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Topic: Do any grown up girls get cane from parents?
pls tell, do any grown-up girls caned by their parents at home? pls answer.

by ganga Fri Nov 13 07:11:13 UTC 2009

hai sruthi, where is ur place? did u cry while caning? how many beatings did u get? in which age did ur sister receive caning? pls reply

by guest Sun Nov 15 11:17:23 UTC 2009

We all five sisters received caning by our mother up to teens for mistakes in studies and other resons on butt, thighs and legs over cotton salwar. She used rattan canes (chooral) on us.

by guest Mon Dec 07 06:49:29 UTC 2009

Please visit the forum
in the school punishment forum and share your experiences

by guest Thu Dec 31 12:21:11 UTC 2009

Shahida, I have written in the other forum (home & tuition). We used to wear long skirts (and very rarely churidar, where the pyjamas were tigh-fitting) So bappa would lift the skirt (or top of churidar) and apply the cane. We didn't get any on the bare, except when we were little children (5 or 6 years old).

by Jasmine Wed Feb 03 03:04:20 UTC 2010

hai, jasmine, do u feel ashamed when u were caned in ur grown up age? What other punishments did u get at home and tuition

by anusha Mon Feb 08 02:48:59 UTC 2010

Hi Anusha, visit the other forum (Caning at home & tuition). I have written there.
Most of the time, I didn't feel 'ashamed', may be because only my mother & sister were there to witness the caning. Moreover, I think that there is no need or use of being ashamed to receive a punishment for what I have done. I should be ashamed to have done the mischief in the first place, rather than for getting punishment for it.

Well, throughout my studies, I didn't attend any tuitions in the true sense of the term. So no such experiences other than school & home.

by Jasmine Mon Feb 08 04:22:15 UTC 2010


by Stella john Wed Feb 10 08:16:46 UTC 2010

I got recently married. My hus is holding very good position in a private firm. He told me that his ambition was to become a teacher, but his fate was different. since child hood while in school, he got very heavy canings from teachers and he could not return it. First he told me that he want to cane me. I agreed. He took a stick from a small plant and give me two strokes in each palm. AFter caning he will rub it and console me. He is repeating this. Althrough I am suffering heavy pain, I am happy.

by Nisha nair Thu Feb 11 06:00:31 UTC 2010

My husband is a teacher in our college and caning is allowed in our college. Sometime my husband canes me with other students for not answering question or to get poor marks in class test. This is a girls’ college but both male and female teachers are teaching us.

by neha Thu Feb 11 15:36:59 UTC 2010

Neha, does your husband cane you at home also, may be for not studying well? Or at college only?

by Jasmine Fri Feb 12 08:37:36 UTC 2010

No, my husband does not cane me at home.He canes me only in our class with other students. In home he always cooperates me about all household work.

by neha Fri Feb 12 09:22:21 UTC 2010

That's good. :) That shows that he's a good teacher at college showing no favours to his wife as a student, and he's a good husband at home.

by Jasmine Fri Feb 12 10:37:59 UTC 2010

Neha, do you discuss with him (at home) about his caning at the college?

by Jasmine Fri Feb 12 10:40:04 UTC 2010

Almost every day I discuss with him about this matter. But I know that he has no alternate. Already I discussed about this matter to other forum. He is also a very good husband at home.

by neha Fri Feb 12 10:47:14 UTC 2010

Neha, I think your hus can avoid atleast your palm canings in college. He should have avoid asking questions daily or in case it is absolutely necessary, he should have give other simple punishments like imposition for one time to all etc. caning wife with other students is not at all tolerable. Some teachers will cane their small kids in school level, but a hus cannot cane his wife, as I think. In my opinion caning in degree level must be stopped. You students should heavily protest caning, should not show your hands to teachers for caning. Giving good palm canings in college and rubbing the palm after reaching home and showing sympathy to you is not makes a good hus. He should not cane you. you protest.

by a guest Wed Feb 17 08:11:04 UTC 2010

Already I told him but somehow he is helpless to protect me.But I thikn palmcaning should be stopped in degree level.

by neha Wed Feb 17 10:36:51 UTC 2010

neha please explain - you may be getting palm caning from other teachers also. So which is more painful one? whether your hus caning or other teachers? when other teachers caning on your palm what is the opinion of your hus? he will be happy or unhapy.

by a guest Mon Mar 01 08:17:55 UTC 2010

Neha poor girl, husinte kaiyyilninnum chooraladi kittunnathu kashtam thanne. kai neetti kanikkaruthu mole. chanthiyil thallan paranju thirinju ninnu kodukku.

by vinisha Mon Mar 08 08:39:23 UTC 2010

When I get caning from other teachers deffinetely it is too much painful than from husband. But in this cane my husband's opinion is simple " if you do guilty you should get punishment".

by neha Thu Mar 11 11:36:45 UTC 2010

Last friday, I got palm canint from my husband, three stocks on each of my palm for getting poor marks in class test. So many girls also were caned by my husband. But it was so humiliated for me becouse I was caned not only my teacher but also my husband.

by neha Mon Mar 22 15:01:52 UTC 2010

As a teacher your husband should not be caned on your palm. He should complete stop canings in the class especially in your class. I think no husband can canes his wife, as a teacher or other. He may be a saddist. I think you may be getting more canings from him at your home. If he is a real loving hus, he cannot cane. I am surprised to see that you got 3 strokes each on your palm yesterday. It is a shameful thing.

by AK Wed Mar 24 05:08:59 UTC 2010

My husband is 6 yrs younger to me and he was my student in degree level. It was 20 yrs before and at that time palm caning and other form of corporal punishment was very common in some private degree colleges. We were in relation when he was my student. Still I remember I caned him so many times with other students for not answering questions or for making noise in class room up to his final year degree class. Some times I made him kneel down with other students for playing turn from class or late coming or for any other misbehavior. He did not think otherwise for that. After finishing graduation he got a job and we had married. On the wedding night I asked him what is the meaning of his name (his name is ankit) but he did not answer it. Then I Pulled his ears and made him kneel down for whole night. At the mid night when I awake I saw he was still on kneeling position with holding ears. I called him to bed. He respects me as his teacher and in teachers’ day he always give me gift and touches my feet. On our birth days and wedding day he also touch my feet with his forehead. We have a daughter and she is now a college student but she is not facing any corporal punishment. When we are discussing with our daughter about his punishments we are just enjoying. It is a just a fun, not a serious matter.

by asmita Wed Mar 24 13:47:57 UTC 2010

Ak, my husband is very nice person. He does not use any rude word to me at home. But in college he has to do his duty for pressure created by his superiors. Some months before he stopped caning in our class but maximum girls performed very poor in internal examination in his subject. At that time management gave warning to him for that. If any noise comes from any class management blames concern teacher. So, all teachers are very much worried about this. He canes us not only poor performance but for making the noise in class also. If any noise comes from any corner during corner teachers usually cane all girls present in that bench or benches. Sometimes I also get caning from him along with other girls who make noise and sitting around me.

by neha Thu Mar 25 12:26:22 UTC 2010

Nehamole, kayyil chooral kondu adi vangunnathu primary kuttikalkkum allengil high school kutti kualkkum paranjittullathanu. collegeil athum swonthom husbantinte chooral kondu kai neetti adi vangunnathu valare mosam thanne. Adi nirbantha manengil thirinju ninnu chanthi kanichu kodukkuka. Husbant molude chanthiyil thalli thudangatte. Kaivellayil adikittunnathu kondu pala vishamangalumundu. Onnamathu ellavarum ariyum, kaikondu joli onnum cheyyan pattilla, home work vare. Chanthikkadi kittiyal aarum kanilla, classile kuttikalkku mathram ariyam. athinal molude husband ithu kandalengilum palm caning niruthi chanthiyil thudanguka. Kattiyulla adipavadayum jettiyum ittu collegil povuka. all the best.

by a loving sister Sat Mar 27 08:35:25 UTC 2010

neha it is very shameful that u degree students r making noise in the class like school kids,so ur husband is forced to cane u and you really deserve it.As you are the matured girls and many of them are married you should not disturb the teachers and you dont have to show the palm to ur teachers for caning and lets see what will happen.neha, did anyone protest against this earlier,then what was the result,who was the senior studene in ur class,is she also getting the same puinishment,neha u must change ur attitude towards ur teacher.wishing u all the very best.

by guest Sun Mar 28 07:23:26 UTC 2010

is there anyone who wants to enact school punishments in real life.
I m from mumbai & having been doing role play of school punishments in real life .I like punishments like situps , kneel down , ear pull , murgha , spanking , caning etc

by amit Thu Apr 01 14:09:59 UTC 2010

I am 22 and still get the cane usually for coming in after curfew time.
Mum usually canes me on a Friday evening. I have to bend over a desk and she takes my knickers down.

by Sarah Sun Apr 11 20:40:44 UTC 2010

Sarah! Interesting! Why dont you give your E=mail ID. We can have useful exchanges.

by Priya Thu Apr 15 03:10:11 UTC 2010

Sarah and Priya

I am 21 and I am still caned on the bare bottom by my mother usually 6 strokes.
I have had 3 canings in 2010.

by Fiona Sat Apr 17 19:10:59 UTC 2010

Fiona % Sarah!
Would you give me your E-mail ID so that we can exchange our experiences in confidence.

by Priya Sun Apr 18 05:48:06 UTC 2010

My email id is: mrsneha88@rediffmail

by neha Sun May 02 17:33:24 UTC 2010

As a teacher I am unable to believe that Neha's hus is caning on her palm in a degree college. He has to take so many other alternatives than caning. After caning how he can face her in his house as a wife. Whether he will treat her as a student or a wife at house? Neha please explain whether he is treating you as a student at home. Caning to his own wife as a stident is not at all tolerable. He should find out some other solutions and stop canings atleast his own wife. Giving good strokes on palms and rubbing the same at house will not make him a good husband.

by a guest Thu May 06 08:48:48 UTC 2010

As a teacher I am unable to believe that Neha's hus is caning on her palm in a degree college. He has to take so many other alternatives than caning. After caning how he can face her in his house as a wife. Whether he will treat her as a student or a wife at house? Neha please explain whether he is treating you as a student at home. Caning to his own wife as a stident is not at all tolerable. He should find out some other solutions and stop canings atleast his own wife. Giving good strokes on palms and rubbing the same at house will not make him a good husband.

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by guest Mon May 10 14:35:14 UTC 2010

Usually my husband is not treating me as his student at home.But in some times before my examination he helps me for studing and at that time he is very exited and some times he sticks me with a scale on my palms. But this is a very occassional case.Normaly he treats me as a student in the college and there he canes me with other students if I do any guilty.

by neha Wed Jun 09 17:26:09 UTC 2010

We are from a Womens college at Kochi. Our main discussion is about punishments in women colleges. We do not have any kind of punishments. But after going thorugh the school punishment form we understood that several colleges are usually punishing students especially girls. Also surprised to know that some teachers canes their own wifes in the college. It is not at all tolerable. How a husband can beat his wife in the class with a cane? The teachers should realize the role of a wife and instead he should have some love and affection on her, instead of punishing, either in the college as a student or a wife. Those who are beating their own wife, in our opinion is not fit at all for the post of a husband. Mrs. Neha, do not show your palm next time when your hus comes with a cane for beating, and see the results.

by some students Thu Jun 10 05:00:25 UTC 2010

poor Neha ,yes as the some students say's do not open your hand for punishment not just from your husband for any teacher you are an adult and you are a house wife do you have any children from that husband if yes or no what you going to tell your kids you should be have a lot of respect and love from your husband and the rest of the college adminstration just by being a wife and getting education may be in few years you will be a teacher by your self how you going to feel about it .It's realy shame to see that part of the world using beating to grown up young women and men just don't show your palm for any more punishments

by Miss Miriada Thu Jun 10 05:52:38 UTC 2010

Alreaded I protested to my husband and one day I left for my parents' house. But my maam was very angry to me and she told me your husband not only your husband but also your teacher.So you must consider his situation. After returing home my friends (mainly married friends) told me that it was your guilty.Your husband is not only your teacher but also your guardian. He is as same as your God. So if he punish you, you must accept it.

by neha Mon Jun 14 16:01:16 UTC 2010

You should not accept palm caning punishment as a student from your husband. Even if he is your teacher, you should strongly protest and refuse such punishments from your husband. Palm caning is only recommended to primary or even high school girl students, not in a college. As a husband, I think he is much enjoying while caning girl students. While caning beautiful girls, please see his face impression, and you discuss in home about other girls palm caning by him. I think he is a very saddist husband, not a teacher. He likes caning very much. So you students protest it and should not attend his classes. You all are grown up girls.

by Rajan Mon Jun 21 05:19:37 UTC 2010

'You should not accept palm caning punishment as a student from your husband.' (by Rajan Mon Jun 21 05:19:37 UTC)

What about palm caning at home? My parents were tachers, and in my younger days, they sometimes used to give me palm caning like they would do to school children. Later my husband (who had been my love since school days and had got liberal doses of the cane from my father) took inspiration from it and started giving similar 'punishments', as if I am still a school girl. He's always careful not to make it too hard. Most of the times, it's intended as joke rather than real punishment. A few gentle strokes on either or both palms, followed by a couple of kisses over the reddened stripes - that's his 'favourite style'. I also love it. (When it comes to actual punishments, his method is quite different.)

by Alli Sun Jul 04 04:13:57 UTC 2010

I am recently got married to a person who is a graduate and working in a private firm. He is very much interested in giving canings to me on palm. With a thin cane he used to give two two strokes on both of my palms for a 'joke' in most of the days. Then he will be very happy. After giving the strokes like Alli told in the last post, he will rub my palms and give kisses on both of my hands. I never got canings from even school level, as I studied in Central school, where caning punishment was banned. He says that some of his friends also doing this type of jokes with their wifes.

by a housewife Tue Jul 06 07:35:59 UTC 2010

To the housewife who commented above:

May I know where you are from? (I am from Kannur, North Kerala) You said '...he used to give two two strokes on both of my palms for a 'joke' in most of the days..' So, does he give some reason, or simply give a couple of strokes just like that? Can you please describe one such session? What would be the expression on his face while he gives you the 'joke caning'? What is your usual feeling when you get the caning from him? (For me, he would cite some 'fake reason', saying that I had done committed some mistake and that I should get punishment. He'd have a faint, rather naughty, smile which indicates that it's intended as a joke. But he would look serious while giving the caning, just the way a teacher would be while punishing a child. At any moment, I am happy to show my palms to his cane.)

And have you ever got any actual punishment from him? If yes, how was it?

by Alli Tue Jul 06 09:24:37 UTC 2010

Alli, I am from Kochi, but we are staying in Chennai. My hus is very much interested in palm caning of girls. Since he could not get students palm, he want to cane on my palm. Nothing else. He is having much pleasure while caning. I have to show my right hand first and then my left for caning. Before showing my palm I will request him not to give heavy strokes. But sometimes I will get heavy ones, then immediately I withdraw my hands. He immediately rub it and kisses. Then I will become happy a lot. He is treating this as a joke.

by a wife Tue Jul 13 08:30:21 UTC 2010

I told my husband several times to stop caning in college.He stopped caning on me for few weeks.But last monday he took a special class test and girls (including me) got below pass marks were received caning from him.I am failure to convert his mind. Human nature can not be changed. At that situation when he came to cane me if I refused, a sincreate might my happened and I donot like to make any sincreate.

by neha Wed Jul 14 16:11:08 UTC 2010

To: The wife from Kochi|Chennai

What is your husband - I mean what's his job?

Is it that he would just ask you to show your hand - like, 'hey, show me your hand, I want to cane you' - and give strokes?

As I said earlier, in my case, he would act as if he's going to punish me for some mistake (e.g. 'You haven't closed the shelf properly. So you need a punishment...') and then ask me to show the palm. I can know from his smile that it's a joke and obey. Just a few hours ago I got a small dose (3 strokes) like that.

by Alli Thu Jul 15 06:58:38 UTC 2010

Neha, how many strokes you got from your husband.After reaching home what is his reaction. Whether any red marks or swelling appeared in your palm. I advise you that after reaching home you should not do any house hold work and concentrate more on your books. Ask him to cook food and serve you, since your palm is burning. Whether he is applying the cane on your palm with full force like other girls, or any preference is being given to you. Have your got injury with his canings. Please describe

by a student Thu Jul 15 07:44:28 UTC 2010

Always he applied light caning on me and other girls.Since getting so many suggestion from this forum.I inspired and clearly told me not to cane me in college. He told me it is ok. But in the morning before going to the college I would ask question and you have to answear these.I agreed.Now he asked questions to me in the morning and if I do not answer this he canes me at our house. I think it is far better to get caning in class.But sometime I am to get caning in class when I do any mistake. One day when he came to cane me I refused to show my palms.Altemately I was called into principal's chamber and she caned me severally.Both of my palms were swollen and parallal redish lines appeared on both of my palms. So I think it is better to accept light caning in class instead of heavy caning.In our college, one rule is there if any student disobeys her teachers, she is immediately called in principal's room for seveior caning.It is very shamful punishment.When I received that, I could not move outside our house.At that time our two relatives came and they asked abour swolled condition of my palm but somehow I managed it. Other girls also tell that when their palms are swollen they can not go to neighbour's house, friend's house, market etc.How I only can stop caning punishment.Our seniors get caning,my class mate get caning and they do not tell anything. Even when I get caning from my husband, they have no reaction.Other teachers also never tell my husband to stop caning specially on me.My mother also saports about my caning from husband. I am helpless.

by neha Fri Jul 23 18:40:01 UTC 2010

to wife, do you enjoy this type of caning?

by vinu Mon Jul 26 09:21:12 UTC 2010

Vinu, I do enjoy my husband's 'joke canings' very much. He's always careful to ensure that the strokes do not hurt, and I also understand that it's meant as a joke, so I also share the joke and enjoy with him, especially because he follows it up with kisses on the caned palms.

by Alli Mon Jul 26 12:13:39 UTC 2010

Hi 'wife from Kochi|Chennai', You haven't answered my qstn: What's the job of ur husband? And what's ur take on Vinu's qstn?

by Alli Tue Jul 27 08:14:19 UTC 2010

Hi, I started getting caning from my father in my childhood days. Now I have completed my graduation. Yet I do get caning even now. I think that I will have to accept caning till I get married.

by guest Thu Jul 29 10:48:49 UTC 2010

Neha carry on, no shame for accepting canings from teachers for mistakes. It is a common practice in our country, from LKG onwards. You seems to be lucky for accepting canings from your own hus, as a teacher. So he has to consider you also as a student in college, treat you as a wife in house. I think heavy punishmnets for girls not necessary. Minor palm canings is OK. Teachers while applying caning on girls palm please give light strokes, a little pain for few hours, there should not be any red lines or injury to the palm. Light canings can improve the performances definitely. So somebody in this form is says that do not accept canings from own husband is not correct. When husband is a teacher he should treat all students equally.

by a teacher Sat Jul 31 08:11:02 UTC 2010

Alli, we were on a tour to North. My Husband is working in a private company at Chennai in accounts. He is a graduate. His ambition was to become a teacher and punish students especially girls severely with cane. But due to his bad luck he could not become a teacher. His mind was always on caning, when he was a student, his teachers were using cane mercilessly on boys and girls palms. He is interested very much in caning on girls palms. So after marriage very first day itself he told me this ambition, I happily agreed to show my palm for caning. Once in a week or twice definitely I am getting caning from him. It is mild stroke, but he want to see my palm with red marks, so with thin cane he gives good strokes some times, 4-6 nos. in each palm. After that he will rub both my palms and kiss it. This is a kind of punishment.

by a house wife Wed Aug 11 04:30:46 UTC 2010

So, Ms. Housewife, how do you feel while getting caning? You said that he gives you 4 - 6 strokes on each palm. If that be the case, it must be causing good pain. Do you accept and tolerate the pain as it is? Or is it that you're forced to accept because you don't have any option? Also, you haven't answered my earlier question: How does your husband do it? Does he simply ask you to show your hand - like, 'hey, show me your hand, I want to cane you' - and give strokes? or some other style?

by Alli Wed Aug 11 10:31:59 UTC 2010

Hi Veena it will be nice to see you in tight white pants., above all pulling its pockets means extreme tight. Ask your father to allow youself to put both hands inside pants pocket and lift one leg and apply the cane

by Jai Thu Aug 12 15:47:07 UTC 2010

Hey veena, you seem to be a modern girl since you feel nice in that tight white pants. I dont think any of ordinary girls want to show the tightness of pants as white pants show it off clearly. Have'nt you noticed the impression of your pockets through your pants. Why your father allow you to wear them? Is he unaware of the problems? Do you wear tight jeans?

by Srinath Wed Aug 18 14:07:57 UTC 2010

Hi Srinath, Seems that you're mistaken. I didn't say that I 'feel nice' in tight pants! Quite the contrary, I don't like them much. What I said was what some of my neighbourhood friends said. They like to see me in those white pants. It's my parents who make me wear them. (Read my post again - you can understand.) They (parents) are very much aware of the 'problems' of white pants. And that exactly is why they insist that I should wear them - they feel that I will be 'better behaved' and keep away from indulging in mischief if I am wearing those white pants. If I am careless, the white pants will get dirty soon and nobody would want to walk around in white pants laced with dirt. So, naturally I have to be more careful. Moreover, if I do indulge in any mischief, I will get a good dose of father's cane. Since the pants are white, the cane will leave brownish yellow marks clearly visible on the pants. And it won't be nice to 'show off'. So, naturally, I will be more careful not to be naughty. And no, I don't wear jeans - I don't like them at all.

by Veena Wed Aug 18 16:44:36 UTC 2010

Hi Veena I am so sorry for having mistaken you. It was just because of the new generation girls who always try to be inside tight jeans. So I thought you too was interested. In our college most of the girls are dressed in tight jeans. If in churidar its pijamas are seen sticking to their thighs. I have a girlfriend whose name I dont want to mention here. she one day surprisingly changed from her loose churidar to tight jeans. I felt very much irritated seeing her jeans because she wore it along with short top that the lap region was totally exposed. Above all jeans looked very much wrinkled and stretchy. I asked her the reason and she was telling, it is so comfortable and good appearence. I asked her not to wear them again to college, but she didnt obeyed me and now I dont talk to her just for this reason. I found she is putting her mobile phone inside its pockets and struggling to pull it out when someone calls her which still adds the vulgarity. As a good girl with commonsense I am asking Veena why girls are like that? Is their any magic in tights?

by Srinath Fri Aug 20 01:11:56 UTC 2010

Hi Srinath, the shift in dressing style from time to time is in the name of the so-called 'fashion trends', which, in turn, is influenced by commercial interests. There is no 'magic' in tights or any other dress for that matter. The 'magic' lies in the market strategy of those who 'define' fashion. Nowadays, highlighting the 'figure' is being projected as the current fashion.

Personally, I am not in favour of going by the 'fashion trends'. I only believe that the dress should be decent and comfortable. My wearing pants has nothing to do with fashion or 'appealing appearance'. (That you would already have understood.) Father's cane is the only factor in my case. And almost every set of my pants has seen cane marks across the bottom.

by Veena Fri Aug 20 03:52:28 UTC 2010

did any girl receive caning by mother after removing dress? pls describe

by guest Tue Aug 24 18:48:15 UTC 2010

ethenkilu penkuttikale amma dress remove cheythu thalliyittundo? pls describe

by vindhya Wed Aug 25 08:45:58 UTC 2010

ethenkilu penkuttikale amma dress remove cheythu thalliyittundo? pls describe

by vindhya Wed Aug 25 08:46:00 UTC 2010

Shortly before Christmas in 2008 my Aunt discovered I had been to a pub with work colleagues and had a drink whilst already being disciplined for being drunk previously. My Aunt therefore decided that as I could not be trusted to obey her outside that I would hence forth be disciplined by not only being dressed at home as a misbehaved school girl but that I would live this life at all times. I therefore resigned my job as a Secretary and was made subject to the following strict and deserved regime in which I was under constant and close supervision at all times.
I had to wear school uniform at all times. Old style brown school knickers including a large size sanitary pad at all times, grey ribbed knee socks, yellow blouse, brown and yellow stripped tie, brown worsted square yoked pinafore dress reaching well below my knees, brown V-neck woollen waistcoat with yellow trim and brown V-neck woollen cardigan with yellow trim. I wore this uniform at all times except at night when I wore a grey woollen ankle length gown buttoning high to the neck in addition of course to my knickers and sanitary pad.
I did and still do all of the housework before my breakfast at 7:30 am each morning meaning I got up at 5 am.
From 8am until 6:30 pm every day I was confined to the study room. I had a laborious regime of school work consisting of religious study (reading out loud, writing dictation or having to copy passages of The Bible), writing lines and essays on my misbehavior and punishment and needlework (making of school uniform including knitted woollen items and other plain clothing).
I was allowed porridge for breakfast, liver or mince with mashed potatoes and two boiled vegetables for lunch and two slice of bread and water for tea (except on Sunday when I received no tea).
The only exception to my confinement was on Sunday when I had to attend Church with my Aunt. In addition to my school uniform I also then wore a brown woollen cardigan jacket with yellow trim, brown woollen beret with yellow trim and brown woollen mitts with yellow trim. To add to my humiliation the mitts were sown to the arms of my cardigan jacket by elastics. Following the Church service I had to help serve tea in the Parish rooms. Following this public humiliation I spent the rest of Sunday providing meals to my Aunt and her many guests and when not doing this standing with my hands on my head facing the wall or corner.
I spoke only when spoken to and had always to reply as succinctly as possible finishing with “Maam” or “Sir” as appropriate.
I had to ask permission to go to the toilet and was limited to two cold showers per week using carbolic soap to wash my hair and body. My hair was worn in a pony tail and was swept back from my forehead. My Aunt cut my hair to ensure I had no fringe. I had my mouth washed with carbolic soap and water three times per week before going to bed as a specific punishment for lying when my Aunt asked me if I had been drinking.
I was allowed to change my knickers and socks twice per week, my blouse once per week and my dress and woollens once a fortnight. I, of course, was not allowed jewelry, make-up, etc.
I received, as many of the other writers here, corporal punishment regularly as my Aunt said I need to be punished severely for many failings and to receive regular reminders of my new position in life. I received eight strokes of the cane to my behind every Sunday and two strokes of the tawse to the palm and back of each of my hands on Wednesday.
If I failed to meet the required standards I was immediately and harshly punished. In all cases, without exception, I received corporal punishment – spanking, slipper, paddle, tawse and cane to the hand or bottom, had privileges withdrawn (meals, toilet access, change of clothing, etc..) and other humiliations imposed (more woolens, corner time, wearing of Dunce’s hat, etc..).
I accepted and deserved this. Now I receive no routine c

by guest Thu Oct 28 13:55:20 UTC 2010

This is very severe punsihment but you need to finish the message.
How old are you?
How were your canings administered?
What is a tawse?
You seem to believe you deserved to be punished is this correct?
Was it humiliating to attend Church in a school uniform?
Are you still punished?

by guest Fri Oct 29 14:06:01 UTC 2010

I receive no routine corporal punishment anymore. I am now working as a cleaner at the local shopping centre. I still dress very conservatively in the clothing I have made which means a plain pinafore dress, blouse and cardigan at all times. I had to sell all of my previous more fashionable clothing at the local charity shop so as to remove any temptation to dress unsuitably in the future.
I am 22 years old. I was caned across my bare behind by my guardians. When my behaviour had been les satisfactory this caning was carried out in front of visitors to our house. The caning being followed by me standing hands on head in the corner of the room with my knickers around my ankles to further my humiliation. A tawse is a thick leather strap with two tongues and is a traditional implement for corporal punishment in Scotland. I did deserve to be punished although the length and severity of the sanctions I have endured has been harsh - but this has resulted from me failing to meet the restrictions rightly imposed upon me.
The public wearing of school uniform is exceedingly humiliating and not something I would like to see imposed on others unless for severe misbehaviour. I am no longer punished but my lifestyle is now very diffferent. I work as a cleaner, do all of the housework and dress in a plain manner. I do not drink or smoke and attend Church regularly.

by guest Tue Nov 02 16:35:08 UTC 2010

you obviously had very bad behaviours. it is good that your parents have punished you severely enough to change this. is your behaviours still kept under close reviews? do you have to ask permissions to go out or do associate with others? do they applies sanctions to keep your behaviours right or to drive further improvements to make you plainer and respectful? i am sure others could learn much from the examples which has been made of you.

by guest Tue Nov 09 17:13:27 UTC 2010

My behaviour is still scrutinised and deservedly so. Whilst I am not now routinely punished , although as I will detail I have been following misbehviour on Sunday, I am subject to many deserved and appropriate constraints and reminders. As I have said my dress is constrained. In addition I have a curfew having to be at home by 8:30 on Monday to Saturday and 7:30 PM on Sunday. At other times (except when going to work) I have to ask permission to go out including who I may be meeting and where I am going. I am not allowed to go to drinking houses or pubs. I am not allowed to watch TV programmes after 10 PM. As all of my limited salary from my cleaning job is used to pay for my board and lodgings my reading materials,etc are limited to those provided by my Aunt. To ensure I do not forget how I will be treated if my beahviour is not exemplary for example my clothing is specified exactly for me. The reason I had to display my punishment on this site was because my guardians decided I was becoming slightly arrogant in my attitude and it would be a good reminder to me as well as inconvenient and humiliating to have to display details of my previous punishment. It is part of this that I must continue to answer any queries resulting in my own time with the resulting lesson that brings to me. I do hope that my example is useful to others and that you will let me have any further queries. I will display my discipling on Sunday as a further example separately.

by guest Wed Nov 10 15:43:03 UTC 2010

On Sunday I had dressed for Church in a blue shirt, navy pinafore and round neck navy cardigan. My Aunt, to show me I did not have endless freedoms, decided I should dress instead in a grey shirt, maroon pinafore with a front buttoning skirt and a V-neck grey cardigan with maroon trim. This was a collection I had made during my punishment and is obviously a school uniform. To make it worse she insists that as a woman I should wear a hat when in Church which meant wearing a grey woollen beret I had knitted again with a maroon trim and a maroon pom-pom. This was effectively the schooluniform, except for a tie and knee socks I had endured during my punishment. My self-conciousness at my clothing then resulted in me mistakenly speaking to someone in my Aunt's presence in what she regarded as an impolite and disrespectful way which I did apologise for immediately when she pointed it out. However following the Church service when we returned home my Aunt told me that my reluctance to dress as she had told me and my slovenly and rude behaviour were not acceptabel and that I would be punsihed in addition to the reprimand she had already delievered. If I was gain going to behave like a naughty schoolgirl I would be treated like one. I spen the rest of the day in my uniform but with knee socks and a maroon and green striped tie added. At lunchtime instead of eating I had to stand at the table with my hands on my head and with a bar of soap in my mouth as penance for my rudeness. My mouth was then thoroughly washed with soap after lunch. I then had to write in my room the line, "I deserve to wear junior school uniform and be punsihed severely because I am a disrespectful, rude and naughty girl" 300 times which took me two and a half hours. After this I stood with my hands on my head facing the corner of the dining room whilst my Uncle checked my work. I was then having made tea sent to bed at 6pm. It was very humiliating. In addition for the next four weeks my Aunt is going to specify what I wear and as I have already found this means effectively school uniform at all times. In addition she confines me to wearing mutiple cardigans and wool jackets which I absolutely hate even before they are so obviously appropriate for school wear. I am also going to apologise again to the person I was impolite to on Sunday and tell them how I have been disciplined this coming Sunday. I have also been warned that if I fail to behave appropriately at all in the next 4 weeks then I can expect to receive corporal punishment. As you can see I am still punished if I fail to behave correctly.

by guest Wed Nov 10 17:00:29 UTC 2010

anyone who wants to enact school punishments in real life?

by Sandip Thu Nov 11 05:29:46 UTC 2010

it is pleasing that you remain well supervised and that as we now see you are still punished for misbehaviours. as an example could you expalin how you are now being made to dress particularly on Sunday and how you are allowed to spend any spare time you have. is it as humiliating as it sounds for someone your age or is it normal where you live? do others use such punishments for their daughters?

by guest Fri Nov 26 13:44:38 UTC 2010

Many thanks for your questions. On each of the Sundays since my misbehaviour I have been dressed in a humiliating and uncomfortable school uniform. The basic constituents of this can be exmplified by what my Aunt specified I must wear last Sunday. This was a grey shirt, long old fashioned bottle green knickers, a green and maroon striped school tie and grey woollen knitted knee socks. Over this I wore a maroon worsted pinafore with elbow length sleeves and which buttons from yoke to hem at the front (and from the waist to hem at the back to enable easy application of corporal punishment), a green round necked school cardigan with maroon trim worn at all times in addition to a matching waistcoat. For the walk to and from Church I further had a matching knee length think bottle green woollen cardigan jacket, a green wool beret with maroon trim and a pair of thumbless maroon woll mittens. The humiliation is terrible and although because of my poor behaviour I have endured this on several occassions the humiliation is not reduced. I know of no one else who is so severely punished at my age although some of my friends when at school were punished by wearing school uniform out of school time - perhaps other readers may know of cases. I have little spare time because of my cleaning job and having to complete the house work. Any such time in the last three weeks my Aunt has insisted I devote to knitting a new cardigan dress which will be avilable for me to where as a further punishment for any future failings. I hope this answers your queries and shows how someone can be taught thier lesson by such a regime.

by guest Fri Dec 03 15:57:24 UTC 2010

My sisters and I were disciplined for misbehavior and poor academic performance in a similar way by our parents. This punishment continued until I left home, as appropriate, to start work. The last time I was punished was when I was 20 years old. I had just completed my first year at University and my exam results did not meet the high standard expected (or which I should have achieved). My parents were displeased and when I returned home I was rightly given punishment although it was both severe and long. I was grounded for the whole 13 weeks of my summer vacation and had to study in my room from 8:00 am every morning until 7:00 pm every evening. I was allowed no TV or radio and had to be in bed by 9:00 pm. For the entire period I was dressed in school uniform. As it was summer, this meant plain knickers, green ankle socks, green gingham school dress and maroon cardigan. (in winter there was a different set of attire). I had to wear my hair in a ponytail and was not allowed to wear jewelry or make-up. The only time when I was spared the wearing of uniform was to attend Church on a Sunday when my mother chose some less humiliating attire of a dress or blouse and skirt. Although I was did not therefore have to appear in public dressed in my uniform I was made to appear before visitors to our house and explain why I was being punished which was very humiliating. In addition for my exam performance I also received corporal punishment which was made as childish as possible to teach me for failing to take responsibility for my own performance as an adult. I was given a severe spanking first with a hair brush and then by hand to my bare behind prior to dinner. This punishment was performed in front of my sisters. Afterwards, as was routine for such punishments, I was made to apologise to the family for my poor behaviour and then had to stand with my hands on my head and my knickers around my ankles in the dining room corner for everyone to see. Despite the humiliation and pain of this punishment it certainly ensured I studied with greater effort than before and I now enjoy a successful career. I did once endure public punishment as described here so this girl has my sympathy even if her punishment is deserved.

by Winifred Tue Dec 07 14:27:47 UTC 2010

I must agrees with the last message. These two girls appear to have been or is being taught thier lessons. Has the girl being punished now completed her punsihments or is she still being kept under strict guidnace. I also very supportive that in the other case the parents enforced thier discipline rules whilst thier daughter was in thier house no matter what her age. I think knowing how she was punsihed on the occassion she had to appear in public would be a useful example for others.

by guest Wed Dec 15 15:04:33 UTC 2010

have you receive murga punishment

by anuradha Thu Dec 16 13:12:30 UTC 2010

I still find it a very salutatory experience to write about the occasion of my public humiliation in school uniform even though it is now nearly ten years ago but I hope as described below and as requested it is of use. I was only just 17 and had been allowed out to a party – this was a real privilege. I was supposed to be home at 10 pm on Friday but I did not arrive until after 10:30 pm. In addition I had mistakenly decided to wind up my skirt so it was short amongst other things to make myself more attractive and in my rush to get home failed to readjust these. My parents were furious and I went to bed under no illusion that I would be punished for my misbehaviour. Unfortunately overnight my mother had spoken to one of my friends mother’s who disclosed there had been alcohol at the party (although I had not drunk any) and they had discovered that I had been smoking a cigarette. When asked about these things I denied them which meant I was punished for arriving home late, dressing inappropriately, smoking, drinking and lying – hence the punishment was deservedly severe even in comparison to the normal strict and correct norms we lived to. I had to dress at all times in the usual winter “home school uniform” when not at school -green school knickers, grey knee socks, grey shirt, green and maroon stripped tie, green square yolked pinafore dress with a pleated skirt reaching below my knee and maroon V-neck woollen cardigan. I was of course completely grounded and only allowed to leave the house under supervision. When not helping with housework I was confined to my room and not allowed to watch TV, listen to music or read magazines. I had to be in bed by about 8:30 PM Monday to Thursday and very humiliatingly by 7:00 PM Friday to Sunday. In addition to the usual humiliation of having to appear before guests who visited the house (or whom we visited) for the first three Sunday’s I had to attend Church dressed in my uniform. As other people from my school attended the Church not only did I suffer the humiliation on the day but my punishment was known to all my school friends. I have to say that being dressed like this made me very self-conscious particularly as when asked I had to explain why I was dressed in this way and the other parts of my punishment. I deservedly was also caned receiving 12 strokes to my bare behind in front of my sisters and then after apologizing having to stand in a corner with my hands on my head and knickers round my ankles for an hour. This was the most severe single application of corporal punishment I was ever given. I also received the usual punishment for lying which was to have my mouth washed with soap and water every evening after supper in front of the rest of my family. This was certainly an unpleasant deterrent to lying. This punishment lasted for three weeks after which I was then subject to very strict restrictions to my freedom to go anywhere and what I could wear. My parents said that as I had shown I was too immature to dress myself correctly that my more adult clothing would be removed and I would be re-taught how to dress correctly as a girl. I could provide further information on this on another occasion if anyone was really interested but as you can see I misbehaved badly and was deservedly very severely punished for this immediately and over a prolonged period thereafter. Suffice to say I did not repeat my offences again.


by Winifred Mon Dec 20 13:15:43 UTC 2010

I would like to confirm that whilst I have completed my additional punishment of wearing a school uniform to Church I continue to comply with the desreved restictions which my Aunt and Uncle apply. This means I will spend Christmas again dressed plainly in a blouse, dress and cardigan and appear in this way in public and to the many guests who will visit our house. I have not received murga punishment, I believe, but my Aunt is keen to know what this in case it would be appropriate to improve my behaviour here in the UK. She would like to know is this a form of corporal punishment or something else? Is it or can it be performed provately, in front of the family or publicly? I must now return to completion of my woollen cardigan dress which I was given to rpoduce as part of my previous penance.

by guest Mon Dec 20 15:27:59 UTC 2010

Write something on the thread "different punishment to husbands from your ideas"

by Guest Fri Dec 24 06:21:06 UTC 2010

Murgha punishments is widely used in homes and schools. You must squat and bring your arms through your legs and then hold your ears. You will find maintaining this positions very uncomfortable. the same can be done standings for longer periods. In both cases in our house the recipient can also be caned for relaxing from positions. The punishment may be done in private or in full publics if appropriates. I would fully recommend use of this to your aunt as you still seems in needs of disciplines.
Winifred you was very humiliated but it appears to have worked. What further punsihments were imposed? I am sure many parents could learn useful approaches from your punishment. Do you still receives discipline from your parents if necessary?

by guest Tue Jan 04 16:02:11 UTC 2011

After I had completed my three weeks in school uniform and other punishments I was subjected to strict restrictions to my freedom to go anywhere and what I could wear. This involved both the removal of privileges and their replacement with rules and items which I found restrictive and humiliating. In particular my freedom to dress was a focus since this punished me for dressing inappropriately and continued to make an example of me, even if not as humiliating as attending Church in school uniform had been. Specifically I had to remove from my existing clothing all trousers and any tops which had short sleeves or no collar. These together with my only pair of higher heeled shoes were then sold at a Church Jumble sale. At the same sale my mother then purchased a limited number of items. I then had to dress from these at all times when not at school. For a reason I will come to later I was reminded of these over the Christmas holiday. The items were – a long beige and brown checked dress with a pleated skirt, collar and buttons from neck to hem, a navy smock with lace on the shoulders and chest, a large lace collar and reaching below the knee, two pairs of ankle socks (brown and grey), two pairs of knee socks (brown and grey), a long grey pleated skirt, a long grey wool waistcoat, a knee length thick brown cardigan jacket with a ribbed collar and belt and a dark purple twinset consisting of a jumper with a collar and buttons at the neck and a cardigan reaching to the knees. As you can imagine none of these were the non-school clothing desired by a 17 year old. For the next two months when not at school my mother specified what I had to wear from this collection, I remained grounded only leaving the house with my mother or father, performed an increased list of domestic chores, was no longer allowed to be one of the helpers at the Church Sunday School (a position I had only recently achieved) but instead had to serve tea and coffee and do the washing up in the Parish Rooms after Sunday Mass, was not allowed to watch TV or listen to music, had my room subject to regular inspection (as I had smoked and been accused of drinking) and was still sent to bed at 7:00 PM on Friday, Saturday and Sunday nights. After this for a further month I remained grounded, was allowed to choose my own clothes but from the same ill fitting and unfashionable collection and was sent to bed at 8:00 PM Friday to Sunday. As I stated previously I never, as I am sure you can understand, repeated my offences. The jumble sale clothing is so clearly in my mind, not just because of the humiliation of wearing it for 3 months, but because my parents produced it over the Christmas holiday as part of a very deserved penance for one of my younger sisters who was texting her boyfriend whilst we were attending Mass. I am not still subject to punishment although my parents did remind me of the need to dress appropriately by purchasing me a green twinset of jumper and cardigan (which I don’t actually like) for Christmas whilst my boyfriend and I were visiting them and then making it look like I enjoyed dressing like this and how nice it would be to wear them to Church which I felt embarrassed into doing. I hope this provides the information requested and will help others deal with their errant daughters as I was.

by Winifred Wed Jan 12 14:46:44 UTC 2011

Winifreds, it seems you are still under the influences of your parents and I thinks now you have a boyfriends this is a good thing. Do you have a chaperone when you are whith your boyfriend? Or is your parents trying to instills self disciplne by you? Personellys I thinks it would be best to discpline you directlys as in wat th give you to wears. What has your sister done, how has she been sanctioned, is it sppropriate? Many people does not punish young girls but this is not necessarily the right approach so it is good to learn. Are you now ameliorating your own behaviors?

by guest Wed Jan 19 23:21:59 UTC 2011

My sister has and is being punished for texting her boyfriend on her mobile phone during Mass on Boxing Day. The punishment, as ever, was and is severe but I have to support my parents that this was completely appropriate given this behaviour particularly as Bernadette tried to deny her actions. She spent the remaining two weeks of her vacation from Universtity in winter school uniform (pinafore, shirt, tie, knee socks and cardigan). When not doing housework she was confined to her room where she had to spend time writing out pages from The Bible for several hours. She suffered the usual humiliations of appearing in front of guests, being sent to bed early, being grounded and having her mouth washed out every night with soap and water. She was spared being caned but did receive four strokes of the strap to the back and palm of each hand in front of the rest of the family followed by the humiliation of standing hands on her head against the wall. She was not made to appear in public in uniform. Her penances however when returning to University certainly should deter her from repeating her offence. My father has given her a new mobile phone on which she can receive only incoming calls - she cannot ring anyone, nor send or receive texts. She has to attend Mass 3 times per week, evensong on a Sunday and Bible reading class for three hours on a Wednesday afternoon (which is a severe sanction as Bernadette used to play hockey in a University team then). As my father knows the local Priest he is able to check if Bernadette is complying. In addition, and this refers to my memory of some of the clothes I had to wear, Bernadette has to dress at all occassions when attending Church or Bible Class from the following items which were bought for me from a jumble sale - long beige and brown checked dress with a pleated skirt, a long navy smock with lace on the shoulders and chest, two pairs of knee socks, long grey wool waistcoat and a thick brown cardigan jacket with a belt. My Father's local church contacts are of ocurse also able to confirm if Bernadette is dressing appropriately. I hope that my sister learns from her penances as her behaviour in Church was very inappropriate and disrespectful. I am not sanctioned by my parents now although I try to be respectful to thier norms when at their home in terms of how I dress and behave. My other two sisters who still live with them are of course, quite rightly, required to meet their rules.

by Winifred Tue Jan 25 11:23:31 UTC 2011

I am 20 year old girl doing final degree course. I still get caning from my mother formany reasons and even for silly things. She is very harsh. I have one brother. He is 7 years younger to me and she cares him so much than me. I goes to college by bus. It was our college day and my mother is strict in my dressing. She dont allow me to wear tight dresses as she tells it spoil me. I dont know what she mean by that. In my opinion it is not dressing style which spoil us. I have a close friend named Dilma who is staying at hostel. She told me an idea that on college day come to the hostel and we could change the dress there. As usual I left home and went to hostel. Dilma asked me to change my churidar and she gave her jeans and top to wear. Though at first I felt tight on her jeans I adjusted to it. The programme was over at around 05:30 PM and I had bus to my home at 05:40. I rushed with Dilma to her hostel to change my dress. Unfortunately I was unable to remove my jeans in sudden. Dilma told me to go in that dress to home. I told her the problem. Atlast I returned home with the same jeans and top with my churidars packed. I reached home and I saw my mother waiting for me in the sit-out. Seeing me atonce she stood from the chair and roared at me asking me what's this? The top was short enough for her to see my jeans completely. As the whole day I was inside that it appeared wrinkled and rubbish. I told her the matter and said sorry. She slapped me on my face for the first time in my life and carried me violently onto my room and there she took the usual cane from drawer and caned me in zig-zag manner. I was crying with pain. Atlast my brother cried and stood in between and begged dont beat me. She stopped and asked to remove the jeans. I removed them and left the room wearing casual dress to take my bath. During my bathing I remembered about Dilmas Pendrive and my mobile phone I left inside jeans pockets. I stopped bathing and returned my room. To my surprise my jeans was not their. I asked my brother. He was unaware. I asked my mother finally. I found the jeans in fire. I was unable to control my temper and roared violently. I dont care about the jeans but pendrive and phone. What should I say the next day to Dilma? I poured water and took the jeans and its pockets were almost burnt completely. I cried loudly with my hands over head. I returned to my room. To my surprise Pendrive and phone was found safe on the table. I was unable to control my happiness. My mother entered my room and sat beside me and told me that before putting in fire I checked the pockets of jeans and I placed the pendrive and phoneinside my drawer. I asked my mother what was the problem in my todays dressing. She replied that it doesnt fit me and top was too short for that jeans that its seam portion was exposed that too tight. I felt ashamed and felt angry to my friend Dilma. Actually she was betraying me. Though she is my friend Dilma is a modern girl. She want me to be like her. I was totally ashamed thinking of the photos that we took wearing that dress. The next day I reached college as usual and I told Dilma the whole story . Then about the jeans I told her I need them for the next function and didnt told her that it was burnt by my mother. She believed me. If she read this forum she could get me. Anyway I understood my mother and I love her so much. She is living for my best future.

by Manju Wed Jan 26 05:58:59 UTC 2011

It is a good step Manju that you displays your misbehaviours and punishments. However comapred to Winifreds and her sisters your disciplines is light. You have been insolent to your mother, deliberately ignored their rules, dressed inappropriately, tried to avoids detection and punsihemtn for this and also now has lied to your friend. If you are truly penitents as you clain I suggest you show your mother the entries by Winifreds and asks to be punished in these ways. I am sure the wearing of a restrictive uniform of thick worsted and wool will be even more uncomfortables in our climate, together with not being allowed out, plenty of chores, lines and essays, further corporal punishments and given your lies having your mouth washed with soap and water will very much teach you your lessons and deters you from repetition and be an examples to others. I am sure we all hope to hear that you have shown your mother and how you is being dealt with.

by guest Wed Jan 26 16:48:01 UTC 2011

Hai Manju, njan plus two-nu padikkukayanu. Nammudae school entae veedintae aduthanu. Aduthennu paranjal 3 km dooram. Ennum gjan cyclelil aanu schoolil pokunnathu. Entae classil padikkunna oru payyanodu enikku bhayankara ishtamanu. Avanum anganae thannae. Nalla maryada ulla payyananu avan, nallavannam padikkukayum cheyyum. Ennae padithathil orupadu sahayikkum. Mathsintae ashananu. Entae achan oru private sthapanathilae security anu. Athukondu thannae sambathika prashnam undu veettil. Nammudae schoolil brown colour pantsum vella shirtumanu uniform. boysinum athu thannae vesham. Ee kazhinja January 13 nu ayirunnu entae pirannal. Avanu athu ariyamayirunnu. Vaikittu cyclelil varan neram entae kayyil oru surprise sammanam ennu paranju oru cheriya pothy thannu. njan cyclelintae carrieril clippittu vekkan poyappol avan paranju chilappol potti pokum ennu. njan pantintae edathae pocketil athu ittu. Pants kurachu irukiyathayirunnu. Athukondu thannae cycle chavittan kurachu prayasamayirunnu. Annu schoolil regular class illathirunna karanam bag kondu poyillayirunnu. Veettil ethi. Amma ennae kathu roadil nilkkukayayirunnu. Entae pants sharikkum mushinju poyirunnu. Amma kanda udanae pocketil entha ennu chodichu. Entae koottukari oru birthday gift thannathanennu paranju kondu ghan akathu chirichukondu poyi. Udan entae koodae amma koodi vannu.
Sammanam nokkattae ennu paranju. njan pocketil kayyittukondu ninnu. Ammakku manasilayi entho panthikedu undennu. Amma entae aduthekku vannittu pockettil ninnu kayyedukkan paranju. Ennittu sammanam amma entae pockettil ninnum eduthu. njan vallathe ayipoyi. Amma koodu nivarthi nokkiyappol glass kondulla snehathintae chihnnam. Athintae koodae oru best wishes by.... enna oru slippum. Amma chodichu ithu arannu. njan entae friend anennu paranju. ithu ketta udanae adutha chodyam 'verum friend ano?'njan ethra paranjittum ammakku vishwasan ayilla. janmadinamaya annu amma ennae orupadu thalli. njan dress polum change cheythilla. Rathri ayittum muriyil thannae karanju kondu irunnu. Rathri ayappol amma vannu kathakil mutti. njan chennu vathil thurannittu kattilil poyirunnu. Amma adutha firing thudangi "ninakku enthintae sukhakkeda, dress polum mattiyilla, maryadakku poyi kulikku allenkil adutha dose entae kayyil ninnum kittum."
njan kattilil ninnum ezhunnettu kuninju ninnu. Deshyathodae amma alarikkondu 'ee prayathil ithra dikharamano ninakku, ninnaeyonnum padikkan vidan padilla, veettil oru moolakku iruthendathanu ennu paranju kondu kattililekku oru thallu'. Appozhanu kooninmel kuru enna polae pantsintae thayyal vittupoyi. Udan thannae adutha vazhakku thudangi 'nalae ee pants ittukondu poyal mathi, sookshikkathathu kondallae pants keeriyathu, eppazhum pockettil kayyum ittukondu nilkkum, pinnae enganae pants last cheyyum.' Pakshae sathyathil divasavum aa oru pants anu idunnathu, nalla irukiyathum aanu, porathathinu ravileyum vaikittum cycle chavittukayum venam., athinal pantil nalla chulivu undakum.
Odukkam njan dress change cheythu.kulichum kazhinju. Pittaennu ravilae ayi. Pants athupolae irikkunnu. Amma repair cheythittilla, enikkottu ariyukayumilla, porathathinu cyclelil classil povukayum venam. njan mari ninnu ammayudae mukhathu nokkiyappol innalathae deshyam onnum illa mukhathu. pathukkae ammayudae aduthu poyittu paranju 'please amma, onnu kshamichu koodae, amma vicharikkum polae oru relationshippum avanodu enikkilla, avanum anganae thannae. entae nalla friend anu athrathannae. Amma ethandu ennae manasilakki. Aa avasarathil njan keeria pantsum kondu ammayodu repair cheythu tharanparanju. Bhagyathinu amma thayyal machientae aduthekku pantsum kondu poyi, repair cheythu thannu. Porathathinu theychu chulivellam matti vadiyakki thannu .Pinakkamellam mari. Ennittu cyclelil kayariyappol oru comment aduthakollam koodi ee pants kondu adjust cheyyanam ennu.

by Shruthy Fri Jan 28 15:21:29 UTC 2011

I am Shruthy who wrote the above forum. On request I am translating it into English. I am not well versed in English. So try to understand. I am PlusTwo student. My school is near our house. So I go to school by bicycle as it is just 3kms. My father is working as security guard in a private center and so we are financially not sound. My mother runs a tailoring shop.
In my class I have a boyfriend who is actually just a true friend and not in any other sense. He is good in Maths and so he clear any doubts I have in maths. Above all he is good in character. Our school uniform is brown colour pants and white shirt. Boys too had the same uniform. It was on last 13th my birthday. On that day fortunately we didn’t had regular class as it was sports day. In the evening I was about to return home by bicycle. To my surprise my friend I mentioned earlier gave me a gift. I pulled the carrier of my cycle upwards and tried to place and he said it may break away. I understood the gift was something made of glass. Since I don’t carried a bag I put them inside my left pocket of pants. My pants was somewhat tight and I felt difficulty in riding the cycle. I reached home and I saw my mother waiting outside for me. Reaching home my pants was very much wrinkled and ugly. She atonce asked what was inside the pockets? I told her with a smile that my friend gave me a birthday gift. My mother followed me to my room.
I don’t know what to do. She asked me to show the gift. I told it is suspence and stood with both my hands inside pockets. My mother understood that there is some mistake and she came forward and pulled my hands out of pockets and took the gift outside and opened it. As my mother opened it I saw her face changing to anger as it was the symbol of “love ” made of glass along with a small greeting card wishing me with his name . My mother asked me who he is. I had only one answer He is just my friend and no other relationship with him. But she didn’t believed me and beat me violently many times. Remember it was my birthday. I sat on my bed crying the whole night. I have not even changed my dress or bathed. It was around 8 PM and mother was knocking at the door. I opened the door. Seeing me she started next firing for not changing the dress and not taking bath.
I stood with my head down with anger. She started ‘You are not supposed to go to school, you should be closed in room tied in chains and pushed me to the bed.’ Unfortunately the stitching of the pants I was wearing brocken apart. My mother started another firing that it was because I was not caring it lost its stitching, and due to my habit of putting hands inside its pocket it got brocken. She told me that to wear that pants to school the next day. But actually it is not my fault. I am wearing the same pants the whole week, above all it is tight. I have to ride the bicycle morning and evening wearing them. I have told my mother regarding its tightness many times but she don’t care at all.
I changed the dress and took my bath.I thought she might repair them. Next day when I wake up my pants lying on table as such and she didn’t repaired. I don’t know what to do. I slowly watched my mothers face expression and I felt she was cool today. I went near her and touched my hands on her shoulder and begged her to forgive me and made her understand that my relationship with my friend is true and not to misunderstand me. At the same moment I took the pants to her and asked to repair. At first she hesitated simply and went to the sewing machine and repaired it . As usual she stitched the whole pants once more. Then she ironed it and it appeared new one. As I went near the bicycle she once again commented ‘you have to wear the same pants next year too, so take care.’ I laughed and went to school as usual.

by Shruthy Sun Jan 30 03:11:11 UTC 2011

Winifred you say you still dress to meet thier norms when at their house - what does this mean and is this a constraint you are happy to accept? I assume that your two other sisters are still at school and hence have no choice but to accept the imposed rules? How do you thinks you would have beens punished if you had behaveds like Manju? For how longs is your sisters punishments at university been set for by your parents - it seems svere although perhaps the second hand clothings is not so standing outs for a student.

by guest Thu Feb 03 13:30:58 UTC 2011

It is for Manju’s parents to decide if she should be punished and if so how. One of the most important aspects of being punished, as I remember, was the time I spent in my room thinking about what I had done wrong before having punishment specified. The fact that you have given up control of what will happen to you by your acts of misbehaviour is a very salutatory experience as you think about how you might be forced to dress, which privileges may be removed, what discomforts may be imposed, how you will be made an example of to others and if corporal punishment will be imposed. As the one who has misbehaved you have no role in deciding how severe the various sanctions should be other than if you recognize your errors and believe that at least a minimum level of punishment is required yourself. If we had offended like Manju – wearing inappropriate clothing, attempting to hide the misbehaviour, being insolent and it appears also lying to her friend – then my sisters or I would no doubt have found ourselves in our “home school uniform”, have been grounded, have had our mouths washed out every day for lying for several weeks, received corporal punishment. I suspect we would have been made to apologise to the friend whose jeans were damaged and somehow made to compensate them. I also have no doubt that for a long time thereafter I would have found my clothing being specified for me. My two sisters who remain at home are both younger than me – one is 17 and still at school and Veronica, who is 22, is living at home whilst studying for her PhD. She has chosen to live at home for financial reasons whilst studying having lived away whilst getting her first degree. She was aware that by doing this she would be subject to my parent’s rules but still chose to do this – which I have to say I would not have. This has resulted in her serving punishments which she has deserved versus failures to meet our parents’ behavioural and academic standards, but which had she not lived at home would not have occurred. I am sure she has found the 2 or 3 punishments she has incurred over the last 18 months even more demeaning because of her age but she still says that in reality they have helped her perform more successfully in her studies. Last summer when I visited she was confined to uniform of Gingham dress and cardigan for eight weeks because she had not studied as hard as she could have. She had gone out with friends one evening a couple of days before an exam and although she got a good mark in her paper her tutor noted she could have done even better. This failure to optimise her performance and instead going out in itself would have meant punishment but her failure to display this openly to my parents resulted in even harsher steps. As well as confinement to uniform at home, she was grounded except when studying, had to comply with an early bed time, suffer daily soap washing of her mouth, was confined to her room most of the day either studying or writing out her notes repeatedly on the areas she had not studied hard enough, had to endure being told how to dress when not at home and I would say harshly received eight strokes of the cane. As we have got older if anything my parents have seen fit to lengthen the punishments given (as well as the humiliatory aspects of course increasing from being treated like a child). You asked about how long my sister Bernadette was to suffer the clothing restrictions, etc she has been given on her return to University. She must do this for the whole term until Easter at which point my parents will decide if further long term measures will remain. I will try to fill in about how I dress when visiting my parents when I have more time.

by Winifred Fri Feb 11 12:35:06 UTC 2011

Winifred I would like to hear if you continue to impose self discipline on yourself and if so how. Like your sisters and yourself I was subject to a very clear set of values when at home requiring absolute commitment to academic performance and the highest standards of dress and manners. Failures to meet these resulted in deservedly severe punishments. This meant being confined to my school uniform at weekends – this was not a specially designed uniform as appears to have been or is being used for you and your sisters – but my normal private school uniform which was very distinctive and noticeable when worn on none school days. Being confined to my room and doing additional study with even my normally controlled access to music, magazines and TV being removed. For severe failings I did suffer humiliations like being made to stand in a corner with my hands on my head and in some cases corporal punishment. These measures ceased when I left home to go to University so I did not have to suffer the types of punishments which it appears two of your sisters and yourself have or are receiving. The disciplining has certainly helped me to get a good degree and now a good job. I am seeking your input on self discipline as for the first time since I started working I have received a poor performance ranking – Lower quartile. Whilst my manager has reassured me this is because I have recently been promoted and have not yet got the experience to perform my role fully I know that I have not performed well enough for my team and let myself down. Having by chance come across your blog I have wondered whether I could self discipline myself for my failure in some way both as a punishment and a way of making me work harder. I do not feel able to ask my parents to impose discipline now I am 23. I plan to purchase a school uniform in my size if possible and then impose an appropriate time to wear this and extra work to support my role which I must carry out during these times. (Do you know where the uniforms you had to wear were got from since they sound appropriate for me?) I am not sure I can envisage making myself wear this in public (even though I probably deserve to) so I might consider the option of dressing myself plainly and conservatively in items purchased from a Charity shop and wearing these perhaps even to work. At least then I would know I was being punished even if it were not overtly the case to my team and colleagues. I would like to hear of any mechanisms you have employed to maintain your own standards and work.
Many thanks,

by Catherine Fri Feb 11 14:28:52 UTC 2011

Hi Catherine and Winifred very very good post and interesting. But I got disappointed reading Shruthy's post. What you both think?
Shruthy desrves good punishment as from her writings I understood she is interested in wearing tight pants. If not then why she could make her mother feel about the tightness of pants. Above all she goes to school by bicycle. It is so strainful to ride bicycle wearing such tight pants. She is naughty. I am sure. Shruthy try to be good. this is my advice.

by Cynthia Thu Feb 17 15:13:14 UTC 2011

Catherine I do not slef discipline myself. I dress conservatively when with my parents particularly when attending Church out of respect for their values. This normally means I wear a skirt or dress (occassionally a trouser suit), not too much make-up or jewellery and not too casual. I think it would be quite difficult for you to self-discipline because inevitably one of the large parts of the punishment is the loss of control for what will be imposed upon you as a result of your misbehaviour. Maybe dressing in unstylish second hand clothing would work but forcing yourslef to dress in school uniform would be hard. The pinafores and Gingham dresses we had or have to wear at home were made by my mother which is why no matter how hold we were or are there was always a suitably sized item for us to wear. Similarly she knitted the maroon cardigans we wore as part of our punishment school uniform so I amafraid I cannot recommend where you might by these if you wished. If you realy believe you require discipline then I would recommend you ask your parents to discipline you as they have done previously explaining why. I have no doubt even now I am 27 that if I explained to my parents I had perfomed poorly at work through my own failings that they would be prepared to impose punishment upon me. As stated above my sister who is only one year younger than yourself is subject to severe discipline being confined to her uniform at home, being told what to wear outside, being kept in school detention conditions and receiving corporal punishment with apparently appropriate effects. It sopunds like your parents would probabkly do likewise if you asked and may still have your old school uniform which you could be made to wear (or perhaps you could be made to make your own uniform as part of your penance).

by Winifred Wed Feb 23 14:06:09 UTC 2011

Winifred. Many thanks for your advice. I have bought myself some second hand clothing from Oxfam (a long brown pianfore dress, blouse and a sleeveless woollen polo neck pullover) and worn these on a couple of days to work. I think they are very unstylish but it does not appear to be the case to others - someone even commented how nice they were. This is not therefore proving an effective sanction. I wasn't able to find a school uniform so was disappointed to find the uniforms you suffered were not readily available - particularly as they sounded not only childish but slightly old fashioned in appearence and probably even more effective in making one self-conscious than when I wore my normal school uniform. I am sure you are right that finding someone else to impose discipline would be the right route and I am going to visit my parents on Sunday so will give your advice some thought before then. Although I know I deserve to be disciplined I am finding the thought of effectively asking myself to be put back into school uniform, made to do detention and perhaps even be spanked or caned even for 1 or 2 days difficult to request. This reluctance in itself is of course even more so why I deserve to be sanctioned.

Many thanks,


by guest Fri Feb 25 15:59:04 UTC 2011

i am a 17 yr girl, my moms keeps a list of all the offences i do in a month and then on a saturday punishes me. The punishment is normally spankings in the back (luckily she does not use canes). The ideal is i have to stand in front of the family (onl me, mom and elder sister are there in our family) and have to agree that i was wrong and then mom removes my bottoms (jeans or skirt or whatever i was wearing below waist) and undies and makes me lie on her lap with bum facing her and then i get 20-30 spankings. Plus i am treated like a baby whole weekend ie - mom spoonfeeds me, bathes me, puts me to sleep and i cannot wear normal clothes - i have to wear a frock and nappies and every 3-4 hours, mom changes my nappies.

by baby Sun Feb 27 07:04:47 UTC 2011

What is your mother?

by guest Sun Feb 27 08:51:07 UTC 2011

I took the plunge and asked my facther if he would discipline me for my work performance this weekend. I explained the situation and even shared what I had written on this site which he found a bit shocking I think. I said that a weekend would be enough to punish me for my failure and deter me from not correcting this. He agreed that he would discipline me but that it would be for a week. I will therefore instead of my planned weeks walking holiday report a week on Friday to my parent's house - which as my father said will be a sanction in itself. I already know that I will be disciplined as a schoolgirl and my father said that he would also see if any of the other ideas on this site would be appropriate as although the humiliation of some punishments e.g. uniform would be greater now I am older some things may need to be more severe. I am not looking forward to being back in my old school uniform with a tie and tartan tunic but I guess that is in itself punishment already. I hope I am an example to others.


by guest Tue Mar 01 15:41:53 UTC 2011

Catherines it is good to see that one of you girls at leasts is takings responsibilites for your porrs behaviour and requesting consequence. Perhaps this might also be trues for Winfreds and her sisters although in their cases they is having punishments imposed at least when at homes.It would be better if others were also disciplined. I am sures that being in a school uniforms will teach you your lessons. I hopes you also are caned severely as well as given many arduous tasks to do for your laziness as well as given sanctions which will keep you better behaved in futures.

by guest Thu Mar 03 11:07:00 UTC 2011

Catherine you deserve credit for asking appropriate penance for what you yourself believe you have done wrong. My thoughts go with you when you go to your parents house to be disciplined next week. I cannot imagine how you are coping with the almost two weeks before your punishment commences thinking about what might be done to you. I always hated even the few hours confined to my room thinking about whether I would be uniformed, placed in detention, grounded, be told what to wear, stand in a corner, have my mouth washed and for how long let alone the thoughts of being caned or spanked. I am sure that thinking about your fate is itself a penance you are already enduring. Good luck and you are indeed an example of someone prepared to take the deserved consequences of their actions - I am not sure I could bring myself to submit to discipline as you have.

by Winifred Fri Mar 04 16:57:09 UTC 2011

My punishment so far – I am writing this as you will see below as part of my discipline for unacceptable behaviour.
Arrived Friday evening.
Conditions of punishment imposed.
Wear my old school uniform at all times – plain knickers, navy knee socks, pale blue shirt, tartan school tie, blue and green tartan tunic and green school blazer.
Every morning 4 mile cross country run in my old school PE kit – pale blue polo shirt with school emblem, tartan PE skirt, navy ankle socks, plimsolls
No jewelry or make-up. Hair to be worn swept back and in a pony tail.
After breakfast confined to my room to do essays and lines, revise and repeat the poor written pieces which were part of my work failings. 7:30 am until 7:00 pm. Lunch for 30 minutes.
Detention will be interrupted if opportunity for me to appear before visitors arise.
Show appropriate respect to others based on my position. Speak only when spoken to. Stand at my desk in my room whenever anyone enters.
No supper. Bed at 8:30 PM after minimum of 60 minutes corner time.
Punishment to last minimum of 1 week. Further discipline to be applied for any misbehaviour no matter how minor.
Mouth washed out with soap and water before being sent to bed as punishment for not disclosing my poor work in a timely manner. First time I have been punished by this method – very effective deterrent.
8 strokes of the cane to my behind to be administered on Saturday.
Cross country.
Porridge for breakfast.
Wrote essay on my punishments, why I deserved them and what they will teach me and others. Followed by lines. Underwent uniform inspection.
8 strokes of the cane administered to my behind and thighs by my father. My first ever caning having been rarely spanked, slippered or tawsed previously. Followed by 30 minutes corner time to reflect on why I deserved this – degrading, humiliating and painful.
Lunch eaten in silence.
Afternoon spent rewriting long hand one of the poor project pieces I had produced at work. Ran to 12 pages. Followed by more lines and then made to write out my poor piece for a second time.
Made to stand in the corner of the dining room hands on my head for 75 minutes.
Sent to bed in a thick cotton nightdress provided by my mother.
Cross country.
Porridge for breakfast.
Lines – “I deserve to dress in schoolgirl uniform, be kept in detention and receive corporal punishment because I have been lazy, stupid, dishonest and immature” 200 times.
Had to attend Church with my parents. So humiliated already that I am grateful when I am told, due to the poor weather, that I will be allowed to wear my navy school coat which leaves only the hem of my tunic showing and buttons to the neck. Only then to be told that I must wear my school hat – navy with green trim around the brim and school emblem on it – I am almost in tears as we drive to Church at the embarrassment.
Poor behaviour in Parish rooms after service. I mistakenly address one of my mother’s friends by her Christian name and then fail to explain my situation to her clearly either in words or volume.
No lunch instead have to stand facing wall in kitchen and consider my poor behaviour and how I should be punished.
Additional punishments for my disrespectful behaviour and further attempt to avoid the consequences of my deserved punishment:
1) Write formal letter of apology to Mrs. Radcliffe for my behaviour including how I am to be punished and deliver this to her. Ask Mrs. Radcliffe if she has any additional punishments she thinks I deserve so that they can be added.
2) School uniform to be worn without coat when outdoors in future irrelevant of weather to maximize my humiliation.
3) Mouth to be washed out with soap and water before bed and before corporal punishment tomorrow.
4) Spanking to be applied tomorrow morning. Mrs. Radcliffe to be invited.
Write letter of apology and then walk in my uniform wi

by Catherine Thu Mar 17 21:04:01 UTC 2011

4) Spanking to be applied tomorrow morning. Mrs. Radcliffe to be invited.
Write letter of apology and then walk in my uniform with my Mother to Mr. & Mrs. Radcliffe’s house to deliver. Not allowed to wear my coat but still have to wear my school hat together with the rest of my uniform.
Write 16 side essay, “Why my behaviour at Church was unacceptable, how I am being punished, what this will teach me and what should be done if I still fail to improve my behaviour”.
Further 60 minutes stood facing the hall wall with my hands behind my back.
Mouth washed out very thoroughly with carbolic soap. Sent to bed.
Cross country.
Porridge for breakfast – first meal since breakfast yesterday.
Rewrite long hand the revised and successful project write up I eventually produced, after input from my manager, at work (and which I should have done in the first place) – 16 sides.
Called to the dining room where Mrs. Radcliffe is waiting with my mother. Apologise again for my disrespectful and mealy mouthed behaviour in the Parish rooms. Have my mouth washed out with carbolic soap. Take-off my blazer and lie across my mother’s lap. Tunic lifted over my back and my knickers stripped to my knees. Spanked first by plimsol and then by hand for what seems like forever. Certainly severe I am sure my backside and thighs were sore and red. I am then made to stand in the corner with my hands on my head, tunic hitched up and knickers round my ankles for more than an hour whilst Mrs. Radcliffe and my mother have lunch. I am allowed to get my uniform straight and sit at the table with them for my lunch. I have to answer questions on why I find myself in this position.
After lunch I have to stand again whilst my mother asks if Mrs. Radcliffe has any further punishments has thinks appropriate. Two additional sanctions are added to those allocated yesterday:
1) I will attend the village Mother’s Union meeting on Thursday (Mrs. Radcliffe is the Chairwoman) in uniform to improve my ability to describe my deserved punishment to others and of course be further humiliated.
2) Mrs. Radcliffe suggests I be made to use a pacifier when not being needed to speak since my response was poor and inadequate so that I have chance to think about what I have to say before being given permission to speak. My mother says she will buy one and try this over the next couple of days.
Rest of the day in detention sitting on my very painful behind. Lines for five hours, “I deserve to be spanked in front of others whilst dressed in school uniform because I am a naughty and disrespectful little girl”. Six hundred times.
Another hour of corner time this time with my fingertips touching my shoulders.
Sent to bed.
Cross country
Porridge for breakfast .
Copied out Chapter on Leadership skills longhand for five hours – 21 sides of A4. Stood at my desk whilst my mother checked I had done this correctly and neatly before it was ripped up.
Returned to detention. Humiliation of having a dummy placed in my mouth with elastic around it to keep it in place. I had not to remove it unless given permission. Recopied the Leadership skills chapter for a second time – tedious but I have definitely remembered the contents. Underwent uniform inspection at least twice. Lines, “I deserve to have a dummy in my mouth until I can be trusted to speak clearly and sensibly” 200 times.
One hour further corner time.
Sent to bed still with my dummy. I had not spoken since lunchtime – certainly exemplifying to me what it was to be seen but not heard.

by Catherine Thu Mar 17 21:05:46 UTC 2011

Cross country – seen by a few people but they sometimes will see girls from the school so I probably don’t stand out too much even thought the PE uniform makes me very self-conscious.
Porridge for breakfast .
Dummy back in my mouth. Five further hours of lines, “I am a naughty and lazy girl who must be kept in school uniform in detention until I have been punished, learnt my lesson and made an example of.” 300 times.
Detention – copy out chapter from biosynthesis book longhand for 8 sides. My Aunt and Uncle arrive and I have the humiliation of appearing before them uniformed and with the dummy still in my mouth. I have to explain my situation having to reinsert my dummy into my mouth after each answer and await for permission from my mother before answering their next question. Unfortunately the time does make my answers of better quality underlining Mrs. Radcliffe’s view of why this is an appropriate penance. After about 20 minutes I am confined to the corner of the sitting room, hands on head, where I can still be seen. Further one and half hours of lines. Then my father sets me a written test based on the leadership and biosynthesis chapters I studied over the last two days.
Another hour of corner time this time hands behind my back with a book balanced on my head to ensure I remain still.
Sent to bed again with dummy in my mouth.
Cross country – hard and given the kit somewhat humiliating though it was, at least this part of the day is without confinement or supervision.
Porridge for breakfast .
More detention before facing the public humiliation of the Mother’s Union meeting. Essay eight sides, “Why I deserve to wear school girl uniform in public when I am 23 years old”.
Go to Mother’s Union meeting in my uniform and school hat. Very humiliating. Have to clean-up kitchen in the Church Hall. My uniform wasn’t correct and was observed by Miss. Wheatly (blazer undone, tie not tightly done up, sock down), I respond inappropriately and try to excuse this happening. Made to apologise to everyone, told in front of all of them I will be further punished and spend the last 30 minutes of the meeting facing the wall with my hands on my head.
Lunchtime spent facing hall wall and considering my offences and how I should be punished. Can’t believe how stupid I have been
Additional punishments for my uniform failings, disrespectful behaviour and attempt to avoid punishment for these offences:
1) Write formal letter of apology to Miss. Wheatley for my offences including how I am to be punished. Deliver this to her by hand and ask if she has any further punishments she would like to see added. Left in no doubt they will be added.
2) I will remain under punishment until Sunday afternoon including attendance at Church in school uniform.
3) Needlework and knitting to be added to my detention activities as suggested on the blog.
4) Summarise how I have been punished on the blog including my further offences.
5) Mouth to be washed out with soap and water before bed every night and before corporal punishment tomorrow.
6) Pacifier to continue to be used as deemed necessary.
7) Three strokes of the strap to the palm and back of each hand this evening.
8) Ten strokes of the slipper to my behind tomorrow morning. Miss. Wheatley to be invited.
9) I should expect further ongoing means of improving my behaviour to be instigated on Sunday given my uniform failings and disrespectful behaviour.
Write letter of apology and then accompanied by my mother walk in my uniform to Miss. Wheatley’s house to deliver it. Made to keep the dummy in my mouth throughout.
Receive the tawse to my hands – as painful as when I last experienced it. Followed by an hour facing the wall with my hands, still stinging, on my head.
One hour of needle work.
Summarise experience on blog now.

As you can see I am being t

by Catherine Thu Mar 17 21:06:32 UTC 2011

Sorry I did not complete my entry fully yesterday. As you can see I am being thoroughly and deservedly punished and I am certainly going to ensure I work hard to avoid any repetition of this weeks’ experience. I have also further offended today and I post my experience again as part of my deserved punishment.
Cross country
Porridge for my breakfast .
Write ten sides of lines, “I deserve to be slippered in front of Miss. Wheatley because of my insolent behaviour and failure to wear my uniform correctly”.
I was called to the dining room where Miss. Whealtey was waiting with my mother. Apologised for my behaviour and had my mouth washed out with carbolic soap. Undid my blazer buttons, bent over and touched my toes. The skirt of my tunic was lifted over my back and my knickers stripped to my knees. Slippered ten times with my plimsol. Very painful and humiliating. Stand facing the wall with my hands on my shoulders,my tunic hitched up and knickers round my ankles for an hour.
Resort my uniform and stand whilst my mother asks if Miss. Wheatley has further punishments she would like imposed. As she states the first of these (which is that my hair is cut short as this will last after this week and be a reminder to me) and my mother states she thinks this a good idea I stupidly speak without permission and ask for this not to be done. The two additional punishments are added :
1) I will have my hair cut above my ears and my fringe cut short. This is a terrible punishment as I love my long hair. Miss. Wheatley says that having a hairstyle like this was used when she was younger with naughty girls at her convent school. People whose hair was cut like this then had to wear uniform at all times and any failure was obvious to all members of the local community.
2) At a future date I am to appear again at the Mother’s Union either in my school uniform or other clothing I have made myself and apologise for my behaviour and state what I have learnt from my misbehaviour.
My insolence means I will have further punishment imposed later when my father is back from work.
Rest of the day spent in my room sewing buttons for four and a half hours. Pacifier in my mouth at all times.
Post punishment on blog again.

Tonight I will deservedly receive further additional punishments. I hope that you can feel my further humiliation of having to disclose my poor self discipline and punishment and that this can be used to help the disciplining of others who have similar failings.

by Catherine Fri Mar 18 16:53:54 UTC 2011

sslc failed aya kuttikalkk (both boys and girls) tuition session clasukalil sherik adi kittarundayirunnu ennu kettittund. Ava vivarikkamo?

by guest Mon Mar 21 01:31:50 UTC 2011

Catherine I at least in part feel very sorry for you having read your posts. You have clearly been subject to a very humiliating and strict regime by your parents following your request. I can only imagine what it has been like to appear in public in your old school uniform let alone being confined to detention and receive corporal punishment. I suppose however you have at least been disciplined as you thought you deserved. Have you really had your hair cut as appeared to begoing to be the case on your last post? Now your punishment is over have you been left with any other impositions as it appeared might be going to be the case? Perhaps you can take some solace from the fact you are not alone in being punished so severly as a girl despite now being a young lady my sister Bernadette who I earlier indicated was subject to some restrictions in her clothing,e tc having returned to university has returned home to vacation having further misbehaved and failed to meet the conditions applied. She is now subject to a set of punishments I think more severe than those you have suffered - if it would help to contextualise where you now find yourself I would be happy to share her , definitely deserved, sanctions. I hope that your punsihments have laso served as an example to others and that they to could share their own experiences.

by Winifred Wed Mar 23 16:34:43 UTC 2011

My opinion is that girls with soft and delicate palms should get 8 heavy strokes with a means that 8 red line will be there on each palm.this make them realise their mistake and not to repeat it.

by A Fri Mar 25 09:21:14 UTC 2011

I outline below the completion of my punishment last week as this was in itself part of my punishment to make public my humiliation – it will also answer some of the queries.
Friday evening
Appear before my father to have punishments assigned for my misbehaviour in Miss Wheatley’s presence. He was furious as the offences of insolence and trying to avoid punishment are a repeat of those I was already being punished for. Following additional punishments were assigned:
1) My haircut will be very severe and will be included in my future discipline post the weekend.
2) Mouth washed out with soap and water after every meal, before bed and before corporal punishment.
3) Twelve strokes of the cane to my behind on Saturday morning.
4) Write letter of apology to Miss Wheatley
5) Post my full punishments on the blog by end of March.
6) Further punishment to be applied after this week.
My hair was cut using scissors about 1 cm above my ears and then any remainder shaved off. My fringe was cut back to the top of my scalp. Stood facing the wall hands behind my back for an hour.
Mouth washed with soap and water before bed. I was in tears having seen my hair in the mirror.
Cross country.
Porridge for breakfast.
Write letter of apology to Miss Wheately. Deliver this in my uniform by hand. Almost in tears as she comments on how childish my haircut makes me when in uniform and that in those cases she observed in her convent school punishment haircuts and their associated uniforms could last for several months where appropriate.
On my return home made to mouth washed with soap and water, told to bend over, had my knickers stripped to my ankles and received 12 strokes of the cane to my bare behind. The pain was horrible. After seven strokes I was weeping like a child. No lunch instead stood facing the kitchen wall with my hands on my head and my caned behind on display.
Followed by six hours of knitting practice followed by more lines.
Mouth washed with soap and water. Sent to bed at 7:30 PM.
Cross country for the last time in my PE kit.
Porridge for breakfast.
Lines – “I have deserved to dress in schoolgirl uniform, be kept in detention and receive corporal punishment because of my lazy and stupid failings and my further indispline means I deserve still further strictures. ” 150 times.
Had to attend Church with my parents in my uniform and school hat. To complete my humiliation I have to keep the pacifier in my mouth except when granted permission to talk. It is an unbelievably humiliating experience and I must do everything to avoid a repetition. A couple of other current girls from the school are there in uniform.
No lunch instead have to stand facing wall in kitchen and consider my behaviour throughout the week.
I will post what I have received as further discipline which I hate but know I deserve when I have more time. As you can see though I have been taught a very severe lesson so I cannot imagine Winifred what your sister is suffering if it is worse than I have just experienced.

by Catherine Mon Mar 28 15:46:58 UTC 2011

Sunday afternoon
Had to stand in my uniform as my behaviour over the previous week was reviewed. My view was not sought as befitted my position.
My work in detention – project rewrites, lines, essays and needlework had met the required standards demonstrating I should be able to perform as I hoped at work.
My behaviour in public had been sub standard showing a lack of acceptance of my position and that humiliation was a deserved part of my punishment, disrespect to my elders and careless and sloppy behaviour in self presentation e.g. uniform failings.
Overall I had failed to complete the necessary punishment I had requested, necessitating the many additional punishments I had been given.
I would therefore receive additional sanctions going forward to complete my punishment and aid better work performance. Some are obligatory and others are for me to apply to myself as I feel appropriate.
• I will spend one weekend every 4 weeks at my parent’s house (Friday evening until Sunday evening). I will attend under conditions appropriate to my performance over the previous weeks and last attendance. My father said that given my misbehaviours over the last week next time the default position would be that I would be back in my old school uniform again, in detention fulltime and attending Church in my uniform.
• I will keep my hair cut short – my mother will retrim it every 4 weeks.
• I will complete a set of needlework and knitting tasks every 4 weeks which will be a punishment by using up some of my leisure time. This will involve making some school uniform type items for myself (my father picked this up from the blog) which I can then wear or be made to wear as further penance. First task is to knit a V neck green jumper and make a green summer school dress.
• Post these punishments on the blog by end March latest.
• I have been provided with a set of school uniform like clothing, which I had to wear to come home in, which I may wear at least when not at work as a further self-discipline. As I make other items these can be similarly used.
• More regular attendance at Church
Having received punishment I was allowed to take off my old school uniform but had to put on asset of school uniform type clothing which I may use for my own self discipline going forward. This was a white shirt, grey tunic dress with a pleated skirt and a grey woollen V neck jumper with a green trim knitted around the neck, sleeve cuffs and waistband. With my short hair I certainly felt self-conscious about my appearance.
These punishments are to continue until my interim work performance review in September. I know I could choose to not take these punishments but I asked to be disciplined for my own good and have demonstrated a lack of self-discipline so far which shows I need some help to improve my work and behaviour. I hope my example is one that other parents may feel useful or other girls in my position feel they might deserve. As stated Winifred if your sister continues to be subjected to discipline worse than this then I am sure she will quickly learn her lesson.

by Catherine Wed Mar 30 10:28:14 UTC 2011

Bernadette was punished for texting her boyfriend on her mobile phone during Mass on Boxing Day. She spent the rest of her Christmas vacation from University in school uniform. She suffered the usual humiliations of appearing in front of guests, being sent to bed early, being grounded and having her mouth washed out every night with soap and water. She spent her time in detention and received four strokes of the strap to the back and palm of each hand. When she returned to University in January my father gave her a mobile phone on which she could receive only incoming calls and no texts. She had to attend Church several times each week. In addition when attending Church or Bible Class she had to dress from a limited number of Jumble sale items (long beige and brown checked dress, a long navy smock with lace, knee socks, long grey wool waistcoat and a thick brown cardigan jacket with a belt). My Father's local church contacts agreed to provide some feedback on Bernadette’s Church attendance and dress compliance.
When Bernadette returned home for her Easter vacation my parents found she had another mobile phone in her room and this was added to feedback my father obtained that although she had attended Church as expected she was seen changing into her punishment clothing on arrival and when she left and that she had been almost exclusively in the brown dress. She has therefore been given further punishment for failing to probably discipline herself as she had been given the opportunity to do, showing a failure to accept her punishment as deserved, contravene her punishment with respect to phone usage, lying during the term and also when queried on return home. My sister Veronica has told me that her punishments are, and as you will see below, very severe and I have to say deservedly so. My father made clear that she would be punished with both severity and longevity beyond those assigned at Christmas. Bernadette is therefore back in school uniform, which from today, will mean green Gingham dress, green ankle socks and maroon cardigan. She has to wear this at all times including in front of guests and when she is taken out in public such as attending Church. My mother has also arranged for her to attend one of the Sunday School classes for girls to help her relearn right from wrong. She is in full time detention writing lines and essays and also with significant corner time to let her consider her failings and what additional punishments she will likely face. She has her mouth washed with soap and water every day and has to stand hands on head at the supper table with a bar of carbolic soap in her mouth due to her repeated lying. She is sent to bed at 6 pm. She has received 12 strokes of the cane to her behind in front of the family. In addition two weeks and four weeks hence my father has said she will receive a spanking in front of the rest of the family. This is obviously, as I know from my own experience when I was a similar age, a very humiliating and painful experience and is also being applied because my parents say that Bernadette has clearly demonstrated and inability to maintain focus on good behaviour so she is being given something which will not so easily slip her mind over the coming weeks.
In addition Bernadette has been told she will receive further punishment beyond her vacation period and that this, even if her behaviour is exemplary in the next few weeks, will be more severe than she failed to fulfill last term.
Catherine as you can see my sister failed to self discipline last term and as a result now subject to deserved and humiliating further punishment. I suspect that attending Church in infants school uniform is even more humiliating than you have endured to date although the needlework tasks you have had assigned will enable such an experience to be assigned to you either by your parents or yourself.

by Winifred Fri Apr 01 09:02:47 UTC 2011

I am very surprised by the lack of posts from Asia on disciplining of this nature as I would have expected to be at least as widely used as in England. Here in the US the example of England is still very much, perhaps more overtly in use as regards this type of disciplining of young girls. I can exemplify this by the example of my daughter who despite being 22 is being thoroughly disciplined within our Church and family. Although her behavior shamed me as a parent the thoroughness of her disciplining means that it is she who is ashamed of what she has done. At the end of January she went out on a Friday evening and it was around midnight when the police came to our house with Kelly-Ruth in a drunken state. The officer said she had been using some abusive language but they had brought her home as they were sure we would deal with this appropriately. This is because the Police are aware with how young people in our Church are dealt with. By Saturday afternoon, having sobered up, Kelly-Ruth knew she would be disciplined and having seen similar “offenders” dealt with previously knew that despite being 22 this would not spare her from being dealt with as the young girl her behavior still indicated her to be.
She was assigned an appropriate penance in line with those normally assigned within our Church community. She is wearing at all times the grey ankle length cotton smock, navy long tunic and charcoal wool jacket which make up our Church punishment uniform. She wears this for attendance at the local college, at work on Saturday and at all other times. This uniform is provided by the Church and the fact that you are being confined to a set of garments worn by others who have also offended is in itself part of the punishment. She, like one of the other girls here, has suffered the severe sanction of having a bowl haircut which makes together with her uniform her stand out in public. When not at work or college she is grounded, leaving only for attendance at Church, Bible class or to perform the Church work which is also part of her penance. As well as the uniform Kelly-Ruth has 10 hours per week of Church work such as cleaning the Church and grounds to perform. Her uniform also means that rather than working as a waitress in the diner on Saturday she has found herself performing more menial duties in the kitchen and cleaning toilets. On the Sunday she publically apologized for her indiscretions and received twelve strokes of the switch in front of family and Church members which of course was a very salutary experience for her. Due to her use of abusive language as well as being drunk her punishment is for three months. At the end of this time, assuming she has behaved appropriately and shown herself suitably contrite she will no longer have to wear uniform, although will remain banned from drinking and going out late for several months. Young members of our Church accept these punishments because they know they help them to behave in a suitable way, that they are supported by the Church and that sinners need to serve appropriate penance. They have been used over many years, with little change, with the required outcomes.

by guest Fri Apr 15 13:46:55 UTC 2011

Some of the recent posts seem very detailed and describe very serious punishments which I find difficult to imagine.

I am 29 and a university graduate (not that that is very relevant!). When I saw the earliest posts on this thread I hoped I might have something in common and something to learn but as i read on through the thread my stuff seems very mild and boring.

I am English and have been married two years into a Sri Lankan family here in London. I have no history of childhood caning or similar punishments and nothing like that ever happened in school but Husband's family was brought up strictly and sometimes he wants me to hold out my hands for the cane or to bend over the chair for the slipper. I am OK with this even though I do not like it at the time; it makes us very close and makes our relationship seem kind of special.

His Mama, who was raised in Moratuwa, believes that Western girls are poorer through lack of discipline. She and I had difficulties at first because of my smoking, because of my short dresses and cleavage, because I drank alcohol sometimes and because I had been with a boyfriend before I met Bappa.

As a result of her influence I dress in a way which pleases her, and no longer smoke or drink. She supervises my housework and cooking and enforces house rules and sometimes I have to have the cane from her or squat still, or hold off going to the bathroom. I accept Mama's authority because Bappa wants it.

I must be very soft and English because I get nowhere near the number of strokes people talk about and it hurts very much. I find punishment from Mama, and from Bappa's elder brother, in whose shop I work now, very shaming even though it is nothing compared with some things I have seen described.

by samantha.jaya Tue May 03 08:52:25 UTC 2011

I am English too and the discipline I requested from my parents to improve my work has proved to be more severe than I had expcted. Since my last post I have spent a further weekend with them and because I had failed to complete the tasks set for me since my week of punsihment this proved to be another deservedly humiliating experience of which I can describe more if anyone is interested. Although my discipline is strict I am not subject to it at all times and this is perhaps why my work was not as good as it should have been. Samantha I would be interested to hear the ongoing rules and restrictions you are subject to in your life and work and the additional discipline you receive to remind you to meet these or to deal with transgressions. It seems from your post that whilst you are not subject to severe punsihments you are subject to ongoing supervision at all times and suffer the humiliation of having sanctions imposed by several people - is this correct? It sounds like your situation may be similar to that for some of Winifred's sisters.

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by guest Sun May 08 02:54:52 UTC 2011

Catherine the penances which my sister Bernadette is now suffering following her texting her boyfriend on her mobile phone during Mass on Boxing Day and then failing to comply with the penances she received to endure following her return to University has placed her in a position more like that Samantha is in. I am in no doubt that these sanctions although severe will improve her bahaviour. I went home for the Easter weekend and saw first hand Bernadette receiving the humiliation she had endured for the whole of her vacation. Bernadette was dressed in school uniform, green Gingham dress, green ankle socks and maroon cardigan, at all times which included attendance at Church. She was confined to her room writing lines and essays and except when made to stand hands on head for us all to see. Very humiliatingly and unpleasantly for her, she had to stand hands on head at the supper table with a bar of carbolic soap in her mouth due to her repeated lying. She had already been caned and spanked previously but I saw her receive a very thorough spanking in front of the rest of the family. Having endured a similar punishment myself at her age I know what a very humiliating and painful experience. I am sure this is what Samantha, who I believe , is older must also experience when subject to corporal punishment. I think if I were to be punished now like I was I would find this very shaming indeed not to say painful if performed so thoroughly and for such a period as Bernadette received.
Bernadette has now returned to University but my parents have arranged for her to live with someone via the Church rather than in Halls so that she has to conform to a more proscribed and limited lifestyle “with supervision” which is what I think Samantha experiences. For Samantha’s information either as ideas which perhaps could be used to aid her own discipline if she feels appropriate or to see that her own punishments are shared by others this is what Bernadette is now subject to for this term. She is dressing from a limited set of second hand clothing given to her a few long skirts, dresses, socks, jumpers and cardigans and one tweed jacket for smarter occasions. She has no mobile phone at all. She is living with a couple where she has a room. She has to be in the house by 7 pm latest every evening. She only is given money when she needs to buy books, etc. and eats all her meals at the house except for lunch for which she gets a small allowance. She has to attend Church several times each week including Bible Classes and is on the cleaning rota twice per week for the Church. On Sunday she attends with Mr and Mrs. Entwistle who she lives with. She can no longer take part in her hockey activities as she has to attend Bible Class at that time. She has also been told that her room will be searched by her landlords and that she must dress on Sunday as they tell her to – as a sanction to enforce this she has her school uniform with her which she could be made to wear. Feedback on her compliance is being made and she knows that further sanctions will follow if she fails again to meet the requirements. As you can see she is now thoroughly supervised although perhaps not subject to the constant review of her activities with immediate sanctions which Samantha appears to suffer. It would be interesting to know if the rules in terms of work and dress which Samantha must meet are formalized?
Bernadette has already been told that she can expect further restrictions during her summer vacation even if her behaviour is exemplary for the rest of this term because she failed to accept and complete her original punishment.

by Winifred Tue May 10 10:35:13 UTC 2011

My first weekend review at my parents proved to be another lesson due to my own stupidity. Things had gone well at work over the previous four weeks and I was able to demonstrate. However I did not complete the task of knitting the V neck green jumper and making a green summer school dress adequately. The dress was fine but I knew that having had to rush at the last minute the V-neck on the jumper was not well finished. Whilst I was dispatched upstairs to dress in my school uniform as had been specified at the end of my week there my mother had inspected the dress and jumper and uncovered my error. My Friday evening hence began by infuriating them such that my starting point for my next punishment starting today was already going to be worse. I have outlined as before the routine I was obliged to follow and how my further failings were dealt with.
Friday evening
Appear before my father and mother and receive punishments for my failing to complete my needlework task. Punished for laziness, trying to avoid punishment and lying.
1) I was to remain as a minimum in my school uniform until Sunday afternoon including attendance at Church in school uniform plus opportunity to wear the items I have made.
2) Additional knitting to be added to my detention activities.
3) Mouth to be washed out with soap and water before bed every night and before corporal punishment tomorrow. Stand with bar of soap in my mouth during evening meal on Saturday.
4) Eight strokes of the cane to my behind tomorrow morning.
5) Additional sanction for failure to be added to task for next four weeks.
Mouth washed out with soap and water.
Sent to bed
Cross country in school PE kit
Into my school uniform.
Porridge for breakfast .
Had to unpick all of the seams of the jumper I had knitted and then sew the garment back together so I learnt to do it correctly.
I was called to the dining room. Apologised again for my misbehaviour and had my mouth washed out with carbolic soap. Undid my blazer buttons, bent over and touched my toes. The skirt of my tunic was lifted over my back and my knickers lowered to my knees. Caned eight times across my bare thighs and behind. Very painful not to say humiliating. Stood facing the wall with my hands on my head, my tunic hitched up and knickers round my ankles for an hour.

More detention before facing the public humiliation of attending a Mother’s Union meeting which I had forgotten I had been told I would be doing. Had to wear my uniform and school hat. Made to explain how and why I was still being punished and how I had been disciplined when I had misbehaved at the previous meeting I had attended. Made to serve drinks and then spend half an hour facing the hall wall for everyone to see.
Write ten sides of lines, “I deserve to appear in public dressed in my school uniform of navy knickers, navy knee socks, pale blue shirt, tartan school tie, blue and green tartan tunic and green school blazer because even though I am 23 I still behave like an immature school girl”.
Had to unpick my green V-neck jumper again completely and then sew it back together.
Stood at kitchen table whilst my parents ate their tea with a bar of carbolic soap in my mouth and hands on my head. Very unpleasant.
Mouth washed out again with soap and water. Sent to bed at 7:30 PM.
Cross country
Cross country in school PE kit
Dressed in my school uniform and am inspected for compliance.
Porridge for breakfast .
Lines – “I deserved to have to wear what I am told, dress in schoolgirl uniform, do detention, do only what I am told and receive corporal punishment and other discipline for any failings because of my immature, lazy and ill disciplined behaviour.” 200 times.
Attended Church with my parents in my uniform and school hat. Luckily three other current school girls are also in uniform but my haircut still makes me feel at least like I stand out. I am f

by Catherine Fri May 13 09:17:23 UTC 2011

I am forced to explain my predicament to several people. It is a very shaming experience. My mother lectures me for fiddling with my blazer and tunic.
Return home and am told that if I cannot respect the uniform I deserve to wear then I will be punished. I plead that I wasn’t doing much which only makes the situation worse.
No lunch instead have to stand facing wall in kitchen and consider my failure to wear my uniform correctly.
1) Will spend the afternoon in my school summer dress and jumper since I cannot wear the more senior school uniform correctly. This will include in front of some of my cousins.
2) Pacifier to be in my mouth at all times except when given permission to speak to stop my wining.
3) Five strokes of the strap to the palm and back of each hand this afternnon.
4) Further clothing restrictions to be added to my future penances.
Made to change into green ankle socks, green knickers, the green summer school dress I ahd made and the green V-neck wool jumper. Sent back to detention to write an essay, “Why I deserve to dress like and infant schoolgirl, what it will teach me and how long I deserve such punishment to be applied?” Six sides.
Summoned to living room where my Aunt and Uncle had already arrived. Told to remove my pacifier and update them on my current situation.
Remove my jumper, roll up my dress sleeves to my elbows and with pacifier removed endure the 20 strokes of the strap my misbehaviour had earned me. The tawse is thick and the three tongues bit into the flesh of my arms. I was left weeping like a six year old as well as being dressed like one. Reuniformed I had to stand for the next 90 minutes facing the lounge wall with my hands on head as other guests arrived. I could hear them talking and laughing about me as I stood in pain and with my mouth sealed by a dummy.
Lectured again in front of the various guests and then sent back to detention. Four sides of, “I deserve to stand in infant school uniform, hands on head facing the wall, dummy in my mouth because I am a naughty little girl”. 150 times.
Sunday afternoon
Stood back in my senior school uniform as my weekend was reviewed.
Homework – failed to complete appropriately
Work in detention – adequate (needlework, lines, essays)
Behaviour in front of guests – adequate
Compliance with uniform – poor
Continued examples of failing to highlight own mistakes and consequences and insolence when poor behaviour highlighted.
I therefore received the following additional sanctions for the next four weeks which I complete today.
• Continue to spend one weekend every 4 weeks at my parent’s house (Friday evening until Sunday evening). This will be increased in frequency if my behaviour does not improve over the next cycle. Given my misbehaviour over the weekend next time the default position would be that I would be back in my senior school uniform again for the full weekend, in detention fulltime and attending Church in my uniform, as a minimum
• I will keep my hair cut short – with retrim every 4 weeks.
• I will complete a set of needlework and knitting tasks every 4 weeks which will be a punishment by using up some of my leisure time. I should wear these items as a further penance especially given my continued uniform transgressions. Task over the next four weeks is first to repeat the tasks I failed to do over the previous four weeks twice as a punishment i.e. to knit two V neck green jumpers and make two green summer school dresses. In addition to knit a grey school cardigan.
• Post my punishments during the weekend and for the next four weeks on the blog before my next discipline weekend latest.
• Wear the items I have made at all times whilst carrying out my needlework and knitting penance over the next four weeks, as a minimum.
• Attend Church every Sunday.
I took off m

by Catherine Fri May 13 09:18:39 UTC 2011

I took off my senior school uniform and redressed back into my green school summer dress and V-neck wool jumper. My hair was recut above my ears and then any remainder shaved off right around my head. My fringe was cut back to the top of my scalp. Had to stand facing the full length mirror in the hall hands on my head for half an hour. Drove home without stopping. A Samantha described the imposition of my clothes and hair by my parents was very shaming but I also know it is deserved and would welcome advice how less severe but continuous discipline could be applied to me.
I am certainly humiliated by having to share my punishment and my misbehaviour with you and hope I am an example to others as well as helping to improve my own behaviour. I think Winifred that what your sister Bernadette is now enduring may be what would best rectify my own failings although my work has definitely improved with the approach I am being forced to follow.

by Catherine Fri May 13 09:19:31 UTC 2011

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by rejitha Mon May 16 11:28:32 UTC 2011

Samantha I have experience very similar to your own. I have been married now for five years and was shocked when Sanjay's mother first attempted to discipline me and I refused her. Sanjay expalined to me that I should accept his mother's wishes and that this was what he expected so I have complied ever since. His mother lives with us and she checks that I maintain the house appropriately - cleaning, laundry, cooking, etc.. When failing to meet the standards I am amde to repeat the work, squat holding my ears or stand with hands on my head including in front of other family members. In severe cases I have received the cane from both her and my sisters in law. These punsihments are not too frequent but time does not make them any less shameful which may be of little solace to you. I always dress in long skirts and dresses and when leaving the house ensure my arms are covered by wearing of a cardigan.

by Trisha Fri May 20 14:47:32 UTC 2011

Sam's mother is similar in attitude to Sanjays. But I have never done Murgha (is that how you spell it?) before and I am simply not able to do it and maintain my balance and instead I have to hold out my hands for the cane, or sometimes I am forbidden to use the bathroom and have to stand in the corner instead. This is also in front of relatives. It is very shaming. I have to wear below the knee skirts and blouses but Mama also makes me wear passion killer knickers. Inspections are shaming.

by samantha.jaya Fri May 27 12:40:00 UTC 2011

Samantha - Sorry I have been slow to reply but I haven't been able to get on the PC last week as I have been disciplined by Sanjay's mother. Today we have an inset day so I have access again. She said I had not cleaned the house properly (which was partly true as I was busy at work) and then when I arrived home on Friday before the Bank Holiday she saw me with my short sleeved dress showing my bare arms. When Sanjay got home she said I must be disciplined for my laziness and flaunting myself. For the next 3 summer months I must, like you, wear long skirt or dress at all times and with long sleeves. Over this I must wear at all times (unless given permission by Sanjay or his mother) a jumper and cardigan or two cardigans of plain colour. I am also not to wear make-up in public and wear my hair in a bun. She says she will ensure I dress this way by inspection. In addition she said I would receive corporal punishment in front of the family on Sunday and that I could spend the next day and a hakf thinking about what I had done and the humiliation I would suffer. On Sunday after lunch Sanjay's mother told the rest of the family of my misbehaviour and I then had to stand facing the wall in the kitchen whilst they discussed my punishment. My sister-in-law Gita applied my agreed punishment which was 6 strokes of the cane to my behind. Gita was wearing a smart suit (she is a doctor so Sanjay's mother says she has earned the right to dress in a modern stylish way unlike me) making my clothing even more plain. She made me undo my cardigan and then lift up my jumper. Sanjay's mother then told me to bend over one of our kitchen stools and my dress was pulled up so that I received the strokes across my under clothing. It was very painful and I wept as Gita completed my caning. To complete my shaming I then had to stand with my hands on my head in front of everyone as Sanjay's mother told me off again and said I must learn to behave more plainly. For the rest of the week I have been focussed on house work. Today I have come to work in a brown dress and grey jumper and long cardigan. No one has mentioned my appearence but I am sure they must think I look very unfashionable. Samantha what does your Mama do when she inspects your appearence?

by Trisha Mon Jun 06 13:11:42 UTC 2011

Mama has me stand in front of her and checks I am smart and my shoes are clean and my clothes are ironed and my fingernails are clean and I am clean behind the ears and I have tied my hair back neatly and I have no make-up and she lifts my skirt to check my knickers which are baggy passion-killers have been ironed.
In the morning and at bedtime she also checks my personal cleanliness, which is not a matter for further public discussion.

by samantha Tue Jun 07 11:47:22 UTC 2011

I suffer similarly and last saturday I failed an inspection at my sister-in-laws house. This earned me a further six strokes in front of the family. It was even worse than last time as the cane used to discipline Sanjita is heavier than the one I normally receive and my mother-in-law decided I should receive it to my bare skin since I had failed to respond to my previous caning. In addition I am now to continue the rest of my conditions for 4 rather than 3 months. Even worse as a lesson to dress as necessary I had to wear my cardigan back to front and buttoned up the back and then she decided I should do this all the time (except when working) until I have learnt to comply. I looked a complete at the Temple on Sunday.

by Trisha Fri Jun 17 15:01:09 UTC 2011

Trisha. forgive me being nosey but how did you fail inspection and who inspected you? Was it your sister-in-law Gita who caned you again? I also have sometimes to wear clothes back to front as punishment. this sees very odd to me and it makes me feel really silly as well as being a little awkward. It is very embarrassing.

by Samantha Tue Jun 28 06:40:13 UTC 2011

I was inspected by Sanjay's mother when we were at a family meal at Sanjita's house. I had buttons undone on my cardigan which she said I knew was not allowed as I must learn to remain covered up. I was immediately made to do murgha which is very awkward when wearing a long skirt whilst she decided my punishment as they all ate dinner without me. I was then told off by her again in front of the family and my punishment of further caning and shaming announced. Gita did apply the caning which as I said was even more painful after which I had to stand hand on head in the corner for a further 30 mins with my pants around my ankles and my jumper and cardigan already being worn back to front. I am still being made to wear my jumpers and cardigans reversed which as you say is very uncomfortable as well as humiliating. Luckily Gita has leant me a couple of her polyester cardis to wear which are at least a bit less bulky even if unfashionable. I have asked Sanjay if I can stop doing this but he has told me to stop complaining and do what his mother says otherwise he says I will deserve to get punished even further. At least I am not made to dress like a school girl like Catherine or Winifred's sisters.

by Trisha Wed Jul 06 13:38:48 UTC 2011

For your information my sister Bernadette has now returned from University. She has spent the term dressing from a provided set of jumble sale consisting of a few long skirts, dresses, cardigans, etc. She has of course had no mobile phone because this has been the cause of her need for disciplining. She has been living in a room in the house of Mr and Mrs Entwistle. She has had to comply with a curfew restricting her social activities and attend Church several times each week including Bible Classes. She has her room inspected because of her previously hiding a mobile phone. Very humiliatingly for a 20 year old she has had to dress on Sunday as her landlords tell her to.
Bernadette had already been told that she could expect further restrictions during her summer vacation even if her behaviour had been exemplary for the rest of this term because she failed to accept and complete her original punishment. When I was at home last weekend when she returned from University however she received the most severe punishment I have ever seen my father apply. My father had gone to pick her up from University and when they arrived home he told her to take her things to her room and remain there until he was ready to inform her of her holiday restrictions. For the first time ever we were all (my sisters as well as my father and mother) asked to come to the living room since Bernadette was to have her behaviour reviewed in front of us all. Previously this was always done by my father alone. He got Bernadette to come to the lounge and started by telling her that since her behaviour over the last seven months had been unacceptable and composed of repeated infringements requiring attention she was to have the additional humiliation of having everyone’s attention as punishment was assigned. My father started by telling her what sanctions she would be subject to assuming she had behaved in an exemplary way over the last term.
a) She would not be allowed to find a paying job. Instead he had arranged for her to carry out all of the necessary maintenance tasks at our Church until the end of August whilst the cleaners and caretaker were on holiday – she would not be paid. She would start work at 8 am until 5:30 pm each day doing all the cleaning and maintaining the Church grounds, six days a week.
b) She would dress from the selection of jumble sale clothing she had at all times.
c) She would not be allowed out of the house after 7:00 pm

by Winifred Fri Jul 29 21:36:58 UTC 2011

When Bernadette returned, as it has been for all my sisters and myself, the process of being uniformed as a schoolgirl made her meeker. My father told her to apologise which she duly did for her insolence and disrespect. However I was surprised at the severity of what followed as my father said that her apology would not spare her from additional punishment. He said that her continued misbehaviour over the last several months and continuing insolence and lack of acceptance of her penances meant He then continued by asking Bernadette whether she thought her behaviour had been exemplary over the last term. She said she thought so and that her academic results had been excellent (which is true). My father then asked why Mr. & Mrs. Entwistle had told him that she always dressed in the least dowdy of her clothes and why twice she had initially refused to wear what she had been told to wear to Church on Sunday leading to her having to spend the remainder of the day in her school uniform. Bernadette tried to excuse her obvious failure to do as she had been told and my father was obviously furious. He then told her what her continued failure to accept her deserved punishments would mean.
a) Her unpaid Church work would continue until end September and Miss Raworth would be supervising her work to ensure she was never short of work or if necessary additional Bible study.
b) Miss Raworth would specify what of her jumble sale clothing she was to wear each day until she showed herself sufficiently mature to make this selection herself.
c) At home she would be confined to summer school uniform (green gingham dress and maroon cardigan) at all times and be confined to her room except at meal times. She would be allowed to do her college work but also receive lines and write a letter of apology to the Entwistle’s.
d) She would be staying living at Mr. and Mrs Entwistle’s for at least the next term.
e) She would receive six strokes of the cane to her behind in front of us.
Stupidly Bernadette complained further about how unfair it was, that she was 19 years old and should not be treated like this. This behaviour, of course, only further underlined her immaturity and disobedience. My father sent her to her room and told her to get dressed in her school uniform and report back to the lounge where he would deal with her.
that she was to get a further set of punishments. These were:
a) She would receive ten strokes of the cane rather than six.
b) She would have her mouth washed out with soap and water every evening.
c) For the next two weeks she would get no supper but have to stand hands-one-head at the table with a bar of soap in her mouth (none of us had ever suffered this before).
d) She would do regular corner time.
e) Every Sunday morning for at least the next four weeks at 8:30 am if her behaviour had not been exemplary during the previous week then she would be made to wear her school uniform to Church and_or receive a hand application of corporal punishment in front of the family on Sunday afternoon (giving her the discomfort of several hours to think of her fate).

by Winifred Fri Jul 29 21:41:34 UTC 2011

My father also told Bernadette that he would be considering this further misbehaviour in setting future penance when she returns to University. Bernadette then received her ten strokes of the cane to her bare behind in front of all of us before being sent to her room for the remainder of the afternoon. At supper time she came to the kitchen and apologized as required again to us all and then had to endure standing at the table with her hands on her head and a bar of soap in her mouth for an hour whilst we ate. I felt quite sorry for her although I think she does deserve the uniforming and caning she has received. On Sunday morning at breakfast her suffering continued when my father asked her if she thought her behaviour had been exemplary over the last week. When she tried to say it was this only infuriated him further with the result that she was told she would be attending Church in her school uniform and receiving infantile corporal punishment later in the day. I don’t think Bernadette realized this element of punishment was starting straight away and she cried as she pleaded not to be humiliated further. Hence she, not for the first time for our family, was an object for discussion and attention as we attended Mass at St. Mary’s. It reminded me of my own humiliation when I had endured such punishment - the feeling of immaturity as you tried to hideaway whilst being told to speak about your own misbehaviour and why you deserved to be dressed like a school girl. On Sunday afternoon she then had to stand in the lounge as my father reasserted her punishment to Miss Raworth and then had to invite Miss Raworth to her room so she could tell her what she must wear for her first day of Church duties the next day. After Miss Raworth’s departure at about 5 PM Bernadette was told to come back to the dining room where in front of her three sisters (including myself) and mother she was beaten. She was not spared at all with the punishment being applied firstly with a wooden hairbrush and then by hand to her bare bottom until Bernadette was left apologising for her behaviour, begging for mercy and crying like an infant. On completion she was made to stand in the hall with her hands touching her shoulders and knickers round her ankles for an hour. At this point I left to come home but my mother told me she had then had to endure her second suppertime with soap in her mouth.
So as you can see Samantha and Trisha you are not the only twenty somethings to receive discipline and you might even receive more severe punishment. Hopefully you have learnt your lessons and in your cases yet further applications have not proved necessary. I do feel sorry that my Bernadette is being subject to such severe discipline but she has only herself to blame. She is now facing several weeks under conditions which Catherine very bravely had imposed on herself for a few weekends – and which must have worked since her postings have ended. I only hope that Bernadette does not fail to comply. I will soon see as I am going to spend a week with my parents tomorrow.

by Winifred Fri Jul 29 21:46:48 UTC 2011


I completed what I hope will be the last of my punishment weekends two weeks ago. My interim review at work is in ten days time and I am sure that will confirm an improvement in my work performance. The last weekend was very humiliating as my mother said I needed to remember how humiliating punishment was even though my behaviour had been good the previous punihsment weekend and my performance at work was good. So I endured another full weekend in my old school uniform including attendance at Church and in front of visitors as well as a caning and tawsing. I have to say that I have really learnt a lesson and I thank you for recommending that I ask my parents to oversee my disciplining wich although it has been more severe than I had hoped. I now have a much more focussed attitude to my work, understand my own failings and am less selfish. I have already started and will continue a revised timetable paricularly on Sunday. I continue to play hockey on Saturday and regularly go out in the evening. However on Sunday I go to Church and dress in some of the clothing which I was made to make as part of my punishment. For example tomorrow morning I will wear my navy sailor dress and grey cardigan which together with my still short hair I am sure makes me look slightly immature (which I have been). On Sunday afternoon I do extra work on Sunday afternnon and always continue to wear some of my punishment clothing as a reminder. I hope your sister does learn her lessons and is able to move to a level of selfd-discipine like that I have learnt (backed by the knowledge that failure will be punished by my parents), I hope you have a good week with your parents.

by Catherine Sat Jul 30 21:13:53 UTC 2011

This is brief because if I am caught I can only imagine what might happen. I questined the severity of my sister's punishment this afternoon with the result I now find myself beaten by hand and hairbrush and in uniform. The next week looks now like a living hell rather than a holiday. Hope I am able to look book inhindsight as bravely as you appear to have done and also be brave enough to share the humiliation I have received and am yet to endure.

by Winifred Sun Jul 31 21:47:31 UTC 2011

If I tell you I am in bed wearing an ankle length yellow polyester and a yellow wool bed jacket you will understand how degrading my predicament has become. Hopefully I will avoid display outside the house like Bernadette but being confined to school uniform is a very saluatory lesson. Perhaps I may be able to display what has happened after this or next week.

by Winifred Wed Aug 03 22:34:36 UTC 2011

I am sorry I have not posted sooner but I have been too ashamed to admit what happened to me and what I will have to face. I cannot even now describe in detail what I suffered for questioning Bernadette's punishment even though I probably deserved it and hopefully at some point I will be able to display my full disgrace. I spent the rest of my week at my parents confined to firstly winter school uniform (green school knickers, short, tie, knee socks, pinafore and cardigan) and later summer uniform (gingham dress, ankle socks and cardigan), confined to my room doing lines and essays, corner time, my mouth washed with soap and water and sharing Bernadette's punishment of standing with a bar of soap in my mouth at supper time. I was beaten by hand and clothes brush and caned, displayed in front of visitors. I was given another punishment I am still too humiliated to describe but luckily spared appearing in public in uniform although attending Church in a proscribed set of clothing.
I have not yet accepted that this will help me behave better like you Catherine but hope that Trish and Samantha can see their situations could be worse (or perhaps could be deservedly more severe). My penanance is not finished and will deservedly resume on Friday. After that perhaps I will be humble enough to share my humiliation. I hope that none of you has behaved such that your own punishments have increased.

by Winfired Tue Aug 16 21:59:36 UTC 2011

My punishment has got worse since my last post but when I look at what you may have experienced it is probably trivial. Sanjay's mother was not happy I was minimising my discomoft using the polyester cardis my sister-in-law Gita gave me. So now I have to wear them and one of my own woollen cardis all back to front. Given the schools are on holiday and I am not at work I am confined to dressing like this all the time. She has ensured I have had to go shopping frequently as well as enduring going to the Temple. In addition I received another 6 strokes of the cane. Gita was also disciplined for aiding me having to complete two weeks dressed in the same way - enjoying the pleasure of wearing one of my woollen cardis in reverse. She also got a strapping to the hands in front of the family. I hate to think what punishments I might receive if Sanjay's mother were to read some of these messages. Sam when you had to wear your cardis back to front how long dod this last?

by Trish Thu Aug 18 22:15:18 UTC 2011

Winifred I hope your weekend is not too bad. My interim review was not quite so positive as I had hoped (lots of good progress but need to see delivery later in the year) so I am still having to return to my parents next weekend as my father has decided my disciplining must continue. I tried to argue with him which was not well received so I am preparing for some added pain and humiliation next Friday myself.

by Catherine Fri Aug 19 21:14:10 UTC 2011

Catherine I am using the format you used to display your humiliation. I am not being made to do this as my parents are not aware of this site and I would probably receive a very severe punishment if they knew I was doing this. I am sharing because I must accept I deserve what has happened to me although I have found having to write out what I have endured shameful in itself
• I arrived on Friday evening and had to stand before my parents and sisters and receive my punishments for the weekend. I was to continue to endure the same punishments as during my previous weeks leave when I questioned the severity of Bernadette’s punishment.
• I had to wear summer school uniform – green school knickers, green ankle socks, green Gingham dress, maroon cardigan all weekend. I was subject to regular checks of my uniform.
• Spent almost all my time in detention in my old room doing lines and essays. Including on Saturday writing out, ”I deserve to wear infants school uniform and stay in detention because I am an insolent and naughty little girl” 1200 times.
• My mouth was washed out with soap and water before bed every night. Together with Bernadette I had to stand with a bar of soap in my mouth during evening meal every evening.
• I had to ask permission to go to the toilet. This was a punishment not even Bernadette had received but which my father imposed to teach me that as I got older and still displayed infantile behaviour I could expect ever more childish punishments.
• Every day I was made to spend time standing in the corner or facing the wall with hands on my head or touching my shoulders.
• On Sunday morning because her behaviour had not been exemplary during the previous week Bernadette was again assigned to wear her school uniform to Church and receive corporal punishment by hand and hairbrush in front of the family in the afternoon. As on the previous weekend my father told me as someone who thought Bernadette’s behaviour didn’t require severe penance I would continue to share her punishment whilst her behaviour failed to improve. Again I was allowed to choose whether I wished to attend Church in my uniform or take corporal punishment in the afternoon. I opted for the latter and had to suffer the discomfort of several hours to think of my fate.
• Sunday afternoon having watched Bernadette’ punishment I was bent over and with my knickers stripped to my ankles endured application of a heavy clothes brush followed by a hairbrush and finally my Father’s hand. My punishment lasted longer than my sisters and the physical pain even without the unbearable humiliation was sufficient to leave me crying. After this I was made to stand with my knickers round of my ankles facing the hall wall for an hour. During this time Miss Raworth came to define Bernadette’s clothing for Monday and I was made to explain my misbehaviour and punishment to her. She told my father she would be happy to find me work at the Church for everyone to see me in uniform if he wanted to. He thanked her for the offer and to my dismay said he would think about it depending on my performance over the next few weeks.
My punishment is to continue every weekend until at least Bernadette returns to University which is not until early October. I find it almost unbelievable that I find myself in this situation despite what I have seen you Catherine as well as some of the other older women endure. However I have only myself to blame and must endure this even if I think I am being dealt with harshly.

by Winifred Wed Aug 24 15:51:38 UTC 2011

My Bank Holiday weekend was a very unpleasant experience. I went to may parent’s for my monthly discipline weekend in the wake of having had my interim review at work which was less positive then I had hoped. Resulting from this I found myself back under the more severe conditions I had originally experienced in April but with punishment for misrepresenting my performance improvement at work and a much more stringent environment of punishment of any even minor failings. It is part of my punishment to display this and I am using a similar format as earlier which I hope makes clear my deserved punishments.
Arrived Friday evening.
My minimum punishment conditions applied and more severe than even in April.
Wear my old school uniform – navy knee socks, pale blue shirt, tartan school tie, blue and green tartan tunic and green school blazer plus navy knickers.
Every morning 4 mile brisk walk in uniform including school hat.
Of course no jewelry or make-up. Hair cut short again even further above my ears.
Time to be spent in detention in my room writing essays and lines, doing dress making or knitting. 7:00 am until 7:00 pm. Lunch for 30 minutes.
Without exception to appear before visitors.
Speak only when spoken to. Stand at my desk in my room whenever anyone enters with hands folded in front of me.
No supper. Bed at 8:30 PM after corner time.
Further discipline to be applied for any misbehaviour no matter how minor.
Sent to get changed into my uniform and then reported for additional punishment for misrepresenting my work performance.
Further punishments applied for lying about how well I had been doing in order to avoid punishment, not working hard enough and not being self disciplined enough.
Punishment extended to include Monday (which was a Bank Holiday).
Mouth washed out with soap and water before being sent to bed and after both breakfast and lunch.
4 strokes of the tawse to the palm and back of each hand immediately.
10 strokes of the cane to my behind to be administered on Saturday.
Walk in uniform via village. Less enjoyable than the cross country particularly as I was left unshowered in my sweaty uniform.
Breakfast followed by having my mouth washed out with carbolic soap – horrible.
Wrote 12 side essay on my additional punishments, why I deserved them and how they will help improve my future behaviour.
10 strokes of the cane administered to my bare behind and thighs by my father. Followed by 45 minutes corner time with my hands on my head and navy knickers around my ankles.
6 sides of lines, “I deserve to dress and be treated like a schoolgirl as this reflects the maturity of my behaviour.”
Lunch eaten in silence followed by having my mouth washed out with soap.
Afternoon spent knitting a white woollen jumper with ¾ length sleeves and buttoned shoulders followed by writing a 12 side essay on why I deserve to wear school uniform and what being made to wear it beyond my punishment weekends would teach me.
Made to stand in the corner of the kitchen with my hands on my head whilst my parents ate their dinner. One of the neighbours came around and I was obliged to explain my ongoing need for punishment – very humiliating.
Mouth washed out again with soap and water and sent to bed as usual in a thick cotton nightdress.
Walk briskly around the village. It was very warm and in tunic, blazer and school hat a less than comfortable experience.
Porridge for breakfast. Mouth washed out with soap.
Lines – “I deserve to attend Church in schoolgirl uniform for the whole congregation to see because I have continued to be lazy, stupid, dishonest and immature in my efforts both at work and outside” 200 times.
Had to attend Church with my parents. I had to wear my uniform including my school hat which really makes you stand out to everyone else. Only a single other current school girl appeared in uniform so ther

by Catherine Fri Sep 30 10:41:32 UTC 2011

Only a single other current school girl appeared in uniform so there was little to distract attention from my predicament. Again an unbelievably humiliating experience.
Lunch . As ever mouth thoroughly washed with carbolic soap and water.
Write 8 side essay, “How my public humiliation at Church could be increased and why this would be appropriate given my continued failures of effort and discipline”.
Three hours of knitting. During this my mother arrived with another of her friends and I failed to stand properly to attention. Sanction was immediate with my mother immediately applying a wooden ruler half a dozen times across the palm of each of my hands in front of her visitor. I was made to stand with my hands on my head whilst they discussed my slovenly posture and need for some deportment training. I was told to stand for the remainder of the afternoon whilst continuing my knitting task and that I would receive appropriate punishment later for my continuing lack of self-discipline.
Summoned downstairs where I received another dressing down for slouching when I should have been stood to attention. Additional sanctions were:
1) To stand at all times for the rest of my punishment including meal times.
2) To go to her friend’s house and receive deportment training from her under disciplined conditions and immediate punishment for failures.
3) Six strokes of the cane to my behind immediately followed by a further six strokes in front of her friend on Monday morning.
Received my six stroke caning to my bare behind.
Further 60 minutes stood facing the hall wall with my hands on my head, knickers round my ankles with my tunic pinned up and nose pressed to the wall to hold a piece of tissue paper in place.
Mouth washed out very thoroughly with carbolic soap. Sent to bed.
Another brisk morning stroll in uniform.
Porridge for breakfast again. Another mouth washing.
Further three hours of knitting stood at my desk.
Walked to my mother’s friends house with my mother in my full uniform. Apologised again for my slovenly behaviour in her presence yesterday. In her lounge unbuttoned my blazer, bent over, had my tunic lifted over my back and my knickers stripped to my knees. My mother methodically applied the second allocation of six strokes of the cane to my already painful behind and legs. Made to stand in the corner with my hands on my head, tunic hitched up and knickers round my ankles for 30 minutes.
Taken into a second sitting room with a large empty floor except for two chairs and shockingly another uniformed figure. Her friend explained that this was one of her daughter’s Polly who I vaguely remembered from six or seven years ago when she was much younger. The girl was made to explain why she was here. “I have twice been reported for uniform failure last term at my boarding school. Firstly for not wearing my tie and secondly again for not wearing my tie correctly, skirt incorrect and generally untidy and slovenly. I was punished at school but my mother has imposed additional punishments to deter any further failings”, she spoke clearly what sounded a well practiced description.

by Catherine Fri Sep 30 10:42:25 UTC 2011

Her mother finished the description, “Since Polly did not appreciate her smart comfortable cotton boarding school uniform she is spending her school vacation confined to the nylon and polyester of the local state junior school as you can see so she can sample an alternative. I have not needed to ground her because she wears this all the time and it appears to have made her reluctant to go out doesn’t it Polly!” “Yes, mother”, Polly replied as she stood dressed in an orange polyester gingham dress and green nylon V-neck cardigan with a school badge rather cheaply embossed onto it. Green ankle socks and a pair of brown shoes with buckled straps completed her uniform. Her hair was swept back into a pony tail held by a scrunchie matching her gingham dress. “You are certainly more appreciative of your boarding school uniform after eight weeks like this aren’t you Polly? ” And like my own mother she certainly didn’t spare any excruciating detail. “You have found the large nylon knickers and vests and long polyester nightgown very chastening haven’t you”. Polly blushed as any seventeen year old would at the public description of her infantile underwear. “However I don’t spare her appearing before visitors and she has between 1 and 3 hours of deportment training (with encouragement) every day so I was happy to extend this opportunity to your mother given your slouching yesterday Catherine”. I was then made to explain my punishment before the training started. I had never done any deportment lessons before at all so had no idea what to expect but almost immediately the consequences of any failure to meet the required standards became painfully apparent as my mother’s friend started.
“So girls you will speak only if given explicit permission to do so during this lesson addressing me as Maam on all occasions, you will carry out the activities you are told to exactly as instructed and any failures will be punished immediately. Is that clear?” Polly’s mother stated as we both stood in the middle of the room. “Is that clear?” “Yes Maam”, I replied at that point not recognizing my mistake. “Did I ask you to speak girl?” She stood in front of me and from her eyes I could tell the answer had been no. “Well answer child” “No Maam”, I spluttered. “That is correct so you will be punished”.”Polly did you understand the instructions, you may answer now”. “Yes Maam”. ”Right Catherine hold out your hands palms up”, I was ordered. I obeyed watching with trepidation as my new teacher picked up a short but thick leather strap from the bay window. There was no sentencing or pause before my beating began. I received four sharp strokes to each hand each leaving me increasing pain. Iwas then told to turn them over and the application was repeated. “Let that be a lesson to you on the price for disobedience child”. “Now let us get back to the job of turning you two lazy slouchers into upright young ladies”. First we were made to stand at attention imaging a thread coming from the top of our head. Her daughter was obviously better practiced and throughout the following hours I therefore received greater attention and punishment. The teacher held the hair on the top of my head, even though short from my punishment haircut, and pulled it up to encourage me to stretch. We were made to stand with a book on our heads and then walk. On each occasion it fell, a further application of the strap followed without fail. We had to stand to attention with a thick book held under each armpit. It was agony. Then we had to practice sitting properly shoulders back, chin up, legs together, tunic straight. Again my effort was not good enough resulting in a further receipt of corporal punishment but not

by Catherine Fri Sep 30 10:43:30 UTC 2011

Again my effort was not good enough resulting in a further receipt of corporal punishment but not the strap. I was made to stand and my teacher held up in front of me an object with a wooden handle and strands of waxed material coming from it (in fact they were leather). “Do you know what this is child? You may answer.” “No Maam I do not know”, I responded realizing I would soon found out. “Polly tell Catherine what this, what is used for and it’s impact based on your own experience”. Polly answered, “It is a martinet which is used for punishment of naughty children – and has been used mainly in France and Spain historically. It is applied either to the backs of the thighs or calves or can be used across the bottom of misbehaved children. I have received application to the backs of my thighs and calves as immediate punishment during my deportment lessons and it is very painful with the stinging lasting for up to an hour when the application is of several strokes. In addition the marks are very clear for everyone to see that you have been punished which is also humiliating. I have received application to my bare behind only twice ever and on both occasions was left severely regretting the misbehaviour which necessitated the application for several days”. I was directed to roll my knee socks down to my ankles and the leather cords were then whipped across the back of my calves. I yelped with the stinging pain which earned me further application. After what was actually about 2 and a half hours but seemed like longer Polly and I performed the final exercise of having to walk across the room hands folded neatly in front of us with a book balanced on our head blindfold turn around and walk back twice. Polly went first – her first attempt failed earning her her first allocation of the martinet to her calves. She did not repeat the mistake. My efforts were less successful, my first failure earning me a whipping across the calves. When I failed again the teacher pinned up my tunic displaying my school knickers. “My they are even larger than yours Polly she stated, leaving me in the same state of blushed embarrassment as my fellow punishee had earlier”. She rolled up the legs to leave the lower parts of my thighs exposed and they then received a whipping. When I failed for a third time an even more severe application followed. Finally I succeeded in the task. I was taken home by my mother which was a further painful lesson as my knee socks rubbed against the multiple striations across my whipped calves.
Lunch followed by mouth washing.
Twelve side essay, “What I learned from my deportment lesson and what further lessons could teach me?”
My Uncle and Aunt came around and I was subjected to the ritual humiliation of appearing before them, yet again, and explaining my position. I was made to stand in the lounge facing the wall with my hands on my head for more than hour whilst they sat and talked.
My father had checked my essay and was disappointed in it’s content as I had not been clear enough about the benefits that the disciplinary aspects of the deportment training and how these themselves were important for someone as ill disciplined as myself. I received 3 strokes of the tawse to the palm and back of each hand for my poor work.

by Catherine Fri Sep 30 10:44:51 UTC 2011

Made to stand in my school uniform with my hands on my head as my weekend punishment and behaviour was reviewed. I knew it was not going to be good.
Work in detention – knitting adequate, lines adequate, essay writing poor
Behaviour in front of guests – inadequate
Compliance with uniform – adequate
Deportment training – performance poor.
I was therefore allocated the following additional sanctions for the next four weeks which I complete today and were a definite reverse to the decreasing levels of sanction received in the proceeding two months. This is a reflection of my over assessment of my performance at work and the inadequacies from the weekend.
• Continue to spend one weekend every 4 weeks at my parent’s house (Friday evening until Sunday evening). I will be back in my school uniform again for the full weekend beginning 30 September, in detention fulltime and attending Church in my uniform, as a minimum
• Take home all of my school uniform and ensure it is all cleaned and ironed ready for inspection. To reprt on 30 Septm,ebr already dressed in my full uniform including balzer and hat.
• I will keep my hair cut short – it was retrimmed before I left.
• I received an increased set of needlework and knitting tasks to complete. Some of these items based on other postings on the blog. I must complete my white buttoned ¾ sleeve length jumper and knit the same pattern but in arran, knit two V neck green cardigans one green, one navy and make two gingham summer school dresses one ornage, one blue.
• When complete I should wear the white jumper against my skin under all of my clothing at all times. This is specifically so that when at work or outside I never forget my need to work harder.
• Post my punishments during the weekend and for the next four weeks on the blog before my next discipline weekend latest. As written here.
• Wear the items I have made at all times whilst carrying out my needlework or knitting penance over the next four weeks, as a minimum.
• Attend Church every Sunday.
• Dress in the school uniform clothing I have had to knit and make when attending Church and when out.
As if this was not enough I was then further disciplined for my poor deportment class performance by being told I will receive further training next time followed by an application of six strokes of the martinet to my bare behind. After enduring another hour stood facing the wall with my finger tips touching my shoulders, I was sent home in my school uniform. I really am learning a very harsh lesson now and my initial feelings for self penance have now evaporated. However I know my work and self-discipline is till not of the standard I should expect of myself so when removed from the pain and humiliation I deserve because of this and am still thankful to my parents. My experience at deportment class as well as from this blog shows I am not the only young woman being righty disciplined in this humiliating manner but that it does also work and hence we are an example to others.

Aplogise for the multiple posts but I do not want to receive punsihment for failing to display my punsihment adequately whne I arrive back home this evening.

by Catherine Fri Sep 30 10:46:30 UTC 2011

I left school just over two years ago and work as an admin in a local firm. I am still subject to disciplining by my parents whom I still live with. It is nothing like as severe as described by Catherine but more like some of Winifred's sisters. The punishment is basically always the same with only the duration being changed to reflect the severity of any misbehavior I may have done and is the same as I was subject to whilst still at school. I have to wear my school uniform at all times when not at work. This consists of a white blouse, green and brown striped tie, green knee socks, taupe tunic and green cardigan. I am grounded and except when doing house work (of which there is plenty) I have to stay in my room. I am not made to go out dressed in this way but as in some of these posts am not spared from appearing in front of guests. The length of punishment may vary from a few days (for example for impolite behavior) up to several weeks (for smoking or drinking). The only other punishment I have received is the switch which I have deservedly received twice since leaving school on the first occasion for smoking and the second for drinking alcohol (which is illegal as I am only 20). I know I am not the only girl who is disciplined like this by her parents locally and although I don't like it when I am being punished I have to say that it is probably appropriate until I learn to behave more maturely. Does anyone else have similar experience?

by guest Wed Oct 19 15:34:36 UTC 2011

I get punished until I was 27 when I leave home.I was punished with belt.

by Maja Sun Nov 13 19:53:25 UTC 2011

My punishment weekend at the end of September, although humiliating being spent in uniform and detention, passed without additional punishments or corporal punishment (except for a few strokes of the martinet across my calves during my deportment training). Unfortunately my weekend four weeks ago was much less palatable and this was only because I failed to behave as necessary. I failed to knit an arran cardigan before the weekend correctly and then failed to admit this, didn’t keep my hands on my head when facing the wall as instructed, was caught with my blazer undone without permission by one of my mother’s friends and finally again not clearly explain my misbehaviour and punishment when at Church. Over the weekend I therefore received three canings to my behind, two applications of the tawse to the hands and a smacking by hand and hairbrush. In addition I had to wear the arran undervest at all times, had my school green V neck jumper added to my uniform, had my mouth washed out regularly with carbolic soap, for the first time had to take castor oil (for lying) as well as being made to apologise to those I had misbehaved in front of at Church and endure them suggest to my mother how I should be punished even more childishly. Subsequent to the weekend I have had to knit three arran cardigans for failing to do the first correctly and make a very childish navy sailor dress. In addition my father has told me because of my continued failures that he will consider applying upto 3 punishments which have been applied to other posters on this site. Firstly the wearing of a plainer school uniform of worsted pinafore and cardigan and wool jacket to Church and that I should knit a full woollen dress. Secondly that I should give all or some of my existing wardrobe to Charity and wear some of the plainer and school items I have been making at all times. Thirdly (like Samantha he said) I should be confined to plain clothing e,g, long dresses and cardigans at all times , that on Sunday’s I should attend Church wearing my cardigan back to front and that I be caned in front of other family members. I am therefore praying that my work over the last 4 weeks and good behaviour this week will result in me being spared all of these. At least my performance review went well today so hopefully I will be able to bring these weekends to a close after this one. I certainly would hate to still be being punished when I am 27.

by Catherine Fri Nov 25 16:51:37 UTC 2011

i got caned by my mum until i was 15

by guest Sun Nov 27 08:48:16 UTC 2011

My last weekend of discipline was a shaming and humiliating experience. My previous misbehaviour meant I knew I would be under strict controls and yet further failures on my part resulted in suitable severe further penances being applied and as you will see below imposition of some further very severe punishment now to be received.
Arrived Friday evening.
I was wearing my school uniform on arrival as instructed – navy knee socks, navy knickers, white Arran woollen jumper under my pale blue shirt, tartan school tie, blue and green tartan tunic, green V neck school jumper and green school blazer.
I was subjected to an immediate inspection and was then made to stand facing the wall with my hands on my head whilst my dress making and knitting items were checked. The three white Arran wool jackets and long navy sailor suit in jersey material were deemed acceptable.
My conditions for the weekend were outlined and were as a basis stricter than previous.
Four mile walk every morning in full school uniform including school hat.
Full uniform to be worn at all times.
Time to be spent in detention in my room writing essays and lines, doing clothes making or knitting. 6:00 am until 7:00 pm. Lunch for 30 minutes only.
Mouth to be washed out with soap and water before being sent to bed and after both breakfast and lunch.
I would appear in front of all visitors to the house.
Speak only when spoken to. Stand at my desk in my room whenever anyone enters with hands folded in front of me.
No supper. Bed at 8:30 PM after corner time.
Knickers and white Arran jumper to be worn at night under my nightgown.
After having my mouth washed with soap and water and I was sent to bed in my undergarments and long nightgown.
Walked in school uniform via the village.
Breakfast of porridge followed by having my mouth washed out with carbolic soap.
Wrote 6 side essay on why I deserve to wear a plainer school uniform of worsted pinafore and cardigan, what this would teach me and how it would improve my behaviour in future.
Followed by writing another 6 side essay on why I deserve to donate my existing clothing to Charity and confine myself to the wearing of the plainer and more childish items I have been making as part of my disciplining, what this would teach me and how it would improve my behaviour in future.
Followed by writing a further 6 side essay on why I deserve to be confined to wearing plain clothing, long dresses or skirts and cardigans at all times, attend Church on a Sunday wearing a cardigan back to front for all to see and receive regular corporal punishment in front of family members, what this would teach me and how it would improve my behaviour in future.
As you can imagine this was not only hard work to write 18 sides in four and a half hours without mistakes but also exceedingly humiliating to have to consider enduring any of these further punishments which I knew my father was considering following my poor behaviour at the end of October.
Lunch followed by having my mouth washed out with soap and water.
One hour of corner time with my hands on my head.
Two hours of crocheting.
6 sides of lines, “I deserve to remain in school uniform until I demonstrate I can be trusted to work and behave like an adult consistently.”

by Catherine Thu Dec 15 11:15:46 UTC 2011

Appeared in front of my parents and endured my father telling me how unsatisfactory my essays describing why I deserved potential further punishments were both in terms of presentation and more particularly content. I had obviously not accepted that further punishment was necessary following my misbehaviour last month. I was therefore allocated additional punishments to deter me from lying further to myself, increase my discomfort and add to my humiliation immediately and in the future.
• Two spoons of castor oil each night
• Knit some thick woollen knickers which I can wear at all times to remind me of my need to work harder
• 12 strokes of the cane to my bare behind
• Additional punishment based on the three options will be applied to me
At this point I raised that my performance review had gone well in my view and that hopefully therefore my self induced disciplining had worked and after this weekend could come to an end. My parents did not agree and when I had to admit that I would not find out the actual ranking until February my father said that punishment would continue until at least then. He also said that given my ill discipline I should expect to have further ongoing strictures applied to maintain and improve my performance. Clearly if my ranking did not improve then more sever discipline would be appropriate. He also said that my input was a typical example of my ongoing desire to limit my punishment whilst my behaviour remained poor. Three strokes of the tawse to the palm and back of each hand were added to my list of penances.
My corporal punishment was administered firstly via the tawse to my hands and then with the cane.
Made to stand in the corner of the kitchen with my hands on my shoulders, my knickers around my ankles and tunic pinned up whilst my parents ate dinner.
Received two spoonfuls of castor oil.
Mouth washed out again with soap and water and sent to bed in knickers, Arran jumper and nightgown.
Walked four miles in drizzle. My blazer, hat and tunic skirt were damp by the time I returned home.
Porridge for breakfast. Followed by my mouth being washed out with soap.
Started knitting woollen knickers in thick navy wool. There was no pattern so my mother provided some simple instructions and then came in to check the size by trying the knitting I had done versus me. At first I thought they were looking slightly too large until my mother informed me an overlap would be required into which to sew some thick elastic so that they were held in place in the same uncomfortable manner as my school knickers.
Attended Church with my parents. As usual I had to wear my uniform including my school hat which was as usual very humiliating. It, as it is meant to do, makes me so self –conscious standing dressed like this and this may be why I again transgressed. My mother was talking with one of my old school friend’s mother’s when she pointed out that I was biting one of my finger nails. This is not something seen as appropriate given my position and when I was then made to display all of my fingernails it was obvious that this was not an isolated occurrence. I do chew my finger nails which I know is not a good habit but of course the consequences in this situation have proved to be deservedly severe. I was told to stand with my hands behind my back and Mrs. White described to my mother how she had made my friend Laura wear a pair of wool mitts when she had done this and on occasions confined her to a more childish school uniform than the one I was wearing and perhaps that would help to deter me. My mother assured her that I would be severely punished and said that as part of this if she was available that afternoon some of my punishment could be carried out in front of her. She said that she was and that Laura would also be visiting.

by Catherine Thu Dec 15 11:16:27 UTC 2011

Lunch. I stood facing the wall with my hands on my head and was told to consider how I should be punished for my latest offences.
Further punishments applied for chewing my nails, not standing appropriately and causing public embarrassment. Additional sanctions were:
1) To knit and wear a pair of woollen mitts as suggested by Mrs. White when not requiring use of my hands.
2) Six strokes of the tawse to the palm and back of each of my hands immediately.
3) Write a letter of apology to Mrs. White for my misbehaviour, including how I am being punished for this and asking if there are any additional punishments she would recommend for me.
4) To go to Mrs. White’s house and receive a smacking in front of her with my hairbrush.
5) Additional more childish punishments be applied to me in future.
I received my tawsing then went to my room and wrote my letter of apology before accompanied by mother I was taken to Mrs. White’s.
Apologized for my behaviour in front of Mrs. White and Laura – it was so humiliating. Took-off my blazer and lay across my mother’s lap. My tunic was lifted over my back and my knickers stripped to my knees. Smacked first by hairbrush and was then made to stand in front of them all with tears streaming down my face. Then I was told to bend again across my mother’s lap and was smacked by hand for what seemed like forever. I was then made to stand in front of them with my hands on my shoulders, my tunic hitched up and knickers round my ankles whilst they discussed what more childish punishments could be appropriate for me. I have to say this was also quite embarrassing for Laura too as her mother recited some of the sanctions she had received. Mrs. White started by passing my mother a pair of pink woollen mitts which as she had described in the Parish rooms she had used to deter and punish Laura from biting her nails. She said we could keep them and instantly my mother had me put them on. As this was done the full extent of the humiliation I would receive by wearing them became clear. They did not even have a thumb but instead were a simple thumb less double layered woollen cover for the hand. They were knitted in bright pink (so that they would be obvious to anyone) and had woollen ties around the wrists which Mrs. White secured in place. I was then made to return to position with my now mitted hands on my shoulders. Mrs. White then listed a set of punishments which she had applied to Laura when she felt that her behaviour had warranted a more childish discipline was appropriate. I could see Laura squirming somewhat as they were listed and she was reminded of time she had spent suffering such restrictions. Unfortunately for me though she did confirm how humiliating and salutatory she had felt enduring them and that she could only imagine how even more humiliating if I were to suffer them now at my age. She suggested confinement to an infant’s school uniform rather my smart school uniform I had worn when I was 18 - a simple cotton school dress with sweatshirt or cardigan. When my mother said I had already been making such items as part of my ongoing penances she recommended they be put to use. She added that she had some ankle socks which had been Laura’s if these would be of use. She said she always had Laura wear her hair in pigtails to make clear her position but given my short hair this wouldn’t be possible. She also said that even if infant school uniform was not always appropriate that I should be dressed in a suitably immature manner. She said I should always be kept in dresses with knee or ankle socks and as necessary a sweater or cardigan.

by Catherine Thu Dec 15 11:18:00 UTC 2011

I should never be allowed to wear a jacket or coat as these were for more mature people. My mother said I had been made to make last month a sailor dress and had already knitted several jumpers and cardigans. Mrs. White said then with these available I could begin punishment as soon as necessary and remain under these conditions for some time. As it was winter then sometimes a second sweater or cardigan might be necessary. She then listed off a succession of ideas, some of which I have already endured, corner time, keeping hands on head even in public, having to ask permission to go to the toilet, mouth washing with soap and water, no supper and using a dummy. She recommended early bedtimes which my mother said I was already doing during my punishment weekends. However when Mrs. White asked how early and my mother said 8 to 8:30 she recommended much earlier and asked Laura to detail what she had suffered. Laura said she had been made to appear frequently in front of visitors as early as 5:00 PM dressed in a flowery winceyette ankle length nightie and cardigan. She had her mouth washed with soap and water and hands placed in the same mitts I was now wearing before being sent to bed. All of this went on for what seemed like an age before finally she came to corporal punishment. She had used all of the forms with Laura which I myself have endured already. She recommended to my mother more frequent use of the apparently childish smacking in front of others that I had just received – but done with sufficient force and length that despite my age would leave me weeping like a small child and regretful of my misbehaviour. She also said that since I continued to misbehave that such smacking could be applied regularly rather than as a one off punishment. She said that had Laura behaved as I had done at Church this morning as a minimum she would have had her skirt raised and some hard swift slaps applied to her legs in front of everyone present and that this would not have been deducted from any later punishment allocation. Immediate punishment irrelevant of location helped Laura to behave better she had found particularly when this was not only painful but when in public exceedingly humiliating. Laura confirmed this was the case and recounted her most humiliating memory of this when already confined to infant school uniform she had misbehaved in the park and been taken across her mother’s knee had her dress lifted up and been smacked across the behind in front of other people – this had also not spared her from a daily smacking for a week for the same offence.
Finally the session ended and it was clear to me that I could expect to be the recipient of at least some of these humiliating sanctions in future. My mother did up my uniform and with my hands still encased in the woollen mitts and placed on my head I had to walk home receiving the stress of people we passed.
Wrote six side essay on what I learnt from my smacking and other punishments which my infantile behaviour would deserve to be met with.
Further 60 minutes stood facing the hall wall with my hands on my head and nose pressed to the wall to hold a piece of tissue paper in place.
I had to stand in front of my parents again in my school uniform with my hands on my head as my weekend punishment and behaviour was reviewed. I sensed that my punishment was not going to end then as I had hoped but what was proscribed was even more severe than I could have feared.
Essay writing on future potential punishments – very poor
Failing to realize my continuing failings – poor
Trying to avid continuing discipline, and given my misbehaviour punishment, until my work performance had been demonstrated to have improved – completely inadequate behaviour
Crocheting and knitting – adequate
Behaviour in public – inadequate
Compliance with uniform – adequate

by Catherine Thu Dec 15 11:18:49 UTC 2011

I was allocated the following additional sanctions for the next four weeks which I complete at the end of this week together with use of my Christmas vacation.
• Take home all of my school uniform and ensure it is all cleaned and ironed ready for inspection. To report on 16 December already dressed in my full uniform including blazer and hat.
• I was to keep my hair cut short – it was retrimmed again before I left.
• I received another heavy set of needlework and knitting tasks to complete which have necessitated me missing hockey and a Xmas dinner to get completed. I had to complete knitting the navy school knickers I had started. Knit further pairs of knickers – grey two pairs, green two pairs – navy one more pair. Knit a grey ¾ sleeve length jumper with buttons at the collar back and a pair of grey thumb less mitts like those Laura’s mother had given me. Make an ankle length collared gown with a collar with buttons at the wrist and from hem to collar at the front from grey canvas. Knit a knee length grey wool jacket from bulky heavy worsted wool.
• Continue to wear the white jumper against my skin under all of my clothing at all times. Wear my navy school knickers at all times until I have completed my first pair of woollen knickers after which I should wear these.
• Post my punishments from the weekend, for the next four weeks and likely next disciplining on the blog before my next discipline. As written here.
• Wear the items I have made at all times whilst carrying out my needlework and knitting penance over the next four weeks, as a minimum.
• Attend Church every Sunday.
• Dress in the clothing I have had to knit and make when attending Church and when out.
The most severe sanctions however are:
• Report to my parent’s on 16 December in my school uniform when I will be punished for two weeks for my continuing ill discipline.
• First week I will serve under conditions of plain dress, confinement with very minimal privileges, laborious tasks to perform and regular corporal punishment. I will only leave the house to attend Church on Sunday.
• Second week I will dress for the majority of the time in infant school uniform and be treated in keeping with this status. As Christmas and Boxing Day are during this week there will be visitor’s both coming and staying at our house and I will be made to appear and receive punishment in front of them. In public I may or may not be made to appear in uniform but will in any case be dressed in a manner appropriate to my status.
• New Year’s Eve to Monday 2nd January my behaviour will be reviewed and my future restrictions and sanctions determined. These will be based on the three options highlighted at the end of October and I am to expect some ongoing sanctions even if my performance review outcome in February is satisfactory. To this end I will write a list of all the clothing items I have prepared so I can see what I may have to wear (and display this on the blog as a further punishment). In addition I will bring home with me all of my trousers, jeans and non sport shorts, training shoes and T shirts so that these can be given to Charity immediately if that is deemed to be an appropriate punishment.

by Catherine Thu Dec 15 11:20:35 UTC 2011

As you can see I have not only been very severely punished four weeks ago but am facing a Christmas of even more severe punishment than I have endured since April when I asked to be disciplined. I am sure that Christmas will be a deservedly dreadful experience for me but I cannot even begin to comprehend how I will cope if I am to continue to receive discipline beyond this. Winifred you obviously managed eventually to end your disciplining this year how did you persuade your parents to do this? I am not trying to avoid being disciplined but would like to be able to be able to demonstrate I have learned my lessons appropriately. Whilst writing this is a punishment I hope I will help other young women behave appropriately to avoid such punishment, be able to serve as examples like myself if they are punished by sharing their humiliation or understand what they may face if they like me think they should receive discipline. I will post a list of my clothing items produced as part of my penance separately so that you can see what I may be confined to wearing and as my father suggested get suggestions as to what else may be appropriate for me to wear (and if possible make myself).

by Catherine Thu Dec 15 11:21:00 UTC 2011

To complete my sanctions from my last punishment weekend I list below those clothing items I have made as part of my penance over the last few months.
• Three V neck green jumpers
• Five Gingham pattern summer school dresses (3 green, 1 orange, 1 blue)
• Four V-neck school cardigans (1 grey, 1 navy, 1 green, 1 maroon)
• One cotton navy sailor dress with white collar
• One grey round neck knee length cardigan
• One long navy crew neck wool jumper
• Two white buttoned ¾ sleeve length jumpers (one plain, one arran)
• One knee length black tunic dress
• Four white Arran cardigan jackets
• One navy sailor dress from jersey material.
• Six pairs of wool knickers – (2 grey, 2 green, 2 navy )
• One grey ¾ sleeve length jumper with buttons at the back of the neck
• One pair of grey thumb less mitts.
• One ankle length grey canvas gown with a collar with buttons at the wrist and from hem to collar at the front
• One knee length thick grey worsted wool jacket
As you will be aware from above being obliged to dress using these items is one of the potential future sanctions I may face after my two weeks of discipline over Christmas and for which I will be departing shortly. As you can see if I were to be confined to wearing these even some of the time this would be restrictive and potentially humiliating. However if anyone has suffered such a restrictive clothing regime and can suggest additional items then my parents would I am sure be pleased to hear these and how effective they are or were.

by Catherine Fri Dec 16 16:14:19 UTC 2011

Catherine why you just don t get s p a n k e d?

by A Tue Dec 20 21:20:22 UTC 2011

Catherine the only advice I can give you is to share what I have done since I was placed under punishment in the summer for questioning my sister Bernadette’s disciplining. Firstly I accepted my punishment of reporting to my parents every weekend (when not working at the hospital) without question and being confined to the humiliation of wearing school uniform, being kept in detention, having my mouth washed with soap and water, spending time with my hands on my head as well as every weekend selecting to receive corporal punishment in front of my sisters as Bernadette’s behaviour didn’t improve ( and I preferred this to attending Church in uniform). This continued until Bernadette returned to University last October. The stupidity of my original challenge to her disciplining was exemplified by yet further ill discipline on her part which means that she will return to University in January subject to ongoing conditions like those, or perhaps worse, being considered for you by your parents. In addition I adjusted my behaviour immediately and continue to follow these norms when with my parents. From last summer I always wear a long dress or skirt when visiting their house and would say always ensure I am smart and presentable from their perspective. This is not my ideal and I have even subjected myself to the routine wearing of a twinset or collared blouse and cardigan to make clear my acceptance of their standards. I think this made it clear that I had accepted they were correct and so in October my punishment ended without any further restrictions. I do also now support the ongoing discipline of my sisters where they have deemed it appropriate and have accepted that I should still be subject to if appropriate. In your case I would suggest, although it may be too late, that you voluntarily submit to some of the dress restrictions proposed and also attempt to behave without fault during your punishment which sounds like it was going to be harsh over the holiday. Otherwise you probably risk further punishment – which is of course what you originally asked your parents to impose and by those criteria may need to accept you deserve.

by Winifred Thu Jan 05 16:20:07 UTC 2012

I think that I have managed to follow your advice Winifred although I only read it after completion of two very sobering weeks of disciplining over Christmas at my parents. For the first week I was confined to their unheated box room dressed in the ankle length grey canvas gown, knee length thick grey worsted wool jacket and grey wool knickers I had made with no changes. I was allowed to go to the toilet twice per day, slept on the floor and ate porridge and bread and water only. I spent the days either standing to attention or with my hands on my head or doing laborious tasks such as hours of sewing buttons onto thick canvas in a kneeling position. I left the house only once during this period to attend Church when thankfully I was permitted to wear a black tunic rather than the canvas gown. Every day I received either the cane or tawse to my behind or hands as punishment for my continuing failings. The second week if anything was even worse. I had to dress in an infant school uniform consisting of a green gingham dress with either a green V-neck jumper or green V-neck school cardigan all of which I have made or knitted as part of my punishments. The only occasion on which I was spared this was when I attended Church when I was spared uniform but still made to dress childishly in a navy sailor dress made from jersey material, a V-neck navy cardigan and a thick white Arran cardigan jacket. I was also very humiliatingly made to wear thumbless mitts. In addition my week was spent being treated in keeping with the way I was dressed. My father did not spare me from punishments he had gleaned from this site. I was made to ask permission to go to the toilet, spent long hours stood facing a wall with my hands on my head, had to write lines and was made to appear before anyone visiting the house as well as the many relatives who stayed with us. I deservedly also had to, as in the previous week, endure daily corporal punishment as part of my penance for my poor behaviour in the previous months with the added humiliation of it being administered in a way befitting my childish status. This meant every day I was bent over one of parents laps, except on one day always in front of other visitors as well, had my wool knickers stripped to my ankles and received a long and hard smacking administered by some combination of a clothes brush, hair brush, slipper and hand. The pain and humiliation was intense and the thought that it would be repeated the next day was always there even as an application was completed. However throughout the two weeks I meekly accepted all aspects of my punishment and complied exactly as directed.

by Catherine Fri Feb 10 17:06:46 UTC 2012

After the second week my further punishment was assigned based on the options my father had displayed at the end of October. The result of this is that I have to continue to report once per month to my parents for a weekend of discipline until at least the end of February by which time my performance ranking will have been confirmed. I attended again at the end of January and resolutely accepted my disciplining even when I was confined not to my old school uniform for the weekend but back into a gingham dress and cardigan although thankfully I was again spared this for Church attendance. All of my jeans, T shorts and training shoes have been donated to charity and under my mothers’ direction I have purchased from charity jobs some plainer clothing to wear. This means at all times, including to work, I now wear a longer than knee lengthy dress or skirt, a long sleeve collared blouse (or dress with similar characteristics), flat shoes and a long wool jumper or cardigan. Colours are mainly muted. I am thankfully now being allowed to grow my hair longer again although I have agreed to keep it plainly styled e.g. in a ponytail. To start with I hated this because I thought I would be laughed at but actually lots of my colleagues even compliment me on my clothing and appear more relaxed than when I was dressed in more stylish trouser suits. Perhaps given I am a biologist working with other biologists being dressed like I am today in a ankle length green corduroy skirt, blue blouse and a knee length brown woollen baggy polo necked sweater makes more like one of them. This is not to say that I like dressing this way. My other ongoing punishment is that I dress in infant’s school uniform at home – ankle socks, gingham dress and jumper or cardigan and continue to have to do dress making and knitting tasks. My parents check this by skyping me and also on occasion visiting me unannounced. This has ensured my compliance with what is a very enduring humiliation for me. Until last night I had not failed – unfortunately my mother arrived yesterday evening and although I was in uniform I did not have my cardigan properly buttoned. I am therefore being punished one item of which is to update the blog on my continuing punishment. In addition I was slippered across the hands last night, am to be smacked severely tonight, have to wear two extra cardigans as part of my uniform for the next week, wear a cardigan at all other times until my next punishment weekend and do three hours corner time this evening with my hands in thumbless mitts. In addition I will be punished again for this failure at my next punishment weekend as if I had not yet been disciplined.
As you can see therefore I am hopefully moving forwards but am still being kept focused on further improving both my work and behaviour.

by Catherine Fri Feb 10 17:07:55 UTC 2012

I still get switched if I don't behave appropriately like using bad language or drinking too much and I am 25. I live with my parents and although I don't like it accept it because I live in their house and also because I probably deserve it. I have always dressed plainly - dress, skirt, blouse and cardigan at work and home and don't feel ashamed by it. Thankfully I have never been obliged to dress like a schoolgirl which I am sure must be very humiliating.

by Jodie Tue Feb 14 22:23:37 UTC 2012

Catherine it sounds like your self imposed penance will at least have improved your performance at work and perhaps enabled you to be less self centric in your life. Bernadette has spent all of her time since the summer and will continue to so for months to come under similar conditions to yourself as a result of inappropriate relations with a man in addition to her previous transgressions. I thought my father may not even allow her to return to university but in the end allowed this. She is confined to wearing plain scond hand clothing, like yourself, and is living with the Entwistle's whilst at university. She is curfewed to the house by 6pm and whilst there has to wear her school uniform. She has to tell them exactly where she will be at all other times. She can only leave after 6pm if supervised which is only really to attend Evensong. She attends Bible reading classes and is on the Church cleaning rota for about five hours per week. The Entwistle's decide whether on a Sunday she attends Church in normal dress or uniform and they seem to have set in uniform as the norm. She is also subject to what I have to say is close, invasive and repetitive inspection of her room and clothing which I suppose is to be expected given her disgraceful behaviour. At Christmas she spent the whole vacation in school uniform whether at home, visiting or attending Church. She was not spared detention, extra housework, frequent application of soap and water to her mouth nor on occassion corporal punishment. She also knows this will continue until at least the summer and appears to be finally, as you now have, learning to comply. I hope your performance rating is OK and that your future disciplining will help maintain this. Although I have not enjoyed my punishments they have helped I am sure to establish my successful career - and I have come to accept that even now I should not be immune from appropiate penance as I am sure many other young women are.

by Winifred Fri Feb 17 15:25:44 UTC 2012

I am a 17 yr old girl. My parents are very strict in every aspect. I think i am too old for punishment. If i do anything wrong, they give me humiliating punishments. I am not allowed to wear anything during my punishment. My mom canes me making completely naked in my roof.. I cry very loudly. Many neighbours see the event and laugh at me. Mom canes me until my thigh and bottom portion becomes deep red. Then i have to kneel down about one hour without wearing anything.. Some of my friends video this event. Is all these normal to u? Plz suggest how to beas this...

by Avishikta Mon Mar 12 10:42:37 UTC 2012

avishkita, where r u from? which country?

by guest Thu Mar 22 02:25:15 UTC 2012

hi shreeya,
I feel very sorry for u.I think ur parents are very present what r u doing?

by guest Sat Apr 21 08:24:02 UTC 2012

As I posted a couple of months ago I still because I live with my parents get corporal punishment even though I am 25. So you do not feel that you are the only recipient of punishment I received my last application on Sunday after I came home slightly drunk and boisterous on Friday night. Having sobered up on Saturday morning I knew I would deservedly punished and my Pa as always ensured I was suitably sanctioned. Unfortunately he decided that my infringements were becoming too frequent and I therfore got more punishment than I had inspected. Ten strokes of the switch (detailed below), grounded for eight weeks and extra Bible classes on Friday evening and Saturday afternoon for the same time.
I spend the rest of Saturday confined to my room considering my misbehaviour as always and awaiting my switching the next day. On Sunday morning I had to go and select 4 fresh hickory switches and then tie them together. The ten strokes were applied in front of my brothers and sisters, as always to my bare behind, my skirt and pants having been stripped to my ankles. For the first time in a long time I also had to endure being made to stand facing the wall with my switched behind on show for 15 minutes. I then had to go direct to Chapel with the tear streaks still visible and moving gingerly. This meant has always that my punishment was quickly well known to most of the congregation. It was harsh but I deserved it and actually reading Catherine's and some of the other regimes I am glad my parents have not read this site as I think on this occassion my misbehavior would have meant I would be spending time in uniform and with many other sanctions.

by Jodie Thu May 03 20:19:10 UTC 2012

Hi all...I am studying for engineering first year.. my dad have seen this post i made and was very angry beyond limits... he didnt talked to me for 1 day.. and next day my dad and mom called me to the study room and asked me wat punishment i deserve to writing out the family discipline.. I didnt tell anything.. Then dad called my uncle and family and asked them to come home for lunch. When they reached i was called to the living room and dad explained my doing.. my uncle was also very furious after hearing this. he asked me to remove my churidar pants and panties.. then he raised my kurtha and tucked it in.. Then i was asked to bend on his lap. Dad came and spread my butt cheeks. Then uncle started thrashing my
a n u s with hand. then my aunt brought a soap from the bathroom and he pushed it inside
my a n u s. After this incident i was very afraid to open internet. Today my parents are gone out for a wedding reception and i also leraned to remove history of sites i visted.

by Shreaya Fri May 04 17:43:21 UTC 2012

Shreaya this is first of a kind punishment.No one has written of such a experience.Did uncle and aunty punished you in this matter before also

by guest Sun May 06 04:29:19 UTC 2012

About 18 months ago I had my niece post details of her previous and still ongoing discipline on this site both as a further penance for herself but also as an example to others of the benefits of strict discipline to young ladies whose behaviour is inadequate. Having just read some of the recent items here I think it is important to emphasise that punishment and discipline should not just be corporal punishment. My niece’s behaviour had been appalling over a prolonged period with consistent ill-discipline, drunken and disrespectful behaviour. Initially we applied restrictions to her going out and some limitations to how she dressed but eventually we applied a very rigorous regime of discipline to her which in effect meant she was treated like a school girl. As she further continued to fail to meet the new standards required she had to give up her secretarial job to improve her behaviour under a regime of tight and constant supervision. During this time she had to wear school uniform at all times consisting of elasticated school knickers, knee socks, blouse, tie, below knee length pinafore dress and at least one woollen cardigan. She did all of the housework and every day was spent confined to a box room performing a large tranche of school work made up of religious study (reading, writing dictation or having to copy Bible passages) in addition to writing lines and essays on her misbehavior and punishment and making uniforms and other plain clothes for herself. Only on a Sunday was she allowed from the house to attend Church again in school uniform. This was probably the most humiliating routine experience for her not least because she also sometimes had to wear a woollen beret and woollen jacket and mitts in matching uniform colors which made her predicament very clear to the rest of the congregation. In addition to wearing uniform and being in detention she was subject to many other restrictions as a matter of routine as well as being yet further punished for even minor transgressions. She was allowed to speak only when spoken to and had always to reply as succinctly as possible finishing with “Maam” or “Sir” as appropriate, had to ask permission to go to the toilet, had limited hygiene privileges and infrequent changes of her uniform. Her hair was worn in a ponytail and her scalp kept clear of any fringe. Due to her disgraceful and disrespectful language and lying she had her mouth washed with carbolic soap and water. She did also for many months receive corporal punishment regularly with an application of 8 strokes of the cane to the behind every Sunday and 2 strokes of the tawse to the palm and back of each hand on Wednesday. Throughout the many months of this disciplining if my niece failed to meet the required standards she was punished severely without exception receiving further corporal punishment, reductions to her limited privileges e.g. no supper, less toilet visits, more frumpy and uncomfortable uniform, wearing woollen mitts to bed , more lines and application of childish humiliations such as standing in the corner with her hands on her head for long periods to consider her failings and even having a pacifier in her mouth. In addition lack of compliance made the punishment last longer, in fact extending her overall punishment by several months, and that the conditions under which she would be allowed greater freedoms in the end were always reduced.

by guest Thu May 17 15:14:27 UTC 2012

Eventually, after some false dawns, her behaviour became appropriate and reliable. However she does now live with a more restricted set of conditions than would have been the case had she learnt her lesson immediately. If she had then she would have been, at least, still in her secretarial role, dressing in an appropriately modest long skirt or dress with a long sleeve blouse and top in colors of her choice, still performing a share of the housework and, with some limited control, freedom over when she went out and what she did.
Instead she is now working as a cleaner at the local shopping centre although she has moved from essentially being the junior cleaning the toilets to being the senior of the group of five cleaners directing what needs done over the last 18 months although still cleaning floors herself. She is obliged to dress in a plain pinafore dress, blouse and cardigan at all times – all of which she has made herself. All of the clothing she owned previously was donated to charity as part of her penance. She is subject to a curfew having to be at home by 9:30 on Monday to Saturday and 8:30 PM on Sunday and always having to account in advance who she may be meeting and where she is going. In addition she is forbidden drinking alcohol or smoking. We are also very mindful of what TV she is allowed to watch and is not permitted magazines of her own choosing.
I offer this because our experience with our niece has shown that although corporal punishment (not with the cruelty of the last but one post) has been an important part of her disciplining and correction it is probably not the most important element. I would recommend the use of clothing restriction or punishment. My niece would describe to you the unbearable humiliation of appearing even on limited in public in her school uniform and even now, when she is very accepting of it, the constant impact of her dressing conservatively and unstylishly at all times. In addition the use of other restrictions such as curfews or having to seek permission to go anywhere, have made her much more polite and respectful. She now demonstrates much greater self-discipline and of her own choice partakes in more worthwhile activities, perhaps not typical of someone her age, such as attending Bible study classes. Her behavior is not perfect but only twice in the last 18 months has she erred and in both cases this was dealt with in a very immediate and severe way with the necessary result in terms of both punishment and deterrence. There is a minimum set of punishments for any offence of which she is aware so that any temptation to misbehave is deterred. I would be happy to have my niece recount personally what she has learnt from her disciplining, the effects of particular punishments or to answer any specific queries others may have which help them to utilise these approaches as parents or guardians. I could also have her explain how even now any misbehaviour is dealt with if this would be helpful. Please let me know if this would be helpful.

by guest Thu May 17 15:14:56 UTC 2012

I would be very ineresteds in how you has achieved these improvements in your niece. Again last evenings my daughter Mohini,who is now 19, returned home late and was very insuboridante to my husband and I. We do discipline her even though she is now studying at colleges and no longer is in school. This includes making her stay in and caning. However she continues to be unrespectfuls and lazy so I would be interested in more details from your or your neice on how different punsihments may have more effectives.

by guest Wed May 30 16:00:11 UTC 2012

I apologise for my slow reply but I have been working overtime at work and assisting with Jubilee activities in the local community. My aunt has asked me to explain how I feel different aspects of my very severe punishments have helped to punish my misbehaviour and correct my future behaviour. I would say that the restrictions I have deservedly been subjected to could be separated into four. First the control of my clothing and appearance which has in my case included the severity of being confined to school uniform for long periods, second the imposition of humiliating experiences such as cornertime, having my mouth washed with soap, etc., thirdly corporal punishment and lastly the length of punishment and extension of this, There is no doubt that the first of these is the one which has punished me greatest and deservedly continues to do so and continues to ensure my compliance with appropriate standards. I am sure it is obvious how humiliating it is in your twenties to be made to make and then wear school knickers, shirt, tine, pinafore dress and cardigan all the time and worst of all in public. Even now when I am confined to wearing school knickers, shirt, pinafore and long cardigan in plain colours with no make-up or jewellery and my hair in a bun, ponytail or pigtails, the feeling of restriction and discipline never leaves me and this confirms even to me my need to comply and behave. The use of restrictions is not as continuous but at the time as the sufferer both unbearably humiliating and physically uncomfortable – if you apply such punishments your daughters will I am sure confirm the discomfort of standing for two hours with their hand on their head with their nose pressed to the wall in front of other people. Corporal punishment surprisingly is less effective but I would not claim that it is ineffective. I have endured caning, the strap or tawse, slipper, martinet and being slapped by hand. The pain is effective but the sheer loss of personal control is even more humiliating particularly when the punishment is administered in front of others. Finally the extension in severity and length of punishment in my case been deployed without mercy and hence three and half years after my original sanctioning I continue to dress very plainly and live under a very tight and deserved set of restrictions. I hope this helps others to consider how to discipline other girls like myself who demonstrate a lack of self-discipline. I continue, in addition to my ongoing sanctions, to be severely punished if I err in any way and I will be happy display both the minimum punishment I receive for any offence and if it would help how I have actually been punished on the two occasions I have misbehaved over the last 18 months

by guest Fri Jun 15 22:05:38 UTC 2012

i would be pleaseds to learn your punsihments now as these might set standard for disciplining Mohini even if all of uniforms is not easily availables here

by guest Fri Jun 22 03:11:04 UTC 2012

The minimum punishment for any offence which I commit covers the range of restrictions which have been used across my period of disciplining – namely clothing restrictions, humiliatory punishments, corporal punishment and extension of punishment. The minimum punishment for any offence, which thankfully I have only triggered twice in the last 18 months, is as follows. I am placed in school uniform at all times except when at work or going to and from work. As a minimum this consists of old style large school knickers (which I wear at all times as part of my clothing), ankle or knee socks, shirt, tie, pinafore dress reaching below my knees, round or V-necked woollen school cardigan. My exact uniform is specified by my guardians. I wear as a minimum a grey ankle length gown buttoning high to the neck to bed. I must do all of the housework. I must serve a minimum of 1 hour per day of corner-time or other positional punishment Monday-Saturday and 2 hours on Sunday. I am, except for going to work, grounded and when not doing the housework I am confined to the study room under detention conditions. I must spend my time completing a laborious workload of school work consisting of writing lines and essays on my misbehavior and punishment and performing needlework (making of school uniform including knitted woollen items and other plain clothing). I have to attend Church in my uniform which as ever is a mortifying experience.
For any offence I receive a minimum of eight strokes of the cane to my bare behind usually the day after my offence so that I endure the discomfort of thinking about what I am to receive. Finally any offences requiring application of this minimum deterrent mean any further even minor reduction in my existing restrictions is postponed by several months or longer.
I find this minimum punishment a continuing deterrent to misbehaviour and strive to avoid any misbehaviour which could result in its deserved application. I would also point out that on the two occasions in the last 18 months when I have misbehaved I have very deservedly received more than this minimum punishment and again would be willing to share my exact punishments and offences if this would be helpful.

by guest Mon Jun 25 16:13:27 UTC 2012

It would be good to hears of your punishments. I have collected some uniform items in case we wants to use these - shirts, tie, tunics og large size to get below knee length and I can get holds of cardigans if needed. Not sure whether to as first step stop Mohini's wearings of western style such as jeans and T-shirts or make her dress more traditionally at all times in full sari or langa - could add cardigans to these which would however be very uncomfortables because of the temperatures. Or have her wear school uniform at least some of time.

by guest Wed Jun 27 13:45:24 UTC 2012

how longs is your punishments as a minimum?

by guest Thu Jun 28 08:02:42 UTC 2012

When minimum punishment is applied it is for at least two weeks. Following this the clothing restrictions alone apply for a further two weeks as a minimum. This means although I am no longer grounded I would have to wear school uniform if I went out which obviously I avoid. Of course I still endure the horrendous humiliation of attending Church and Bible class in school uniform. I will post the punishments I have recived in full later. Despite my suffering I would encourage you to be severe at the start in dealing with discipline. If I had been uniformed three and a bit years ago I am sure I would not have required such longevity of punishment nor would be enduring the continuing, even though deserved, sanctions I am living under. Today when it has been 28 degrees in the UK and very humid I have been dressed in a shirt, long pinafore and a knee length grey cardigan as well as my nylon cleaners tabard and have been cleaning floors and toilets. I have arrived home my clothing soaked in sweat but that is part of my continuing penance for my indiscipline and I would recommend you do not spare ypur daughter this.

by guest Thu Jun 28 21:56:35 UTC 2012

As promised I have written out the details of my full punishment for the two occasions on which I have misbehaved over the last 18 months. In both cases I received more than the minimum. I will therefore first display the minimum again and then detail the additions I received and why. Minimum punishment is wearing of school uniform, consisting of old style large school knickers, ankle or knee socks, shirt, tie, long pinafore dress and school cardigan, at all times except when at work or going to and from work. Grey ankle length thick cotton gown to bed. Perform all housework. One hour per day of corner-time Monday-Saturday and 2 hours on Sunday. Grounded, except for going to work and attendance at Church. Confined to the study room under detention conditions writing lines and essays on my misbehavior and punishment and making school uniform except when performing housework. Eight strokes of the cane to my bare behind. Punishment lasts two weeks followed by a further two weeks during which clothing restrictions, including wearing of school uniform, remain in place. Of course any further lenience in my existing restrictions is postponed and restrictions may be stiffened.
My first offence was when I was seen wearing my hair down when returning one evening by a neighbour and she reported this to my Aunt. The next day I stupidly denied having done this when challenged which made my position even worse. I was therefore punished for not wearing my hair as directed, lying to my guardians and showing poor discipline to others. Due to the nature of and the multiple offences I knew I would not receive the minimum sanctions and agreed with my Aunt and Uncle that further punishment was appropriate having had an hour of corner time to consider my failures. The additional sanctions were as follows:
a) Hair to be worn in pig tails at all times including to work and my hairline to be cut back a further half inch across my forehead to help reduce my vanity about my appearance
b) Wool beret or hat to be worn at all times when outside (this made me stand out as it was May) together with thumbless mitts to reduce my temptation to fiddle with my hair
c) Mouth washed out with soap and water every evening before bed to deter lying
d) Twelve strokes of the cane rather than eight due to my multiple offences
e) Punishment to last 3 weeks and clothing restrictions to apply for a further three weeks

by guest Fri Jun 29 15:58:54 UTC 2012

My second offence was to arrive home ten minutes after my 10 PM curfew on a Friday evening, not being to my Aunt’s satisfaction able to account for where and whom I had been with and then being surly and impertinent in answering her questions. I was sent to bed and the next morning I knew that I would face serious consequences. I had two hours with my hands on my head to consider my stupidity in being late and even worse my poor attitude having been so. The punishment assigned was deservedly significantly more than the minimum.
a) Minimum of cardigan and waistcoat to be worn at all times – additional discomfort.
b) Grey wool nightgown to be worn to bed – discomfort.
c) Work clothing to be selected by my Aunt and this was full school uniform on some occasions. To make an example of me and deter people from wanting to spend time with me outside of work. This meant on several occasions (up to two or three times per week) I was cleaning the shopping centre toliets or floors in public in a shirt, tie, pinafore and school cardigan and waistcoat covered only by my nylon tabard. This was a very severe lesson.
d) Two hours corner time or other positional punishment Mon-Sat and three hours on Sunday. If I was going to waste others time then I would have mine wasted.
e) Mouth washed out with soap and water every evening. No Sunday lunch instead to stand with a bar of carbolic soap in my mouth and hands on my head – including in front of guest if present. Deter me from lying and being impertinent.
f) Spend large proportion of detention writing lines on how to tell the time as would a seven year old. E.g. when the little hand is at 3 and the big hand is at 12 the time is 3 o’clock. I deserve to write this out 600 times so that I can tell the time like a 23 year old and not a five year old. Believe me this was a humiliating sanction when done for many weeks.
g) Sent to bed (unless where my work shift did not allow) at 7 PM Monday-Thursday and 6PM Friday-Sunday always without supper. Underline that if I was returning to childish behaviour I would be treated like a child. This was done in front of visitors to the house if present which was very humiliating – being made to stand hands on head in my wool nightgown explaining why I deserved to be sent to bed so early.
h) Twelve strokes of the cane due to the multiple offences. Smacking every Sunday by hand, slipper and hairbrush across my behind. To teach me if I behaved like a child I would be punished like one. This was sometimes done in front of visitors which was horrendous.
i) Punishment to last 4 weeks and clothing restrictions for a further six weeks.
In addition post this my curfew time was reduced from 10 PM to 9 PM and has remained so since. As you can I hope see I have been punished severely and this does mean I strive to avoid misbehaving versus the already very restricted freedoms I have. As in my previous post I hope this is useful and would recommend that strictness rather than lenience initially will work best. I am sure my Aunt would be happy to advise further.

by guest Fri Jun 29 16:01:50 UTC 2012

many thanks for sharings your punishments and I hopes they will stops you from any further misbehaviours. We now have school uniform collected but have decided that having to wear this at alltimes would be very severes. If Mohini's behaviours slips again then she will be wearing this at homes and be made to dress conservativelys to college and outside the house. My Mama has given me some long old cardigans which will help this.

by guest Sat Jul 07 14:42:21 UTC 2012

I would recommend, and hopefully you can see from my niece's posts who has been punished, that it is best to start severely. I would not hold back from the imposition of uniform and other restrictions at all times. In addition if your daughter has already misbehaved then you should start punishment when you want. One thing which enforces the punishment is that additional sanctions may be applied at anytime even without further transgressions. This loss of control is part of the punishment.

by guest Fri Jul 20 21:36:32 UTC 2012

Mohinis is now being punished after further bad attitudes and disrespects. She is not in uniforms all the time but is at home which she is already after two days finding very humiliatings. She is in blue tunic, white shirt, tie, blue socks and navys cardigan with badge and she is very self consciouses. She had to wear this when receiving 12 strokes of malacca cane in front of family. To college she is wearings sari with long sleeve undergarment which is not nice for her versus her jeans and short skirts. In addition she has to wear long old cardigans has suggested which she has found terrible. Also told her she must keep buttoned or get furters punishments. My Mama is helping to supervise Mohinis behaviours and she has already benn given Murgah and further cane strokes.

by guest Tue Jul 31 21:42:34 UTC 2012

It is a while since I last wrote here thankfully because although I have been following a more work focused and less exhuberant lifestyle I have not been subject to the regular punishments which my poor work performance necessitated. However as agreed when my conditions were slackened in March yesterday I informed my parents of my recent interim review. I thought it had gone OK and that it looks like I will be ranked as Performing again this year. My father however asked why I had not moved into Excelling to which I had many answers but I have to admit none of them compelling particularly when he queried my degree of effort and focus and how poor I might have been without the ongoing reminders I still receive such as dressing plainly and found my failure to instigate all aspects fully. I am therefore to report on Friday for a punishment weekend for a) Failing to improve my performance to date during 2012, b) Failing to self-discipline myself to improve performance and c) Attempting to avoid and failing to seek discipline as at least punishment for my work failings. I already know I will most likely be back in my school uniform again and that as well as the weekend my need for additional punishment for the remainder of the year will be determined. In part this is why I am writing here because on Friday I have to present 6-8 additional punishments which could be applied to me which I have not already received and seeking input from others via this site is my first punishment. Given the many deserved punishments I received last year I am struggling to identify other forms and I know if I fail to do so I will be further punished. I have so far identified from punishments others have shared on this site i) Wearing of infant school uniform in public, ii) Murgah punishment which I think is a positional punishment and iii) having to knit and then wear a one piece restrictive woollen undergarment – which I am sure was horrendous. If anyone who has either received or applied other novel punishments to deal with undisciplined individuals like myself I would be grateful to receive your input even if they are not major. It is also likely that you can assume I will have to endure much of what may be proposed.

by Catherine Mon Aug 06 10:04:42 UTC 2012

in order for you to be properly disciplined you needs to be living at home so you can be disciplined and dressed appropriately when not at work and made to dress as necessarys to work. if Mohinis was not living at home then we would not be ables to be as strict as necessarys to improve her behaviours. One other punishment my mama has imposed as Mohini took off her cardigans when at college when told not to is that everyday she has to sew the hems of her cardigan to her sari with bright coloured wools and also sew the two sides of her cardigan around the buttons together before going to college. This stops her taking off cardigan as well as attracting attention to her so she must explains why she is punished. If she were to remove cardigans again it would be obvious and then she knows she will be sent to college in her school uniforms which she does not want. This could be suitables restriction for you when going to works but does need you to be supervises. I am sure others will have ideas how a misbehaved and lazy girl like you can be punisheds.

by guest Wed Aug 08 19:56:53 UTC 2012

There are many additional punishments which you could be made to endure depending on whether the aim is to improve your behaviour and respectfulness at all costs or simply to improve your work performance. If it is the former then confinement to school uniform for work would seem appropriate or even more severe finding a different job, involving less mangement of others and challenging technical content which you are finding difficult but no doubt enjoy, such as an administrative job or in extreme the type of cleaning job which one of the other posters has found herself. If the aim is the latter then the punishments cannot really impact you at work. In that case since your penances to date are not sufficient perhaps the application of corporal punishment in public would teach you a lesson or limiting the time you spend on leisure activities more and this time instead being spent cleaning the Church or helping a charity suitably palinly dressed or perhaps even full uniformed.

by guest Fri Aug 10 07:56:17 UTC 2012

There are many additional punishments which you could be made to endure depending on whether the aim is to improve your behaviour and respectfulness at all costs or simply to improve your work performance. If it is the former then confinement to school uniform for work would seem appropriate or even more severe finding a different job, involving less mangement of others and challenging technical content which you are finding difficult but no doubt enjoy, such as an administrative job or in extreme the type of cleaning job which one of the other posters has found herself. If the aim is the latter then the punishments cannot really impact you at work. In that case since your penances to date are not sufficient perhaps the application of corporal punishment in public would teach you a lesson or limiting the time you spend on leisure activities more and this time instead being spent cleaning the Church or helping a charity suitably plainly dressed or perhaps even full uniformed.

by guest Fri Aug 10 07:56:29 UTC 2012

30 years ago even girl's of your age who sinned would have had discipline perfomed within the Church community in the US. These tended for sins versus the commandments rather than work performance although clearly your idleness and disrespect for your parents requests of you could be viewed that way. At the severe end as well as being uniformed in a plain gown and wool jacket you might have been switched in front of the congregation. This was sometimes for offences neyond yours with a multiple stemmed instrument like a birch. At the less severe, but still shaming end, you could have been made to wear a card around your neck detailing your sins at all times when at Church. For younger girls in their late teens or early twenties who frequently helped with Sunday School and Bible classes for younger children a favored punsihment was to have to attend these classes for a young age group, normally in school uniform or appriately chlildish Sunday best and have to stand facing a wall with hands on head or even be made to stand on a chair wiht hands on head for whole lessons as well as having to describe thier falings and punishment. There is little of this type of discipline still practised even here but may be suitable in your case.

by guest Fri Aug 10 14:35:32 UTC 2012

My weekend has been a very humiliating experience but has highlighted my need to decide if I am prepared to take the degree of supervision to make the most of my ability. I will post what I was subject to, and deservedly so, as that is part of my punishment whatever I decide next. I thank those who suggested punishments some of which I was subject to.

by Catherine Sun Aug 12 21:31:10 UTC 2012

My last weekend was a harsh reminder of the consequences of not trying to maximize my performance another lesson due to my own stupidity. My Friday evening began by my father telling me again why I was subject to another discipline weekend for the first time since February. Firstly failing to improve my performance this year, secondly not self-disciplining myself to improve my performance and lastly when challenged last weekend trying to avoid discipline and worse still not proactively seeking discipline for my lack of meeting expectations at work. I was shocked by the heightened level of humiliations which I outline as part of my punishment
Friday evening
I was not surprised that I was to be confined to school uniform, although I had hated the thought for the previous week, but I had not prepared for what I was to wear. My father said that the wearing of my well crafted private school uniform was too much of a privilege and was too senior given my continuing misbehaviour. Instead I was sent upstairs to dress in the junior school uniform of one of the local state schools – nylon large white pants, nylon brown ankle socks, yellow checked short sleeved dress buttoned from neck to hem and a brown V-neck acrylic cardigan with the school badge on. Dressed in this scratchy and exceedingly humiliating uniform I then received the list of restrictions I was to endure all weekend
1) Eight strokes of the cane to my bare behind immediately and three strokes of the strap to the palm and back of each hand.
2) Smacking by hand, slipper, hair brush to my bare behind on Saturday in front of visitors if present
3) Mouth to be washed out with soap and water before bed every night
4) Attend Church in my infant’s uniform
5) Attend infant’s Sunday school and be made an example of.
6) Confined to detention including work exercise and knitting and dress making
7) No change to uniform and limited hygiene privleges
Caned and strapped, mouth washed out with soap and water.
Sent to bed dressed in my nylon pants and a flowery nylon full length night dress.
Cross country in school PE kit of nylon brown PE skirt and yellow acrylic polo shirt.
Into my school uniform without a shower.
Porridge for breakfast .
Lines, “I deserve to dress in infant’s school uniform as my behaviour is that of an infant” 480 times.
After a lunch of potatoes, beef and vegetables my father set a project planning challenge for my work which lasted 2 hours. After this I was called downstairs and in front of my 20 year old cousin was smacked by hairbrush, slipper then hand over my father’s knee after which I had to stand facing the wall for 45 minutes hands on head and my school dress pulled up. Then sent back to the box room to start knitting a single fully body undergarment as suggested here by someone.
After two and a half hours of this brought downstairs for review of my performance in the work exercise. I had learnt a lot from it because my folks are very skilled in some of this but was not surprised to be told that I could have done this better.
Told to go upstairs and dress in my nylon nightdress and report back for punishment for my inadequacies.
Sentenced to do my morning PE in my full school uniform, 10 strokes of the cane to be performed the next morning before Church and as recommended here to wear a sign around my neck saying, “I am a naughty girl and deserve to be punished”.
My mouth was washed out with carbolic soap and I was sent to bed at 7:30..
Cross country in full uniform of dress and cardigan and no shower afterwards.
Porridge for breakfast .
Lines – “I deserve to attend Church and Sunday School in infants schoolgirl uniform because of my immature, lazy and poor behaviour.” 200 times. Confinement to my sweaty nylon uniform was indeed a punishment particularly as it was warm in the box room.
Ten strokes of the cane administered just befor

by Catherine Thu Aug 16 10:09:25 UTC 2012

Attended Church with my parents in my uniform but with my sign in a bag. Made to explain my predicament to numerous people. Taken to the 5-9 year old Sunday school group and Mrs. Luckhurst told by my mother to make of an example of me as she sees fit. I was sent to stand facing the room wall before being made to explain why I find myself in this position. Then Mrs. Luckurst tells me to bend over so she can show how I have been caned which I didn’t comply with immediately and questioned in an inappropriate manner. I was thus made to bend over and display my cane stripes and then made to stand on a chair for the remainder of the session with my card around my neck and hands on head. My misbehaviour was reported to my mother.
On return home assigned further punishment in front of my Aunt and Uncle who had been invited over to accentuate my existing punishment. Punishment
1) Eight strokes of the cane administered immediately
2) No lunch instead had to stand at the kitchen table with a bar of soap in my mouth and hands on my head.
3) To stand for the remainder of the day when working with my card around my neck.
4) Write letter of apology to Mrs. Luckhurst including how I have been punished and ask her if she would like any further penances to be imposed.
5) Additional punishment after the weekend to be assigned for my repeated insolence.
I was sent back to detention with an assignment to generate a Work Force Plan for team. I hadn’t done this before so thoroughly or professionally and it was interesting and useful. Three hours further knitting whilst my mother reviewed my assignment.
Summoned to living room where as on the previous day I learnt that despite my best efforts on the Workforce plan it was still far from exemplary. I was again deservedly punished but at least this exercise has taught me something and shown what I can improve with the right coaching and incentive to learn. In front of Aunt and Uncle I received another childish smacking with my hairbrush and then by hand over my father’s knee. It is so humiliating not least because it was done with such rigour that I was left weeping as I had to stand facing the wall for 30 minutes hands on head with my pants around my ankles.
Finally my performance over the weekend was reviewed. My father concluded that in addition to my sub optimal work assignments which showed why I was ranked as I was and needed additional training, I had shown a continued non-acceptance of need for punishment as well as be insolent at Sunday School.
My father said that I could either return to a regime of monthly punishment weekends and my own restrictions of wearing plain clothes, etc. as a minimum but that he does not believe that simply wearing a long skirt and cardi will be sufficient to improve my performance and in fact may hinder it. If I really wish to improve he suggests that I move back home (my tenancy is up in 4 weeks time) where I can be kept under a continuous framework which would include discipline particularly initially as punishment for my failings but which would not be applied in anyway when going to work (which I could commute to in 45 minutes). So I have decide by the Bank Holiday weekend which option to pursue and to focus my mind the longer I take to decide the more severe will be the initial punishments.
In the meantime, after three strokes of the strap to each hand and having my mouth rewashed with soap and water, I was sent home still confined to my infant’s uniform with the following sanctions to be completed.
• Complete knitting of my woollen undergarment and then knit another one.
• Post my punishments by today on the blog.
• Rewrite my work assignments by hand 3 times.
• Attend Church every Sunday.

I would like to thank those who suggested discipline options and as you can see they were used. I am not sure what course to follow next but know that either will help improve my performa

by Catherine Thu Aug 16 10:32:16 UTC 2012

This is a brief update to complete one of my punishments assigned on the August Bank Holiday weekend. I decided eventually to move back to my parents, commute to work and accept a more disciplined regime which will hopefully further my work performance. Thankfully this means at work I am now dressed more stylishly although my wardrobe is still somewhat limited due to the donation of many of my preferred clothes to charity as part of my punishment last year. Anyway at least today I am wearing a trouser suit, make-up and jewelry and I am sure this relaxation is helpful in raising my work profile. Of course my conditions at home are exactly the opposite in that my freedom is minimal and I am, as I knew I would be, confined to uniform at all times. My punishment is however, at least at this stage, even more humiliating than I had forseen when choosing this route. This is because I am, in addition to being confined to a uniform, being treated in a manner in keeping with this uniform and spending my time doing tasks which will improve my work performance, receiving punishment for my previous offences and misbehaviour in my punishment weekend before the Bank Holiday. I know that until the outcome of my next performance review I will be confined to school uniform at all times when at home, the least humiliating form of which would be my old school uniform, do my share of the house work, grounded when not at work, at other times effectively be in detention doing either punishment essays or lines or work exercises, attend Church on Sunday uniformed, be treated commensurate with my uniform and have to behave as such e.g. always addressing others as Sir,Maam or Miss, appear before guests, go to bed at 9 PM latest on weekdays and 8 PM latest Friday to Sunday. In addition of course my actions and behaviour are reviewed and any failings will be dealt with via stringent discipline. As stated due to my previous ill-discipline my current conditions are deservedly more humiliating and one punishment is to describe these publically. When I return home in an hour I will therefore be uniformed in the nylon and acrylic local school infant’s uniform I have described previously. This is a yellow checked dress, brown ankle socks and cardigan. My hair is kept in pig tails. I am given ample corner time every day and at weekends I am sent to bed no later than 6PM. I am not spared the indignity, as it was last Saturday, of this being done in front of visitors. Confined to an ankle length yellow and pink nighty I was sent to bed at 5:30PM in front of my younger cousin – very humiliating. I am sent to Sunday School as a continuing penance for my insolence when sent there five weeks ago. I continue to receive 12 strokes of the cane before we go to Church on Sunday which ensures I am publically very meek and chastised both at Communion as well as Sunday School. In addition the humiliation of a weekly childish smacking is applied at a time of my parents choosing. These additional punishments will continue until at least the end of this month assuming my behaviour is exemplary at which point they will be reviewed. After this any movement to less childish or uncomfortable school uniform and conditions will be determined by my performance and compliance of my behaviour. However my father has said this will be slower than had I decided immediately to move back home. Anyway as I know you will be unlikely to see my continuing shame at St. Marks you can see that I have not chosen the least painful route.

by Catherine Fri Sep 14 15:27:11 UTC 2012

I am sures Ctherines if your reactions to your punishments is like Mohinis you will very quickly work harder and behaves better. Mohini is already much more respectfuls and works harder even though only punsihed for 8 weeks. As well as uniforms at home, plain clothings to college and gorunding and work my Mama ensures she gets disciplines for any failings - i recommend same approaches to your parents. She is still made to sew her cardigans to sari every day now for six weeks which is humiliatings and tedious and this will continues for at least another 2-3 weeks. Whenn she was not respectfuls before going to temple my Mama made her go in her school uniform which she found humiliatings but the thought of having to do this again has certainly made her more compliants. You must finds going to Church in infants uniform very severes.My Mamas also imposes regular murgah and if you not been made to do this i am sure your parents could find out what it is on internet. This physically very uncomfortables even if perhaps not as humiliatings as being made to stand in corner with hands on head or shoulders like child. It is good you is made to display your sanctions and hope others can learn from them like we was able two from other posters.

by guest Fri Sep 21 14:20:02 UTC 2012

In the early 1970s having left school at age 16 I still lived at home with my parents. I did not receive punishments as severe as some of those described here but was made to wear my school uniform as a punishment for misbehaviour, poor attitude or even lack of effort at work. This meant spending weekends or even all the time when not of work uniformed. This was less than childish than some of those cited but still very humiliating. I had to wear a white blouse, the striped school tie, grey pinafore with a pleated skirt, white knee socks and a blue blazer. By the time I was 20 still being made to dress like this when I misbehaved was a severe punishment. I was normally confined to the house as well and obviously didn't want to go out anyway. However I was still taken to visit firends with my parents and like some of the other writers endures Church attendance uniformed. I was not alone in being punished in this manner and at least two other girls in the typing pool we all worked in were similarly disciplined. Becuase it was a small town the manager of the firm we worked in and the senior secretary who managed the typing pool knew our parents and so on occassion if we were lax at work or messed around this was fedback to our parents and we were punished. On a few occassions I arrived at Church on a Sunday having been uniformed on A Friday to find some of my friends also dressed in the same way. These punishments normally lasted only two or three days but once when I had been out smoking and drinking and been informed on for some sloppy attitude at work I spent three weeks in uniform and had to go to Mrs Walker's (typing pool leader) house in uniform and apologise. Like many other young girl's of my age at that time I did of course receive corporal punishment - normally slipper or cane - when my behaviour merited it. By the time I was about 22 these types of discipling ended so what this young lady above has elected to experience must be very humiliating - and I would guess no longer widespread. I would say that although I did not enjoy my punishment it did keep me in line so was probably appropriate.

by Margaret Fri Oct 05 12:14:01 UTC 2012

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by guest Sun Oct 07 21:15:43 UTC 2012

I am a 22 years old girl and still live at home. I get punished frequently by my father, because I know I need it and in fact enjoy it. Almost each day I go to my father and say:" Please, dad, I was a bad girl and need to be punished.Would you be so kind as to punish me?" He would say:" Go up to your room and wait for me and make yourself ready for punishment!" I go up then and undress completely, and climb up the punishment chair . I am aroused already and wait impatiently for him to come up and start my punishment. After a few minutes he would come up, holding a strap and a cane in his hands. First of all he would hit me on my bare bottom 5 times with the cane. Then he would sit on the chair himself and I go over his knees . Then he caresses pinches and fondles my bare bottom for about 10 min. and would also trace the stripes on my bare buttocks with his fingertips . During this busyness I feel his hard on pressing into my belly . Then he would smack my bottom with his right hand for about 5 min. After that he again caresses and pinches and strokes my bare buttocks, playing with them. I would say:" Is my bottom really hot and red? Do you enjoy playing with it? If you want, you can smack it again to make it hotter and softer." Normally he would give me another five or 10 smacks and then continue patting and stroking my red and hot bottom cheeks for a while and say:" You have a marvellous bottom now, so big and smooth, red and hot!" I would respond:" Glad you like it. You may do with my bottom whatever you want. If you want to smack it again, smack it, if you want to play with it, play with it in whatever way. Do you want me to push it out more, to make it more convenient for you to play with it?"
Then I would climb down from his lap, and I'm very wet at my p. then. His trousers bulge out enormously at the front side. He would say:" I think, we need to pleasure ourselves now." Then he goes to his room, and I start to pleasure myself for some hours, one hand rubbing on my hot bottom, the other one working at my wet and hot p.

by guest Wed Oct 24 14:25:24 UTC 2012

It is several months since I last posted here and it appears there have been some very undesirable additions. However since I have been told as part of my punishment to display this here I will do so. Since last September I have been living back with my parents. During this time I have been able to dress as I wish at work whilst at home I have been subject to a very strict and rigorous regime of work and punishment including wearing of school uniform with the aim of improving my performance at work. This regime has ensured I have been punished for my past laziness and shown what continuing inadequate application will result in. Since last September I have accepted and conformed in all aspects to the wearing of uniform which stared with a yellow checked dress, brown ankle socks and cardigan in nylon and acrylic from a local primary school and the many other punishments and limitations. These have included doing my share of the house work, being grounded when not at work, spending many hours in detention doing either punishment essays or work exercises, attending Church on Sunday in uniform, as well as being treated and having to behave in keeping with my deserved status as a school child such as addressing others as Sir,Maam or Miss, being sent to bed early (no later than 9 pm on weekdays and 8 pm Friday to Sunday). After some initially even more stringent sanctions in the weeks from September due to my previous misbehaviour which included corporal punishment and Sunday School attendance my complete compliance as prevented further punishments and has meant for the last five weeks I have been allowed to wear my old school uniform rather than some of the less comfortable uniform I wore before Christmas. This consists of navy knee socks, navy knickers, pale blue shirt, tartan school tie, blue and green tartan tunic, green V neck school jumper and green school blazer with addition of the green school hat when going outside. I don’t know whether it is that I should get my work performance ranking in the next ten days but yesterday for the first time in months failed to meet the rules. I have had some correction applied to improve some aspects of my written work in recent months but not for willful failure to comply with uniform or behavioural norms. I am really hoping that I will get an Excellent rating at work as I know other than the personal disappointment I will deservedly be punished and then we will have to decide if there are others things which might help me improve. Anyway this does not excuse my uniform failure yesterday of having my blazer undone and then when further inspected having shirt buttons not done up and which I then followed with bad language and speaking without due respect. My punishment was even more severe than I expected as a reminder that the fact I had behaved compliantly for a while did not spare me from sanctions when I misbehaved. From tonight when I return from work I am to receive the following additional punishments:
1) Wear local secondary school uniform until of white knee socks, grey pinafore, yellow shirt, school tie, green cardigan, green blazer at all times including in public when not at work
2) Pink thumbless mitts to be worn at night and whenever I do not need use of my hands
3) Mouth to be washed out with soap and water before bed every night. Stand with bar of soap in my mouth during evening meal every evening for the next week.
4) Twelve strokes of the cane to my behind this evening. Four strokes of the belt to the palm and back of each hand three times per week.
5) Minimum of two hours corner time per day.
6) Bed at latest 7:00 pm week and 5:30 pm weekend.
7) Cut-off and resew the buttons on my school shirt and blazer on my knees for a minimum of one hour per day
8) Punishment to be reviewed in two weeks time.
As ever the sanctions are deserved and appropriate to my failures and I hope as always my example may be of use to others. I obviously hope tha

by Catherine Thu Feb 07 13:07:18 UTC 2013

Catherine I'm not surprised you have to be continually corrected as you haven't even managed to complete your full article in this case. Perhaps a bit longer under these unbelievable sanctions is what you need.

by guest Tue Mar 12 10:33:19 UTC 2013

Rest assured that I have not escaped sanction for this mistake or even more importantly my failure to achieve my targeted performance ranking at work. The system changes did make it harder to "Excel" than in previous years but after a couple of weeks self-consideration this was really no excuse for my failure to make the grade. As of Monday I have agreed to resubmit myself to an even more rigorous regime to help me make the grdae during 2013. As part of this I am also deservedly being punished for my failure to meet the required standards in 2012. I am therefore back in school uniform 24_7 except when at work, wearing the woollen undergarments I knitted a year ago when at work so that I am constantly reminded of my need to work harder, grounded when not at work, subject to the array of childish sanctions I have described previously including public appearence in uniform every Sunday at Church and finally a minimum of twice weekly corporal punishment. These will remain my minimum sanctions until at least my mid year review in August. This will give me plenty of time to consider the consequences of mis previous laziness and lack of application. I am of course in receipt of further punishment for any further transgressions or perceived or actual lack of effort such as the posting error you pointed out. To demonstrate the increased severity of my regime for that I was caned 8 times across the behind and am now receiving 6 strokes of the tawse to my hands twice per week for the next two weeks. As well as having to rewrite the full post long hand twice every day for two weeks, stand at my desk at all times in the detention room, an hour of corner time hands on head every day and no supper again for two weeks.

by Catherine Wed Apr 03 13:25:20 UTC 2013

I sometimes gets made to wear my school uniform at weekends and in evenings and of couse get cane and murgah for bad behavious. I cannot imagines suffering punishments described by Catherine which seems very long and severes. Maybe this is more typicals in UK even for young women?

by guest Fri Apr 12 16:03:36 UTC 2013

I don't think so. We live in Birmingham and despite being eighteen I am still made to wear my old school uniform and do extra study work if my college results are thought unsatisfactory by my parents. I do not think any of the other girls are punsihed like this and some of their behaviour when drunk is awful.

by guest Tue Apr 30 20:59:30 UTC 2013

I though our family was the only one who did this. This weekend I will be in school uniform due to poor results on my Text Processing Diploma course. My father was furious and more so due to my disrespectful reaction. I am 19 but live at home so I have to accept it. This means when I get home in an hour or so I will be wearing my old school uniform (actually my sisters as she is taller than me which means her's is still actually a bit big for me). It is horrible with white knee socks, yellow blouse, school tie, green tunic and a brown cardigan with the school emblem on. To make it worse the weather is beautiful but I know that except for going to the Temple I will be confined to my room doing written lines. My father says if I cannot make the effort to learn to type properly then I can practice my handwriting to encourage me to try harder. I am hoping that I will not have to go to the Temple in school uniform. After I'm home I am also going to get given additional punishment for my disrespectful behaviour and attitude. This could be mouth washing, murga, further grounding, more housework or at worst the strap. Although it doesn't help me it is good to know I am not unique. I can't imagine taking Catherine's punishments - as I say the thought of maybe having to go to the Temple this weekend in my uniform is terrible let alone having to attend Church weeka after week in what is clearly an even more immature uniform.

by guest Fri May 03 15:35:03 UTC 2013

Njan 3 girls nte moolam nakkiyittundu.a big story

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by nithin d Mon Nov 04 05:41:43 UTC 2013

It is a long time since I have written anything here but today I got my performance rating from work which was not the Excelling I was expecting. My regime which I had agreed to over the last year to improve my performance has laregly been in abeance since end November as my parents agreed that it should be made less punishing on the assumption that my work efforts had been better.
Unfortunately this has not prooved to be correct so I am going to their house tomorrow where I have already accepted I must be punished for my failure and unlike last year have already asked to be placed under an even more rigorous regime to ensure I meet my capability this year.
I know therefore I will be back in school uniform, grounded, and punished by the time I post again but hope my example will encourage others to try harder to avoid my deserved fate.

by Catherine Fri Feb 28 16:27:01 UTC 2014

As both deserved and expected I am now back under school conditions when not at work. This will be my first period longer than a weekend since I have found myself back in school uniform, in detention, grounded and due to continued failure regularly receiving corporal punishment and other childish sanctions. It is desperately humiliating but I have come to accept I have only myself to blame. Anyway must go home now to what I will I amsue be a very undesirable experience. I know already I will not only be going to Church in uniform on Sunday but I know there will be a big congregation including some of my old school friends to heighten my humiliation. I will also have to attend Sunday School.

by Catherine Thu Apr 17 15:28:31 UTC 2014


by guest Thu Jul 24 16:37:56 UTC 2014

You will certainly make someone an excellent submissiv wife after all this experience and with your very self critical approach.

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by guest Wed Oct 29 16:47:07 UTC 2014

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