that start to more severe punishment. He started waiting until I had finished for the day and would send me up to the bathroom to bathe and come back down and present myself to him in the lounge wearing only my dressing gown. I was quite used to being nude with him he liked to take pics of me and even has them on Flickr, but having to bend over the back of the sofa and have my backside strapped made me very aware of how exposed I was in front of him and then he started leaving me nude facing the wall sometimes having to bend over holding my ankles showing my red cheeks. I was stood like this one night when his mobile rang and he instructed me not to move and to remain like that till he came back and left. A few minutes later I heard the door and he came back into the room, I was aware of someone else being with him but I couldn't see and he told me to stay quite still. A while later I heard them leave the room and the door closing and then he returned and I was allowed to move. I asked him who had been there but he told me to not talk about it or I would be punished again. Things carried on as normal for the next few weeks with the odd sp...ing but nothing serious until I went out on the way home from college and had a few too many drinks. I knew I was in trouble and waited with some trepidation for the weekend to arrive. Saturday came and that afternoon I was told to go to the bathroom and prepare myself and to make sure I shaved my private parts completely bare. I know he likes me to keep neat and trimmed down there but this was different, but I did as ordered and slipped on my dressing gown and headed downstairs hoping it wasn't going to be too bad. I went into the lounge and there he was and to my horror so were two of his cousins and that I had met before and an old man that I didn't know. I just looked at them all, not knowing what to think when he came up and gripped my arm and led me across the room in front of the others. Words were exchanged, I don't know what they were saying but they were obviously discussing me and then the two jumped up and went over to a table and lifted it into the center of the room. The old man seemed to be giving the instructions as my boyfriend held me tight with my arms behind my back. He moved me out of the way to let them position the table and I could feel the dressing gown starting to gape open at the front but my arms were still pinned behind my back. The two lads moved back to the settee and now the three of them were focusing on my helpless shape with the dressing gown starting to expose my front but I soon forgot this when I felt it jerked off my shoulders and before I could move it was tugged off my arms and slung across the room. I didn't have time to cover myself before the old man barked an order and my boyfriend turned me round and bent me over the table. I was told to reach my arms forward and grip the far end of the table and then after more talking

by Marianne Wed Mar 27 05:13:52 UTC 2013

he reached down and grabbed one ankle and then the other and forced them further apart. Without warning he started raining stinging strokes on one cheek and then the other. Before too long he stopped to my relief and he pulled me back up to a standing position. I was busy rubbing my backside as they talked loudly to one another and in an instance with my hands gripped behind me he turned me round to face the others. I could see them looking me up and down as the old man pointed and almost shouted some order and the two young lads jumped up and before I knew it I was pushed back onto the table, laid on my back and both legs lifted up and over and the three of them pinned me on my back with my feet each side of my head. I was still in shock with this when I saw the old made walk up in front of me between my wide open legs, I was so embarrassed when I saw him wrapping the belt around his hand he looked closely at the exposed area and started applying strokes of the belt to the inside of one and then the other thigh. The pace increased and the shorts landed higher and higher until he aimed directly at my exposed bits and thrashed me for what seemed an eternity. Eventually the blows stopped and the room fell quiet as the grip relaxed and each leaned over to get a close look of their handiwork. My legs were returned to the floor and the old man reached forward and gripped my nips and hoisted me to a standing position nearly lifting me off the ground with the force. They laughed as I stood with my nips now pointed and hard and the young lads came around the front and examined my flat chest making what I presume were rude comments. I was left to stand in the middle of the room while they talked and made ready to go and finally I was allowed to leave and gathered up my gown and ran upstairs. This was my first but not last experience of having others see me punished. It is good to talk about it , bur I found it difficult at the time .

by Marianne Wed Mar 27 05:15:18 UTC 2013

Marianne, thank you for posting your story. Our experiences are rather similar. Like you I am English and my boyfriend is ethnically Indian. I love him to bits and he loves me too and he is rich and he takes me to fabulous places and he gives me lots of presents, but I also have to obey him and live by his rules. I love that he dominates me and it makes me feel special. He often ties me up and makes me helpless when we have sex and that makes me a little scared but in an exciting way.

But one of his rules is difficult. I think that many Indian men like their women to dress covered up, but my boyfriend expects me to dress sexy whenever we are out. He likes to display what a sexy girlfriend I am and I would like that, but it can be so embarrasing. Often I have to wear very short skirts and dresses that hardly cover my bum, but also he will not allow me to wear any underwear. No tights, no panties, and also my lady parts must be completely shaved. If I ever disobey him then he ties me down and canes me, so I have no choice but to dress as he insists.

All his friends know I never have bra or panties on, and sometimes he makes me stand in front of them and lift my skirt up. He says that if I don't, he will tie my hands behind my back and let them have fun with me.

But recently I suffered a much worse punishment. We were going to a club and he gave me an outfit to wear - long black boots, a black skirt and a black, flimsy top. The top was bad enough, as I have quite big breasts and I was not allowed a bra, but the skirt was awful. It was like an ice-skater's skirt, tiny, pleated and flared. I had to wear it low on my hips and even then it was level with my bum cheeks, and he still wouldn't let me wear anything underneath. I begged and pleaded wih him and I cried that everyone would see glimpses of my private lady parts but he got angry and said I had earned myself a severe punishment. He made me go to the club in the tiny skirt and he said to teach me a lesson he deliberately parked his car further from the club and wouldn't let me wear a coat so I had to walk along the street with the hem giving glimpses of my bare bottom and I know that some saw my lady parts too. He said it didn't matter.

It was quite dark in the club and if I had trusted him and not complained he would have parked close to the club and so I know I brought the situation on myself and deserved punishment. I had no idea how bad the punishment would be.

by Kate Wed Mar 27 05:16:46 UTC 2013

Like you, Marianne, other people were involved and I think that this was something in the Indian community, a place where girlfriends and wives were taken. He took me in the car and I was blindfolded so I didn't know where we went. Inside the building my blindfold was taken off and there were three Indian men there and an older Indian woman. I had to undress completely in front of them and this was horrible, but I had no choice. Even worse, I saw they had a video camera set up and they were filming me naked!.

They led me over to a strange stool contraption with padded leather surfaces. I had to kneel on the lowest level and lean over the upper level, but before I settled over it, the woman slipped a mat covered with tiny spikes under where my breasts would rest. Then she fixed various straps that held my wrists, ankles and also across my back. When she tightened the last strap it pressed my breasts down into the spikes and it was already really painful and I began to beg and cry, but then she fetched a thing that was a bright red rubber ball with straps each side that turned out to be a gag. She pushed the ball into my mouth and buckled the straps around the back of my head.

So I was naked and bent over and helpless, and then she caned me. I thought my boyfriends's canings were bad but they were nothing compared to her. I was in agony from the first stroke and I screamed though the gag and I cried and they took not the slightest notice. The pain was so bad and I couldn't stand it, but I had to. Then she continued across the backs of my thighs and that was even worse. Somehow the thought came to me that I wouldn't have to wear miniskirts for a while and I tried to think of that, but the strokes kept coming and I just screamed and screamed.

When they took me off the stool I could hardly stand. My bum and thighs felt like they were on fire and my skin seemed to tighten and my poor breasts were also a mass of pain and bleeding from numerous pin pricks. The woman wiped down my breasts with some kind of antiseptic that really stung.

My boyfriend said I would have to sit and meditate for a while and think how I must obey him in the future. At that moment I had no intention of ever disobeying him again! He could lead me through the streets naked if he wanted! I was so relieved that the punishment was over, or that was what I thought. My boyfriend did say that if I made any sound during my meditation I would be punished further

The woman folded my arms behind my back and tied them there, and then they led me to another room. One of the men carried the video camera and tripod. I was still gagged, and this was also becoming painful, making my jaw ache.

by Kate Sun Mar 10 11:56:02 UTC 2013


In this room was a strange contraption that I didn't understand at first. It was a solid black wooden structure and looked quite old. It had a base, with four upright legs that supported a solid block of wood. This long wooden block was triangular in end view, it had sloping sides that met at the top in a long narrow ridge, which I noticed was stained from use, though I didn't realise how. They told me it was called a wooden horse and I would have to ride it during my mediation. I still didn't quite understand, until they lifted me up and put me on this horse, sitting astride it! The sharp ridge was right between my legs and if I hadn't been just able to reach the floor with my toes, my entire weight would have pressed my lady parts down onto the ridge, which I knew would be unbearably painful.

The woman tied a rope from my folded arms to the end of the horse. Then she tied ropes round my breasts, pulling the ropes tight until I was in yet more pain, and tied the ropes to the end of the horse in front of me, pulling me forward slightly so the ridge was under my cl*tty. Already it was uncomfortable standing on tiptoe and I was frightened of what it would be like if they left me like this for any length of time.

But they hadn't finished. The

by Kate Wed Mar 27 05:18:21 UTC 2013

The woman fixed a leather strap around one of my ankles, then pulled it back and clipped the strap to an attachment at the end of the horse. Immediately more of my weight pushed my poor cl*tty down onto the wooden ridge. I was now really frightened and began to try to plead through my gag, but she took no notice and did the same with my other leg. Now my entire weight was pressed down on my cl*tty. Then she spoke to me sharply and reminded me that I was to be silent in my mediatation or I would be punished badly. It was awful, but she just looked at me and smiled, and said she so enjoyed seeing women on the horse.

I sat in such pain, tears running down my face, with the video camera silently recording me and I wanted to scream but I dared not do so.

by Kate Wed Mar 27 05:48:15 UTC 2013

Somehow I lasted out. My boyfriend told me I was on the horse for 40 minutes. Being taken off the horse was a new agony as life seemed to flow back into my lady parts, and I couldn't walk at first. But my boyfriend kissed me and cuddled me and told me how proud he was of me and how much he loved me and despite the awful punishment I felt so glad that I was his and that he cared for me. Marianne, I know that you feel the same about your own boyfriend.

I feared the marks from my caning might last forever, but they eventually faded and I was shocked to find my skin was left completely unmarked, as my boyfriend had said they would. I am back in miniskirts again, still without panties, but I know I shall follow my boyfriend's rules, which I want to because it pleases him. But also he has given me a warning. The video of me was sold to a rich client who enjoys watching women's suffering. If I had made any noise on the horse, I would have been caned severely across my breasts, so I thank the gods that I managed to keep quiet. But my boyfriend says the client wants to see another video of me being treatedly much more severely. I wondered if that could be possible, but he told me that another wife had been put on the horse with heavy weights fixed to her knees and left for two hours, moaning and crying out in pain, and as a result the woman caned the wifes breasts as hard as she could until the wife passed out. The client enjoyed that video and wants the same done to me!

So I am very careful not to displease my boyfriend. He still canes me for small offences, but I know I must learn to be a better girlfriend and I am still so proud that I please him and to know he loves me. Marianne, I understand how you must feel too.

by Kate Wed Mar 27 05:49:44 UTC 2013

Rimi mam i appriciated by ur words and that is true also. But i want to kill this black fantacy from mind and without having a real humiliation from any girls i dont think it will go off from my mind. See not today but tomorrow i i am going to marry with someone & with this black fantacy i would no make her happy ever in life s pls help me out to find a real dominaating girl who can abuse or humiliati.g me but in privat not publically. Because i know if i will be insulted by a beautiful dominating girl i can come over from this. A.d i select u randomly so pls dont mind if bymistake i hurt u. And pls help me out to becom a gentleman. Pls rimi mam i beg u......

by deep Wed Mar 27 15:04:34 UTC 2013

You are not married?Then why did you mention your "sister in law" treated you like a slave?

Whatever, I have said previously and now repeating- be strong on self respect,you can go through the process of "meditation"...for keeping stability of mind & I heard sometimes it works so effectively. You can also seek help to the Almighty God in your daily prayers...so that He will help you to give up this type of slavish mentality...Remember we, all the human beings are only the slave of Almighty & except Him, we must not think ourselves as slave of any other human being.

By the way, I have not exact idea about Indian culture,( as you wrote in Hindi previously in this forum, it may be assumed that you are Indian);but as far I know, your culture is strictly male dominated & in most cases women are inferior to men...(dont mind,I said this watching many journals,newspapers, the program-India Fights Back & I have also seen several statistical evidence of violence on women)so inspite of being a person of a mail dominated culture.. your this type of mentality of being a slave of any girl is really strange & unusual.

by Rimi Thu Mar 28 04:19:27 UTC 2013

R u an indian or what rimi

by deep Thu Mar 28 06:10:57 UTC 2013

Anyone notice that the similar stories from "Marianne" and "Kate" were posted almost similtaneously? "Kate" supposedly wrote her long account in reply to "Marianne", but began posting only a minute after "Marianne" had finished!

by guest Thu Mar 28 07:55:31 UTC 2013

@ Guest: Marianne and Kate earlier posted their tales in another forum, but yes, it's suspicious that they posted them here almost similtaneously ...

by Harry Fri Mar 29 01:37:30 UTC 2013

well,actually I am asian or if you want to know more specific, then-I am from a south asian country-Bangladesh, actually your country is as like our neighbour country.

by Rimi Fri Mar 29 06:41:36 UTC 2013

i am renuka married 4year ago my husband is very loving person he is very stict my mother in law is school teacher she treat me like her dughter but she is very discipline she made some rules when break rules she punish me like school kid , yesterday i wear jeans and tshirt my mother in law come to school sea in modren dres and my loose hairs she call me in front told sit in kneeldown infront her u break the rules so u get punished she catch my ear twist hard she give 10 ear twist my each ear next told 50 sit up and count loudly then send me take cane in her room told bend over the tabel give 10 hard stroke in my butt i cry in pain and jump she told dnt cry and rub ur ass until last stroke then give murga punishment in beside her 30 min when butts down she cane my butt with stick my husband come to office i am in murga position he sea my dress and loose hairs he told come to bed room in murga position its difficult but he take cane stood behind me cane my butt i wake in same position then he actch my long hairs puul hard slap my face told remove drees then he give 30 nude sit up and murga in30 min and 3 rounds murga parede after 1 hr kneeldown with holding ears after told u next 1weak morning do 25 situp and 10 min murga for break rules,

by renuka Fri Mar 29 12:32:37 UTC 2013

i am malathi my husband is a very strict disciplinarian he loves me a lot but he punish me if i do wrong 2 days back he was out of station and i went out without telling him with my friendṣ he doesnt like me wearing modern clothes but i wore clothes which revealed my breasṭ. i didnt tell him abt thiṣ. i had taken photos of going out and he saw them in my mobile yesterday. i had gone to buy grocerieṣ he was waiting in the gate and he saw me and slapped me there 10 times. then pulled me by hair and went into the house. he asked me why i did that mistake even i apologised but he kept beating my breast and niplles and butt with cane. he had never been so angry and punished like this before. now for next 1 month he told he will punish me everyday and next 1 week when he go to office he will tie me up so that i can not move

by malathi Sat Mar 30 04:23:41 UTC 2013

kate's story might be copied and pasted just after marianne's. it might be done by one person

by guest Sat Mar 30 14:11:58 UTC 2013

Thank you Guest. I have just found this has been done after Harry posted his same comment in the Caning Forum. Some f***wit has copied my post and posted it here without my permission or agreement and pretended to be me, and it looks like he has done the same to Marianne. I posted a pointer here to both of our stories on March 13th, but other posts made above were not done by me. I don't want my story here. I am not a wife and this is the wrong forum. Whoever you are, you are a total w***er.

by Kate Sat Mar 30 14:59:14 UTC 2013

i am rekha i am also suffring in same condition malathi my husband love me lot but he punish my mistake my mothrr in law is also punish me hard yestarday i wearing modren dress and goto frind house without permission my moter in law got angry told change dress i change my dress wear saree she call me told kneel down in front her she give hard ear twist told 25 sit up then told me become murga but i not do goto my bed room after my husband come to office she told everything he call me in anger told touch my mother in feat ask sorry then he send me to bring cane i bring cane in my bed room he told become murga 1hr infront my mother in law he cane my butts hard i cry in pain but he didnt lisen told u stay in murga for 1hr when my butt down he hit me after 40 min i not controll balance i lget up he catch my ear told 20 min remining bend catch ur ear i follow order he slap my ass hard told walk in murga position in 3rounds hall he stood behind me when i stop or down butts cane me hard after complited 3 round he told next 1 weak u 45min murga in front my mother ,i cry in pain mother in give me naughty smile, next morning husband go to office my mother in law call me told 25 sit up ido next ask me now u become murga r not i bend and catch my ear but my butt in down she cane my butt told isaid in murga not murgi rise ur butt she cane me hard when my butts down next she give 1hr kneel down in front of her,i am fear thinking of remining 6days ,

by rekha Mon Apr 08 16:52:26 UTC 2013

rekha , luckily my mother in law doesnt live with me. he also loves me but is a strict man. first after marriage one day i shouted at him i did know he will punish me and that day he beat me 50 times whip on the front without any break. my husband also wants me to please him whenever he wants. i have to give him oral sex. once i was tired after going and out and i refused. he got so angry and punished me and made me do oral all the night with a clamp on my nipple. my two legs were tied to the two corners of the bed and my head was placed near his personal. i had to keep sucking his personal all through the night even he slept . i slept and when he woke up in the middle of the night and saw that i slept he gave a tight slap on the face to wake me up. since then i have never refused to do what he wants

by Malathi Mon Apr 08 18:06:04 UTC 2013

malathi ur luckily my mother in law is love me but she punish me hard,my husband also wants oral sex he slap my ass,pull my hairs in sex,once i refused sex he slap my ass give 50 sit up in nude condition then he give me 30min nude murga and 2round murga parede in bed room,he cane my butt hard his leather belt,told u just falow my order otherwise i will punish hard,since i have never refused to do what he wants.my moter in law made me murga in front of her friend shoba aunty its very embresed.

by rekha Thu Apr 11 01:43:09 UTC 2013

even my husband order i have to follow or he many time gives murga punishmenṭ. one morning i forgot to wake him up on time and he missed a buṣ he was so angry he gave cane strokes and made me sit in murga for the whole day in the terrace nude with nipple clamps it pained like hell but he wouldnt listen i had to even pee there itself. once while in front of his friends i spilled the coffee on his friendś head and he made me do nude murga there itself and put niplle clamps and asked me beg sorry from his friend

by Malathi Sat Apr 13 00:04:06 UTC 2013

malathi i am not belive its fake ur husband nude in front his friend its imposibel ,my husband punish me hard but he made nude only my bedroom,once my i spilled the coffee on his friend my husband give me 25 sit up and ask sorry from his friend, i become murga only infront of my family members,once my mother in law friend come to my house for dinner i mistake in food my mother in law give 45 min murga and 30 sit up in front of her frind then my husband give20 min nude murga pared in my bed room and kneel down with holding my ears for 1 hr when i loose my position he cane my butt.

by rekha Sun Apr 14 11:54:19 UTC 2013

rekha i wrote by mistake it was not my husbands friend it was his relative that was the first time i had seen him. i dont know why but he always put nipple clamp when he punish me it pains like hell. the worst was when one night full he put nipple clamp. he also wants my personal to be shaved when he punish me if it is not shaved he shaves me in the garden nude and punish me extra for that. even once he put clamp on my pube area.

by Malathi Mon Apr 15 09:22:57 UTC 2013

do u'r kid see u'r punishment rekha & malati?

by guest Tue Apr 16 04:49:18 UTC 2013

guest i dont have a kid yet

by Malathi Tue Apr 16 08:39:23 UTC 2013

yes rekha i support u husband never nude his wife infront of others ,my husband punish me hard in saparate, i punished only in front of my family members,my father in law is very strict he punish all ladies including my mother in law and her daughter,s once in festival my husband sister shoba,usha and my father in law brother and her daughter in law venutha come with her husbands, all ladies are doing work night dinner time all male sitting ladies serve the food ,samer is more salt,sabji is more spicy my father in law shout who prepare food, all are silent because all ladies are working exacpt priya and my mother in law. he shout all ladies are lazy so u get punished,all ladies are fear all knows his punishment,after dinner all sit in sofa my father in law call all ladies.

by renuka Sun Apr 21 04:16:25 UTC 2013

continue
all ladies come to hall he told priya go bring a stick she come with stick give to her father she stand beside he told all are doing 30 sit up all ladies catch her ears start sit up all husband sitting in sofa viutha not sit properly father in law hit her leg told do properly after 20 sit up he told stop and told come in circle hold each other ears he told twist i cach venutha left ear usha right ear twist hard both catch my ears he told do sit up all doing 20 sit up in same position all ears are red after he told all become murga but venutha not doing murga before all bend and catch ears rise butts venutha sea her father in law he told u become murga first she cnt do after she catch her earsbut butts down her husband slap her ass told rise ur butts she rise her butts father in law told give stick to priya u stand behind and cane her butts she give 3 stroke on all venuth loose her ears priya hit her ass hard told catch ears tightly when butts down she cane her butts venutha take more stroke shoba and me take 10 stroke in 40 min after my husband told all walk in this position 2 round in full hall all start walk when stop or down butts priya cane after completed round venutha come last her husband told u practice more so u walk one more round she do one more round. after all go to room. my legsare more pain .

by renuka Sun Apr 21 05:07:44 UTC 2013

renuka i live alone with my husband. so he punish me whenever he wants. he always wants hair with oil and doesnt like me going out wearing dress that show my belly thigh and private parts bulgingly. once i did that and for he caned me one hour in my butt and on my breast. he put clamps on my nipple the whole night as punishment. he did this for one week fully and

by malathi Thu Apr 25 04:23:28 UTC 2013

MALATHI u lucky live alone with ur husband, i live with joint family, my father in law and mother in law also punish me hard, yester day i loose my hair,and wear slevless chudi i,priya and venutha going out venutha husband sea and call my husband venutha is also wear slevless chudi he catch venutha hair slap her face drag in hall my husband come slap me and priya he catch my hair drag me in hall both sit in sofa he told renuka go and bring cane i go and bring cane he told come and bend over i did he touch stick my butts first he grabe slowly and give hard stroke on my butts i jump in pain he give 6 hard stroke my butts after he call pryia he cane priya butts after he gave stick in venutha husband he call venutha he cane hard her butts venutha ,me and priya start cry like baby but he did not lisen after he give me 1hr kneldown punishment.

by renuka Sat Apr 27 10:00:57 UTC 2013

iam 24years age.after marriaga he made some code of law (1) i should wake up 5am morning (2)when he comes from bed i should kneel down before folded hands.standup only his permission (3)i should alwys wear panty .this law ihave been practicisg from school convent hostel.(4)when he comes from office i should touch one knee on the floor.(5)if i make any minor mistakes i should kneel down on salt wearing lingerlie&bra oly.for one year i undergo these punishment .expect readers opnion

by leela chackoo kayamkulam Sat Apr 27 10:39:41 UTC 2013

Dear Leela chackoo kayamkulam, There are so many families which are very strict on newly married wives to control and tame them according to their needs. In most families, wife has to get up before husband and MIL. There is no fixed time at all. One day it may be 5 AM, another day it may be 4:50 AM, third dat it may be 5:20 AM. If the DIL is late even by one minute, she gets punished from MIL. Almost all ladies have to touch their husbands feet by kneeling and touching their head to husband's feet everyday immediately after getting up. In a joint family, DIL is supposed to touch the feet of MIL too in the same manner and not supposed to get up until lifted. There are many other codes of law as well to be followed.

What happens to you when you forget any of the codes? Is it only Kneel down on salt or tight slaps on cheeks as well? What are the punishments for answering back to husband or MIL or showing disobedience to husband or MIL?

by BV Sat Apr 27 13:00:39 UTC 2013

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by Santhosh Kumar Sun Apr 28 05:41:28 UTC 2013

leela chackoo kayamkulam i am no different . after i was married my husband put rules to me very strictly.1) i must get up at 6 oclock and wake him up at 6 15. i must be naked when i wake him up and if i do it late i am punisheḍ 2) wherever he is i have to be lower than him if he is standing i must bow to him and stand or if he is sitting on chair i must sit on flooṛ 3) i must not wear bra or pantie and must wear nighty when i am in house 4)my hair shud always be oiled 5) when he come from office i must remove his shoe and ask him if he want oraḷ 5) when he is eating i must be in murga position and he will place his leg on me 6) i can sleep if he asks me to

by Malathi Sun Apr 28 19:07:42 UTC 2013

and i have to do 50 thoppukarnam naked everyday infront of hiṃ once he comes home i have to be without dresṣ i can wear if he asks me to

by Malathi Sun Apr 28 19:10:09 UTC 2013

HAI i am latha i married 5 years ago i live with my husband and his brother and wife asha,and my father in law my family punishment is common for mistake first i come after my marrige my husband told my father is very strict, after 1 weak i do small mistake my husband told latha u do 25 sit up i do after he cane my butt i cry in pain but he cane hard after he ask me u never become murga i said no he told u practice my father give murga punishment next day i and asha ready for break fast some mistake in food after tiffen .my father in law call asha and latha come here my husband and his brother ready for office i and asha going near he told both become 45min murga i shock told papa i never become murga all are laugh told asha u sea how to become murga she bend and catch her ears between legs, i bend but not catch my ear my husband slap my ass help me catch my ear,after 10min its very pain when my butts down my father in law cane my butt after 30min he told asha u show to latha murga parade asha start walk i stay in murga position he cane my butt told start walk i did .

by latha Fri May 03 04:47:43 UTC 2013

Hi everyone I am 38 years old my husband a I have been married for 17 years we have two daughters of 15 and 13 years. My husband is very nice person. we used to have few fights in the past but he never caned or punished me. He used to punish our daughters when they were around 8-10 but after that he stopped. I had bought money from one of my friends and he came to know and was very angry we had few words exchanged like before. He threatened to cane me.I knew I was wrong and deserved a caning. That day he came home and after we had dinner he told me to get ready. I was really surprised i thought he was just joking but he was serious. I wanted to get it done as soon as possible so I could feel relived. We went to our room he told me to take off my clothes and started caning me in bed. I got 8 strokes with the stick we had in our house. It was not the worse but it was painful. From that night i get caned for my mistakes and when I do something wrong. Everything has changed from that night. We don't have fights anymore. I also don't use my mouth too much cause I know I will be caned if I do. He doesn't punish our daughters it's only me who get punished. I get caned once in 2 or 3 weeks.

by punished late Fri May 03 12:33:18 UTC 2013

I like to See Caning I am a Cane Loving Person. wilsonred@rediffmaildotcom

by Santhosh Kumar Wed May 08 09:45:30 UTC 2013

Hi Malathi. I am Ishita and am a Bengali. I suffer similarly. I am married for ten months now. Ours was a love marriage and prior to marriage my husband always preferred me wearing modern outfits and look stylish. Right from the day we got married he strictly told me that I can never have a hair cut and hair should be heavily oiled. I ignored it thinking it was a joke and that was a big mistake. I got beaten by a leather belt severely and my hair was pulled so hard that I was in pain for atleast a week. I am expected to pour one big bottle of oil on my hair every week. I am supposed to oil my hair twice a day and that too in his presence. We stay alone in our flat and he beats me whenever he wants. For any small mistake he bangs my thighs with a wooden scale and makes it blood red. He also straps me up if I am not able to satisfy him sexually. His dominance is such that i always have to sit at his feet when he is home.

by Ishita Sat May 25 10:27:36 UTC 2013

Hi Ishita, I am Subha from Chennai, I am born & brought up in city culture. I never oiled my hair frequently expect some occasion like Diwali tat Indian custom to take oil bath. But my life completely changed wen I got married to my husband. He is a very strict person and too older for me. Since my first night of marriage he begun to scolding about my short and dry hair and as per his family I should have pierced my nose for nose stud. Then he made me to take oath about my obedience and follower of his any rules and orders...to be contd.

by subha Sun May 26 08:45:00 UTC 2013

Malathi and Ishita....How does it feel having your hair oiled all the time????

by avika Sun May 26 18:59:59 UTC 2013

avika it feels irritating and not at all nice if u go the nearby supermarkket eith hair fully oiled

by Malathi Wed May 29 09:36:37 UTC 2013

Malathi....I would also advice you to keep your hair oiled as it helps in a lot of ways...personally my hair is always oiled and I also oil my hair twice daily in the presence of my husband and if anytime i oil my hair in the absence of my husband then also i have to oil my hair for his satisfaction in front of him

by avika Wed May 29 16:09:48 UTC 2013

subha where in chennai do u live and what are the rules in ur house is ur husband too strict

by Malathi Fri May 31 15:50:51 UTC 2013

my husband make me kneeldown on sand only wearing
loin cloth(konakam)&bra holding my finger on ear
savitha varma

by guest Tue Jun 04 05:27:08 UTC 2013

Agar koi ladki mujhi punish karna chati hai to pls punish me

by jitender Fri Jun 07 17:46:31 UTC 2013

I am kavitha, I got married to a strict orthodox family. My husband is working as a govt. officer and he takes good care of me and d same time he controls me under his feet, he doesn't hesitate to punish me whenever I step out of his line. His strict order is to me to obey every order of his mom I.e my Mil and his yelder sisiter who lives along with us her husband works abroad and she looking out d house administration and now she is my administrator, daily she would assign me d household chores to do, if I slipped out of my duties she straight away took d responsible of my discipline. It doesn't end with her instead it would be followed with my Mil and in night with my husband so I m really dead scared about her orders and about my Mil she wouldn't interact me lot unless I was send to receive my punishments. she is very cruel when she was disciplined me. We all three of d ladies in our house has different body structures and appearance except one part i.e our's shiny thick longhair caressed our butts....contd.

by kavitha Sun Jun 09 12:20:30 UTC 2013

Contd... As per my Mil and my anni(Babhi) I should alway keep my longhair in heavily oiled wit coconut oil only on Friday I can wash my hair with shikka powder again in evening I continue oiling. My Very first day punishments I had received for keeping my longhair dry. My Anni dragged me out of my bedroom with grabbing my longhair roughly to the hall where my Mil sat on d sofa with a large bottle of coconut oil. I screamed with pain and begged for mercy... to be contd..

by kavitha Sun Jun 09 14:56:00 UTC 2013

My Anni finally released my hair and ordered Me to remove my Saree and stay with my blouse and skirt then she ordered me to sat on my knees before my Mil facing my back to her. Mil opened my longhair braid and finger combed my longhair for while before I could sense d cool coconut oil flows on my scalp she never stopped until d oil dripped on my face along with my tears then mil patted my head with her strong hand and inserted her finger into my hair to massage my scalps then again mil pour generous amount of oil in d entire length of my longhair she rubbed d coconut oil allover my hair upto d tip. My longhair felt heavy becos of huge amount of coconut oil drenched my hair then she gathered my entire longhair and made into a bun over my hear and once again she poured enormous coconut oil over my head i.e into my hair bun so tat slowly oil would flows into my scalps. Then Mil ordered me to kneel down in d center of d hall and wait for my Anni to deal with me. I kneel down for over 30mins and I heard my anni foot step with her anklet sound, I was feared wat to be next. Anni shouted me to crawl on my knees toward her and she holding a comb with her now she opened my oil dripping longhair bun and begun to comb. After removing all tangles she took lice comb and combed my entire hair very fine and hard I could feel d roughness of her dealing with my hair like holding my oiled hair very tightly and pulling it for her wish, I simply stay polite and obedient with her dealing and she scolded about d careless of my longhair care. Then atlast she made very tight double braid with middle parted hair like a school girl and told me to stay on my knees until she finish my punishments. I was really scared and embarrassed but nothing I could do rather behave with her words. After while my Anni came with long thin cane and leather belt in her hand. She made me to stand and removed my skirt and blouse now I was standing with my bra and panties she shouted me to remove d rest of my clothes my tears running on my oil dripping face in d shame. But I had no choice I became completely nudde.Anni then ordered me to bend over d small table, I obey her and now my nakked asss would completely exposed towards her for upcoming punishments...to be contd.

by kavitha Sun Jun 09 17:38:46 UTC 2013

I was remained in tat position for while and swiftly I received first stroke on my butts wit d cane i couldn't tolerate d stinging pain, so I suddenly got raised from my position and rubbed my butts this was my big mistake. My Anni got more angry on my act, then she roughly grabbed my left ear and twisted it hard I cried and begged her to forgive me but she didn't listen rather I received 5 to 6 hard slaps on my face. Now she tied my hands behind mine with d rope and caught my both oil dripping longhair plaits, then tied it on d table short legs so tat I couldn't raise my head or even to shake it. Now I completely bound with my legs too spreaded and tied. Anni warned me to keep calm or else she would gagged my mouth I scared and obeyed her again she took d cane and whipped my bare tender asss for her satisfaction I screamed and cried but no use to stay calm for next stuff i.e my husband's leather belt.My Anni very expert in handling d belt on my entire bare flesh I couldn't even count tat d amount of slashing tat I received from her cruel hands. Finally she finished, but she didn't released me for another 1 hour. Then Anni released me and strictly warned me not to misbehave any of d person in her house and be obedient to all even d guest ordered me or even they punished me. Then Anni made me to kneel down before my Mil to take apology by catching her feet and begged her to forgive my faults. Actually all my punishments made in front of her and in finishing I need to kneel in front of her and beg for her forgiveness and some time she made me to kneel and touch her feet for over a hour then she caught my ears made some rough twisting until my eyes flows with tears then slapped my pretty face with one hard slap in each cheeks. On d punishment days I wouldn't allowed to wear any clothes and remained in nudde so tat when my Anni feels to cane or whip my bare back its make good contact on my flesh...to be contd.

by kavitha Mon Jun 10 04:11:21 UTC 2013

I like to beat my girlfriend with hunter all over her nude back by tying her hands across the poles and later kissing all over her bacck.

by mahesh Mon Jun 10 07:09:49 UTC 2013

Agar koi ladki mujhi punish karna chati hai to pls punish me

by jitender Mon Jun 10 17:01:18 UTC 2013

why u guyzzz beat ur wives as even after being badly bitten they lvs u.........are u all habbi's sick or.............we can sy u guyzz are animals u cnt b human...........

by abhi Tue Jun 18 07:29:48 UTC 2013

why u guyzzz beat ur wives as even after being badly bitten they lvs u.........are u all habbi's sick or.............we can sy u guyzz are animals u cnt b human...........

by abhi Tue Jun 18 07:29:51 UTC 2013

Dear friends,
I am a housewife,I have been married for 6 years now and had no children,the main reason for not having kids is that my husband's fascination for oiling hair,I dont go to office or socialise because my husband likes to keep oiling my hair.he works in a govt office and his work timings are from 10 am to 6 pm and his travel time is approx half hr and he leaves for offive at 9:30 and is home by 6:30.daily in the morning i have to complete my morning work by 9 am and come to the hall,where my husband fully ready is waiting for me with a bottle of hair oil(we dont use any branded oil,we buy oil that is available in loose) he then opens my hair and combs it with a lice comb and then starts oiling my hair.he generously oils my hair for about 20 mins and then combs my hair into a braid and then leaves for his office,he does not leave for his office until he oils my hair and if i get late on any day he will only lice comb my hair and leaves for office and after coming home he will ask the maid to oil my hair and then after coming from office he canes me in the bedroom and then oils my hair and finishes the available hair oil at home and then he would go and refill the bottle from our regular oil dealer.

by guest Fri Jun 28 15:49:50 UTC 2013

Sorry i forgot to post my name.....its diya....

by diya Fri Jun 28 15:50:32 UTC 2013

Nice Diya Housewives should alway oil their hair heavily and tied in a tight braid this will be the respect to ur men. Even I hope next time ur husband would oil ur hair upto dripping on ur face if u resist he should order ur maid to punish u hard...

by dom Fri Jun 28 17:14:25 UTC 2013

Dear dom,
Thank you for sharing your views and i as a home maker also feel that i must keep my hair oiled or in easier terms i as a wife have a duty to dress as my husband wants if he wants to oil my hair i dont mind,but he cant punish me the way he does for getting late.

by diya Sat Jun 29 16:00:03 UTC 2013

No Diya u must be punished wen u r husband feels u need discipline becos he can be d only person to keep u on track tats why he called as man. He had all responsibilities to take care as well as to punish u wen u deserved it...

by dom Sat Jun 29 17:31:48 UTC 2013

Dear dom,
Please understand dat sometimes we do get late as we are doing household chores,we must atleast not be punished just bcoz u don get to oil my hair once.if i am late anytime i can oil my hair on my own n m willing to do dat...den y punish me??
If i am not oiling my hair then my husband has all the rights to punish me....

by diya Sat Jun 29 18:11:48 UTC 2013

Dear Diya, u should understand tat u housewives hads only duty is to look after d household chores so wen u r slip out of it definitely u need someone to discipline u so why it could be ur husband to make discipline u. So Diya be a good wife to ur hubby and keep oiling or let ur hubby to oil ur hair upto his desire don't resist and make ur self in trouble like caning and slapping. And don't even try to argue me furtherabout ur oiling or discipine, I would become more angry on u even if could get a chance to know ur identity I would make u my permanent house slave, then you will be my feet slave forever with ur dripping oiled hair and oil glistening sobbing face... Be carefull.!!!!
!

by dom Sat Jun 29 18:58:02 UTC 2013

Dear dom....
Please try to understand me before making any comments...thank u i don need anymore help from you.thanks....

by diya Sat Jun 29 19:09:14 UTC 2013

Dear dom,
Today my husband has a holiday i wont get time to post anything.give me a days time tomorrow i will only reveal whatever you wish about me on this forum.I thought i can find some help by just sharing my name and problem.but u proved me wrong

by diya Sun Jun 30 02:56:50 UTC 2013

Dear All,

This is diya here and someone on this forum has posted something that has hurt my image,therefore I am ready to clarify myself on this forum

by diya Mon Jul 01 12:43:55 UTC 2013

I dont think that any wife is canned severly by her hubby as mentioned in this forum.Some times wives can be punished but not like this.

by guest Mon Jul 01 13:25:46 UTC 2013

I dont think that any wife is canned severly by her hubby as mentioned in this forum.Some times wives can be punished but not like this.

by guest Mon Jul 01 13:25:47 UTC 2013

Dear Friends,

This is Diya here and this will be the last time I will be posting on this forum and before I leave I would like to let you all know that some people are using my name and posting wrong things about me which I even never dream of.I read all the posts on this forum and thought that I might find a solution to my problem,but many people are using my problem to their entertainment which is not appreciated.Before I leave this forum let me tell you all that I love my husband very much and would never leave him at any cost.
Bye

by diya Mon Jul 01 14:53:20 UTC 2013

**** Dom!you have an idiotic mentality, nothing else.

by anupama Tue Jul 02 14:16:20 UTC 2013

Physcos united

by god alone knows why i read this Wed Jul 10 05:10:36 UTC 2013

I like to beat my wife with a large black hunter.when my hunter touches her bare back a flashing sound comes and a red mark stretches her body then I apply ice on her wound,then I kiss on her back which makes her feel nice.

by alok Wed Jul 17 18:04:04 UTC 2013

I do not think wives should be beaten such severely.They need to be punished but not very brutally.Coming to the case of Diya I find that it is very usual that girls these days do not like to oil their hair.They are more fascinated towards fashion. Here I would like to say that husbands should make it clear that their wives should always have oiled hair and they should be firm in their instruction. Rather than caning every now and then wives should have the fear factor in their mind so that they would obey their husband always and daily punishments can be avoided. I am personally married for the last four years to a very attractive looking modern Bengali girl. I remember having punished her so severely seven days after my marriage for moving around in dry hair that even till date she does not have the guts to come in front of me without her hair heavy oiled. On occasions, I allow her to go out to parties or other social occasions in dry hair and the moment she is back to home, she pours adequate quantity of hair oil. Actually girls fail to understand that they look good and attractive in neatly oiled and braided hair. This needs to be explained to them once or twice rather than punishing them regularly. Even I punish my wife once in a while but not severely. I am in the habit of pulling her hair frequently but the fear factor is so much there in her mind that she does not give me a chance to find faults.

by Rajesh Wed Jul 24 11:50:02 UTC 2013

i had posted earlier in this forum. i am amiste. Still my husband treat me the same way. he has now made many more rules. i will try to post them

by amiste Sun Jul 28 11:00:42 UTC 2013

Dear Friends,
This is Diya here and I had asked some help from you people and was very saddened by how my story was used to satisfy someone’s fantasies.I also spoke to some of my friends and relatives and took suggestions from them for my problem, I never had any problem with HAIR OILING,my only problem was dat I really got a very hard punishment for a very small crime of coming late.
My friend found a solution to my problem,She had come a few days back when my husband was at home for lunch after having lunch she had a small discussion with my husband and me.
After which,My husband understood that I am not against oiling my hair twice daily,the problem was that my husband applied more oil to my hair just because he could not oil my hair once in a day,he used to order the maid to oil my hair and then he would come home and ask my maid whether she has oiled my hair or not and once I being an obedient wife had oiled my hair on my own and that day he scolded my maid ordered her to oil my hair even though I had oiled it and after she oiled my hair he also generously oiled my hair.This happened many times later and whenever I would be late I would oil my hair then I would call my maid and ask her to oil my hair and after that I would let my husband oil my hair to his heart content.This went on for 6 years and I never said anything because I deserved the punishment.
But as time went by I thought that the punishments are very harsh,therefore I was looking for a solution.Through the discussion my husband understood my problems and gave me little leniency and said that the maid would not need to oil my hair and he would not pour all the oil on my hair if he did not get an opportunity to oil my hair,But he added 2 other conditions, i.e My MIL would come and stay with us and my MIL and husband would be responsible for my hair care and designed a separate schedule for weekdays and another one for weekends and holidays.
As per the schedule on weekdays my hair is oiled twice once in the morning before my husband leaves for office by him and if I am late my MIL would oil my hair and in the evening my husband would return from office and he would oil my hair and during holidays and weekends he oils my hair 6 times during the day.My husband loves oiling my hair heavily and I am allowed to wash my hair on alternate Saturdays and my husband would oil my hair as soon as it dries.

by Diya Mon Aug 05 18:07:41 UTC 2013

What do women think or feel about touching husband and in-laws' feet, especially sister-in-law and brother in law? And how many do it?

by guest Thu Aug 08 07:56:18 UTC 2013

I know of a person who brings his wife under his feet by making her bow down and put his feet on her head. He says his wife willingly does it

by guest Thu Aug 08 08:01:19 UTC 2013

i am so sorry diya, but can't help it, what's wrong with u guys ??? don't you people have any other work other than oiling hair all day long, and just becoz u r a house wife ,it doesn't mean you are a slave...............man i can't believe this , what's this all about , oiling hair you gotta be kidding me, what's so fasinating in it.

by who know's y am i reading this Mon Aug 12 11:35:40 UTC 2013

i touch my husband's feet twice daily and if i do any mistake he put his feet on my head or i hoid his shoes on my head sometimes i write my name on a cheat and put it on his shoes so that my name is under his feet

by piyali Thu Aug 15 11:36:27 UTC 2013

awesome piyali, good to know how you worship your husband

by guest Thu Aug 15 14:11:18 UTC 2013

My Husband is very Strict & am always punished

I would like to share with you my personal experience what is going on in my life since the last 5 years. I could not share this with my family and friends, thought of posting in this blog and getting to know others.

I am Amiste. I got married around 5 years ago and from then onwards, I live like a slave in the house. From childhood, I was never been beatened or been shouted by parents. I was always treated as princess. But, now everything has changed.

I live with my husband who is very strict. I have been given strict instructions on a daily basis what I am suppose to do. Work would either be cleaning, washing a particular area or gardening or writing or...etc....

I have to wake up at 5 am in the morning. Take 100 rounds of the garden by counting each round aloud in the camera, so that my husband can check later, if I missed any number. I have to complete the running in the max. 30 mins. Come home, take a cold water shower and dress with min. clothing. I have to always wear a sleveless t-shirt with no pants. No matter if it is winter or summer, I have to always dress in the T-shirt. I have been given two t-shirts, which I have to wash and wear. Once, I have finished I have to start with the daily chores of washing up the clothes and rooms. Exactly at 7am, I have to go to the kitchen for making the breakfast and cutting fruits. Sharp 8am I have to keep the breakfast on the table for my husband to eat. I have to stand in the corner facing the wall while he is eating. Once he is done, if there is anything left, I have been given to eat or else I have to skip the breakfast. As per my experience, in a week, I hardly get to eat breakfast as never the sandwiches are left for me. I can never make any extra sandwich by mistake.

My husband runs a private firm which he works from home. Office is set up in other room. I am not allowed to go out of the house without permission from him. I can only go the grocery store for shopping or for his official work either to post office or bank. I am always given an estimated time. I cannot dare to be late.

I am always punished in the house and gets harsh painful punishments.

I was once given a particular time to come back home. But while shopping at the grocery store, there was a problem in the till and I got delayed by 5mins to come back home. I was been strapped with the belt on my leg. I was given 300 strokes with the belt. Asone min. late, I deserve 60 strokes. I was asked to stand straight while he is giving me strokes. I could barely do that. After 300 strokes, I was unable to walk and could not get up. He pulled me and locked me in the garage for 8 hours. After that, I was been asked to take 10 rounds of the garden by holding a heavy suitcase on my head. At each round, I was given one cane stroke. Those lashes took nearly a mth to disappear.

Everyday, I am allowed to eat lunch at 3.00 pm whether or not I had my breakfast and after that at 11.00 pm for dinner. After dinner, I am forced to drink 1 pint of hot boiling milk at one shot. I can sleep if he asks me to go to bed or if he is working in his office, I cannot dare to sleep. Till then, he gives me a task to do. I am always given a room to clean and he checks later if it is spot on. If he finds a finger print on the glass, I get beatened hard on my face as I did not see it. We have 4 bedrooms, 2 living area, 1 kitchen, 1 dining area, & 2 rooms joined together for his office downstairs. IF I finish my daily chores, I am been ordered to stand or kneel in the corne which is for at least an hour. If I dare to move a bit, he immediately gets up and canes me so hard that i start bleeding.

Sometimes, he gives me a book and orders me to copy and write in a clear handwriting in a book. Once he did not allow me to stop writing for nearly 6 hours. I could barely move my fingers. If I stopped, I use to get my fingers burn by a candle.

While sleeping in the night, I have been given a room with

by amiste Fri Aug 16 14:02:00 UTC 2013

While sleeping in the night, I have been given a room with no beds and carpet. On the wooden floor, he has made a bed of neem leaves, cactus plant and sliced ginger. He has given this order to one delivery guy who gets this bed made everyday. I have no option, but to lie on that bed. I have a camera fitted in the room. He checks in the morning, if I dared while sleeping moved from that bed. I had once on purpose, could not sleep on that bed and moved a bit outside on the floor. Next day, I was been hit by the cactus plant. He made me naked and pushed me on the cactus plant in the garden.

My body is like full of lashes and bruises everywhere. I always find difficult to sit or stand or do anything. But, I have no excuses and I have to obey as he orders. I am always in pain. I could use this laptop after years as he has now given me permission to use it for 30 mins everyday.

I posted this long ago.

still i am treated like this.
when he found that i had posted on this website he punihsed me very badly and i was tied to the ceiling naked for 2 nights and beat me everyday for 2 hours

by Amiste Fri Aug 16 14:44:00 UTC 2013

My husband punishes me too when I am misbehaved. But I think he has a right to punish me.

by nita Sat Aug 17 16:20:04 UTC 2013

today i wanted to try something new to my wife.She was standing in the balcony.I thought to beat her with chabuk.So i went to the market in leather shop and bought a 5feet8 inches red chabuk.Slowly I entered in balcony and lashed her back so hard ha a long strech was marked on her back,she was wearing brown colour saree and brown colour blouse and my wifes body is milky white,so after seeing the lashes i got excited and told her to strip ,she was not stripping so i gave another 6 lashes on her leg.I thought i will make her body full of lashes and later make love to her body.So she removed her saree,she was not removing her blouse so i hit her again across her breast a long strech mark appeard again ,she finally removed her blouse now she was in bra which was black in colour,I decided i will hit wid my chabuk and remove her bra ,i ordered her to turn back ,i gave one powerful lash on her bra and her hook got opened and it fell down in the ground.I brought a wooden cross and tied her,her white armpits stretched across, was looking sexy then i told her u are my slave today and then i started lashing her,I gave 40 strokes on her front and about 100 strokes on her back .After 1 hour i saw her body full of red lashes and she was moaning,i untied her and then took her to the bedroom and lied her down, back facing towards me,suddenly i started giving kisses on all lashes marks and she was enjoying it too.I smooched her body till 2 hours and finallY i applied ice on all marks.She told me it was painful but she enjoyed that.She wants me to repeat this after next 20 days.

by Indian husband Sun Aug 18 09:40:21 UTC 2013

Are you doing it for the first time? My husband does it everyday and see my lifestyle. you are such a nice husband. I a, very scared of my husband

by Amiste Mon Aug 19 11:24:42 UTC 2013

Are you doing it for the first time? My husband does it everyday and see my lifestyle. you are such a nice husband. I a, very scared of my husband

by Amiste Mon Aug 19 11:24:43 UTC 2013

lick your husband's feet amiste

by guest Mon Aug 19 12:37:56 UTC 2013

Yes it is for first time but i have to see whether she can bear it or not,becoz she opposed it first but later she enjoyed it and expecting me to punish her with chabuk, that majority of indian wife gets from their hubbies,I wont ask her to run 100 rounds of garden or tell her to clean house or sleep in cactus plant, never.kissing on the lashes of her back was awesome expeirience for me,this time i will keep my chabuk in oil for 24 hrs and make it more harder and then.................

by indian husband Mon Aug 19 14:48:04 UTC 2013

I get caning from my husband and mil, iam 45 now,

by guest Thu Aug 22 06:49:30 UTC 2013

One of my friend who got married with his student( his wife used to be his student) still punishes his wife. I still remember when she was his student, he didn't mind punishing her along with his other students. I too witnessed some of her punishments when she used to come for tution at my friend's house. That was when she was his student, But he still treats her(his wife) as his student and she is punished for misdeeds. I have many times seen her holding her ears and kneeling not any caning though but as a teacher he has a cane in home he might be using that too.

by observer Thu Aug 22 12:36:10 UTC 2013

observer did he canes and twists her ear in front of kid?

by guest Fri Aug 23 17:19:04 UTC 2013

YesTerday Their was my college parTy in delhi banqueT hall,one of my friend arrived Their,she was wearing a green colour saree and backless sleevless blouse,her whole nude back was visible,iT was whiTe fleshy,she is healThy also so her back was heavy,i was feeling like To eaT her nude back as well as To0=on

by guest Fri Aug 23 17:35:24 UTC 2013

When my husband found out i had used laptop without asking him he punished me very badly for the next 2 days. he tied from the ceiling and beat me on my breasts and lady parts for 2 hours fully. he has said that he will do it daily for next full month. full day he put nipple clamps on nipple and made me do 500 push ups extra along with morning running in 40 mins. I did not complete so he punished me with the cane and made me do it again. i didnt finish again but this time he let me as i had to prepare breakfast. he has said from now on if i dont finish the push ups he will beat on my breast after every push up. The breakfast i made was not proper as i had not added salt. for that he punished me and did not give me food for the whole day. in the night instead of usually pouring hot milk on my mouth he beat me and poured the hot milk immediately on to the lashes. it burnt like hell.
it is still paining for me.
today he has gone out so i was able to post this

by Amiste Sun Aug 25 04:20:03 UTC 2013

Guest (45 years old getting caning from MIL and husband),

1. Who canes you more severely?
2. For What reasons do you get caned?
3. Do you get other punishments like face slapping?
4. Since how many years are you married and receiving punishments?
5. Do you get caned in private or in presence of other friends or relatives or neighbors or children?
6. Does your MIL get canings from your FIL?
7. How are you planning to punish your DIL in future?

Please reply

by YN Sun Aug 25 15:54:46 UTC 2013

I m Kavitha, last summer vacation I was went to my aunty's village with my mother its five hour journey from our town. We reached in d mid day so we had our good lunch and some little chat with my aunt's daughter she is little elder for me her name is meena she had just taken head bath so she drying in d natural air while chatting with me and my mom too chatting with my aunty later we went to take some sleep. I woke up around 4pm in evening and freshen up then went to d hall to join other members I was shocked to see my mom sitting on d floor under my aunt's feet and massaging her legs and most surprise for me to watch tat my mom's longhair has been oiled very very heavily with coconut oil and its neatly combed then tied in a tight single folded braid wit a red ribbon. I never saw my mom in tat texture. I heard my aunty is more strict and dominant lady she is my father's elder sister but I never visited her house since my knowledge now I experiences tat. Now my aunty called her own daughter to sit between her leg then aunty ordered my mom to prepare tea for everyone. My mom obediently went to d kitchen her back, necks were shiny due to dripping oil from her hair. Even my mom used to oil her hair regularly in our house but its a light oiling and tied her hair in a loose fashionable braids but now her look was surprised for me. I simply sat on d floor and watched my aunty begun to oil meena sister's hair o my god aunty keep pouring d coconut oil directly over her head until its starts flowing on her forehead the she again poured huge amount of oil into her palm then rubbed its over meena's head. Aunty then patted her head to spread oil all over her scalp then she massaged her head before start combing. Then she made similar folded braid as like my mom's hair then tied wit a red ribbon. Now meena sister turned her face towards aunty so her mother can massage her face with tat dripping oil over her face and neck. Once she finished Aunty called me to sit between her legs for my turn of oiling. I swiftly said tat I don't like oiling my hair even my mom don't oil mine. I said tat w.o. knowing upcoming faith my aunty suddenly shouted my mom name loudly. My mom immdly rushed to my aunty. I jus saw my aunty swiftly grabbed my mom's ear and twisted hard my mom screamed in pain and to my shock she given several hard slaps on my mom's face and scolded her about how she raised me like disobeying elders. My mom apologize to my aunty and begged her for forgive me but she didn't released my mom's ear and told her daughter bring cane from her room. I don't know wat to do and react so simply watched . Meena akka rushed with d cane and handed to her mother. Aunty now left my mom's ear and grabbed mom's heavily oiled braid then started to beat her legs and thighs. My mom cried in pain and keep begging her to forgive her but aunty didn't stop until she satisfied then she ordered my mom to kneel in d center of d hall. Now aunty ordered meena akka to bring me to her I scared and didn't released from tat shock so I don't want to make trouble and bring more punishment to my mom. I hesitantly sat between her legs now my aunty keep pouring d coconut oil directly over my head and I can feel d cool oil flows down my scalp and forehead but to my shock she didn't stop until d oil reaches my chest. She then massaged my head and whole length of my hair during dis she keep scolding my mom tat how she raised me and careless. My mom bending her head with shame and embarrass. Then aunty combed my oil dripping hair for 30 mins. Then she spreaded my heavily oiled hair for lice checking it is painful session becos whenever she found any lice she given strong knock on my head. Later she parted my hair in middl and tied two tight plaits then folded it with red ribbon. I couldn't even able to cry becos of d dripping oil covers my face. Atlast my aunty turned me to face her then she massaged my whole face, neck, hands and chest wit d dripping oil. Now she called my name

by kavitha Mon Aug 26 10:03:55 UTC 2013

Hey kavitha,have you even ever been punished with a hunter?

by guest Mon Aug 26 16:43:30 UTC 2013

what a horrible aunt u have, really pathetic kavitha.

by Shabnam Tue Aug 27 05:37:32 UTC 2013

One of my cousin bhabhi is working in mnc.She was late by 3 hours in coming back home.So her father in law got angry becoz of this and he told that he will teach her a lesson today.He told her that she will get 50 lashes of chabuk.So my bhabhi did not replied anythng instead she said, i am ready to face the punishment,she went to her room and came back down after 3hrs .She was wearing a red gown,then he said are u ready,She said yes.She slowly removed her gown, she was wearing a sleevless and backless black colour nighty inside,so her fleshy bare back was visible.Chabuk was hanging on the wall.He orderd her to show her back and then he went 5 steps back and started lashing her soft back,her back was full of lashes.After completing 50 he said if she repeats this next time,she will get 100 lashes.

by trideep Tue Aug 27 13:19:35 UTC 2013

This s Kavitha again its a continuation. she called my name so I opened my eyes but my utter shock she swiftly given me a tight slap on my face I almost fell down but she didn't care suddenly she grabbed my ears and made hard twist and following I received more raining slaps with her strong hands. Then she ordered me to kneel beside of my mom with catching our ears. I cried in shame & pain kneeling beside of my own mom. Now my aunty asked her daughter to oil her own hair d same huge oiling has followed in her hair too then meena akka made a tight bun of her mother's hair and she poured coconut oil directly on her top head and bun. Now Aunty called my mom to raise and she lectured her to keep teach me d obedient and some good things and habits then she strictly ordered my mother to oil her own hair as well as mine regularly daily twice or thrice with coconut oil very very heavily even wen we returned to our town and from now on she herself teach me and my mom tat how to be obedient to our elders and men in d house and to do all house hold chores. Aunty called me and told me to join meena akka for cleaning d backyard if I didn't learn to obey then she wouldn't hesitate to apply cane on my nakedd back. I had no choice rather to obey her with all of fear I rushed to f backyard where meena akka sweeping d backyards and again my mom sat under my aunt's feet and continues d leg massaging. Meena akka handed me another broom and teached me to sweep. It's a long backyard I strained lot with my tears eyes but meena akka is soo lovable person she alway caressed my cheeks and oiled hair in night we slept in same mat during dis she massage my hands and kissed my cheeks. So since I was at my aunty house I should wake up early morning and again have to clean d backyards and front then have to make tea for everyone then I have to join in kitchen to prepare breakfast then all d women should assemble in d hall for our heavy oiling on our already oiled hair in d meanwhile if I did any thing wrong or forget to do myself and my mom would be punished severely by my aunty. Mostly everyday me and my mom would be caned wit plenty of slaps and ear, hair pulling after oiling our hair extra heavily and she never allowed us to wash our hair wit shampoo instead she allowed us to wash our heavily oiled hair wit shikka powder. Later I came to know tat my dad purposely sent us to our aunty house for our disciplines. Later my dad has started his own stores at near by our aunty's village, so we shifted permanently to our aunty's house under her strict disciplines. So often myself or my mom would be kneeled in d hall, kitchen sometimes at d backyards or front varandah too tat would be more embarrassing becos every peoples crossing our house they can easily able to see our punishments. Then our hair would be always shined and glistening with coconut oil and always tied in a folded braid often my aunty would grab our oiled braid and keep holding during our punishments or even while we massaging her legs. Now meena akka too became more strict on me after we shifted permanently to their house. She too cane me or slap my face wen ever I slipped out of my duties and also she makes me to do all house chores in single like sweeping, washing etc and even to massage her legs.

by kavitha Wed Aug 28 03:03:13 UTC 2013

hi Kavita, this is not tolerable any more & I think ur xprience is not 100% true bcause how it is possible?u mentioned that u have shifted to ur aunts house permanently,wich is located at the rural area. we all know, it is not easy to connect with the internet at the rural area.then if it is, ur aunt cant punish ur mom who is may be a matured woman.... very strange kavitha. If ur story is true, then no more sacrifice, raise ur voice against these humiliating punishment, specially which is given to ur mother.So best of luck fighiting against ur horrible aunt or "buaji"

by shabnam Wed Aug 28 12:10:14 UTC 2013

my wife back is very heavy . before sex i nude her complety by removing her saree and her undergarmen like her bra .She is wearing black bra . i have a large red hunter. i beat her nude back 50 stroke every weekend and make my wife back is very heavy . before sex i nude her complety by removing her saree and her undergarmen like her bra .She is wearing black bra . i have a large red hunter. i beat her nude back 50 stroke every weekend and make her whole back full of red lashes. after that i make love to her nude body and kiss every part of her body
and she is also enjoying the punishment.After that she lies down and her back is facing owards me ,she tells me to apply ice in her back then she feels good.

by indian husband Thu Aug 29 06:42:37 UTC 2013

my wife back is very heavy . before sex i nude her complety by removing her saree and her undergarmen like her bra .She is wearing black bra . i have a large red hunter. i beat her nude back 50 stroke every weekend and make my wife back is very heavy . before sex i nude her complety by removing her saree and her undergarmen like her bra .She is wearing black bra . i have a large red hunter. i beat her nude back 50 stroke every weekend and make her whole back full of red lashes. after that i make love to her nude body and kiss every part of her body
and she is also enjoying the punishment.After that she lies down and her back is facing owards me ,she tells me to apply ice in her back then she feels good.

by indian husband Thu Aug 29 06:42:37 UTC 2013

This s Kavitha again, now a days my mother and myself were almost slave to my aunty and to her daughter . So every day we both woke up early morning and begun our daily chores and we served breakfast I have to sit in kneeling position between meena akka legs and my mom with my aunt for our morning oiling session. Meena akka always oil my hair extra heavily comparing to my aunty and she does it like opened my already heavily oiled hair plaits then spreads it wide with her finger combing before she starts pouring d oil on my hair she would checks for any lice and nits if she found any then my ears would suffer wit her sharp twisting for my mom case her head would be knocked hard by aunty. Then they both starts to pour coconut oil until its completely drenched our hairs from scalp to tip following they both starts combing very hard and neat that we can't see a single hair out of our head even its already sticks together wit heavy oiling. Then they would braid our hair without partition and begun our plaits from our lower neck so our upper hair seems loose so tat wen ever they used to punish us they could easily grab our oily hair and make painful gripin our hair. Sometimes my mom's oily hair would be tied in a loose bun and more often I had saw her loose oil shined hair bun would release wen my aunty grabs it or wen my aunty applies cane or belt on my mom's asss. After our heavy oiling session we both oil their hair too with heavy oiling and always meena akka suggest me to make tight plait or some time in a pony tail and for my aunty my mom would braid it loose or tight bun. Then we send to continue our chores under their supervision. Later my aunty ordered my mom to wear only blouse and skirt without Saree so this will be comfortable during her house chores and for me its meena akka decision to me to wear shirt type blouse and half thigh skirt in a village style. So whenever I delayed on my order meena akka straightaway pull down my skirt and beat my bottom with any material she could found nearby like big comb or kitchen spatulas or even wit chappals then she made me to kneel about full 1hour wit holding my ears crisscross then she would release me after several face slapping. My mom too suffer alot wit my strict aunty's cruel hands then one day during our evening oiling session my aunty had announced my mom tat she had decided to arrange marriage between me and her son who living in a hostel for his studies. Then she going to invest some money for his son to start his own business with d help of my father. I was shocked and I just came to know tat she had a son and I m thinking about my faith under my aunty's family. My mother had no choice to decide any so my marriage has been half done. During tat night while I massaging meena akka legs she greeted me and kissed my cheeks for getting marriage to her elder brother.

by kavitha Thu Aug 29 07:21:40 UTC 2013

hello kavitha, best of luck to ur new horrible life.just kidding, but till u hv chance.raise ur voice against all of ur sufferings otherwise u have to suffer for the rest of ur life under ur horrible unts & ur cousins dominance. Can u share something about ur husband.Do u know him or if u have proper information about the nature of ur future husband? If he has the dominant nature like his sis & mother? share with us plz.

by Shabnam Fri Aug 30 15:48:37 UTC 2013

Kavita , you seem to be in a very poor state. cant you and ur mother do something to come out of ur aunt's house. please tell how your husband is

by Malavika Sat Aug 31 18:16:00 UTC 2013

I am newly married to my husband for two months. My mother in law also live with us. i did not know that i will be punished when i got married. my marriage was arranged. the first day after marriage i was sleeping and suddenly my mil woke me up and slapped me on the face. She told me my husband had gone to office and that from now on i should wake up at 5 in the morning. then she told me to remove my dress immediately. then she bought a cane and punished me for getting up late. she beat me on my butt 20 times. she twisted my nipple and said from now on i have to obey her. i didnt know what to do. she made me do all household chores with and was monitoring me all the time. if i did a mistake she immediately beat me with cane. night when my husband i told him about this in the room. i thought he wiould stop this instead he slapped and punished me with the cane 50 times saying that i had to serve him and his mother. he saw that there was no oil on my hair and started beating on my breast for that. since then he everyday oils my hair. my mil beats me if i do any small mistake. she also tells it to my husband who again beats for the same thing. he has newly bought clamps. if i do any big mistake like one day i spilled the milk on the floor broke the glass he beat me on my girl parts and put clamps on my nipple for the whole night. my mil also makes me eat all the food that i dont like. only two months and half of my body is red. she has said that i should wash my husbands feet everyday.

by yamika Sun Sep 01 08:50:01 UTC 2013

Friends,
This is Bindu here,I got married 4 years back and my marriage was arranged by family members with my cousin brother on whom I always had a crush,therefore I instantly said yes to my parents when they brought the proposal without thinking about anything and I was only in a hurry to get married and after my marriage I got to know that I have to move to my husband’s ancestral village,I will have to listen to my In-laws and my husband.Firstly when I got married for a few days we stayed at my house only and during that time my inlaws and husband were very nice to me,after a week of my marriage I came to my husband’s village and was invited with a great celebration in the village and after attending that function my parents left for the city,and even when they left I never realized what was waiting for me.
As soon as I returned I heard my sister in law asking my mother in law what she would like to have for lunch and my mother in law said that she would eat anything that was prepared by her new daughter in law and then I went into the kitchen and started preparing food for everybody and I worked very hard as I alone prepared food for about 10-12 people and served the food on the table and everyone was very happy with the food I had prepared.Then My mother in law saw me and smiled at me and said that my loving daughter in law has worked so hard in the kitchen and its now my time to serve her and my sister in law said first let her wash all the vessels and clean the kitchen then we all shall serve her together after that I went to the kitchen washed up all the vessels and cleaned the kitchen.
After that my mother in law asked me to make tea for everyone and I made tea for everyone they had their tea and then I cleaned up all the vessels used for preparing the tea,all the time I never realized that my MIL was treating me like her maid and after doing so much work my head started aching very badly.I went to my room to freshen up but due to my headache I sat on my bed holding my head and then suddenly I saw my MIL and SIL in my room,they asked me what happened and I told them that my head started aching very badly after which my SIL started giggling softly and when I asked her why was she giggling,She got angry on me and said how dare you talk to your elders like this.Then my MIL shouted at SIL saying that see that poor lady she has done so much work today and now her head is also aching,please forgive her and go and get some medicine for her and then my SIL went and returned with few rubber bands,ribbons,combs and a bottle of coconut hair oil.
Then my MIL sat on a stool and made me sit on the floor and started applying oil in my hair and she generously oiled my hair and I have never oiled my hair other than just one day before Diwali when we used to have our oil bath,after which she started combing my hair and made a center partition and made 2 plaits and folded them at the bottom and said that you look so beautiful,my son is very lucky to get a wife like you then my SIL said that if she really looks so beautiful,why not keep the same hairstyle daily and my MIL thanked my SIL telling her what a good idea you have given me,let son come then we will discuss with him and see.Then my MIL asked me how often did you oil your hair? I said that I only oiled my hair during Diwali.She then said get used to it I will oil your hair daily from today after my son agrees to let me oil your hair and do this hairstyle because you look very beautiful.I was really petrified thinking about it but I thought that my husband will be supportive of me.
When my husband returned from work I was in the Kitchen doing my work and I suddenly heard my MIL shout out my name then I came out with a glass of water for my husband.My husband looked at me and said to his mother ok you can keep her hair like this I am ok with it if you like it.I was totally devastated and I saw my MIL and SIL were very happy.
When I got an opportunity to talk to my husban

by bindu Mon Sep 02 19:43:34 UTC 2013

When I got an opportunity to talk to my husband I told him what all had happened over the day with me and I also told him that I was against having my hair oiled all the time.He said that he will talk to his mother once he is back from work next day.Then next day my MIL oiled my hair as soon as we had finished our breakfast and when she was oiling my SIL was forcing her to apply more oil in my hair.Then when My husband returned he spoke to my MIL about that and my MIL very shrewdly said Have you seen me oiling someone’s hair like I do to her previously,He said No,then she told him that I have a headache and migraine problem and my head contains a lot of heat and she consulted the village doctor and he has asked me to oil her hair daily and her hair is also very dry as she used to not oil her hair.Therefore my husband told me that I would need to keep my hair oiled and that was the final decision and if I disagree it I will have to face dire consequences,But I was not prepared to keep my hair oiled daily,therefore I said in front of everyone that I will not listen to him and my inlaws.He got very angry and he hit me with his belt in front of everyone and ordered his mother that from tomorrow she must oil my hair daily in his presence early in the morning.
The next day in the morning he called me out and when I came there I saw my MIL and SIL were ready with all the items and then my MIL as usual oiled my hair and combed it into 2 braids after which I went to my mother’s place and told her all that had happened and my mother then said that she will come along with my father and talk to my inlaws.
The next day in the morning after oiling session my husband told me that my father wanted to talk to me therefore we go to town stay there for a day and come back,then we came to my house and my husband dropped me had lunch and left and said that he will come tomorrow morning and pick me.Then my father returned from office and was very angry on me,as soon as he came he started shouting at me saying what is wrong in keeping your hair oiled if it keeps your inlaws happy.they are only asking you to oil your hair daily,they are not asking anything more than that.Please keep your hair oiled from now onwards and behave and dress as your husband asks you to.then my father called my husband and said that tomorrow he will come and speak to him and the next day we got ready and went to the village and my Father apologized for my mistake from my MIL,SIL and husband and told them that I will act as per their orders from now.
On the next day when my MIL was oiling my hair I asked her If I could oil her and my SIL’s hair they both got very angry on me but obliged and got their hair oiled but decided to teach me a lesson.when I was sleeping in the evening they entered my room and chopped of my har unevenly and when I got up I was shocked to see my hair and then when I asked them what happened they said It was a thief who did this,My hair was not looking good at all then my husband suggested that I go for a headshave and I agreed and after I got my head shaved my MIL and SIL told me what they had done and told me not to tell my husband anything about it….To be contd

by bindu Mon Sep 02 19:45:42 UTC 2013

After seeing my hair like that I was really depressed but my husband told me that it was not looking nice and even if my hair grew they would not look nice therefore it was better for me to go for a headshave,after shaving my head I was depressed about not having my hair but at the same time I was happy that my MIL would not oil my hair(until it grows)but my MIL is very clever after my headshave when I was crying,in front of my husband only she said don’t worry beta I will apply castor oil to your head and hair will grow very fast.
Then later over the day my MIL and SIL came to my room with a small box giftwrapped and my SIL said since you have shaved your head this is a gift from us and when I opened the box I found my long oiled plaited hair in it and my SIL told me that you better start listening to us without arguing because your father had said that you will listen to us and act as per our orders or else we can do many more things to you.I was very angry and I told my husband that they only cut my hair,but my husband never believed me and this time he said that always I say lies about his mother and sister and got angry on me and he caned me nicely in the night and then next day in the morning told me to listen to MIL and SIL and he must not get any complaint from them or I must not make up any stories against them and I agreed to him.
Everyday in the morning,she would apply castor oil in my head and after my hair started growing she would alternately apply coconut oil and castor oil in my hair.My SIL always would tell MIL that oil is less and my MIL would apply more oil in my hair and my SIL always was waiting for an opportunity to oil my hair but I would never allow her.
In the course of time I got pregnant and delivered a beautiful baby girl,after my daughter was born my husband decided that for my daughter’s education we will move to the city.My daughter was the apple of my eye and I would do anything for her and my MIL and SIL were aware of that and they would blackmail me and get things done from me.
My SIL got an opportunity once and then she saw my daughter playing in the verandah and I was busy in the kitchen cooking food and then my MIL shouted my name,when I came out I was shocked to see that my SIL had made my daughter sit in front of her and beside her was the oil bottle and the comb,and she was telling my MIL that she is also like her mother only so we need to oil her hair like we do to her mother and my MIL told her to oil my daughter’s hair now and daily in the morning from tomorrow I did not want my daughter to go through what I was going through and if I complained to my husband MIL and SIL would twist the story against me so I went and held my SIL’s feet and told her to leave my daughter,but she didn’t agree and opened the oil bottle and removed some oil in her hand and I started crying and begged her to let her go and I would do anything my SIL asks me to do.She then said I will not trouble your daughter in anyway until you are listening to us and the day you don’t listen or answer back we will start troubling your daughter and I quietly agreed and then my SIL let my daughter go and rubbed the oil in her hand on my head and then asked me to meet her in the evening,after having lunch and making my daughter sleep I went to SIL and asked me to quietly sit in front of her and I expected her to apply oil in my hair,but she got up and went and came back with my MIL and a long cane and told me that from today my MIL and SIL would make a time-table and some rules and regulations for me and if I don’t adhere to it I would get punished and I told them that once I get the time table I will follow it and got up from there and then my SIL caught my hair and told me I am not done with you wait and then made me sit there only and went into the kitchen and brought a bowl and a stool and told me that I have prepared this special hair oil with herbs specially for you daughter bu

by bindu Tue Sep 03 17:24:59 UTC 2013

Hi every body. i am Sneha and am married to a Bengali family. I do not know why husbands treat us like this. My position is also similar. On making any mistakes, he beats me terribly with a leather belt on my bare back. It is so painful but if I resist he will beat me further. Once he decides to punish me, he will pull me by my long hair to our bedroom , strip off all my clothes except the panties and starts lashing me on my back. This continues for around ten minutes and then he leaves me bare bodied on the floor itself and enjoys his drink. He has no mercy or feeling after he beats me. He is so strict that I do not require a MIL. I also have a SIL staying with us. She is young, sweet and my husbands darling. She is also nice to me. I am supposed to be punctual in doing all the home jobs. We have servants but I need to supervise. But I need to do by husbands jobs personally from washing his clothes to polishing his shoes. He is also very particular about hair oiling. I am supposed to oil my hair once in the morning when he is reading the newspaper and in the evening I need to take the oil bottle to him when he has his drink. He pours oil till it drips on my face but never oils my hair personally. One sunday I had forgotten my morning oiling as I had to drop my SIL for her dance classes. On returning home, he opened the door and asked me the reason for not oiling. He had no reason to be upset because my hair is always dipped in oil as I have no permission for shampooing my hair. I answered back to him that I had to drop his sister and then immediately I had it. He pulled me by my hair to our room and lashed me so hard that I was unable to move for two hours. From the date of marriage he has given me anything I have asked for but no independence. Even I have to oil my hair if we are out on holidays. I feel bad bcoz this rule is not there for my SIL.

by Sneha Wed Sep 04 01:50:34 UTC 2013

Earlier i used stick to punish my wife.I used to hit her very slowly.But today i saw a bengali movie in which a husband is using hunter in order to punish his wife so i also wanted to use hunter.I called my wife in the room.I said today i want to punish you with the hunter,for that you have to remove your clothes and become full nude,she got surprised,she said no then i forecibily removed her saree first, then her blouse,now she was in her white bra and peticoat,i gave her a hard lash in which her bra hook opened and it fell down ,i told her to lie on the bed wid face down and back towards me.then her fleshy nude milky white back was visible to me ,after 10 second i brought a leather hunter i started lashing her back mercilesly.I gave her 70 -80 lashes ,a large strap mark appeard on her back.two sounds were coming ,one from mouths of my wife i.e ah,ah,ah,ah and other of my hunter faak,faak ,faak.After half an hour of punishing her whole back was full of red marks.

by guest Wed Sep 04 13:39:54 UTC 2013

I went to SIL and asked me to quietly sit in front of her and I expected her to apply oil in my hair,but she got up and went and came back with my MIL and a long cane and told me that from today my MIL and SIL would make a time-table and some rules and regulations for me and if I don’t adhere to it I would get punished and I told them that once I get the time table I will follow it and got up from there and then my SIL caught my hair and told me I am not done with you wait and then made me sit there only and went into the kitchen and brought a bowl and a stool and told me that I have prepared this special hair oil with herbs specially for your daughter but now that you have expressed the desire to oil your hair I will apply this in your hair daily.I was quietly listening to her as she went on oiling my hair with the special oil after she applied all the oil in my hair she brought a lice comb and thoroughly lice combed my hair and combed my hair into a single braid.
After combing my hair,SIL told me that she will prepare my time-table and list of rules and regulations and give it to me by tomorrow morning and till then I will tell you what to do and went into the bedroom and asked me to follow her,I followed her and went inside the room and sat on the bed and asked me to sit on the floor near the bed and if I had to go somewhere I had to take permission from her,after sitting there for some time I asked her if I could go and see if my daughter was still sleeping and she allowed me to do so,I went and saw that she was sleeping so I came back to the room and sat on the floor then she asked me to go and get some paper and a pen,after that I went and made some tea and after that I gave tea to MIL first and then came to SIL and gave her tea after that my SIL asked me to sit there and have the tea then I sat on the floor and I had the tea then my SIL asked me to get some more paper and asked me to call my MIL,then I got some paper and informed my MIL that she must come to SIL’s room and then went to SIL’s room and asked her permission that I can go to the kitchen and prepare dinner for everyone and when I was going to the kitchen I saw my daughter had got up so I took her along with me and let her play in the kitchen and started preparing the dinner.I quickly prepared dinner by that time my husband had come back from work and asked me about his mother I told him that they were in SIL’s room and he went there and I went with him and then my MIL told him that your wife is feeling very guilty about how she has been behaving with us and has decided to be a obedient wife and daughter in law and she wants us to frame some rules and regulations and also a time table to follow,if she breaks any rule she gets punished.My husband saw me and I just nodded my head in approval.My husband was very happy and I had not seen him so happy like that anytime except at the birth of my daughter and then everyone came down and had dinner and after dinner I was going to sleep when I heard my MIL call me out,then I went to my SIL’s room and then they told me that I have to get up early in the morning and finish all my work soon as some relatives were coming to our house to see my SIL.

by Bindu Sun Sep 08 04:43:40 UTC 2013

The next day I got up at 4 and had finish all the work by 10 and the guest were supposed to come by 12.After I finished my work I went to change my dress and wore a saree and came out and my MIL was very happy with me and then she asked me to comb my hair on my own and then I got combed my oiled hair and tied it into a thick oiled single braid.
The guests came and they liked my SIL very much and they agreed for marriage,But my SIL kept one condition that her husband will have to move in her house and they agreed to it and everyone had lunch and praised my food very much I was very happy for my SIL,after everyone went I changed my clothes went to the kitchen cleaned up all the vessels and cleaned the house after which I went to SIL’s room and sat in my place and saw that my SIL was peacefully sleeping so I did not disturb her and was quietly sitting there after some time she got up and asked me if I had finished all the chores I said yes and then she asked me to prepare tea for everyone and then I served tea to MIL,SIL and husband and while having tea I asked my MIL that she was very busy today and has not oiled my hair,she said she knows and that she will oil my hair after having tea and asked me to get the oil bottle and after that having tea I went to her and she generously oiled my hair and after oiling my hair she said thank you to me for all the hardwork I had put in and for reminding her to oil my hair for that day and then decided that I needed to be rewarded and ordered lunch from outside and after dinner she asked me to come to SIL’s room.I went there and I saw my husband,MIL & SIL sitting there and my husband came up and kissed me on my forehead and said thanks I always wanted an obedient wife and then said that I also had some rules for you I have given it to SIL and she has included it into the time table.Then my SIL said that tomorrow all house chores will be done by her and my hair will not be oiled,then in the afternoon before lunch she will call everyone i.e my husband,MIL and SIL and in front of everyone read my timetable out.

by Bindu Sun Sep 08 05:10:39 UTC 2013

The next day,I got up and had finished my bath and my SIL was struggling in the house getting things done and I had an idea that I may not get to spend more time with my daughter after my SIL announces my time-table,therefore I was with my spending time with my daughter and my SIL came to the room to call me for breakfast and was looking at me and telling me take rest today from tomorrow who knows will you get time to rest or not and then on the breakfast table my MIL told my husband that after having breakfast and completing all the preparation for lunch we will meet in the living area.My husband just looked at me and smiled and after having breakfast he went somewhere and came back with 2 boxes giftwrapped and gave it to SIL saying this the surprise package you asked for my wife and after that my SIL kept that package in the living area and called everyone to come there.My SIL had kept chairs in the living area and had kept one chair separately and asked me to sit there and then got the 2 packages and gave it to me and gave me my time table and list of rules then she asked me to open the packages and when I did I found 2 hunters made of leather and then my SIL brought a thick cane and kept all the 3 items in front of me and told me that if I break any rule or don’t follow the time-table as per the given timelines then punishment shall be delivered.
My time table was as follows:
I have to get up by 5 am and clean up the house,have my bath and after that make tea for everyone and then wake my husband,MIL and SIL by giving them bed tea and then prepare breakfast and prepare my daughter and send her to school and after that I have to go to MIL’s room with castor oil bottle and combs and ribbons and then my mil generously oils my hair and combs my hair and makes 2 folded plaits just like a school girl and after that I must go and touch the feet of my MIL,SIL and husband and my husband must apply sindoor in my hair parting.After that I have to wash everyone’s clothes and prepare lunch for everyone and after having lunch,I need to wash all vessels and then I have to go and press my MIL’s legs and put her to sleep and after that my SIL will be waiting for me in the living area with her herbal oil and then she opens my hair and then she combs my oiled hair and then pours the oil on my hair and massages my hair thoroughly after which she combs my hair with a nitcomb and ties my hair back into 2 folded braids and then I must start preparing for dinner and after having dinner I have to massage everyone’s legs and then sleep.

by Bindu Sun Sep 08 07:25:51 UTC 2013

The rules set are as follows:
By my husband:
I must massage everyone’s legs daily in the night before going to sleep and touch everyone’s feet in the morning.
By MIL:
I must only do all the work in the house alone.no servants allowed
Only my hair must be oiled always,everyday I must only go to her with oil bottle and ask her to oil my hair and my husband must apply sindoor only when my hair is oiled.
My hair must always be in double folded braids like a school girl and allow my MIL to oil my hair whenever she wants.
By SIL:
I must touch feet of everyone who comes to our house
I can talk to my daughter only after finishing all the work
I must let my SIL oil my hair with the herbal oil daily and one session of licecombing daily and like MIL whenever she wishes to oil my hair,I must allow her.
I can wash my hair on every alternate Saturdays only
When I go out of the house either my SIL or MIL must accompany me and must decide what I wear.
Whenever her in-laws visit the house I must treat them with respect and follow their orders
I have to listen to my SIL and MIL and no backanswering them
And my punishments for not following the time table and rules were:
For light mistakes I would get beaten by the cane by anyone and and for bigger mistakes it would be heavy caning followed by the hunter.
If I disagree to get my hair oiled at any time then my daughter’s hair would be oiled instead of mine.

by Bindu Sun Sep 08 07:26:49 UTC 2013

Kavitha again...
After aunty announced my marriage within a week my marriage was done. Even at my marriage day there s no escape from heavy oiling of my hair on that night I was prepared for first night by my Meena SIL she first taken me to her bedroom and asked me to strip my whole clothes and ordered me to kneel at straight back before her. she stared my whole nakked body and appreciating my structure while she opening my oiled hair braid. She spreaded my oiled hair with her finger combing then as usual without any warning she poured coconut oil over my head and once d oil starts flowing on my forehead I expected she going to stop but my utter shock she didn't rather she parted my hair and placed the one part of hair to my front its covering my booobs and one still remains on my back reaches upto my asss. So tat d dripping coconut oil would starts flows on my booobs and adds and after she emptied two 500ml of parachute coconut oil my whole body shiny and glistening with d oil. Then she massaged my hair as well as my body during this she praised about my tight booobs and plumpy asss and spend more time to massage on tat. Finally she took comb and combed my oil dripping hair very hard & fine then she tied my oil dripping hair into a top bun atlast she poured some more oil directly on my hair bun so slowly oil would flows in to my scalps and drip on my face as well. After meena akka was taken me to bathroom and washed my oil soaked hair with shikka powder and body with herbal soap then she dried my longhair and I was happy tat at least today she would have left my hair from heavy oiling but all of sudden I saw she had bottle of coconut oil with her hand and my happiness destroyed in seconds. But somehow I tried to resist and asked her permission to let my hair in dry with full of fear on her but for my surprise she smiled & allowed me to stay in my dry hair and even she made a loose braid with middle parted hair and dressed me in silk Saree before she send me to her brother's room. I entered with a full glass of hot milk and I was so nervous to look his face for a first time. He was a dark complexion but handsome face and good physic. I placed d milk on table and touched his feet for his blessings, but he didn't raised me up or told me raise I was still on my knees and touching his feet suddenly I got jerking pain on my hair its nothing than my husband pulled my hair and raised me to my knees and for my utter shock he placed a stinging slap on my face swiftly my tears filled my eyes becos I have never slapped by a male so I couldn't bare d pain. He holding my hair still & angrily asked me tat why my hair still dry & wer s d oil. I don't know wat to say so I just stared his eye with fear but swiftly another slap placed on my other same cheek now I lost my control & begun to cry with moan now he left my hair and told me to stay in kneel down but he turned me back to face him. Then he left d room and returned with a bottle of coconut oil and comb I m still weeping then he begun to opened my braid and starts oiling my longhair he poured enormous oil on my head and my whole length of hair but he didn't allow oil to flow on my face or neck he keenly and neatly oiled my every strands if my hair once its completely wet with oil he begun to comb my hair very finely then he tied it in tight bun. Actually I lived his oiling comparing to his mother and sister I don't know why it s may b becos of manly hand. he then told me stand & caught d table I don't hav any idea wat next to come so I bend down to placed my hands on d table I sensed my Silk Saree lifted above upto my hip now my asss displayed with my panty to my shock he pulled it as well to my knees, my body got heated up with fear and embarrassment wen his hand touched & caressed my asss now all of sudden my body jumped with pain of strong stroke of his cane on my bare asss I tried to raise but he shouted me to stay quite or he punish me extra for tat, so after I received 10 strokes

by kavitha Sun Sep 08 11:20:52 UTC 2013

Kavitha again...
After aunty announced my marriage within a week my marriage was done. Even at my marriage day there s no escape from heavy oiling of my hair on that night I was prepared for first night by my Meena SIL she first taken me to her bedroom and asked me to strip my whole clothes and ordered me to kneel at straight back before her. she stared my whole nakked body and appreciating my structure while she opening my oiled hair braid. She spreaded my oiled hair with her finger combing then as usual without any warning she poured coconut oil over my head and once d oil starts flowing on my forehead I expected she going to stop but my utter shock she didn't rather she parted my hair and placed the one part of hair to my front its covering my booobs and one still remains on my back reaches upto my asss. So tat d dripping coconut oil would starts flows on my booobs and adds and after she emptied two 500ml of parachute coconut oil my whole body shiny and glistening with d oil. Then she massaged my hair as well as my body during this she praised about my tight booobs and plumpy asss and spend more time to massage on tat. Finally she took comb and combed my oil dripping hair very hard & fine then she tied my oil dripping hair into a top bun atlast she poured some more oil directly on my hair bun so slowly oil would flows in to my scalps and drip on my face as well. After meena akka was taken me to bathroom and washed my oil soaked hair with shikka powder and body with herbal soap then she dried my longhair and I was happy tat at least today she would have left my hair from heavy oiling but all of sudden I saw she had bottle of coconut oil with her hand and my happiness destroyed in seconds. But somehow I tried to resist and asked her permission to let my hair in dry with full of fear on her but for my surprise she smiled & allowed me to stay in my dry hair and even she made a loose braid with middle parted hair and dressed me in silk Saree before she send me to her brother's room. I entered with a full glass of hot milk and I was so nervous to look his face for a first time. He was a dark complexion but handsome face and good physic. I placed d milk on table and touched his feet for his blessings, but he didn't raised me up or told me raise I was still on my knees and touching his feet suddenly I got jerking pain on my hair its nothing than my husband pulled my hair and raised me to my knees and for my utter shock he placed a stinging slap on my face swiftly my tears filled my eyes becos I have never slapped by a male so I couldn't bare d pain. He holding my hair still & angrily asked me tat why my hair still dry & wer s d oil. I don't know wat to say so I just stared his eye with fear but swiftly another slap placed on my other same cheek now I lost my control & begun to cry with moan now he left my hair and told me to stay in kneel down but he turned me back to face him. Then he left d room and returned with a bottle of coconut oil and comb I m still weeping then he begun to opened my braid and starts oiling my longhair he poured enormous oil on my head and my whole length of hair but he didn't allow oil to flow on my face or neck he keenly and neatly oiled my every strands if my hair once its completely wet with oil he begun to comb my hair very finely then he tied it in tight bun. Actually I lived his oiling comparing to his mother and sister I don't know why it s may b becos of manly hand. he then told me stand & caught d table I don't hav any idea wat next to come so I bend down to placed my hands on d table I sensed my Silk Saree lifted above upto my hip now my asss displayed with my panty to my shock he pulled it as well to my knees, my body got heated up with fear and embarrassment wen his hand touched & caressed my asss now all of sudden my body jumped with pain of strong stroke of his cane on my bare asss I tried to raise but he shouted me to stay quite or he punish me extra for tat, so after I received 10 strokes

by kavitha Sun Sep 08 11:30:03 UTC 2013

Kavitha again...

On d next day morning as usual I woke up earlier and begun my daily schedules after my husband gone for his business we ladies gathered in d living room for ours oiling session but before I reached there my mom's hair been heavily oiled by my aunty and my mom too oiled our aunty's hair very heavily then both made tied their oil wet hair into a tight bun and meena akka i.e my SIL waiting for me so I straight away sat between her legs but she told me to oil her own hair first then she would oil mine. I went back to her & begun to opened her already oiled hair plaits spreaded it wide before I starts to pour enormous coconut oil on her head & hair then patted her top head wit my palm I could see d oil jumped from her hair so I carefully massaged her scalps and full length hair. Then I took comb and neatly finely combed her every strands of her oil soaked hair & some excess oil flows down d floor becos of combing then I asked her wish to style her hair whether it s braid or bun but she told me to make pony tail so I once again finely combed her heavily oild hair and without any partition I tied her hair in loose pony tail i.e band tied in lowr neck part . Then she order me to kneel in front of her for my hair oiling, she then starts to opened my hair bun & she found tat my hair has been already oiled heavily so she enquired me about it. I hesitantly told tat wat happen during my first night she laughed loud and said tat her bother would always likes women in heavily oiled hair & he never forgive any ladies who s under his control with dry hair even he would forced our maids and farm workers to be attend their work in their heavily oiled hair. I was embarrassed on her laughing and as well she commented dis to her mom. I saw tat my aunty sternly looked my mom while mom massaging her legs suddenly aunty grabbed my mom's heavily oiled hair bun pulled it down so my mom face would lifted up then aunty scolded my mom for wat I did yesterday night i.e not oiling my hair befor attending my first night. But suddenly my aunty slapped my mom in her right cheeks with holding her oiled hair....

by kavitha Mon Sep 09 09:40:43 UTC 2013

It's Kavitha...
After receiving couple more slaps and hard ear twisting my mom resumed her duty i.e massaging my aunt's legs now my mom's heavily oiled onghair bun list its grip on her head becos of her received slappings & it becomes loose but not opened yet. My aunty then keep caressing her oil glistening longhair with love like consoling my mom, in d meanwhile my hair already fully drenched with coconut oil and its about to drip on my forehead then SIL meena combed my hair finely with lice comb and also by she checked with her hands then she tied my oil wet hair into a tight plaits at d end she tied black ribbon in my hair tip then folded it to my top braid near my back head. I really hate dis style becos its really display me like a typical village women & most irritating thing is after she braided my heavily oiled hair into a tight braid some excess of oil would drip on my forehead and some on floor so she pour some more oil on my head as well as on my folded braid, then she would massage my face, hand wit some coconut oil and told me to place Bindi on my forehead then she send me for market to fetch vegetables & other groceries I really got tears wen she forced me to send outside with my heavily oiled hair tat even made into a folded braid. Wen I went outside my hair and face would shine & glistening wit d oil becos d sun rays would spread and melt d coconut oil. Once I returned my home I should report meena akka & my aunt if I made late then immediately my ears and hair would be in d hands of my aunt, she ask for reason on my delay if my ans doesn't satisfied her then she apply severe punishments on me like caning my legs, palms like naughty school girls and sometimes on my bare asss then order me to kneel in d backyard under sunlight nearly a hour. My husband really a good person he cares about me lot but he never tolerate my tiny faults then straight away my whole bare body would pay of my mistakes & he so much love my hair with oily nature, he often keep his hands and his face on my heavily oiled hair for caressing or keep holding it & smelling it. He given some of my hair style to be followed in a week like on Monday, Tuesday i.e in evening my hair should be oiled heavily after my bath & made into tight single braid. On Wednesday, Thursday I should apply very extra oiling then soak it well before taking head bath but only with plain water even oil shouldn't removed completely then my wet & oiled hair to be combed well and some of my hair would taken from my ear sides & made some slight braid to hold rest of d hairs then it made into a loose braid actually dis style made my hair to be shines more and d coconut oil fragrance would expose heavily...

by kavitha Tue Sep 10 15:19:52 UTC 2013

... So daily from morning to evening I would do all my house chores in my heavily oiled & styled by my SIL wishes and from evening I would prepare my oiled hair as per my husband rules. On d other hand my mom's oiled hair would suffers with my aunt's grip. One day my husband gone for a week as a business trip on tat night I was alone in my room so I just came out for some relaxation, I heard some moaning sound from my aunt's room. I just slowly made my steps to saw wat was tat thro d half opened window & I was shocked to view tat my mom & aunty were fully nakked while aunty semi laid on her bed with her oil shined longhair glistening on her one side of booob and her left hand grabbing my mom's heavily oiled longhair bun to force her face dig into her pusssy. My mom struggled to breathe but she vigorously licking aunt's part while her own pusssy roughly fuccking by a old man I never saw him before but his so fit & strong man, I saw he reached his hand to grab my mom's oily bun with his single jerk mom's oil drenched hair bun released fully then he gripped her hair with his hand rolling in my mom's oily hair for increasing his speed of pumping and on d next act I realized he too very strict & cruel person like my aunty & her daughter tat He lifted his left hand in high and swinged hard to slap my mom's bare asss my mom jerked in pain and lifted her face from aunt's pusssy but for tat act she received tight slap on her face by my aunt too tat man keep on slapping my mom's asss throughout d session then he yanked mom's oil wet hair to suck his tool & he forced her to take full in her mouth during this my aunt licking my mom's asss and pusssy now my aunt's turn of session during dis my mom keep licking tat old man balls & asss hole & aunt's booobs finally he released all his load on my mom's face & booobs then aunty grabbed mom's oil shined hair & forced her to lick clean of tat old man's tool, then aunty licked mom's face and booobs to clean d come which dripping from her face, then tat man got dressed up & went out thro d back door. I too returned to my room without making any noise. Next as usual during our morning oiling session my mom & aunty reacted normal tat nothing was happen & after our heavy oiling aunty announced my mom & me to prepare good lunch with sweets becos today some bride seekers would be coming for look meena my SIL. So we did our daily chores bit faster & made good lunch. During dis I never enquired my mom about wat I had saw last night & in other hand I was bit happy tat my SIL got to be married someone & she would leaving dis house soon.....

by kavitha Tue Sep 10 17:14:12 UTC 2013

hi kavitha,I dont know actually ur story is true or fiction but that doesnt matter.Your writing skill is appreciating.Your written daily incedents contain some strange things(such as ur mother & aunty scenario at night) but except that it is interesting.Carry on ur story...

by Tabassum Wed Sep 11 16:07:18 UTC 2013

Kavitha again...

On tat day my mom & myself worked hard to do all arrangements and we stayed in kitchen wen suddenly My aunty shouted our names so we rushed to d living room there we saw a group of peoples sat on d floor & chatting with my aunty with lot of laughter sound. Then our aunty introduced me & my mom to d guest, we respected them with our hands & bowed head then I was stunned to see a old man who I just saw last night handling my mom with full furious. Aunty now introduced tat d old man is a father of d groom who chosen for meena my SIL, then she shown d groom & finally aunty shown a very fit & strong lady tat she s aunty of d groom i.e. younger sister of tat old man. She lives together wit them since her husband died, & she was a former jail warden now she took VRS, she doesn't seems like a widow rather she dressed in coloured Saree & her hair is not long it just reaches her upper chest but its heavily oiled its glowing very shiny, she neatly combed it & tied in a tight braid upto d tip with folded end. Then my aunty told us tat her daughter marriage has fixed then after her marriage all her in law family would shift to our house. In d same week Meena akka marriage was done and d same day all her in law family had shifted to our aunt's house & my mom & myself made all arrangements to settle them comfortably. On d next day as usual early morning we woke up & finished our morning chores then we all ladies gathered in d living room for d morning oiling our hair before we start my aunty announced us tat now on my mom & myself should respect & obey our new family members i.e. Meena akka's FIL, her aunt(vijaya) & even her husband. Then Aunt me tat now on vijaya aunt would take responsibilities of my disciplines & house hold chores, she will assign me a new time schedule of work to do, by d way she had all rights to punish me wher ever & wen ever she wish. Aunt continues tat today onwards every women of d house should get their hair oiled heavily by their men during our evening session of oiling. so Meena akka's hair would be oiled by her husband, my hair & vijaya aunt's hairs by my husband, & my aunt's, my mom's hairs oiled by d old man. I saw my mom face tat show her unhappy becos she well known wat would happen after she get oiled by d old man. Now my aunt already made my mom to sit befor her & begun to pour coconut oil on her head, now Vijaya aunt called me to sit between her legs for my oiling, she opened my already oily braid & she begun wit lice checking by parting my each & evey strands of hair before pouring coconut oil over my head, then she massaged it & combed my hair very finely then she made a very tight plaits tied with ribbon in d tip of d braid & before folding it, she taken another bowl of coconut oil & poured directly over my head & full length of my braid. I felt very uncomfortable becos I can feel d oil slowly reaching to my scalps & it makes some itching sense but after oiled I never be allowed to touch my hair. Now I start oiling vijaya aunt her hair s short but it s very thick & has slight curls I too oiled her hair very heavily then she told me to braid her hair very tight wit tip folding. Atlast I did d same to my SIL's in d meanwhile my mom too finished oiling my aunt's hair now all we ladies look wit our hair very heavily oiled & neatly tied in braids only my mom's & my braids has folded wit ribbons becos we both like slave of d house & rest of d ladies braids were just folded in tip wit band. Now vijaya aunt told me to go kitchen tat she will come to assign my duties & my mom as usual started to massage my aunt's legs. I waited in kitchen & thinking wat she would make me to do, & suddenly vijaya aunt entered, I shocked to see tat she holding a long cane in her hand, now she begun to list out my rules to follow, first as usual I should wakeup in d early morning after finishing my personal chores I should take jogging 50 rounds in our backyard & 50.sit ups, then make morning tea for all

by kavitha Sun Sep 15 18:17:38 UTC 2013

Kavitha again...

On tat day my mom & myself worked hard to do all arrangements and we stayed in kitchen wen suddenly My aunty shouted our names so we rushed to d living room there we saw a group of peoples sat on d floor & chatting with my aunty with lot of laughter sound. Then our aunty introduced me & my mom to d guest, we respected them with our hands & bowed head then I was stunned to see a old man who I just saw last night handling my mom with full furious. Aunty now introduced tat d old man is a father of d groom who chosen for meena my SIL, then she shown d groom & finally aunty shown a very fit & strong lady tat she s aunty of d groom i.e. younger sister of tat old man. She lives together wit them since her husband died, & she was a former jail warden now she took VRS, she doesn't seems like a widow rather she dressed in coloured Saree & her hair is not long it just reaches her upper chest but its heavily oiled its glowing very shiny, she neatly combed it & tied in a tight braid upto d tip with folded end. Then my aunty told us tat her daughter marriage has fixed then after her marriage all her in law family would shift to our house. In d same week Meena akka marriage was done and d same day all her in law family had shifted to our aunt's house & my mom & myself made all arrangements to settle them comfortably. On d next day as usual early morning we woke up & finished our morning chores then we all ladies gathered in d living room for d morning oiling our hair before we start my aunty announced us tat now on my mom & myself should respect & obey our new family members i.e. Meena akka's FIL, her aunt(vijaya) & even her husband. Then Aunt me tat now on vijaya aunt would take responsibilities of my disciplines & house hold chores, she will assign me a new time schedule of work to do, by d way she had all rights to punish me wher ever & wen ever she wish. Aunt continues tat today onwards every women of d house should get their hair oiled heavily by their men during our evening session of oiling. so Meena akka's hair would be oiled by her husband, my hair & vijaya aunt's hairs by my husband, & my aunt's, my mom's hairs oiled by d old man. I saw my mom face tat show her unhappy becos she well known wat would happen after she get oiled by d old man. Now my aunt already made my mom to sit befor her & begun to pour coconut oil on her head, now Vijaya aunt called me to sit between her legs for my oiling, she opened my already oily braid & she begun wit lice checking by parting my each & evey strands of hair before pouring coconut oil over my head, then she massaged it & combed my hair very finely then she made a very tight plaits tied with ribbon in d tip of d braid & before folding it, she taken another bowl of coconut oil & poured directly over my head & full length of my braid. I felt very uncomfortable becos I can feel d oil slowly reaching to my scalps & it makes some itching sense but after oiled I never be allowed to touch my hair. Now I start oiling vijaya aunt her hair s short but it s very thick & has slight curls I too oiled her hair very heavily then she told me to braid her hair very tight wit tip folding. Atlast I did d same to my SIL's in d meanwhile my mom too finished oiling my aunt's hair now all we ladies look wit our hair very heavily oiled & neatly tied in braids only my mom's & my braids has folded wit ribbons becos we both like slave of d house & rest of d ladies braids were just folded in tip wit band. Now vijaya aunt told me to go kitchen tat she will come to assign my duties & my mom as usual started to massage my aunt's legs. I waited in kitchen & thinking wat she would make me to do, & suddenly vijaya aunt entered, I shocked to see tat she holding a long cane in her hand, now she begun to list out my rules to follow, first as usual I should wakeup in d early morning after finishing my personal chores I should take jogging 50 rounds in our backyard & 50.sit ups, then make morning tea for all

by kavitha Sun Sep 15 18:19:33 UTC 2013

...., then make morning tea for all before waking them, then hav to prepare Tiffin & make ready all men to their work, then our morning session of oiling our hair heavily, then take order from her( vijaya aunty) about tat day works, after our lunch I should wash all cooking vessels & hav to report her in her room, then before her nap I should massage both meena akka's & her legs on before tat if I did any mistakes during my chores I would be punished in her room. Then in evening I need to freshen up & make ready for our evening session of oiling by our men........

by kavitha Sun Sep 15 18:23:59 UTC 2013

...on d very first day vijaya aunt very strict wit me like for my every single mistakes she would swiftly caught my ears or my heavily oiled braid & continues wit minimum 3 to 5 tight slaps from her strong hands & after lunch I would be severely canes for my mistakes done on tat day. The most embarrassing & worst thing s tat I was made nudde before my caning & also I need to loose my oiled braid hair,then she ties my hands together raise it up & tied it on d ceiling hook so my whole body stretched while I standing in d middle of d room. Then she warned me to do not scream loud during my punishment or else she would gag my mouth too. Then she would let me in dis position to increase my tension during while she & meena akka enjoy some tv shows before punishing me, usually we all ladies wouldn't wore any sarees unless we go out places & for me & mom even we don't allowed to wear wen we sent to market so we only covers our blouse wit short towel. Actually vijaya aunt's act seems like a mankind becos wen she start caning my bare asss often she groping my asss & even she harshly pinshed my nipples wit her nails, once she finished her caning over my bare whole bodies, she untie me & ordered me to stay nudde beside her on d bed. She lovingly caressed my oil drenched longhair which s now free but its even stick together becos of d heavy oiling. Some time vijaya aunt grab my oily hair to lift my head place it on her booobbs over her blouse during dis she keep groping my bare booobbs & asss, on d other side meena akka too groped by her other hand d same way.....

by kavitha Mon Sep 16 06:02:45 UTC 2013

... So in Evening we all ladies ready to be oiled heavily & styled our hairs by our men of d house. My self & mom prepared tea for all including our men then we prepared d living room for our upcoming oiling session. So I place three small stools for d men in order like round, & we ladies would sat on d floor for our oiling. First SIL Meena's husband begun to oil her hair then my husband starts wit me & d old man tat s meena FIL starts wit my moms hair, I can see tat d old man handled my mom's longhair wit lot of lust, he poured & poured lot of coconut oil on her head & hair tat he emptied a bottle before we got olied our hairs by our men, then my aunt said tat d old man's method of oiling s very good so our men's too follow d way old man does to my mom's hair. Still we all ladies just in our blouse & skirt so my mom's face, nape, & chest has already shined wit d dripping coconut oil, then he took d comb & finely combed mom's hair then he parted her hair in middle, separated into two parts then to my utter shock he made two plaited braids wit folded tip. Now my mom looks like a school girl I knew tat she would most embarrassed but she had no choice becos my father gone to abroad for his work & he alway obedient to his yelder sister so wat ever my aunt says he will obey her dutifully. My husband now finished my heavy oiling then he made single braid on my hair but he folded d tip & tied it on top wit ribbon. Meena akka's hair too drenched wit d coconut oil & it made in a tight single braid. Now my husband begun next oiling wit vijaya aunt & old man starts wit my aunt's jair, my husband poured coconut oil in palm over her head until d oil over flowed from his palm then he patted her head & given good scalp massage vijaya aunt really enjoyed dis session & I shocked to see her hands gripping my hubby's thigh & trying to reach his cocck & my hubby too got erect in his boxer his tool pointing towards vijaya aunt's oiled hair then my hubby combed her oil drenched hair & made a two folded braid wit ribbon like typical village school girl, in d meanwhile old man too finished oiling my aunt's hair but he made her oil glistening hair into tight bun. We all ladies then thanked our men for oiling our hairs as per our aunt's order so we touched our men feet to thank them even vijaya aunt too touched my hubby's feet. Then as usual me & my mom went to kitchen for preparing dinner on d while all other ladies watching tv programs by sitting on d floor & keep massaging their men's feet in reply men caressing their heavily oiled hair, in between of my dinner preparation I peaked outside in curiosity wat they were doing, I was shocked to see vijaya aunt.....

by kavitha Mon Sep 16 17:58:01 UTC 2013

My hus canes me in front of my mother for arguiments with her.

by anitha Thu Sep 19 15:59:28 UTC 2013

Hi Anitha, are you caned on your bare buttocks?

by guest Wed Sep 25 10:11:15 UTC 2013

After having read the forum I feel most girls are against oiling hair and husbands want them to do so. This is a strange situation which is there in every household today because of new fashion trends. I feel it is not only oiling but overall discipline that needs to be maintained. Starting from the clothes to the way the talk and everything should show that she is an Indian girl and we are famous for our culture and heritage. I am surprised to see wives not using sindoor these days. I am married for four years to a bengali modern and extremely beautiful girl. She was the only daughter of her parents and was quite pampered with western clothes, modern hairstyle and so on. However I had made it clear to sushmita on the first night that such things are not tolerable by me. Jeans is a strict no with me. Not that I dont like it but I feel it is against our culture. She has to apply sindoor very broadly on her hair whether she likes it or not. She had tried to disobey me in the beginning and I have severely punished her. But today I do not beat her as I love her and she is vey obedient. Even if I look at her harshly, she comes and asks me whether there has been any mistake. As far as her hair is concerned it is extremely beautiful and very long. I like her in a single plait, bun and at times also open. Her hair is oiled everyday in the morning heavily in my presence and at times I also do it. Sometimes if I feel I also ask her to apply oil before sleeping at night. She is allowed to shampoo whenever she likes but her hair has to be oiled even before it dries. She doen not have the courage to go around with dry hair as she knows that she will be punished badly. These days she gets a beating for her rough bbehaviour and I generally slap her as I feel my hands are as good as a cane. Two slaps and she will remember for two months. For minor mistakes I pull her hair and while pulling if she resists I hit her. She has asked me about having dry hair but I have told her that the day I see that her hair is not oiled enough I will make her bald by shaving her head. Heavy beating is not always good but wives should have a fear factor in their minds and very strong physical punishment is not called for

by Prem Thu Sep 26 14:07:44 UTC 2013

Oiling hair is an outmoded, messy and ridiculous practice. I require my wife to have CLEAN hair.

by guest Sat Sep 28 21:24:28 UTC 2013

hi i m anuska, 25 years old got married before 3 years my husband is very strict never allows me in dry hair. i must oil my hair twice daily. i allowed to shampoo but should oiled it before dry. one day before 2 months he went for out station official tour and i cleaned my hair and did not put oil but suddenly my husband came before 2 days of schedule date and find my dry hair. he called me in our big court yard i made me standing kneel down for 2 hours. i have long straight black hair. he ordered me to open my hair and divide it in between 2 portion, i followed his order then he gave me a scissor and ordered me to cut my right side hair above my ear i beg his mercy but all go in vain i cut my hair everyone asked me the reason i was bound to tell them that i am a disobedient bed wife so i get this punishment after 1 weak he again made me kneel down in same position but this time a barber came and he ordered him to shave my right portion. now my head is shaved in right side this is very shameful and also painful for me but i m helpless.

by anuska Thu Oct 03 05:41:07 UTC 2013

I m Rajesh, I m oiled hair liver its all started with my house maid Geetha she s from Kerala & obviously she has very long hair which caresses her asss while she walking her longhair tip would pat her each bottom alternatively. Geetha is around 35 aged average complexion her physic is well shaped becos of her hard work & mist important her thick longhair alway I saw with heavy oil glistening if I cross her I could smell fresh coconut oil aroma from her hair & body every morning I have a chance to watch her in the backyard while I m having my tea she carry a large bottle of coconut oil & begun to detangled her hair before applying oil & I really erected each & every time she pours oil on her palm sometimes directly over her head she keenly spread d oil every strands of hair from head to tip then she took big comb to comb her hair very finely before she tie her hair into a tight bun. Then she continues her chores so I intensely roam around her to sniff d aroma from her freshly oiled hair. Actually I met Geetha when I was returned from gulf job & my mother introduced Geetha as she lives along with our family to look after the household chores permenantly becos her husband had left her alone in her village so she seeks for a shelter to live her life as a maid. My mother's friend brought Geetha to our house. Now I am looking for new job at my own place so almost every dqy I have q chance to watch her erotic oiled longhair allover my house. After she finished her heavy oiling she begun her morning chores like washing clothes, sweeping d house etc during dis her heavily oiled longhair bun would become loose from d grip & its slide slowly from her head to her shoulder I love to watch this gesture & I m really out of control to grab her oily hair in my hands & pull it to sniff but I waited for tat opportunity for another day. After her chores in noon time she takes head bath but she wouldn't apply any shampoo or shikka for her hair wash just simply a cold water & even she didn't wipe d oil from her hair so after she dressed up she begun to comb her oil wet longhair once again, this would even seems more erotic becos d coconut oil makes more shiny & glistening on her longhair & even d aroma. Now she neatly combed her oil wet hair & she would makes a loose braid upto her asss still I can see d wet patches over her round asss due to her oil wet longhair. Many times I used to touch her oil wet hair without her knowledge while I roaming around her, & oil would stick in my fingers...

by Rajesh Sat Oct 05 10:32:21 UTC 2013

To "Rajesh", "Anuska", "Prem", "Kavitha" (all the same person). Enough of your hair-oiling fantasy. This forum is about caning. Start a new oiling forum if you are going to keep posting the same story.

by guest Sun Oct 13 08:15:48 UTC 2013

Yes thats true.Really boring...your oiling stories.Join another forum and continue those stories..

by Priya Tue Oct 15 15:58:20 UTC 2013

today i wanted to try something new with my wife.I wanted to use hunter on my wifes body specially her back and wanted to see the red strech marks on her body.She was standing in the window.I entered slowly in the room and suddenly hit her back portion with 5 feet 6 inches hunter
and a long strech mark appeard on her milky white back.She was wearing brown blouse with yellow saree,when i saw the stretch marks i gt excited, she said what are u doing,i said that today i want to punish you and asked her to remove her clothes,she said no again i hit her ,then she removed her saree ,she was not ready to open her blouse ,again i hit her then the marks appeared on her breasts ,she removed her blouse ,she was wearing back colour bra ,i did nt removed her bra and petticot,their are two pillars in my house.I tied her by stretching her hands apart ,without wasting time i started hitting her front part,i gave 30 strokes in her body ,marks appeared on her shoulder ,stomach ,breasts,then i came behind her and gave 60 strokes,her milky back , it was full of lashes.she said me to stop now,so i stopped and untied her and took her to our bedroom.Now i wanted to make love to her whole nude body.I started kissing her from forehead,cheeks ,neck ,her breasts,stomach,shoulders everywhere i kissed and smmoched her. Now i turned her back around me and started kissing her ,she was bearing the pain, i removed her bra and threw it in the floor,so i applied ice in her back first and then
started kissing her back wildly again,she started enjoying it,she said that when i do it next please do it slowly.

by indian husband Wed Oct 16 17:41:36 UTC 2013

I like punishing my wife with my leather belt and a wooden scale. I love lashing her entire back with my belt so hard that it becomes red. I hit her on her buttocks with a wooden scale

by guest Mon Oct 21 00:27:23 UTC 2013

I think all wives should respect their husbands because without them they r nothing ...God has created women for their husbands to serve them to obey them ....I touch my Husband 's feet daily with forehead and kiss them morning and at night ....I feel like its every wife's duty and I feel blessed living under his feet he is my God ...he also punishes me for any mistake I do and I accept it nd I believe every wife should accept ..Husbands are our masters ....my husband told me to always wear salwar suit and also along with high heels ....whole day I should be wearing high heels for him and if I dont then he punishes me but he is right as I m his property he can make me wear anything what pleases him ....All wives should respect their husband and daily touch and kiss their feet

by guest Thu Nov 14 14:39:44 UTC 2013

what will you do if he twists your ear or canes you in front of kid?would you accept it guest?

by guest Fri Nov 15 07:58:42 UTC 2013

My husband use many punishment on me when I disobey him. I know I need him to do this as he is my master and I must not be out of line and disobey. Some of the punishment are very painful but it make me learn to be better.

Standing naked in Corner for one hour
Over his knee for caning
Bend over with bum in air and legs apart
Beg on floor for no more punishment
Locked in dog cage
Made toilet in garden
Put Nipple clamps on me for whole night
Murga on the terrace in hot sun
putting burn on my back.

He once whipped me for 2 hours after I lost 1000 rupees. He made me wear nipple clamps and tied me in the garden for a whole night.

by Savita Fri Nov 15 20:41:16 UTC 2013

Ronana
buttock slapping with hand or cane and beating from Husband is not new in 1st world too. I am from Netherlands. Now my age is 54. My husband regular train me and punish me.
The punishments are generally degrading but it is erotic too. In many occasion I achieve orgasm.My daughter and daughter in laws are well punished and we enjoy the punishments from our masters.It seem embracing but only 1st time. After that to get punished together and stay naked together became normal in our life.I am enjoying-- in India I do not know. I see the web site when I visit GOA first time. I see punishment is not rate but no women confess that after punishment how is sex-- why Indian women are shy?

by Ronana Sat Nov 16 10:52:01 UTC 2013

Iam seetha I m newly married & living with my in laws.both my mil & FIL are very strict on me & punished me regularly even for my minor mistakes like delay on my wake up time in d morning or delay to serve tea or lunch. My both in laws are look young & fit on their appearance this too a reason why I dead fear on them. My mil have a longhair which is jet black, straight & its always heavily oiled and tied in a loose braid upto her asss or loose bun. Me too have longhair but its flows upto my hip & its slight curly, befor marriage I oiled my hair once in a week befor taking my head bath but now my longhair never been a seconds without oil tat too heavily I.e upto its dripping on my face & nape. My daily chores are assigned by my mil, if I did any thing wrong or fail to do my chores instantly I was punished by my mil on d spot & weekly twice or my major mistakes I was sent to my FIL for my punishments. My FIL would always very cruel on my punishments. Very first day of my married life mil called me in d hall I just stand in f middle of d hall while mil sat on d sofa with my FIL then she begun to listed out the rules & regulations of d house & my daily chores I suddenly interrupted her while she told me tat I have to oil my hair heavily twice a day regularly. My mil stopped while & she looked her husband my tension built-in when mil raised from d sofa she came near to me & all of sudden swiftly I received couple of tight stinging slaps on my same face cheeks I cried in pain & humiliation but mil didn't stopped instead she grabbed my hair & dragged me near her sofa wher she made me to sit on d floor & she starts to pour coconut oil directly on my head I still weeping but mil continues to pou oil all over my head & hair now my face itching with d dripping oil. I tried to wipe but mil caught my ears & twisted it hard she warned me not to wipe d oil. Mil now patted my top head with her strong palm & massaged my head to spread oil all over my hair finally she took a comb & finely combed my hair then tied very loose braid upto d tip then folded & tied with ribbon I really embarrassed with d situation but mil not finished yet she turned my face & she pour some more coconut oil on her palm she rubbed in her both palms then straight away applied on my face & neck now once again she pour huge amount of oil into her palm now she directly pouring d oil over my head & all over my braid....

by seetha Sun Nov 17 07:24:07 UTC 2013

This is seetha again.. I hope u hav read my previous post tat how I suffer with my mil's strict discipline. She is very conscious on my daily chores & especially on my longhair. After my first initial forced heavy oiling my mil made me a strict rule tat my hair to be heavily oiled thrice a day i.e. in d morning, then in d evening after our tea session & atlast in d night befor my bed. All this oiling would be done by my mil's strict hands. So now a days My Hip length longhair always been very oily, sticky & well combed tat you can't even see a single strand flown apart. But now I m facing a new problem is my mil's younger sister arrived from foreign ther she tend to work & live alone becos she didn't married yet & even not shown any interest on it. On d very first day of her arrival my mil introduced her sister to me & told me to obey her in all d way she orders me. She looks very modern & contrast to my mil like her hair shortened upto her shoulders & she only wears track pants & t- shirts. On tat day during my morning oiling session her sister just stared me as well as my heavy oiling carried out by my mil suddenly she stopped her in d halfway then she told me to stand & remove my Saree. Then she told her sister tat hair oiling would spoil my Saree & also its unnecessary to wear inside d house. I was shocked & embarrassed to hear tat but my mil didn't say a word so my Saree was swiftly departed from my body. So still now I rarely use to wear Saree unless I hav been sent to make some shopping....

by seetha Wed Nov 20 17:54:34 UTC 2013

seetha, would you get palm caning?

by guest Thu Nov 21 02:08:35 UTC 2013

This s seetha.. during my morning oiling session my mil's sister now on I would address her as aunty. So my aunty interrupt & told her sister now on she would take care of my hair oiling & house hold chores. So my mil too happy immediately she handed over d coconut oil bottle to her sister so I moved to her just wore blouse & skirt, she first spreaded my longhair each & every strands now my whole back covered with my thick black hair then I could felt cool coconut oil dripping on my scalp omg she keeps on pouring until d oil fully covers my face & drips on my chest I couldn't even allowed to wipe so I simply closed my eyes & submitted myself to her wish. Then she inserted her finger tips to massage my scalps & spreaded d oil allover my scalps & lengthen hair upto d tip. That was a huge amount of oil applied on my longhair even my mil didn't use such amount. I was worried with my uncomfortness but my aunty told me to carry out my daily chores for one hour so tat d oil would well soaked my scalps & hair then I have to take head bath but I m allowed to use any hair wash to wipe out d oil & also I must very keen to do not wipe out d oil. Then my aunty called me to her room & told me now on I should wear such clothes like blouse & skirts instead she given me a western model gowns to wear it's very embarrassing becos all gowns are very short in length its just reaching my half thighs & very low neck so I m very uncomfortable with it because when ever I bend down to fetch anything gown tip raised above & it expose my asss curves. And most embarrassing she introduced lot of Western punishments like over her knees for my bare buttt sppankin, caning & leather belt whipping etc. Sometimes even worst like she makes me nuude & tied my hands on d roof so my whole body would be in stretched & she loosen my heavily oiled longhair then starts to cane me mercilessly. She s very in d household chores if I even did any small mistake she straight away bend me over d kitchen table or dinning table lowered my panties & lift up my gown above then she cane me hard minimum five strokes sometimes she cane me on my palms & frequently my oily longhair, ears grabbed & pulled hard. So daily my my longhair would be heavily oiled by my aunty after I hav to take head bath with more conscious, after bathing my oiled hair seems more shiny & silky becos of d wet oil, so I arranged my longhair in a loose braid beginning d braid from very lower part of hair. Then once f wetness completely dried in d air, agin in d evening after I served tea to all once again I have to carry coconut oil bottle to verandah wher my aunty relaxed in d evening sun shine, this time i don't need to take shower but even though oiling amount will not be reduced again she pour enormous of coconut oil over my head & she finely combed my longhair & she makes sure whether all hairs stick together if not she add more oil on my hair then she neatly braid my longhair & plug some jasmine flowers. Then we all ladies watch some tv during this I would massage my mil as well as my aunty's legs. In d night befor my bed aunty oil my already oil soaked hair and she just makes some likes bun after combing it well. My hubby too very happy with his aunty & he also loves my longhair in heavily oiled conditions during our intarcourse he alway hold & caressed my oiled longhair he likes to grab d bun & yanked to open it free. He keeps on sniffing d coconut oil aroma with his face digging into my thick longhair while he back shot me. One day my aunty called me to her room after my chores....

by seetha Thu Nov 21 07:29:28 UTC 2013

I m hairdom, I lives alone with my young wife Anu, she had beautiful longhair which is thick & jet black. I often used to caresses her longhair whenever I stay in house. Once we used to know each other I came to know tat she is a sub women & she like to be dominated so I got my chance since our first night Anu is my longhair slave. Daily as per my orders she has to do all household chores & befor I got to work she brings bottle of coconut oil to me then I made her nudde befor I begun to pour oil over her head first I spread her longhair with my fingers then I directly pour d oil into her scalps by parting her hairs once d oil start dripping from her hair I like to stop & massages her longhair forwhile then once d oil coated her entire longhair strands then I comb her hair neatly & ties her longhair in a perfect middle parted long braid upto her ass. Anu my obedient wife calmly & patiently submit herself for my wishes. She looks very cute & sexxy with well oiled longhair braid after I done her hair I pour some more coconut oil over her booobbs, face & asss & massages it well, once I completed my sub wife obediently kneel befor me & take my tool into her mouth. I just enjoy d view of my wife nudde body well shined due to coconut oil & heavily oily longhair braid. I keeps on caressed her oil shined longhair & hold her oily braid in my hand for increase d speed of my tool for her morning gift which finally fill her oily face & longhair. I strictly given a order to take head bath daily with plain water after I oiled her hair heavily do not to use any hair washing products without my permission & in d evening before I entered d house she has to oil her hair once again heavily & should be tightly braided with single fold. The dress code would be only a light colour short blouse & short skirt tat reaches halfway her thighs without any inner wear so once I freshen up after I returned home she begun to her duties under my feet my wife is very discipline & obedient tat I m vert proud & lucky becos she knows my desire & wishes so in her evening oiling carried out by herself would be much heavier & definitely satisfy me. Daily I bought Jasmine flower to my pet wife, I plug it myself in her oil dripping longhair folded braid she looks very pretty in her oily hair her face too very beautiful with her large Bindi on her forehead & nice nose stud on her left. After she finishes our dinner she obediently sat down on her knees between my legs while I watching tv, & massage my legs as well my tool with her hands & mouth. I too keep caresses her oily hair & use to pull & push her head with holding her oiled braid. In d night after our dinner once again I make her to kneel & opened her oiled hair spreaded it for free then again I apply generous amount of oil on her longhair now my wife longhair would become much heavier becos of d oil quantity but she doesn't shows any reluctance on my wishes. This time I comb her oily hair well & ties in a tight bun after completion I hold her oil shined face in my palms & kiss her forehead near her parted hair then following would be her all over face. Then I make her completely nudde & begun my hard xxx core, during this her longhair bun gradually releases from d grip & flown like a wind when she reaches ecstasy I too loves to watch her heavily oiled longhair bun slowly releases & shown sexxy braid curls I keep on pulling & grabbing her oily hair through out our night. Her oily hair shines more in night becos of d roof night lamp, & finally we go to sleep with her oily longhair spread all over my nakked body & my hands caresses it... I continue my next experience with more information..

by hairdom Mon Nov 25 06:43:32 UTC 2013

what is the matter with you girls about oiling? Why do you get thrilled about getting oiled? Are your husbands crazy?

by Bhavya Sun Dec 15 01:39:18 UTC 2013

he set all these rules on the first night itself. i was eagerly waiting in dressing gown for him to come into the room. he then came inside , he told me to remove my dress fast . he told me quickly i was like doing kind of a strip tease. he then came near me and slapped me tight in my cheek. i was stunned. I questioned him why he was doing and he gave a tight slap to the other cheek then he removed all my dress quickly and went to get something from his bag i thought he was doing for fun and that it might be some sex toy ....... but it was a cane .... and told me to lie on my stomach in a harsh tone ....... scared i did so ..... then he hit me fifty times on my ass, breasts, and girlie parts . he told , now we were marriaged , ...... i had to listen to him and that i would be punished for not doing so ...... and set rules then he asked me to sit beside him ........ i was crying like anything by that time ............. he wiped off the tears from my eyes and kissed me on the face he told me he did that only to make me a better wife, he told me that he will always protect me and that we both should be together forever . he put me in his lap and cuddled me like i was his child ....... h etold that it was his duty to correct me. and he spoke so caringly that i became happiest person on Earth to get this man as husband .... will continue the punishments from my daily life

by Sanjana Mon Dec 23 03:33:48 UTC 2013

I got married to a bengali girl recently and she was extremely beautiful and good looking. on the very first night i told her that I would not want to see her in dry hair but it seemed she took me lightly. I ignored it on the first day and on the second day after returning home from office I called her to my bedroom and asked her to strip. She was very excited but her excitement vanished the moment I took out a thin leather whip. I tied her to the bed and lashed her back about 50 times. She passed out in pain but I didnt stop. Then I clamped one of her breasts and twisted her teats very hard. She was weeping in pain and I allowed her to lie on the ground and gave her a kick on the face with my shoes. Thereafter I helped her stand up pulling her very long and beautiful hair and explained her that she needs to oil her hair heavily and forget all about being stylish.Immediately she got up and came back to me with a bottle of coconut oil and sat in front of me.I poured the full bottle on her hair and asked her to take only a water bath after it and restricted her from using any shampoo. Now she is used to it and oils her hair twice every day but does not dare to come ever in dry hair. I also cane her atleast once a week for other faults and after caning her keep her lied naked on the ground.

by Sanjay Tue Dec 24 11:54:40 UTC 2013

you are nothing but a saddist...

by Dipabali Sun Dec 29 15:22:08 UTC 2013

This s Kavitha from somewhere at d part of south India, wen I was 16 I lost my father, so mom & myself stayed in our aunt's house tat she s my father's younger sister & my mom too looks young she was 38 & has perfect fitness both myself & mom has long thick hair which would caressed our asss either we let it open or braided. My aunty she was just 28 & she too have a tight body but her thick semi curly hair reaches just half a way to her mid back and she s very stern lady tat she never treated me or my mom as a relation rather she make my mom & me to do all household chores from morning to night until she gone to sleep with her husband. Her husband too very strict with us & never hesitate to punish me wen ever I did mistakes or delayed on my duties. Mostly he enjoyed to pull my longhair by grabbing it tightly with his strong fist & often he would twist my ears. Weekly once I made to bend over his lap and his working table for my caning & spaynking punishments tat time he never allow me to wear any clothes even.though on regular days my dressing s just half hand tight blouse & short skirt its just hang above my knees. My mom has allowed to wear only Saree without any under garments. Mom felt very difficulties with tat Saree becos it would expose her nakked back and tight asss to my uncle. Daily we both woke early morning finish our personal chore after freshen up we start making tea, breakfast etc & after my uncle went for his job, my aunty would make sit my mom on d floor for oiling her longhair my mom & myself are suffers lot with my aunt's oiling becos she oil our hair very very heavily tat coconut oil would makes dripping from our longhair. So always our face, nape, hands are shined with d oil. If we shows any reluctance on our oiling then she would make us to kneel down in d hot sun in her backyard even my mom couldn't escape from her...... I'll continue more..

by kavitha Thu Jan 02 17:51:30 UTC 2014

Mostly ladies become murga in bedroom during night because it is a sex position also.Most of the adult like murga infront of opposite sex .

by guest Fri Jan 03 17:59:51 UTC 2014

Hi, Can you say what murga means?

by guest Fri Jan 31 23:46:42 UTC 2014

is there anybody who canes on wife's palms?

by guest Sun Feb 16 15:58:25 UTC 2014

I m subha my life becomes worse than ever since my mother death my father tend to get second marriage becos he works in a touring job so often leaves me alone. My step mom settled in our house with her brother he is five years elder to me & he working as a school teacher initially I was happy tat I had a relative in our house but its changed slowly once I had asked to get coaching from her brother on tat time I was studying +2 class so my father strictly told me to obey my step mom & her brother(Ram). Ram sir( I hav order to address him as sir) teached me everyday usually I m average in studies everyday before I entered to his room my stepmom oil my thick longhair very heavily with coconut oil & neatly combed it and she ties my longhair in two tight thick braids then she strictly warn me to concentrate on my studies if anything i misbehaved his brother then I would be punished severely by her. I always scared about her so I never oppose her word & alway try to obey her after I get into ram sir room he would make me to sit on d floor near to his chair foot so he can easily grab my heavily oiled thick longhair braid wen ever he likes & also he had a long cane and wooden scale to punish me but often I was pulled by my oiled longhair braid or by my ears to slap my pretty face harder & he alway likes to caresses my oiled hair wen ever he nearer to me wen he ask me any questions he made me to kneel before him with hand folding behind & obviously he holds my oiled hair in his hand if I didn't answer or make any mistakes he shiftly twist my hair braid tightly so head pulled towards him then he twist my ears very hard & he give tight slaps on my both cheeks but anyway I like him becos he punish me only wen I did mistakes unless he would really very much care about me he loves me lot especially he loves my long thick hair upto my asss & it always oil wet either in direct apply of oil or sometimes my stepmom oil my hair extra heavily with generous coconut oil after an hour soaking she allow me take head bath but she warn me to do not wipe out d whole oil so after my head bath I even not use much towel on my hair instead I naturally dry it then my step mom comes with d comb & check d oil level on my hair if its not sufficient she would scold me with my ear twisted by her hands then she gently detangle d knot before combing my oil wet longhair & she loosely braid it in twin plaits. Mostly my stepmom likes my hair to be oiled directly my stepmom always enquired her brother about my studies & behavior if he said anything wrong about me tat day my punishment would me worse becos she punish me very cruelly than ram sir. She grab me on her knees lift my gown & pulled my panties she begun to spaank my bare asss with strong hand with pulling my oiled longhair braid in another hand it would be more painful & humiliate thing then she continues with several items like ram sir leather belt & finally with cane at last she makes me to do several sit ups & murga with holding my two ears. My life becomes even more worst on my +2 exam result day I was nervously waiting for my result. Ram sir came with my result he saw me in anger & he told my stepmom tat I was failed in my exam in very worst marks. I was very much scared & became nervous my stepmom stood up & picked her mobile phone & called my father she informed him tat I was failed in my studies & unfit to continue my higher studies so she decided to teach me d all household chores & prepare me for her brother to marry me. Hearing this I was very much worried then she walked near to me grabbed my oiled hair very tightly & rolled my head I was just tryed to balance she told tat here after I should take all responsibilities of cleaning, cooking, washing etc and be obedient to her brother whatever he says becos he s going to be my husband. Immediately she changed my appearance too from school girl to a woman almost like a maid she ordered me to wear sarees without any undergarments like blouses & skirts t

by subha Sun Mar 02 16:18:03 UTC 2014

....... Then she unbraided my twin plaits & brought coconut oil bottle & begun to pour on my already oiled longhair I was worried becos my longhair was already heavily oiled just a hour back but again she applying generous amount of oil tat coconut oil starts dripping on my face, nape & shoulder then she combed it well but she tied my longhair into a big tight bun instead of twin braids then she ordered me to follow her to d kitchen their I saw lot of unwashed dishes in d sink my stepmom ordered me to clean tat vessels within half an hour & come back to report her I never cleaned any vessels in my life so I scared but no choice me to escape I begun to clean one by one after half an hour stepmom came & saw tat I didn't complete d job so she got angry on me, straight away she grabbed my oiled hair bun slapped my face several times & scolded me in very harsh words. I never scolded in those words but now she treating me like a poor maid almost like work slave. So daily my chores are assigned by my stepmom & I have to complete in her scheduled time or else I would be punished harsh sometimes she makes to kneeldown in d backyard during noon time in d heavy sunlight & like beating me infront of ram sir in my semi nudde condition.

by subha Sun Mar 02 16:23:09 UTC 2014

carry on shova....did you marry your Ram sir finally?how you r enjoying your married life?share with us.

by dipa Sat Mar 15 10:46:30 UTC 2014

I live in the south of England & I regularly punish my girlfriend when she deserves it. Usually this takes the form of a sound smacking over my knee, either on her jeans or her bare bottom. She has also been slippered on several occasions. We also own a 36 inch school cane which is used much less frequently and only for serious offences and also a short school strap. For these punishments she bends over and receives six of the best. She is due a dose of cane later today as she arrived home last night at 3am, very drunk, with her friend. When I pointed out the time she announced that she didn't care, lit a cigarette and laughed with the friend. As a result I pulled her over my knee, raised her skirt and smacked her bottom, with her friend watching, until it was good and red. We'll be meeting at the pub in a couple of hours for a drink after work then she knows it'll be straight home where she'll be given six good reasons to improve her behaviour.

by Dave Tue Mar 18 15:18:18 UTC 2014

Did you cane her Dave, if so, how many strokes? Was her bottom well marked?

by guest Fri Apr 04 14:06:33 UTC 2014

some of u mentioned tht husband iz oru guardian nd have the ryt to punish wyfs , he maybe oru guardian bt he have no ryt to punish us cuz they r not oru father nd itz not their sp*rm tht brought us to thz world nd have no ryt to punish wyf

by guest Sat Apr 05 13:04:25 UTC 2014

This is subha again sorry readers I couldn't continue because now my daily chores are became very hard tat after my marriage with ram sir, I couldn't able to spend a time to share my experience. In my previous post I told you about how my school life turns to maid life under my strict step mom rules. So finally a day comes and my step mom informed me tat I m going to get married within a two day I felt little happy and thought some how I could get some relief from the hectic chores. But my life becomes even worse don't mistake tat ram sir too begun to punish me he so caring and lovable, he initially set some standard rules like at any cost I must obey her mom and be obedient to all and he fixed some schedule day & time for my punishments tat to be carried out by himself privately in our bedroom. Step mom too punish me routinely if I slipped from my work. Now I trained well in my house hold chores and my step mom punishments too reduced somewhat but even though my longhair would be always oiled heavily.
So my routine days passed in d same track till One day my hubby ram sir got serious upset and he had long conversation with my stepmom and the next day he told me to dress up and get ready, before I asked anything he told me tat he made a huge loss in his business and his credit becomes huge from a particular financier and he is threatening him to pay the credit or he would kill him. I was scared in his word but its even worse after he told me tat I should stay in tat financier house until he returns the money.....

by subha Sun Apr 13 00:57:48 UTC 2014

Subha,
the financer will not do anything to you,he wont ask u to oil your hair also,so be happy....

by shravan Sun Apr 13 08:06:07 UTC 2014
 
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